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Re: Don't Expect A Girl To Take You Serious If Your First Chat Is Anything Like This by DaBullIT(m): 3:19am On Jan 09, 2015 |
Mzflexydeeva: [size=17pt]An average guy hates to be replied in abbreviations , K ,gud, fyne, kk, kkk, aight, boss wn, wtva, i mean WTF An average guy wants to be treated like a person, not 1 word response or 30 min interval response [/size] |
Re: Don't Expect A Girl To Take You Serious If Your First Chat Is Anything Like This by AmaechiLinus(m): 3:21am On Jan 09, 2015 |
Really! Ok o girls. I have to change for good now. Oya let's chat... |
Re: Don't Expect A Girl To Take You Serious If Your First Chat Is Anything Like This by desharon(f): 3:46am On Jan 09, 2015 |
CFCfan: My Dear, thank God that I didn't. lol... |
Re: Don't Expect A Girl To Take You Serious If Your First Chat Is Anything Like This by ArabianPrince: 4:16am On Jan 09, 2015 |
Rules for chatting Nigerian women with flawless public facade masking their private despair. Please don't quote me. ![]() |
Re: Don't Expect A Girl To Take You Serious If Your First Chat Is Anything Like This by engrSED: 4:51am On Jan 09, 2015 |
Whatever happened to being oneself? and chat with YOUR priorities in mind. The idea is to make a friend (like-minded person) NOT to just please some random chic. I heard dem ladies now put guys in AKPORS zone Note: for most gals, there is NEVER a lame chat! Try this, start the chat with genuine recharge card pin...whatever you say thereafter will make a lot of sense - trust me. 1 Like |
Re: Don't Expect A Girl To Take You Serious If Your First Chat Is Anything Like This by JayJustus(m): 5:49am On Jan 09, 2015 |
Nastydroid: or wedonbilivit 1 Like |
Re: Don't Expect A Girl To Take You Serious If Your First Chat Is Anything Like This by lordmayor4(m): 6:02am On Jan 09, 2015 |
Mzflexydeeva: So true and spot on |
Re: Don't Expect A Girl To Take You Serious If Your First Chat Is Anything Like This by ceeceeco: 6:14am On Jan 09, 2015 |
Wait o! @op, must one have 2 chat in order 2 impress u, c'mon there's no time 4 all those long crap, there are a lot of girls out there, if it doesn't work out with u, it will definitely work out with another, wat u see as irrelevant qustn might be considered relevant by another. Do dis, dnt do dat, say dis, dnt say dat, where's the freedom of speech then? Perhaps i dnt see anytin bad if someone ask u about ur fav meal & hobby. Hw is it a 19th century qustn. The problem with dis our modern day girls is dat pride has eaten dem up. Girls are so many dat's why i dnt wori myself abt dem. Mind u, it's d pocket dat speaks, not the mouth. We are all Nigerians, we know ourselves. 2 Likes |
Re: Don't Expect A Girl To Take You Serious If Your First Chat Is Anything Like This by Sacramento4real(m): 6:43am On Jan 09, 2015 |
iamord:Pass ko,passenger ni.Pass go where?if na so u admire ur spous and pass,u and am 4 dey? |
Re: Don't Expect A Girl To Take You Serious If Your First Chat Is Anything Like This by Jok3r(m): 7:06am On Jan 09, 2015 |
Ah lyk dis, ah tink ah cn len alot 4rm u. Mzflexydeeva: |
Re: Don't Expect A Girl To Take You Serious If Your First Chat Is Anything Like This by Eminentsaint(m): 7:13am On Jan 09, 2015 |
Mzflexydeeva:It makes a lot of difference. I go completely 'off course' after typing sensible words that are long enough and she replies with 'k', that's crazy! |
Re: Don't Expect A Girl To Take You Serious If Your First Chat Is Anything Like This by Mickey7(m): 7:25am On Jan 09, 2015 |
oshaosha2014:ferme ta gueule...you think I care about being ladies' prince charming...Nairalanders keep acting like guys are desperate,only guys need relationships,and girls are some Heavenly beings you need to take classes or need to read a guide in order to get into that relationship which a guy's whole life depends on and girls totally do not care about with! 1 Like |
