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Re: Separation Is Imminent In My Marriage. by shine96: 8:22pm On Jan 04, 2015 |
My brother run for your dear life o. I dont think your wife is stil in love with you. For her to be talking n threatening you like that, shows that the love don die for her side. 2 Likes |
Re: Separation Is Imminent In My Marriage. by signz: 8:22pm On Jan 04, 2015 |
Bros record her threats to your life with your phone, go to the nearest police station and make her to write an undertaking..... Then divorce her and relocate to another town |
Re: Separation Is Imminent In My Marriage. by bullabong(m): 8:22pm On Jan 04, 2015 |
aisha2:My best pal died Jan 17 2014 while running away from a nagging unfaithful wife.He hid his problem and it eventually killed him in an accident while traveling just to have some peace with his siblings . Brother run away from that woman fast. 2 Likes |
Re: Separation Is Imminent In My Marriage. by Anglovel: 8:22pm On Jan 04, 2015 |
OP no lie. U saw at least 80% of dis signs before u married her. Well, I encourage u divorce her oh for ur own good. If it was just her it wd hav bin easier but as her family support am, na sorry go be ur name oh. Dat woman and her family can kill u oh. D earlier u divorce her d beta. Na wa oh. Life is too short to be spent in war,nursing injuries,hate,fights.... Let Love Lead....Tolerate her,show her more love,if it fails,then plan B......separate discretly nd gradually......plan C....DIVORCE! Marriage aint a bed of Roses...its full of Thorns,only d Patient one can endure for so long.......hve been a single parent for 18yrs now with my 5 lovely children nd loving it....married to JESUS nd enjoying Peace of mind, Celibacy,looking Younger than my age.... IF U CANT TAKE D HEAT,GET OUT OF THE KITCHEN....ALIVE! 2 Likes |
Re: Separation Is Imminent In My Marriage. by Jabioro: 8:23pm On Jan 04, 2015 |
Interestingly. You notice all dis trace when u r in courtship with her.if like take my advice, work away.she is a emere alakisa. |
Re: Separation Is Imminent In My Marriage. by Nobody: 8:23pm On Jan 04, 2015 |
OP and his wife on the Jerry Springer Show. 1 Like |
Re: Separation Is Imminent In My Marriage. by Nobody: 8:23pm On Jan 04, 2015 |
For crying out, is divorce that far - fetched? ?? Dude, divorce the woman and move on with your life! Especially since she obviously wants that. What's so hard in that for you to do? If it's the kid, you can seek for joint custody. Besides you can still have more kida with someone else also. Nobody in the name of spouse can take my sanity, be it man or woman. Lawd knows I have enough issues to deal with, not to now add a partner's wahala to that. 2 Likes |
Re: Separation Is Imminent In My Marriage. by lolaxavier(m): 8:23pm On Jan 04, 2015 |
[quote author=ocelot2006 post=29491026]This is why I am a strong advocate of long courtship periods in a relationship. That way both parties get to know each other and avoid messes like this. In my own case, I married my wife FOUR years after proposing to her. Those years got me to know her through and through. Right now, despite the usual challenges we face as a couple, I can confidently boast that I have a very blissful marriage cos I found my missing rib and now have not only a wife, but a lover, best friend, confidant, personal cheer leader, prayer warrior, and bedroom vixen (darn straight ) by my side. Hey take it easy. Your logic doesn't work in all cases. The Op mentioned he dated her for two years. Are you implying that is not reasonable enough? The fact that you had four years of courtship and it worked for you doesn't mean we don't have people that had above years of eventually ended up in separation. In a nutshell, I don't see how that has helped the op. |
Re: Separation Is Imminent In My Marriage. by cheemahking: 8:23pm On Jan 04, 2015 |
Av had a similar xperience, wit an older lady I dated, she curses and insults a lot...buh @ dsame tym can be very sweet and gentle...and I knw datz watz keepin u in d marriage..u feel one day her gentle syd will ovacome, d mean and vindictive syd of hers...Newz Flash Bro...ur wrong!!! U beta leave naw..and op she finds sum1 else..cos trust me, u mite tink she doesn't want u...buh ur mistaken..she will do anytin 2 keep u...and I mean anytin..or else she finds sum1 else 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Separation Is Imminent In My Marriage. by Anglovel: 8:24pm On Jan 04, 2015 |
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Re: Separation Is Imminent In My Marriage. by cycline404(m): 8:24pm On Jan 04, 2015 |
shine96: I love with her ke? That babe no even get feelings for him.... 2 Likes |
Re: Separation Is Imminent In My Marriage. by Nobody: 8:24pm On Jan 04, 2015 |
op, am not that type that advice pple but I believe a 2yrs of separation might help out .You must approach the court in doing this to achieve success also get another apartment during the period . anything you aren't clear about ,u can shoot me a message |
Re: Separation Is Imminent In My Marriage. by Nobody: 8:25pm On Jan 04, 2015 |
EfemenaXY:God bless u, ur d only married man I see in dis thread. |
Re: Separation Is Imminent In My Marriage. by Nobody: 8:25pm On Jan 04, 2015 |
phantonce:She's a Working class lady....... that's the only good thing about her |
Re: Separation Is Imminent In My Marriage. by zalatan(m): 8:25pm On Jan 04, 2015 |
Sometimes I feel yo too attached to her lifestyle. . Show some maturity as a man to her by being treating all her attitude with intelligence. . . Detached and be a man., if u don't have moni think makin some now. . she will rethink the kind of man you are,. Lastly pray about it bro. |
Re: Separation Is Imminent In My Marriage. by flowers4me(f): 8:26pm On Jan 04, 2015 |
