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Re: Help.. My 4 Years Old Marriage Is Gradually Crashing Out. by beckyomas(f): 5:05pm On Jan 09, 2015
Mehn! This is some fvcked up sh!t. She should take heart. They say it's for better or worse, right?
Re: Help.. My 4 Years Old Marriage Is Gradually Crashing Out. by onadana: 5:06pm On Jan 09, 2015
smiley...this is the reason why it is better to explore...before you get into this union called marriage...

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Re: Help.. My 4 Years Old Marriage Is Gradually Crashing Out. by kenex4ever(m): 5:06pm On Jan 09, 2015
jadelyn007:
cry my dear just cheat on him. Make sure you are really discreet about it an still give attention to you marriage. You can't live life constantly being starved of sex. Have a side guy Wishing you the best.
not good
Re: Help.. My 4 Years Old Marriage Is Gradually Crashing Out. by kenex4ever(m): 5:07pm On Jan 09, 2015
Chuukwudi:




You will suffer!!!
angry
r u God?
Re: Help.. My 4 Years Old Marriage Is Gradually Crashing Out. by uzolexis(f): 5:08pm On Jan 09, 2015
Bridgetown:


She should get used to it and enjoy the little her husband is giving her.
Everything that sells nowadays is sex.

having sex with ur spouse 2ce a month is not good, u r obligated to satisfy ur spouse sexually. the lady is not asking for an impossible thing and her keeping her virginity till marriage shows she's not a sex freak but has urges wc is natural and wc should be satisfied by her husband. Whether we like it or not, sex is a very impt ingredient for a successful marriage.

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Re: Help.. My 4 Years Old Marriage Is Gradually Crashing Out. by justscorch: 5:09pm On Jan 09, 2015
My sister at a time sex dey tire persin,maybe u met him after he has retired and "hung" up his boot
Re: Help.. My 4 Years Old Marriage Is Gradually Crashing Out. by tunapius(m): 5:10pm On Jan 09, 2015
Meet Daniel Akpata, the award winning true blunt relationship doctor. Sure he will profer solution to ur problem...
Re: Help.. My 4 Years Old Marriage Is Gradually Crashing Out. by Rexnegro(m): 5:11pm On Jan 09, 2015
[quote author=sheddyboy post=29627995][/quote]
Chai see d kind marriage I dey find...my future wife better like sex gan...
Re: Help.. My 4 Years Old Marriage Is Gradually Crashing Out. by 1metre: 5:11pm On Jan 09, 2015
How neat are u? some women can be so dirty and tattered to a point that they smell even after taking bath...if u meet a neat and allergic person like me, honestly i will not even dis flower u not to talk of wedding...this is the important of courtship.
Re: Help.. My 4 Years Old Marriage Is Gradually Crashing Out. by Originalsly: 5:13pm On Jan 09, 2015
Was he the same before the pregnancy?...some men tend to be turned off for a while after the wife gives birth...but this one would be too long. Like someone said earlier...did the wife at least try to regain her former size and shape?....or did she just let herself go? Sounds more like the latter and the reason why when she is naked he be like eeeyaaa...and covers her with the BIG blanket! Then again the husband is probably suffering from some urinary infection that is causing erection problems. His ego wouldn't allow him to confess to that nor seek treatment so he is hiding it behind the Bible and spirituality. I would suggest the wife either spike his food with viagra or whatever to make him stand firm as a husband...or go ahead and do self service in his presence....that's not a sin. If he doesn't at this point get all sexcited and join in then ehmmm.....I suspect him! Divorce is not an option up to this point.

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Re: Help.. My 4 Years Old Marriage Is Gradually Crashing Out. by greggng: 5:15pm On Jan 09, 2015
I can sell artificial dick to u to enable u self service urself. Who told u is a sin?
Re: Help.. My 4 Years Old Marriage Is Gradually Crashing Out. by badesco(m): 5:19pm On Jan 09, 2015
You ought to have settled this issue before you people got married. I am a man too and i have a similar experience, my wife too is a sexy maniac and i do all i can to satisfy her urge anytime, any day, yet she still go all out to have it with other men and all she could console me with or say to me occasionally is that, no other person can be like you, because you remain the best and that's why i cant leave you.So my advise is, stay and try to change him to your taste, if not you may end in so many men s home with nothing to show for it. so stay and salvaged it together.
Re: Help.. My 4 Years Old Marriage Is Gradually Crashing Out. by ALISMILE(m): 5:20pm On Jan 09, 2015
I think its all about d libido!work on ways of enhancing his libido he will call for it!

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Re: Help.. My 4 Years Old Marriage Is Gradually Crashing Out. by DukeNija(m): 5:21pm On Jan 09, 2015
jadelyn007:
cry my dear just cheat on him. Make sure you are really discreet about it an still give attention to you marriage. You can't live life constantly being starved of sex. Have a side guy Wishing you the best.

