frankzone:

Don't really know how to make you see this, thing is, to be
honest with you, 'k' is just a total turn off, much more than
the ones you mentioned, believe me.

okay ooo

EmmyDe25:

@ Op, nice stuff. However, I believe conversations should be extemporaneous and not planned. Asking a babe the kind of guy she likes is even childish at first chat.

yea yea

2kris:
so on point at least i am reading it from a ladys research nt all those 419 attension seeking guys thanks sweerry@mzfleexydeeva

thanks

blakky97:

are you in lagos?

Yep

Mzflexydeeva:
point of correction that wasn't me complaining. I'm not so jobless to be incharge of everything. That's d tin. U guys just feel simply because a girl is online her life revolves around d nnet........ mehn u don't hhave to chat every min of d day to be good @ it. so i'll say u should check again.

Oh rili? Another excuse for being unable to come up with something to chat about. Face it u boring, same with other girls here. Evn if u nt online the whole day, the little time u got shud speak a lot but it doesn't. Nt like u work in a bank or somfin dat u can't av tym 2 talk. U need people to chat u up dats y u created a grup in the first place. That's wat most girls here on nl want, som1 who gonn chat they boring self up while they sit bak relax n read free commentary. Shiit don't appun that way. U wana receive but can't give, and when u don't get what u want u complain. In which world does that happen?

kaboninc:


Yep

can you traim me on software development. you name ur price.

Mzflexydeeva:
wat of a situation where a guy actually get ur pin or number from some1?

delete. block. are you really asking? if you ignore somebody's pings up to 3 times and he knows uve been online, he will keep trying to chat with you only if he's a jobless foool.
this is 2015. let all these guys wise up and stop creating the impression that all men have their brains around their gonads. theres somfin called pride. a little of it is good and preserves one from Senseless activities and terrible reaction from some undeserving women folk. if only guys can concentrate on self development. They'll always get the attention of the smart and usefull gurls.

prettyboi1989:

Oh rili? Another excuse for being unable to come up with something to chat about. Face it u boring, same with other girls here. Evn if u nt online the whole day, the little time u got shud speak a lot but it doesn't. Nt like u work in a bank or somfin dat u can't av tym 2 talk. U need people to chat u up dats y u created a grup in the first place. That's wat most girls here on nl want, som1 who gonn chat they boring self up while they sit bak relax n read free commentary. Shiit don't appun that way. U wana receive but can't give, and when u don't get what u want u complain. In which world does that happen?

thank u, i'm very boring.....it took this long 4 u to fig out

blakky97:

delete. block. are you really asking? if you ignore somebody's pings up to 3 times and he knows uve been online, he will keep trying to chat with you only if he's a jobless foool.
this is 2015. let all these guys wise up and stop creating the impression that all men have their brains around their gonads. theres somfin called pride. a little of it is good and preserves one from Senseless activities and terrible reaction from some undeserving women folk. if only guys can concentrate on self development. They'll always get the attention of the smart and usefull gurls.

it's a 2 way thing. Fact is girls naturally get lots of attention from the maale folks. @ some point it's annoying. On the average most guys are after one thing. The few who really have friendship @ d back of their mind tell u straight up. I was chatting with a guy one time & I was also giving him d k kindda ans. He just told me babe calm down i'm not toasting U just want us to be friends. I laughed and dats how we started flowing.

blakky97:

can you traim me on software development. you name ur price.

I spend most of my time developing software or doing something else. May not have that time for tutoring you. Drop ur pin and I'll add u. We can continue from there.

Mzflexydeeva:
thank u, i'm very boring.....it took this long 4 u to fig out

Funny u

Mzflexydeeva:
it's a 2 way thing. Fact is girls naturally get lots of attention from the maale folks. @ some point it's annoying. On the average most guys are after one thing. The few who really have friendship @ d back of their mind tell u straight up. I was chatting with a guy one time & I was also giving him d k kindda ans. He just told me babe calm down i'm not toasting U just want us to be friends. I laughed and dats how we started flowing.

They get lots of attention at their early stage in life. Just around early adulthood. Later, it reverses.

Most important thing is that if you want to chat, chat. And if you don't, buzz. You never know where your blessings will come from.

And must ladies think that every 'hi' is a 'toasting' in disguise?

kaboninc:


They get lots of attention at their early stage in life. Just around early adulthood. Later, it reverses.

Most important thing is that if you want to chat, chat. And if you don't, buzz. You never know where your blessings will come from.