nodullin: Ha ha ha ha... SMH @ you, bro what has tribe got to do with this? In case you dont know, crazy, bad and good people feature in all tribes and race. OP brace up and do what you can to save your marriage but this has to be from a safe distance. If you 've been a bad husband amend your ways, seek the help of professional marriage counsellor who wld counsel you both, and hand over this issue to God through prayers. All the best to you. 1 Like |
Re: Separation Is Imminent In My Marriage. by miredia(m): 8:26pm On Jan 04, 2015 |
rebella:This man in question is frustrated at the disgusting sight and possibly the intent behind her actions. She categorically stated I have to look good for outsiders, you and I will agree "outsiders" in this context implies men evident by her her sneaky recent calls. Smell the coffee miss. |
Re: Separation Is Imminent In My Marriage. by Nobody: 8:27pm On Jan 04, 2015 |
Rosarie: r u implying dat d cause of d problem was pre marital sex. stay on track. though it's a sin, it's not relevant to dis extant issue. abi if at all he did, was he d first da he would be punished. u urself no dey bang, or v never banged? claiming more Catholic dan d pontiff 1 Like |
Re: Separation Is Imminent In My Marriage. by ceo003: 8:28pm On Jan 04, 2015 |
Rep042: IS MARRIAGE BY FORCE ? UR MARRIED TO A LUNATIC 1 Like |
Re: Separation Is Imminent In My Marriage. by Daresh(f): 8:30pm On Jan 04, 2015 |
dinachi: He didn't marry a feminist, he married a crazy person. I'm a feminist and I can clearly see that woman is mad. 2 Likes |
Re: Separation Is Imminent In My Marriage. by Jarus(m): 8:30pm On Jan 04, 2015 |
cococandy: Well, that is me. It is my household. I am the head. Dem no born that woman that will come and curse and threaten me. Nibo ni month to raye oshi. 12 Likes |
Re: Separation Is Imminent In My Marriage. by Nobody: 8:30pm On Jan 04, 2015 |
I might be too young to be advising a Married folk. But last time I checked, even me sef be human being On a more serious note. I think your wife is not your wife. A true wife won't behave anything close to what you described above. A divorce is not the end of life. It just signifies an end to a phase I think you should/would be happy to let pass. I won't even think twice before divorcing her ass. What nonsense. Psychological abuse is a killer, please Dump her before she kills you! |
Re: Separation Is Imminent In My Marriage. by miredia(m): 8:30pm On Jan 04, 2015 |
Jarus:Confidently spoken in Nigeria, how about a repetition while resident in the U.S 3 Likes |
Re: Separation Is Imminent In My Marriage. by ToyinDipo(m): 8:31pm On Jan 04, 2015 |
On a serious note, we can't blame the lady in question without hearing her side of the story. Most times faults lie with both parties in equal measures. Reason why it is best to marry only when one is ripe for it, especially the man. Before a man marries, he should be matured and wise enough to control his home. One should always bear in mind a Yoruba saying that goes thus in English "Bad wife is marriageable, it is having bad in-laws that is a disaster". This is actually the major problem I see in this "sinrere", the wife's family should put her in check rather than cheering her. Above all, it is safe to marry in God's will. |
Re: Separation Is Imminent In My Marriage. by andyanders: 8:31pm On Jan 04, 2015 |
Take a walk my brother if you really wants to be alive. Wouldn't know why you should even be waiting.Give her a divorce before she does that. She already started seeing someone else hence the kind of dressing you have seen her with. Take a walk and NEVER look back because they can plan to kill you. Forget about the so called new baby and think of your life. Women can do anything to get back on you. Arrange yourself and work towards improving your life.Take it easy and NEVER fight back anytime she confronts you. Your tomorrow will be better than your today.I have seen a woman like your wife who walked out on her husband because of money and today, the guy is soo rich that he can afford to dash someone a million naira without looking back. Her wife is regretting and blaming her mother for the separation.. This is a good friend of mine not too far. The guy traveled and before he came back, she packed everything in the house and left the house. I was the one who gave the guy a cup, spoon , bought stove and other things and I now encouraged him to hold on because he was getting depressed. He is a graduate of Accounting from UNN and today, things turned around for him and he got a job and was able to buy jeep and built several buildings.Today she is suffering and the guy got remarried. 5 Likes |
Re: Separation Is Imminent In My Marriage. by Cchuks27(m): 8:34pm On Jan 04, 2015 |
Ah! Bros what are you still doing with her? I hate embarrassment ehh! Jesus Christ and infront of your neighbors too? Nawahoo Do I need to say the needful? 2 Likes |
Re: Separation Is Imminent In My Marriage. by DopeAngel(m): 8:35pm On Jan 04, 2015 |
donmalcolm21:sharrap did i insult him? |
Re: Separation Is Imminent In My Marriage. by freecocoa(f): 8:35pm On Jan 04, 2015 |
I don't believe this story. |
Re: Separation Is Imminent In My Marriage. by Nobody: 8:36pm On Jan 04, 2015 |
u sound like a Sissy husband. d story dey gimme body heat. how can u b living with somebody dat wants u dead. ur wife charm u such dat u can't understand d difference b/w hell and marriage? |
Re: Separation Is Imminent In My Marriage. by zingobaby: 8:37pm On Jan 04, 2015 |
Some guys hav used there wife as girl friend & girl friend as wife. |
Re: Separation Is Imminent In My Marriage. by miredia(m): 8:39pm On Jan 04, 2015 |
MissMeiya:You are Silly 3 Likes |
Re: Separation Is Imminent In My Marriage. by Nobody: 8:39pm On Jan 04, 2015 |
Did u consult God before tying the knot? |
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