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Re: Is This A Taboo? by Nobody: 11:33pm On Jan 16, 2015
ronald4lif:


What if he doesn't leaves? Sex or the lack of it is not a guarantee a guy is staying. Many couples weds everyday and most of them have had sex. What's the big deal in sex by the way? Some trophy or award?
yeah yeah i mean it's sex right? tongue what's the big deal with it lipsrsealed
Re: Is This A Taboo? by Nobody: 11:36pm On Jan 16, 2015
Nneka123:
yeah yeah i mean it's sex right? tongue what's the big deal with it lipsrsealed

of course its not a big deal!
Re: Is This A Taboo? by Michellebaby(f): 11:38pm On Jan 16, 2015
Nneka123:
you see the reason why they keep bashing us (ladies) on this section! Jeez! why do you want to have sex with another man, even when you're already pregnant! that he made stupid promises to father your child, doesn't really mean you should have sex with him! undecided have some dignity! and get out of the first mess you created already, before thinking about sleeping with this new man of yours, okay!!

I can't go in details about the type of person he is but can definitely say he is way better than majority of game playing Nigerians who just lie about everything... His promises are not stupid but i ain't dump to rely on promises... I Know his character well enough to know when someone is up to no good! I do have dignity please just because I'm in a situation doesn't mean i have no dignity... People make mistake nobody is perfect and if its jus stupid promises we wont be discussing marriage or him introducing me to his mother and family... He is my bestfriend who had loved me from a far but too stupid to see what was in front of me.... Call him dumb and foolish for wanting to be with a pregnant woman but you can't help who you love period!

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Re: Is This A Taboo? by ronald4lif(m): 11:39pm On Jan 16, 2015
Nneka123:
yeah yeah i mean it's sex right? tongue what's the big deal with it lipsrsealed

No biggie
Re: Is This A Taboo? by Michellebaby(f): 11:42pm On Jan 16, 2015
Beamborla:
I was expecting to see I've decided to stay without sex for 20 yrs. It's not ideal, my sister.

Even if you give it a go anyway, taboo or not, human beings can be funny. Sometimes in the future, he can use it to insult you.

Sex is not a payment for any form of help not mentioning the fact that you have another man's child in you.


I really do appreciate your comment and that is very true, Humans are quite funny and you are quite right he could use it to insult me if we get into an argument later thats true and that is one comment i truly appreciate and respect! Thank you
Re: Is This A Taboo? by Nobody: 11:42pm On Jan 16, 2015
voodoo85:


why to control the urge if daddy long lost and plus its good for a baby. of course i do. do u want me to do it on u? grin
lol! what do you think voodoo is all about? tongue
Re: Is This A Taboo? by Nobody: 11:45pm On Jan 16, 2015
Nneka123:
lol! what do you think voodoo is all about? tongue

why u asking what do i think? i know . i don't think . i know darling
Re: Is This A Taboo? by Nobody: 11:46pm On Jan 16, 2015
Michellebaby:


I can't go in details about the type of person he is but can definitely say he is way better than majority of game playing Nigerians who just lie about everything... His promises are not stupid but i ain't dump to rely on promises... I Know his character well enough to know when someone is up to no good! I do have dignity please just because I'm in a situation doesn't mean i have no dignity... People make mistake nobody is perfect and if its jus stupid promises we wont be discussing marriage or him introducing me to his mother and family... He is my bestfriend who had loved me from a far but too stupid to see what was in front of me.... Call him dumb and foolish for wanting to be with a pregnant woman but you can't help who you love period!
Alright! no one is actually calling you dumb or anything, but kinda looking out for you, to make the right decisions for yourself, if you think this guy will father your unborn child, then go for him! smiley, because it's the choice you made, and you feel it's right, but you remember you don't want to make another mistake, so goodluck!
Re: Is This A Taboo? by Nobody: 11:47pm On Jan 16, 2015
ronald4lif:


No biggie
smiley
Re: Is This A Taboo? by Nobody: 11:48pm On Jan 16, 2015
voodoo85:


why u asking what do i think? i know . i don't think . i know darling
hehe, okay..
Re: Is This A Taboo? by ArabianPrince: 1:51am On Jan 17, 2015
Op needs to be fuccked. Sex is not contraindicated in pregnancy. So nothing is wrong with her desire. Never knew getting pregnant was a mess. Some Nigerian women and their mentality. May be pregnant women in Nigeria don't have sex. I don't see any reason why I can't date someone because she is pregnant or has kids.
Op enjoy yourself. cool

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Re: Is This A Taboo? by cr7lomo: 4:24am On Jan 17, 2015
Mayb I dont rili understand ur post cos u said his been there for u all thru d heartbreak for the past 2yrs . Are u carrying a baby for 2yrs?
Re: Is This A Taboo? by Charles911: 4:35am On Jan 17, 2015
Hmm i am a guy and some people do it but i dont know i dont think it will be nice doong it pls if he really loves u he wont even want to do it with u
Re: Is This A Taboo? by adanduka: 4:42am On Jan 17, 2015
YOU ARE ABOUT TO JUMP FROM THE FRYING PAN INTO FIRE
Re: Is This A Taboo? by Nobody: 6:04am On Jan 17, 2015
Just continue having SEXX with everyone that comes your way.
I will find my way there, so that I can share in your experiences..
By the way the PREGNANCY u call BABY may be BABIES ooo(twins) ...
Re: Is This A Taboo? by jmoore(m): 6:49am On Jan 17, 2015
Check your bible for answers.
Re: Is This A Taboo? by Nobody: 7:14am On Jan 17, 2015
Nneka123:
Are you serious?
so u as a lady don't know that doctors advice ladies to have sex during pregnancy?
Re: Is This A Taboo? by Nobody: 7:18am On Jan 17, 2015
Prixus:

