Hum, this relationship is not up to two weeks, she's just the type of girl my mum doesn't like but no special attachment to that. My mum still sees me has a kid that need a lot of lesson in life about relationship,sometimes I do tell her she's over protective. This girl,she's the first girl I would date around my area since I came back from school,though I didn't date any when I'm still at home.
I asked her out on phone about three days she kept saying NO until I meet her face2face. With some soft talk she agree to date me, she said she will test me,with a lot of talk we agreed to date.

For the past weeks we've fell in love, call in the morning, afternoon,and night with a lot of text message. Few days ago my problems begin when my mum notice the two of us together,she told me she's didn't want to see me with this type of girl... We aren't far from each other like 1KM to where she lives to my house. She's a girl that's popular and she knows a lot of people,lemme say social.
What my mum want is for me to date someone no one knows about,simple person,not too social. And she kinda telling me that I'm not yet to settle down, that if I want to marry I can go to far distance and pick someone.

Now, I love the girl and I know she loved me to,have study her for this past weeks and I can sense true love from her. There is no way she won't come to my area and there is no way we won't meet,and my mum will still see us.

Whose side should I choose, my MUM or HER?

Nairalander, I really need u guys opinion cause I'm still living with my mum. Even if I want to breakup with her,isn't it too early how I'm I going to do that? If I continue It won't please my mum. What should I do. Mature comment please.

Well i tink in dis case, you shuld choose ur moda

Follow ur heart...

Oluwatosean:
Well i tink in dis case, you shuld choose ur moda

won't I hurt her?

Follow ur gurl cos ur mum will always take u back. Its a win win bro.

odun4love:


won't I hurt her?

ofcourse you will buh she will move on

Guy, u better plan your future before some kind of girl will spoil it for you... you are still leaving with your mum and you just finished school, its better you get out there and find something to do. Of course when you are successful, you will definitely see the one that suits you. Listen to your mother and grow up financially so that you can stay on your own.

Have you completed your studies and ready for a serious relationship? If yes, don't worry, you'll be fine with your mum and your wife to be. BUT, If NO, I think mum sees much clearly what the outcome of that relationship would be. You'll be fine

larrytopsy:
Guy, u better plan your future before some kind of girl will spoil it for you... you are still leaving with your mum and you just finished school, its better you get out there and find something to do. Of course when you are successful, you will definitely see the one that suits you. Listen to your mother and grow up financially so that you can stay on your own.

I'm just speechless

Mimienudles:
Have you completed your studies and ready for a serious relationship? If yes, don't worry, you'll be fine with your mum and your wife to be. BUT, If NO, I think mum sees much clearly what the outcome of that relationship would be. You'll be fine

Yes, I'm done with studies for now, I was just thinking if there will be way(s) to please both.

Bros this ur story is a lie its full of holes.....

firstly you opened with ur relationship not upto 2weeks

Secondly you said you have be together for weeks and have fallen in-love...you also said u are sure she loves u after observing her for few weeks

Thirdly you said 2days ago ur problem started which means ur new couple and can easily break up


Now my final observation is with the time you started ur relationship not up to 2weeks ago till 2days ago when u started having problem means u have dated for7-10days....guy you are not inlove u are delusional

Final Conclusion-

Your story is hoax and not well cooked...but my candid advice to ur fake story is ur mum should come second after God....try to do ur best to hide ur relationship from her

Follow ur instincts.

odun4love:


Yes, I'm done with studies for now, I was just thinking if there will be way(s) to please both.

O'course, there's always a way out depending how man enough you are because mum is capable of frustrating your feels for your girl especially if she has her reasons. You should be able to know what the problem is, let her make you see reasons with her, if she can't, go ahead with your relationship, she'll definitely come around. It will be much easier if you not living with mum and be sure it love to avoid regrets. Goodluck!

Tell mummy U have heard nd continue niii

Hehe... Part of the post where op said he smells true love kept me laffing, bruh the weather is dry plus harmattan I hope U don't have catarrh coz it makes someone smell wrong things .