And must ladies think that every 'hi' is a 'toasting' in disguise?

because that's wat 90% guys do

kaboninc:


I spend most of my time developing software or doing something else. May not have that time for tutoring you. Drop ur pin and I'll add u. We can continue from there.

sundays. il be the one to come.
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Mzflexydeeva:
it's a 2 way thing. Fact is girls naturally get lots of attention from the maale folks. @ some point it's annoying. On the average most guys are after one thing. The few who really have friendship @ d back of their mind tell u straight up. I was chatting with a guy one time & I was also giving him d k kindda ans. He just told me babe calm down i'm not toasting U just want us to be friends. I laughed and dats how we started flowing.

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thats it. theres a general understanding that men are perverts lusting after pants, and ladies are snubs selecting men on the basis of wealth. I see it as like minds attract and unlike minds repel. if a lady doesnt want to be friends. it pays to leave her alone for millions out there who would. if a guy is only after the pants, it pays to break contact with him if thats not what you want. they say if you are looking for the truth; check your heart. if a guy who wants pants gets snubbed by the wrong person. he knows hes a pervert and that he met the wrong person! so also if a lady snubs a guy who wants 'just friends', she knows shes a snub and that she has a negative personality. we all know. so we move on anyway.

blakky97:
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thats it. theres a general understanding that men are perverts lusting after pants, and ladies are snubs selecting men on the basis of wealth. I see it as like minds attract and unlike minds repel. if a lady doesnt want to be friends. it pays to leave her alone for millions out there who would. if a guy is only after the pants, it pays to break contact with him if thats not what you want. they say if you are looking for the truth; check your heart. if a guy who wants pants gets snubbed by the wrong person. he knows hes a pervert and that he met the wrong person! so also if a lady snubs a guy who wants 'just friends', she knows shes a snub and that she has a negative personality. we all know. so we move on anyway.

bla bla bla

leeport:
bla bla bla

guess who's in da building

Mzflexydeeva:
because that's wat 90% guys do

No bae...

Your claim is not correct. Not every 'hi' leads to that and in fact, there are ladies who actually do the 'toasting'

Mzflexydeeva:
guess who's in da building

how doing dear .... and yes me is in d building

Hi mzflexydeeva, nice post.

kaboninc:


No bae...

Your claim is not correct. Not every 'hi' leads to that and in fact, there are ladies who actually do the 'toasting'

90% is not all....there's a 10% window

leeport:
how doing dear .... and yes me is in d building

am good, been a while. Wats been happening with yaa? Hope to c u around more often.

blaxx:
Hi mzflexydeeva, nice post.

hello blaxx how r u doing? Thanks 4 d observation

ghost1718:
all this small small boys,,,,,,,, school don start oh

hahahhahaahhahahha

iamord:
Nice tips tho! This I already know, and am choosy about my words especially when talking online for the first time, but even with all the format, we got some crazy girls.. That can chat with you for 30mins with k, kk, aiit, yea, nope, wat?.. I mean

don't you think that's an indirect way of saying "free me" some guys will keep pushing like they can't read in between the lines.

iamord:
no ! I doubt! Am good in holding convos ,so I know how to dictate someone's mood! Its not just one, but a lot of them. Seems a lot of them don't have good orientation, and draw up conclusions that this guy is toasting me! They r just immature!

do you know how irritating this statement can be " I want to know you better" sometimes In a good conversation, things just flow. If you chat up a girl & she's giving attitude u let her be. Stop forcing it.

Blackeard:
Another problem is most nigerian ladies r boring. They can't hold a convo to save their life. They expect u to be the only one talking while they just stay there chipping in the occasional "oh" "k" "kk" "lol" "aii". Nothing turns me off more than monosyllabic responses

assuming that us true, the way guys question ladies sometimes is a turn off. Makes one loose interest.

zleemshaddy:
Boy : hey whats up?

Girl : 5n

Girl : u??

Boy :am good


Boy : hope ur day is going well ??

Girl : kk

Boy : L M N O ...


Girl : whats that ??

Boy : I thought you want to recite the alphabet na

Girl : kk

Boy :

Girl : why that face ?

Boy : nvm, u knw what bye..

Girl :kkk

in dis kindda conversation, it's obvious she's done wit d chat. But in a situation like
Guy: hey wats up am george

Girl: K

Wat do u say? Also note that some ladies use "K" wen there really nothing to be said.

Maamin:
Regardless how u start a chart with Naija girls, they dont just know how to hold a plane and civil convo, that can be meaningful...they are just out rightly clueless and immature in socialising.

did u carry out any study on that?

mirexxx:
nyc1 op

frankzone:

Everything is wrong with it my dear, trust me. Some guys may not speak up, (me inclusive) when faced with that annoying trend, but itz really really annoying. To the real guys tho, when class is your parameter

so are you saying a lady of class wouldn't use the K letter? How is dat?

theimmortals:
Simple, just ask her can you send me you account details let me payin some money.....

and den wat?