so u as a lady don't know that doctors advice ladies to have sex during pregnancy?
did he say a lady should have sex with other men than the father of her child? undecided
Re: Is This A Taboo? by Nobody: 8:12am On Jan 17, 2015
So because the father of the child is not available....she should not be fuccked in her life again. Knowing that he is gone for good.
Re: Is This A Taboo? by bomasek(m): 8:39am On Jan 17, 2015
Have sex with him@ ya peril,nigga ain't staying long with u once u give put to bed.
Re: Is This A Taboo? by Nobody: 11:00am On Jan 17, 2015
Nneka123:
you see the reason why they keep bashing us (ladies) on this section! Jeez! why do you want to have sex with another man, even when you're already pregnant! that he made stupid promises to father your child, doesn't really mean you should have sex with him! undecided have some dignity! and get out of the first mess you created already, before thinking about sleeping with this new man of yours, okay!!

Itz easily said than done!

Someone like you don't fall in LOVE,you rather would fall on top of LOVE & would do TRIPLE of what the OP has done.....So chill.
Re: Is This A Taboo? by Nobody: 11:06am On Jan 17, 2015
sauceny:


Itz easily said than done!

Someone like you don't fall in LOVE,you rather would fall on top of LOVE & would do TRIPLE of what the OP has done.....So chill.
you don't know me! don't assume such! and wallow your mind in an unreasonable fallacy!
Re: Is This A Taboo? by Nobody: 11:11am On Jan 17, 2015
Nneka123:
you don't know me! don't assume such! and wallow your mind in an unreasonable fallacy!

Not assuming dear,itz just that i have seen your prototype & you sounding like em.
Re: Is This A Taboo? by Nobody: 11:28am On Jan 17, 2015
sauceny:


Not assuming dear,itz just that i have seen your prototype & you sounding like em.
oh! wow
Re: Is This A Taboo? by Nobody: 11:28am On Jan 17, 2015
Nneka123:
did he say a lady should have sex with other men than the father of her child? undecided
good...and since she obviously can't be with the father of the child what do u now think she should do?
Re: Is This A Taboo? by Nobody: 11:31am On Jan 17, 2015
Prixus:

good...and since she obviously can't be with the father of the child what do u now think she should do?
I have already told her what to do tongue, have the baby first, then she can be with her new man.
Re: Is This A Taboo? by Nobody: 1:39pm On Jan 17, 2015
Nneka123:
I have already told her what to do tongue, have the baby first, then she can be with her new man.
u r contradicting ursef. u agree that doctors advice sex during pregnancy n now u r saying she should only fuxk him after the child? undecided
Re: Is This A Taboo? by Nobody: 6:50pm On Jan 17, 2015
So you want her to be sexually malnourished. She needs to be rummed nicely.
Re: Is This A Taboo? by Michellebaby(f): 2:30am On Jan 18, 2015
cr7lomo:
Mayb I dont rili understand ur post cos u said his been there for u all thru d heartbreak for the past 2yrs . Are u carrying a baby for 2yrs?

Just think of a friend who has been there for you through other relationship that hasnt worked out.... And this suppose to be a new relationship i was suppose to be going into then found out he still with his ex and she has a baby for him... And its only my friend this guy that has been there that i could confide in. So no the baby is not 2yrs oo just months
Re: Is This A Taboo? by bosschinalu(m): 2:48am On Jan 18, 2015
Nneka123:
you see the reason why they keep bashing us (ladies) on this section! Jeez! why do you want to have sex with another man, even when you're already pregnant! that he made stupid promises to father your child, doesn't really mean you should have sex with him! undecided have some dignity! and get out of the first mess you created already, before thinking about sleeping with this new man of yours, okay!!







firstly....she did not create the mess....things fell apart and she wanted to keep the baby which is not.wrong.

secondly... Is being pregnant a criteria not to have sex?

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Re: Is This A Taboo? by cr7lomo: 6:53am On Jan 18, 2015
Michellebaby:


Just think of a friend who has been there for you through other relationship that hasnt worked out.... And this suppose to be a new relationship i was suppose to be going into then found out he still with his ex and she has a baby for him... And its only my friend this guy that has been there that i could confide in. So no the baby is not 2yrs oo just months

Oh ok , it is well
Re: Is This A Taboo? by Dapo4u(m): 10:28am On Jan 18, 2015
Michellebaby:


Just think of a friend who has been there for you through other relationship that hasnt worked out.... And this suppose to be a new relationship i was suppose to be going into then found out he still with his ex and she has a baby for him... And its only my friend this guy that has been there that i could confide in. So no the baby is not 2yrs oo just months

Are you seeking for advice or you want us to tell you what you think we should be telling you? It appers to me you have made up your mind and you want to know if we all agree with you. No one is saying you shouldn't test the water with the new guy, but it is a taboo to have sex with someone who isn't the father of your unborn child. I am even surprised that your new guy doesn't know about this.

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