Re: Don't Expect A Girl To Take You Serious If Your First Chat Is Anything Like This by iamord(m): 8:23am On Jan 09, 2015 |
naijaboiy:na so d tin go, some razz girls go dey try form some unnecessary package, like they are all that 2 Likes |
Re: Don't Expect A Girl To Take You Serious If Your First Chat Is Anything Like This by iamord(m): 8:29am On Jan 09, 2015 |
omospicey:I have known that right from time, when a lady continually pops that letter, so for me the delete button becomes the conversation burier |
Re: Don't Expect A Girl To Take You Serious If Your First Chat Is Anything Like This by oshaosha2014(m): 9:08am On Jan 09, 2015 |
Mickey7: Alright mickey7, I tot you are one of those guys....... anyway, good to know. Peace bro. |
Re: Don't Expect A Girl To Take You Serious If Your First Chat Is Anything Like This by Maamin(m): 9:35am On Jan 09, 2015 |
An2elect2: How many Gods do you worship..the 3 in 1 or the 1 in 3?...the last time I checked you dont know..kindly answer that and stop stucking me on Romance section. ![]() |
Re: Don't Expect A Girl To Take You Serious If Your First Chat Is Anything Like This by kelvinnn(m): 9:36am On Jan 09, 2015 |
THANKS FOR SHARING LESSON LEARNT HV BN A VICTIM OF THIS! |
Re: Don't Expect A Girl To Take You Serious If Your First Chat Is Anything Like This by rigarmortis: 9:50am On Jan 09, 2015 |
Mzflexydeeva: who has the time for all these puppy love conversation, when you meet a new girl via phone or electronic connect, don't waste time, there are three types and three ways and three uses. 1. the sharp in and out girl, these are girls you want to use for a fling, for the time being, or when you girl is not around, or for fun/adventure, there are subtypes. a. the good bad girl. this type has a boyfriend, but he is far away and she likes you very much, and wants to fxck you, if the feeling is mutual, indulge her, don't start with the love and getting to know you slash friends convo.....use double meaning suggestive words when you converse with her..........start the good boy thing and you are on a long thing, leave that for her real boyfriend, she is a good bad girl. bad with you, good with him. b. the runs gyal someone gives you a runs gyals number and you go into the kinda conversation as written by the OP, RUBBISH. where can we meet, should be first and what is your name last, the last doesn't even matter cos she is gonna give you a name like cindyrealia or magenta a fake name which you will soon forget. c. the fill in the gap girl. she just broke up and wants to have wild fun for revenge/fun purpose, and you are forming nice gentleman discussion? 2. the serious working class "lady" you are in that mood where you don't want a clingy or needy girl, she works in a bank and single, no time to mingle, you two hook up, I swear she is gonna be the one to ask you where you work!...........its not like she is a gold digger, she just doesn't wanna have to pick the tab and baby sit you all the time. so yes someone is gonna ask what the other person does......beat her to it sir!.........ask! and when she answers nod and say stuff that is ambiguous, let her empty herself cos she wanna show you she is independent, then tell her as liitle as possible about yourself, make it ambiguous, tell her where you work, but not which office, take her home. the rest is history. 3. the friendship type gyal. normal I don't converse with girls I don't intend to fxck, but there comes a time when something pushes you into this kinda group, play along, this is only when you can follow the OPs advice.....but alas!....not to the letter, remember, girls hate good guys, feel her in alone moments, gauge her , chip in a few words to see her kinda person when you are alone, so you know which category to box her in. the drawback with these kinda is like you have a girlfriend without the "privileges"...believe me, naija girls being the fishbrained creatures they are will still want you to do stuff for them, I wont say don't, cos ppl will say am harsh and I wont say do cos that will be creating a new mugu, we have many running around already....just use your brain. 