5minsmadness:

Chai! Babe you r fine!

sonOfLucifer:
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Huh?

Just like that?

jadelyn007:
my dear just cheat on him. Make sure you are really discreet about it an still give attention to you marriage. You can't live life constantly being starved of sex. Have a side guy Wishing you the best.

VickyyB:

Thanks

VickyyB:

Thanks

jadelyn007:
my dear just cheat on him. Make sure you are really discreet about it an still give attention to you marriage. You can't live life constantly being starved of sex. Have a side guy Wishing you the best.

sheddyboy:
i have a strong feeling that the husband is going through some hurdles in life, i want the woman to run a check to see if her husband is happy.. if he isn't happy, stress/depression could set in, where there is stress, certainly, there is lack of love.. and when the love is not there you will no longer find joy in anything you see or do, stress is good at sapping you dry of your energy.. she should concentrate on building a happy home through hard-work & everything will get back to normal.. she should also learn to encourage him, encouraging words might just be the medication he needs to recover.

princemillla:
If truly the story is real and you the subject is reading..... I am saying it bodly you are mumu.... How can you base your marriage on sex? Nairalanders, pls advice this illicit fated fellow..

VickyyB:
Lol. He's not a sex freak while you are...
Thank your stars, that he's not a cheat.

Don't cheat on him. HIV is real!

VickyyB:
Lol. He's not a sex freak while you are...
Thank your stars, that he's not a cheat.

Don't cheat on him. HIV is real!

obongproff:
Dis is d main reason why some of us are scared of marrying under d "no-sex-before-marriage" umbrella. I can barely handle d frustrations of sexual incompatibility in a boyfriend-girlfriend relationship. Na for marriage way I want come manage am?

OP, ur hubby has a very very low libido and very very little interest in sex, plus he is very very selfish. Howeva, u shd find a way to make him stop being selfish and try to satisfy u, at least with his fingers and tongue.

On d oda hand are u sure u have not grown too fat dat ur present chubby state could be irritating him? Maybe he does not know how to say it or he's saying ur too fat via his actions but ur not listening. Have u even considered dis at all?

Also, how can u live with a man for four years and ur yet to learn how to put him in d mood? Me thinks u still hav a lot of homework to do. How can u not know how to seduce ya hubby? Some men are easily aroused, odas are difficult to get aroused. But most men have a sexual breaking point, and I think ur yet to discover dat of ur hubby's. His own my not be via bum-shots and skimpy clothes, but u still gotta find it.

Meanwhile if u can successfully put some viagra or konji-stimulating agents into his food or tea without him noticing, I advice u give it a try. When konji hold am, in go find u come.

Divorce shd only be considered afta all options have been explored and der has been no improvement. Madam, u made a big mistake by talking to ur mom and sister abt dis, d fact dat ur close to dem does not mean day will give u right counsel. Na only correct pastor and sex therapist way u fit tell dis kind tin.