Well ur mum might be right in fact she's right coz U ar still young, U might be right coz U smelled TRUE love but AM RIGHT TO TELL U THAT SUCH RELATIONSHIP IS SEX BOUND. So becareful, and do what U think is right.

Hmmm I feel you should take your time.

fijiano202:
Bros this ur story is a lie its full of holes.....

firstly you opened with ur relationship not upto 2weeks

Secondly you said you have be together for weeks and have fallen in-love...you also said u are sure she loves u after observing her for few weeks

Thirdly you said 2days ago ur problem started which means ur new couple and can easily break up


Now my final observation is with the time you started ur relationship not up to 2weeks ago till 2days ago when u started having problem means u have dated for7-10days....guy you are not inlove u are delusional

Final Conclusion-

Your story is hoax and not well cooked...but my candid advice to ur fake story is ur mum should come second after God....try to do ur best to hide ur relationship from her

Why will I cooked up a story... I'm right is two weeks, we've been seeing each others around before but never talk to her about relation, I was even surprise when she opened to me... Though is short, I know what I mean when I said she's in love with me.

Missmossy:
Hmmm I feel you should take your time.

In what way?

You are not mature for a relationship just yet else you won't be here asking who you should listen to when it isn't like you are marrying the girl

Afrok:
Hehe... Part of the post where op said he smells true love kept me laffing, bruh the weather is dry plus harmattan I hope U don't have catarrh coz it makes someone smell wrong things .

Well ur mum might be right in fact she's right coz U ar still young, U might be right coz U smelled TRUE love but AM RIGHT TO TELL U THAT SUCH RELATIONSHIP IS SEX BOUND. So becareful, and do what U think is right.

U are funny,... No catarh at all
I sense true love from her really.... Just don't want to break her heart that's all..and I want to pleased my mum too.

Awww young love and deliberate confusion so you won't act.

jaybee3:
You are not mature for a relationship just yet else you won't be here asking who you should listen to when it isn't like you are marrying the girl

Do not conclude to that,is more complicated that's why I asked such question

odun4love:


Do not conclude to that,is more complicated that's why I asked such question

Do you know why i can't take you serious?

You can't possibly love someone you barely know...

Just stay friends with the girl and see where that takes you.

No point stressing over nothing

Mimienudles:
O'course, there's always a way out depending how man enough you are because mum is capable of frustrating your feels for your girl especially if she has her reasons. You should be able to know what the problem is, let her make you see reasons with her, if she can't, go ahead with your relationship, she'll definitely come around. It will be much easier if you not living with mum and be sure it love to avoid regrets. Goodluck!

Thanks

@OP....Ao old are u?

U shouldn't av made ur relationship with her so obvious...2weeks?! Nd ur mum is already aware?!

I think ur mum is scared dat u might impregnate d gal......Promise ur mum u'll be a good boy.

lanicky:
@OP....Ao old are u?

U shouldn't av made ur relationship with her so obvious...2weeks?! Nd ur mum is already aware?!

I think ur mum is scared dat u might impregnate d gal......Promise ur mum u'll be a good boy.

Lol... Okay

odun4love:

Why will I cooked up a story... I'm right is two weeks, we've been seeing each others around before but never talk to her about relation, I was even surprise when she opened to me... Though is short, I know what I mean when I said she's in love with me.

u said u were a graduate right?..... me thinks u need to work on your english first of all.. take a step back and look at what u just wrote here.
Thank me later.

odun4love:


In what way?

In your dealings with girls, a lot will still come your way. This particular one doesn't seem to suit your mom and in future It will remain same.

kendrick9:
u said u were a graduate right?..... me thinks u need to work on your english first of all.. take a step back and look at what u just wrote here.
Thank me later.

where I'm typing now isn't a comfortable place...I just type with my phone without reading it before I post the comment.

I'm having similar issue..mk sure u find out wht u'r mum doesn't like abt her, talk to her and try to correct those things..also talk to ur mum and assure her that the girl in question is positive minded, but be sure babe loves you and won't act wayward since she's very social..

What size of diapers do you use?

Nutase:
What size of diapers do you use?

Biggest size