My neighbours younger sister(joan,26yrs) just move to lagos after her nysc in search of a job......since I and her elder sister r very friendly she also was welcomed to my home......initially everytin seemd normal until she started coming regularly spending long hrs wt me and helping around d house too(am 11yrs older)...she always engage me in sexual topics and all dat,massaging my body,hugging me at any given oppurtunity....telling me how beautiful and sexy I look....buying me petty tins(I buy 4 her too)......sending me love,friendly and spiritual text..........though I was enjoying it cos hubby does not have time 4 romance and love(only sex) but tins got out of hand last night wen she tried t kiss me.....I was confused,scared......it dint just feel right......she felt bad and left...v not spoken to her since then....she culd once n I dint pick......dou I like her a lot but how do I tell her "I can't do dat"wit out destroying d relationship cos I really like her and she makes me feel loved......matured advice please

You sound like a lesbo. I see your only problem is you cant do it with her, not that you cant do it al all.
Eh, keep doing as you are doing. When you decide to do it with her leave your hubby and marry her.

Some kain kwesion on NL these days sha. Asking what to do when a a married person is approached to cheat on her spouse.

na waya, another nollywood story,kontinu...

This sounds funny don't ask me why.



You knew all along that she was interested in you right?


I don't even know what to tell you again self



so what should we do for you?

Mschew.

Don't tell me you can manage lesbianism. Its pretty simple, if you seek her friendship back then you give her what she wants. I think you are too mature to fall for this sympathy manipulation.

She's been 'massaging' your body and 'hugging' you and you were enjoying it all along? It only sums up to two things; either you are bisexual or you are just giving in to lesbianism.

The first thing to do in a situation like this is to confirm your sexual orientation, then you take it up from there.

If you are indeed straight as you claimed there's no point being scared of ending the relationship with her.

I don't really want to believe what a lady I dated way back told me, that most women are potential lesbians! Now am amazed to see a woman who one confessed to undying love for a male colleague at the office showing some interest in lesbianism. A lesbian younger woman is taking advantage of your gullibility. It is a shame that you are even still contemplating a relationship with her..unstable women everywhere!

Just be careful with her, I won't say you're a les.

Errrrm...anythn u wantu do,do it. If u want to have her,go ahead. If u don't,then don't. Na ur hand e dey.

pweetixandy:
Errrrm...anythn u wantu do,do it. If u want to have her,go ahead. If u don't,then don't. Na ur hand e dey.

It is official, you are a consumate lesbian! Admit it already.

your matter bad o. Berra sit and ask yourself if you're just hor.n.y or you're actually into girls. Flee from all temptation. Don't start what you cant finish

Everybody wants to be me.... Bia, married Op, it's either you are me or you are not me, choose 1 now or..........

dinachi:
It is official, you are a consumate lesbian! Admit it already.

really

Lmao...please go ahead and get it on.

If your husband runs into you guys, invite him to join in on the action by telling him it was planned for him as a present

You're not weird, I can assure you that many young women and girls these days have at one time or the other fantasized/wondered what it would feel like kissing another female, fon.dling her b00bs, or getting head from one

Lmao!

crackhaus:
Lmao...please go ahead and get it on.

If your husband runs into you guys, invite him to join in on the action by telling him it was planned for him as a present

You're not weird, I can assure you that many young women and girls these days have at one time or the other fantasized/wondered what it would feel like kissing another female, fon.dling her b00bs, or getting head from one

Lmao!

lol

crackhaus:
Lmao...please go ahead and get it on.

If your husband runs into you guys, invite him to join in on the action by telling him it was planned for him as a present

You're not weird, I can assure you that many young women and girls these days have at one time or the other fantasized/wondered what it would feel like kissing another female, fon.dling her b00bs, or getting head from one

Lmao!

Funny. The kissing part at least is kinda true

UjSizzle:

Funny. The kissing part at least is kinda true

seriously?

UjSizzle:

Funny. The kissing part at least is kinda true

Lol...

It's about time you came out of that closet beautiful

When next she hugs you &try something else, remember 14yrs imprisonment for homosexuality

Gbam.

OP follow this advice.

crackhaus:
Lmao...please go ahead and get it on.

If your husband runs into you guys, invite him to join in on the action by telling him it was planned for him as a present

You're not weird, I can assure you that many young women and girls these days have at one time or the other fantasized/wondered what it would feel like kissing another female, fon.dling her b00bs, or getting head from one

Lmao!

if you know you sincerelly detest it then go ahead and POLITELY tell her you dont like lesbianism and pls try and OBLITERATE the relationship.
But,if you feel you will enjoy it(since oga is not romantic)then pls go ahead but DO EVERYTHING to hide it from him.
But,if you ask me,PLEASE go by my 1st advice.
cheers ma

Singing in Marvin gayes voice


#lets get it on, let's love baby, let's get it on sugar#




Radarada.small time you will soon ask me why you menstrate

crackhaus:

Lol...

It's about time you came out of that closet beautiful

Hehehe I am not in a closet ni. It wasn't just a fantasy, I actually kissed a girl....or let her kiss me....abi we kissed each other but she started it. Ugh whatever! There was a kiss anyway. My curiosity was satisfied, and I moved on


Sometimes though I think if religion/society didn't frown upon homosexuality, there might be many bisexual females

@ op i think u are a lesbo but scared having anything with her cos of your relationship with her sister. So i will advice you to tell her off.

UjSizzle:

Hehehe I am not in a closet ni. It wasn't just a fantasy, I actually kissed a girl....or let her kiss me....abi we kissed each other but she started it. Ugh whatever! There was a kiss anyway. My curiosity was satisfied, and I moved on


Sometimes though I think if religion/society didn't frown upon homosexuality, there might be many bisexual females

I always knew you had it in you...Lmao

Trust me, there are still a fair number of bisexual females around...you wouldn't believe it - but take my word for it, I know.

Thank goodness you moved on, we wouldn't want all them lovely God-given features of yours to go to waste - a man definitely needs all that 'i-know-i'm-pretty-but-you-cant-have-none-of-it-yet' thing you got going for you

crackhaus:
Lmao...please go ahead and get it on.

If your husband runs into you guys, invite him to join in on the action by telling him it was planned for him as a present

You're not weird, I can assure you that many young women and girls these days have at one time or the other fantasized/wondered what it would feel like kissing another female, fon.dling her b00bs, or getting head from one

Lmao!

Lmao.

And also, record the act and post it online

Unless you are bi-curious or a bi-sexual, I don't get why you can't tell her straight up to end that " rough play".

If you want to explore, please do. But remember, you have a lot at stake and to lose just cos of this pooshie. If you are not interested, shun her seriously and move on abeg. Must u be friends with her?

UjSizzle:

Funny. The kissing part at least is kinda true

Imagine me, Man of the First Men of Okoi, I go just dey in that part of my mind dey imagine how it will feel to b kissed by a man??!! Chai!!! Women!!! These una heads wey una no dey wash with water dey cause problem ooo.

NB: I kno most men won't frown at lesbianism. Your husband might pay to watch u girls get it on but hey!!! It is nut and bolt! Socket n plug!

I said it before show me one lady here that seriously condemned lesbianism..Lesbians every where!

Madam dont play with fire . I understand how it feels to be bi-curious and getting attention from a female but that is a dangerous game u are playing. if u have anything to do with her , she will ruin ur friendship with her sister , ruin ur marriage with outright blackmail or emotional blackmail. And after all the experimentation u will realise u are not interested in women.

dinachi:
I said it before show me one lady here that seriously condemned lesbianism..Lesbians every where!

@ dinachi the thought of girl on girl is not as repulsive as man on man.