4a. there is a final subset to the friendship type...THE BAIT. these ones are friends with you, maybe you have !@#$ed them in the past, or just friends, doesn't matter, but they have many girlfriends and girls seems to like her a lot, she is like a leader among them....you know the kinda, popular and flirty and wild sometimes?...with enough female numbers........yes!......a girl that likes her and knows she likes you.....automatically likes you too, if she tells a girl you are generous, work in NNPC etc, it its the gospel truth even when hard FACTS prove otherwise 2 Likes |
Re: Don't Expect A Girl To Take You Serious If Your First Chat Is Anything Like This by giftiebrown(m): 10:09am On Jan 09, 2015 |
its easier said than done...No mata how polite u are, twil tk a hell lot of tym nd patience to gain her attention.... |
Re: Don't Expect A Girl To Take You Serious If Your First Chat Is Anything Like This by zadok60: 10:15am On Jan 09, 2015 |
we don't start conversation with a girl with.."hi" or "hello" to get her attention! this is how we do it.. me: 853554826812-mtn #1,500..use it 2 flash my num nw. she: thanks love! this is mine,08091000580..can i av urs? 4 Likes |
Re: Don't Expect A Girl To Take You Serious If Your First Chat Is Anything Like This by EmmyDe25(m): 10:18am On Jan 09, 2015 |
Mzflexydeeva:@ Op, nice stuff. However, I believe conversations should be extemporaneous and not planned. Asking a babe the kind of guy she likes is even childish at first chat. |
Re: Don't Expect A Girl To Take You Serious If Your First Chat Is Anything Like This by Nobody: 10:23am On Jan 09, 2015 |
wheezyoung:not somehow, its a fact |
Re: Don't Expect A Girl To Take You Serious If Your First Chat Is Anything Like This by Nobody: 10:24am On Jan 09, 2015 |
JayJustus:thank you |
Re: Don't Expect A Girl To Take You Serious If Your First Chat Is Anything Like This by Nobody: 10:25am On Jan 09, 2015 |
Its dry boring girls that are complaining bout the way some guys be chatting, even the op is as dry as the sahara, been on her bbm group b4, she can't even start a convo. Except for some silly argument bout girls using guys and dumping them. 2 Likes |
Re: Don't Expect A Girl To Take You Serious If Your First Chat Is Anything Like This by EmmyDe25(m): 10:28am On Jan 09, 2015 |
Blackeard:lol.. you nailed it! |
Re: Don't Expect A Girl To Take You Serious If Your First Chat Is Anything Like This by emmahjosh(m): 10:31am On Jan 09, 2015 |
On point. bt sm gals strict die. ![]() |
Re: Don't Expect A Girl To Take You Serious If Your First Chat Is Anything Like This by piagetskinner(m): 10:36am On Jan 09, 2015 |
Whatever works 4 them...nAiraLand,the home of LiSt upon liSts oF dos and donts...#OKaDa!! |
Re: Don't Expect A Girl To Take You Serious If Your First Chat Is Anything Like This by wheezyoung(m): 10:38am On Jan 09, 2015 |
pweetixandy:woow....are they brown sha? |
Re: Don't Expect A Girl To Take You Serious If Your First Chat Is Anything Like This by wheezyoung(m): 10:41am On Jan 09, 2015 |
desharon:lmao...he's ready for marriage |
Re: Don't Expect A Girl To Take You Serious If Your First Chat Is Anything Like This by pweetixandy: 10:47am On Jan 09, 2015 |
wheezyoung:yea,normal brown eyes |
Re: Don't Expect A Girl To Take You Serious If Your First Chat Is Anything Like This by Nobody: 10:57am On Jan 09, 2015 |
Darkrebel:you said it all |
Re: Don't Expect A Girl To Take You Serious If Your First Chat Is Anything Like This by zadok60: 11:32am On Jan 09, 2015 |
manny4life:shuoo inside church again? ![]() in love with a choirester nt even a floor member..chaii guy u no just try o,na so u wan use kill d girl annointing ba? |
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