teemanbastos:
When JESUS d prince of peace is nt present, dis is what is faced.
Talk to ur pastor(s).
[size=15pt]Marriage is 'til death do us part'[/size]

miredia:
you haven't suggested how you expect him to be a man and deal with the problem.

joe4christ:


God bless you dear, you're more reasonable than the ifyalways of a girl, that babe provoked me with her write up, it made me go personal with her.
Anyways, keep it up!

Sleekyshuga:
Are you done blabbing? Clap for yourself!! You just made a heap of a beautiful nonsense..

I'm very choosy with my words on an e-forum, and @ such, I look before I leap but this time, you've decided to buy my case.

I can see pains and frustration written all over your words.. Sorry bro if the world choose to frustrate you.. It's never too late.. Why don't you drop the fun, and start thinking of how best to help your miserable life..

Marriage is no child's game, and was never meant for everyone... "If you aint ready for it, don't embark on one".. I see no reason why I should be dating/courting a woman beater, and still believes he'll change after marriage? The same goes to the OP, and his likes.. You date a lady who finds it @ will to insult you, calling you names, and still, you walked her down the aisle, believing she'll change?

Knowing the kinda woman you are married to, you still let her do all the bills, and you think she'll let it go down the drain? Whatever happened to getting little loans from banks, friends, etc, and putting it into use?

I'll still repeat it again: A woman was meant to be a helper, and not a depender, and that was why God carved out Eve from Adam, and not Adam from Eve..

Mr Bachelor, the last I checked, I never told you I was in need of man or a shallow minded thinker like you..

Why don't you keep waiting for that woman who'll come sweep you off your feet? LAZY MAN..

Rep042:
My marriage is just 1 year and few days old,but within the last 365 days,

She has threatened to kill me & send assassins after me on different occasions in the past,though I just ignored such threats.
hers too and forced the butt pads out from her body.
Thank you.

Rep042:


I have decided to leave the house for her,I will be renting another apartment soon.Already making arrangement.

But,my greatest challenge is my son,I woudn't want to leave him with her,she hardly breastfeeds the baby, I usually buy baby milk: SMA Gold on weelky basis for my boy.

I will be speaking to my lawyer tomorrow to know how to work things out cos I want the child to be in my custody.

Obviously,she would fight to keep the child,but then I wouldn't want her to visit my office,even though the security guys would not let her in,but she would want to create a scene and possibly attract the attention of my boss. And that will not mean well for my job.

Considering the location of my office,any form of disturbance will attract the attention of security operatives and high net individuals,that, will automatically kill my career,therefore I wouldn't want dat to happen. I know she's capable of taking such extreme measures to pull me down.

So,I still don't know how to handle this situation.

Best solution is what I seek now.
Thanks.

hmm I really wished you could settle, I dislike broken homes



Since you have decided its a divorce, its alright, as for the child I'm sure your lawyer will enlighten you more on the chances you have, but It might be difficult since the child is still very much tender and needs its mother, but if you're able to prove she is a bad mother and that the safety if the child is questionable perhaps you'll be given the child.


Its like you haven't spoken to her up till now, Is she aware of the new development?

Truckpusher:
Op, until I hear from your wife I will reserve my comment.


You don't use one party's account to decide who is right or wrong - Go run your home like every other men out there,brave the odds and conquer your wife with love unconditionally.

Most of the people that are advising you here to divorce your wife can't even make a good home.....yes that's a fact.

I even saw a well known baby mama with a stinking attitude on NL who doubles as a [/b]misandrist[b] advising you on how to go about your marriage that is experiencing normal crisis which all marriages does experience ,though yours is a bit tougher than what most people do witness but there is still room for changes and common sense will prevail here if you follow the line of mending fences and accepting blames just to calm everyone that is involved down while gradually working on your wife's psyche and I can assure you that one day she'll come back to her senses and thank you for sticking around even when she has lost it all and this is the mark of a true man.