So adultery is the solution to her problems right? Do you really think that is the proper thing to do? You didn't even waste any time looking for other positive alternatives to tackling the challenge, just went straight to marital infidelity. Will having an affair solve her problems or end her already shaky marriage. Assuming you find yourself in her situation(Godforbid) then the only thing you feel you can do to salvage the situation permanently will be to cheat on your husband? It seems you are a proponent of infidelity and cheating cos I remember you on a thread with coogar and shymex on revenge sex and I was very shocked at what a Youngwoman like you spewed on that thread. Claiming sex is sex and nobody should be hurt as long as it was enjoyed, and I feel sad for the man who would have a woman like you as Wife, cos the day he has issues with his libido/sexual health will be the day another man starts laying his wife. How unfortunate.
It goes to show the level of moral decadence in the society today, terrible terrible rot in our value system. What values will our generation pass to our children? What will you advice your daughter if she has a marital challenge related to sexual compatibility? Tell her to cheat on her husband? O Jesus! I just felt like replying you cos u r an alumnus of my school and I was really very very sad and disappointed. Good day!
Re: Help.. My 4 Years Old Marriage Is Gradually Crashing Out. by Nobody: 5:23pm On Jan 09, 2015
Misogynist2014:
Camera things.
Re: Help.. My 4 Years Old Marriage Is Gradually Crashing Out. by ALISMILE(m): 5:24pm On Jan 09, 2015
Women too like fork! Simple!
Re: Help.. My 4 Years Old Marriage Is Gradually Crashing Out. by Nobody: 5:25pm On Jan 09, 2015
Ipledge:
as much as I like you,you comment do give me some kind thoughts...you said no sex until marriage,she agreed hoping that she is gonna enjoy sex one day.if pre marital sex is a sin,is sex after marriage a sin?

Let me believe you a virgin for the 1st time,how would feel if you husband that behaves like this?
My husband can never behave like that.
I reject it. shocked
Well, if he does, I don't have any problem but to accept it. smiley
Re: Help.. My 4 Years Old Marriage Is Gradually Crashing Out. by elantraceey(f): 5:25pm On Jan 09, 2015
jadelyn007:
cry my dear just cheat on him. Make sure you are really discreet about it an still give attention to you marriage. You can't live life constantly being starved of sex. Have a side guy Wishing you the best.


just look at an advice from a lady , smh

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Re: Help.. My 4 Years Old Marriage Is Gradually Crashing Out. by Nobody: 5:25pm On Jan 09, 2015
Akranez:
You see.. When we tell u that pre marital sex is good..
Una no go listen.. See your life now wey u don marry guy wey no fit perform..
Like you test him before marriage now, u for don know sey the guy na otubante.

I will advise you to buy séx tóys to help your situation, or try seducing your hubby..

This a lesson to all you single ladies out there.. Bonk that guy wella before you marry him.. It is very important grin

wao
Re: Help.. My 4 Years Old Marriage Is Gradually Crashing Out. by elantraceey(f): 5:27pm On Jan 09, 2015
VickyyB:

My husband can never behave like that.
I reject it. shocked
Well, if he does, I don't have any problem but to accept it. smiley

na i won't accept that , he needs councelling
.
Re: Help.. My 4 Years Old Marriage Is Gradually Crashing Out. by Edusouls(m): 5:27pm On Jan 09, 2015
bushdoc9919:


While I agree with you somewhat....a good and active s..x life is an ingredient for a good marriage (not the be all that ends all).

Yes...it does not need to be every night....but it does not need to be twice a month either!
any foolish thing you are planning to do to your marriage just because you are not getting enough sex, be warned, you women are disasters to a man nowadays,it was not like this with our mothers,where the hell did this horrible breed generation of women come from? Well just know that you will regret your life and suffer two folds if you do anything silly..try it nahh no be you go hear am..
Re: Help.. My 4 Years Old Marriage Is Gradually Crashing Out. by Coolguy89(m): 5:27pm On Jan 09, 2015
[quote embarassed author=jadelyn007 post=29632327] cry my dear just cheat on him. Make sure you are really discreet about it an still give attention to you marriage. You can't live life constantly being starved of sex. Have a side guy Wishing you the best.[/quote] Bad advice embarassed embarassed,remember der is God o
Re: Help.. My 4 Years Old Marriage Is Gradually Crashing Out. by ALISMILE(m): 5:27pm On Jan 09, 2015
DukeNija:


So adultery is the solution to her problems right? Do you really think that is the proper thing to do? You didn't even waste any time looking for other positive alternatives to tackling the challenge, just went straight to marital infidelity. Will having an affair solve her problems or end her already shaky marriage. Assuming you find yourself in her situation(Godforbid) then the only thing you feel you can do to salvage the situation permanently will be to cheat on your husband? It seems you are a proponent of infidelity and cheating cos I remember you on a thread with coogar and shymex on revenge sex and I was very shocked at what a Youngwoman like you spewed on that thread. Claiming sex is sex and nobody should be hurt as long as it was enjoyed and I felt sad for the man who would have a woman like you as Wife, cos the day he has issues with his libido/sexual health will be the day another man lays his wife. How unfortunate.
It goes to show the level of moral decadence in the society today, terrible terrible rot in our value system. What values will our generation pass to our children? What will you advice your daughter if she has a marital challenge related to sexual compatibility? Tell her to cheat on her husband? O Jesus! I just felt like replying you cos u r an alumnus of my school and I was really very very sad and disappointed. Good day!
The trut is pple who think like that lady have adulterous traits! Dey re only lookin for excuses to embrace it!

