dazzlingd:
picture of ur gf before I comment

yorex2011:
If she's made up her mind.. Then u leave her na... No go dey give urself stroke cos of woman

iampartyboy:
Abi? thanks bruv

3cycle:

Shows clearly that you can't handle a relationship. You don't necessarily need to say sorry, there are other ways to make her apologise for her actions though it will take a really matured and humble guy to do so.
Invite her to your place or any eatery and iron issues like lovers. Don't allow pride destroy your relationship.
No one is perfect

100Cents:


Eatery ?

Wetin concern food with this guy matter ?

Ladies

3cycle:

This is 2015 stop being stingy.

100Cents:


Please, she is his girlfriend..

She can cook..

3cycle:

Cook when they have issues to settle?
Where are u from?

100Cents:


South East; you also mentioned iron.

Why do you wanna burden this guy financially ?

3cycle:

I thought you were from Niger republic
How is inviting her over a burden? You are one of the reasons why people think igbo boys are stingy

iampartyboy:
Please I need your advice. i've been dating my gf for 2years now and I do almost everything for her regarding her needs. one of the things she's always doing that's always getting me mad is "being too proud". Anytime I tried to correct her concerning her attitude she will still expect me to apologise to her. She feels too big to say the word "sorry". The last time she talked to me rudely I ended up warning her to mind the way she talks to me. Instead of her correcting herself she walked out on me and because of that we didn't talk for a while. The next message I received from her was that she's already made up her mind and she's tired of the relationship. I only replied "ok". For my church mind I knew she's still expecting me to come and say sorry to her which is not going to happen kuz i'm tired of her being so pompous as i've tried to correct her so many times but it seems she's not going to change but I still love her. Do you think I should let her go kuz it can't continue this way even if we're to come back together. Please advice me on this or is there something I'm not doing right?

100Cents:


Was it not an Igbo girl who went to school at the expense of an igbo guy only to dump him on their wedding day ?

What saith thou ?

3cycle:

Shows clearly that you can't handle a relationship. You don't necessarily need to say sorry, there are other ways to make her apologise for her actions though it will take a really matured and humble guy to do so.
Invite her to your place or any eatery and iron issues like lovers. Don't allow pride destroy your relationship.
No one is perfect

100Cents:


Having handled 2 proud ladies before now, I know what you talking about.

Use carrot and stick method. I guess you already love her. But does she love you ? If not she will dump you.

Like you said she is always waiting for you to beg. Leave her for one week and see what happens. Then call her..

3cycle:

All ladies aren't same.
@op be smart in handling issues pls don't listen to 100 cent if possible cook and invite her over.

iampartyboy:

We're like 300KM apart for now

shegxi:
Op,u mean 2yrs and she has bn like dat,dn't even call her jare, just free her since u knw u can't deal wit her pride. Except she genuinly changes, if u go n like dat, den u will have onli ursef to blame in d future. Go to d family section nd go read unfortunate stories of so many unhappy married people because they chose to ignore a trait they didn't like in dere spouse while dating.
Yes nobody is perfect bt wen u have obviously identified somting u clearly can't live with,my broda just ignore her and let d relationship just go like dat jare. Love is nt enuf,sense is needed.

selingel:
Hmm....

shegxi:
Op,u mean 2yrs and she has bn like dat,dn't even call her jare, just free her since u knw u can't deal wit her pride. Except she genuinly changes, if u go n like dat, den u will have onli ursef to blame in d future. Go to d family section nd go read unfortunate stories of so many unhappy married people because they chose to ignore a trait they didn't like in dere spouse while dating.
Yes nobody is perfect bt wen u have obviously identified somting u clearly can't live with,my broda just ignore her and let d relationship just go like dat jare. Love is nt enuf,sense is needed.