My Mom once said that some women after pregnancy do a lot of unimaginable things due to hormonal imbalance as a result of childbirth and if she's also depressed then you need to man up,swallow your pride because this nonsense will stop at a time and both of you will look back and congratulate each other for being calm when all hell was already breaking loose.

And finally ,divorce is not always the option as you again might end up with something much more worse that would make your ex wife to appear as a saint.
For the sake of mankind and especially your baby,sit down and think thoroughly about what you're not doing right and fix this problem, divorce does not guarantee anyone another happy life with another woman.

MAKE I GO PUSH MY TRUCK ABEG

joe4christ:


Well, for the record and to your ignorance, i'm blessed with the best woman every man would ever wish for, and i aint seeking another.
And writing an epistle just to buttress a point eludes me.
You strike me more like a feminist who's frustrated cos she aint got a man that would stick with her for long, which clearly indicate you've got an attitudal issue that needed seriouse working-on.
Well, wont exchange words with you, just enjoy your lonely life.

Cheers!

mike0806:

Bro. I know say you homeboyz go Don tell u about am before marriage but u know gree.
Pack ur things and run when u can. That girl na bad market baba.
Na ni gi nokwa oo. Ur on ur own bro. If them kill u na u loose pass. GOD BLESS YOU AND keep YOU SAFE

Stanleyafam:
You dated for 2years and still went on wt the marriage..did she hide these characters? Or were u blinded by love?
Talk to her cos of the child u guys brought to the world..try to sort things out and pray

After our traditional marriage on December 2013,I had some financial challenges,and then my rent was due for renewable,she offered to assist,at first I was skeptical about it ,because I know her kind of person,knowing full well that she will use that to ridicule and abuse me in no distant time. But,then,I didn't have any alternative,so I allowed her pay d rent. Now,she's claiming ownership,saying ..."which house,the one that I have been paying the rent or another one"...

WombRaiders:


Worwor must you comment?

If I had dropped the beema levels nko?

Haters can go and die!

My d1k tho.... Will make you commit suicide like bright chimaze

lollipop25:
This is usually what happens when guys focus on just 'beauty' or other physical attributes of a woman to get married. After two years of dating, u definitely must have known the type of person she is, but you went ahead and married her. And also people around you must have advised you not to marry her but u ignored them. Its sad that things turned out this way, im sure you are not ready to lose ur life all in the name of staying married, pack your load now and run for your dear life.... Maybe some time away from her will change her behaviour but if not then divorce is the only option but be part of your child's life.. I dont know if ur wife is very beautiful but a beautiful woman with an ugly heart is ugly...

Sleekyshuga:
Also, @ dz point, I should be the one telling you how unfortunate this lady is to be with you.. Such a huge shame..

A man who finds it so easy lashing out on a woman because she made her points is not worth being called 1.. You should learn to work on your manners, and the way you approach people..

Weaklings like you chicken out whenever a lady stands up to your ignorance, and the next thing she is labelled a Feminist.. Poo n trash..

Lonely life ? Funny Bachelor .. My life is a beautiful as the diamonds, and I am very much grateful to God for that..

And also, for the records sake, I'm blessed with the best man on earth ..

I say no to Mediocrity..

Sleekyshuga:
God bless you for this truth ..

To those telling him to stay, una dey try oo.. Imagine someone close to you in this situation, and all you could tell him/her is to stay?

kilokeys:


he doesn't understand.. he should have asked me what kind of darling u have for a guy.

Sleekyshuga:
God bless you for this truth ..

To those telling him to stay, una dey try oo.. Imagine someone close to you in this situation, and all you could tell him/her is to stay?

Eberex:
Ol boi, I'm having phobia already. What if my girl friend is only pretending now?

lollipop25:
Abi ooo, marriage is to be enjoyed not endured...

jpphilips:
You were a struggling young man who ran to a working class to marry because you want a partnership marriage, OR your business had issues and you want your wife to become your Jesus?
How many times have I said it here that the day a Nigerian woman feeds you that you are dead??