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Re: Help.. My 4 Years Old Marriage Is Gradually Crashing Out. by Nobody: 5:28pm On Jan 09, 2015
uzolexis:


having sex with ur spouse 2ce a month is not good, u r obligated to satisfy ur spouse sexually. the lady is not asking for an impossible thing and her keeping her virginity till marriage shows she's not a sex freak but has urges wc is natural and wc should be satisfied by her husband. Whether we like it or not, sex is a very impt ingredient for a successful marriage.

Nigeria women were rated recently as the most unfaithful women on earth reason being people like you. There are many women around the world who don't see their husband everyday yet they still keep faith in their marriage.
There are men in space, sea, developing projects in different countries and all sorts their wives don't get to see them every time. still,they didn't start looking for sex as the ingredient of a successful marriage but make the best of it.

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Re: Help.. My 4 Years Old Marriage Is Gradually Crashing Out. by DukeNija(m): 5:29pm On Jan 09, 2015
ALISMILE:
The trut is pple who think like that lady have adulterous traits! Dey re only lookin for excuses to embrace it!

My brother, when I read her comment I almost shed a tear in my heart, I couldn't believe it. Godbless
Re: Help.. My 4 Years Old Marriage Is Gradually Crashing Out. by Nobody: 5:30pm On Jan 09, 2015
elantraceey:


na i won't accept that , he needs councelling
.
There's something fishy about the story.
I think the man is a cheat.
Re: Help.. My 4 Years Old Marriage Is Gradually Crashing Out. by uzolexis(f): 5:31pm On Jan 09, 2015
Bridgetown:


Nigeria women were rated recently as the most unfaithful women on earth reason being people like you. There are many women around the world who don't see their husband everyday yet they still keep faith in their marriage.
There are men in space, sea, developing projects in different countries and all sorts their wives don't get to see them every time. still,they didn't start looking for sex as the ingredient of a successful marriage but make the best of it.

and women don't go to space too baa ur just being very unrealistic....havin ur man far away is a different issue but when he is with u, why should u be sex starved?? u better come to terms with this reality if u want 2 have a successful marriage.

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Re: Help.. My 4 Years Old Marriage Is Gradually Crashing Out. by jadelyn007(f): 5:33pm On Jan 09, 2015
Guys please chill! What do you expect me to tell her? To divorce him? She's the one who will lose, To talk to him? like she hasn't been talking all these years, to pray for him? Like we know how many sleepless praying nights she has had, to manage him like that? Like you know how frustrating an unsatisfying sex life can be. Madam, the easiest and safest option is to cheat discreetly, that way you can still keep your marriage and your sanity. Mind you, be very discreet and careful. You'll find a few women around who can refer a gigolo to you.

N.B: I know most of you that are forming sanctimonious on her case are the ones on the married men patronizing prostitutes thread supporting it so please, spare me!!! This is 2015.

Many of you men would do worse if it were you going through this.

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Re: Help.. My 4 Years Old Marriage Is Gradually Crashing Out. by chingydaboss(m): 5:33pm On Jan 09, 2015
God bless yu
VickyyB:
Lol. He's not a sex freak while you are...
Thank your stars, that he's not a cheat.

Don't cheat on him. HIV is real!
Re: Help.. My 4 Years Old Marriage Is Gradually Crashing Out. by Nobody: 5:34pm On Jan 09, 2015
badesco:
You ought to have settled this issue before you people got married. I am a man too and i have a similar experience, my wife too is a sexy maniac and i do all i can to satisfy her urge anytime, any day, yet she still go all out to have it with other men and all she could console me with or say to me occasionally is that, no other person can be like you, because you remain the best and that's why i cant leave you.So my advise is, stay and try to change him to your taste, if not you may end in so many men s home with nothing to show for it. so stay and salvaged it together.

Ehmmmm, oga are you still married to this wife? shocked shocked shocked shocked

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Re: Help.. My 4 Years Old Marriage Is Gradually Crashing Out. by elantraceey(f): 5:34pm On Jan 09, 2015
VickyyB:

There's something fishy about the story.
I think the man is a cheat.

na he might not be , i think he's just those christians that take things too far.
Re: Help.. My 4 Years Old Marriage Is Gradually Crashing Out. by Nobody: 5:35pm On Jan 09, 2015
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and women don't go to space too baa ur just being very unrealistic....havin ur man far away is a different issue but when he is with u, why should u be sex starved?? u better come to terms with this reality if u want 2 have a successful

I have a successful marriage with 3 beautiful kids, I am among the few lucky ones who didn't marry a sex addict like you.
Looking for excuses to sleep around.

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