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Re: How To Find Your Future Spouse by Odunharry(m): 1:36pm On Jan 18, 2015 |
ihedinobi2:Nice and I like the fact that you understand where i am coming from also.. But some girls own too much..Atimes i hear guys say it took them months some even years before a girl say yes.. I believe even before you ask some girls out,they already know if they love you or not...Though for some it could take a while. Women are not that easy to understand. |
Re: How To Find Your Future Spouse by EfemenaXY: 1:39pm On Jan 18, 2015 |
ihedinobi2: Lol! You make us sound like wild animals in the jungle. That's the picture that readily comes to mind...kind of like the male peacock showing off his feathers I'd rather use the word assess rather than hesitate. A lady usually knows almost immediately if a guy approaching her is a complete no-no and will therefore not need to hesitate. However, if she feels he might get a "look in" a.k.a chance with her, she then decides to weigh him up and see if he'll stand the test assuming she decides to put him through it. It's at this point that she's assessing him as a potential suitor and whether he's got the basic criteria she's looking for. 1 Like |
Re: How To Find Your Future Spouse by Nobody: 1:39pm On Jan 18, 2015 |
Odunharry: Every woman is different. 3 Likes |
Re: How To Find Your Future Spouse by Nobody: 1:39pm On Jan 18, 2015 |
laplace12:Scheiße! It's really eating at you |
Re: How To Find Your Future Spouse by Odunharry(m): 1:41pm On Jan 18, 2015 |
EfemenaXY:but i know it isnt infatuation |
Re: How To Find Your Future Spouse by EfemenaXY: 1:42pm On Jan 18, 2015 |
carefreewannabe: Certainly not what he's described so far. One might even be in love with someone without even realising it. There's a lot more I can add to this, but I'd rather hear what he thinks it is. 1 Like |
Re: How To Find Your Future Spouse by Odunharry(m): 1:42pm On Jan 18, 2015 |
carefreewannabe:yes that is absolutely true.. 1 Like |
Re: How To Find Your Future Spouse by Odunharry(m): 1:43pm On Jan 18, 2015 |
We are getting somewhere.. |
Re: How To Find Your Future Spouse by Nobody: 1:43pm On Jan 18, 2015 |
EfemenaXY: You've also gotta admit some ladies do this to keep their options open while deciding on their pick of the pack. Should that guy they like intensely eventually turn them down, they can then gladly warm up to the long-suffering suitor who has assured them of marriage. 1 Like |
Re: How To Find Your Future Spouse by laplace12(m): 1:45pm On Jan 18, 2015 |
goofyone: I don't understand |
Re: How To Find Your Future Spouse by EfemenaXY: 1:49pm On Jan 18, 2015 |
goofyone: I agree with you to a point, but let's not go as far as mentioning marriage yet. Way too early. Sometimes, if a woman / girl knows that the guy approaching her is a no-no, she might decide to play along with him, knowing nothing will ever come out of it. In this case, she's simply toying with him for the fun of it. A lot of ladies are guilty of this at some point. I know I have been too. |
Re: How To Find Your Future Spouse by Nobody: 1:49pm On Jan 18, 2015 |
laplace12:don't worry, you will. Give it a day... |
Re: How To Find Your Future Spouse by Odunharry(m): 1:50pm On Jan 18, 2015 |
EfemenaXY:chaii toy with a man's feeling? Ladies there is Godd u oo |
Re: How To Find Your Future Spouse by EfemenaXY: 1:51pm On Jan 18, 2015 |
Odunharry: The male folk do it too. 1 Like |
Re: How To Find Your Future Spouse by Nobody: 1:52pm On Jan 18, 2015 |
EfemenaXY:Perhaps then. |
Re: How To Find Your Future Spouse by Nobody: 1:53pm On Jan 18, 2015 |
Odunharry:Was thinking same here. Toying... Now, that's remarkable. |
Re: How To Find Your Future Spouse by Odunharry(m): 1:55pm On Jan 18, 2015 |
EfemenaXY:I think ladies do it most.. Anyway it both side. |
Re: How To Find Your Future Spouse by ihedinobi2: 2:02pm On Jan 18, 2015 |
goofyone:By women I meant all women including Eskimos and Chinese. 1 Like |
Re: How To Find Your Future Spouse by Nobody: 2:02pm On Jan 18, 2015 |
dein77:I found your comment quite interesting. Is this an indication that when one meets that "future" wife, one will know it?? 2 Likes |
Re: How To Find Your Future Spouse by Nobody: 2:04pm On Jan 18, 2015 |
ihedinobi2:I don't concur . My dating experience says otherwise. |
Re: How To Find Your Future Spouse by Nobody: 2:04pm On Jan 18, 2015 |
Odunharry: |
Re: How To Find Your Future Spouse by Nobody: 2:05pm On Jan 18, 2015 |
goofyone: Where are you located? |
Re: How To Find Your Future Spouse by dein77(m): 2:09pm On Jan 18, 2015 |
goofyone: Maybe...If we are sensitive and sober enough. .. |
Re: How To Find Your Future Spouse by ihedinobi2: 2:10pm On Jan 18, 2015 |
Odunharry:Yes I understand, bro. I'm a red-blooded man too and I've had my share of frustration. Yes, some women take years. Men are built hard enough to withstand the stress too. It's not really a question of how they feel about you. It's more about whether it is safe for them to go with those feelings or not. Women are weaker than men. And living at such close quarters with a man of superior physical strength and real cruelty is a real danger for women to avoid. So they have a natural impulse to figure out whether you're safe to trust or not. I don't think you should waste your time trying to understand them. Just be there for them if you care that much. Carry their weight and let them know that you want to keep doing that. It's up to you to decide how long you want to endure their hesitation. I do have a limit for myself but it has nothing to do with time sha. |
Re: How To Find Your Future Spouse by Nobody: 2:21pm On Jan 18, 2015 |
carefreewannabe:Can i not say that? I'll just borrow someone's words here, ich schätze meine Privatsphäre |
Re: How To Find Your Future Spouse by edwife(f): 2:24pm On Jan 18, 2015 |
The love of your life will find you when you least expect it...the most exciting relationships happen when you're not looking. "Good thing happen when you least expect it" 3 Likes |
Re: How To Find Your Future Spouse by Nobody: 2:25pm On Jan 18, 2015 |
dein77:It's subjective then |
Re: How To Find Your Future Spouse by dein77(m): 2:35pm On Jan 18, 2015 |
edwife: Very correct. The library was the LAST place I expected to have met my wife..Na book them dey read for library na! |
Re: How To Find Your Future Spouse by STENON(f): 2:36pm On Jan 18, 2015 |
You can meet at any place and at anytime..... Jst be yourself.... 1 Like |
Re: How To Find Your Future Spouse by dein77(m): 2:39pm On Jan 18, 2015 |
STENON: Just be yourself. Very true. |
Re: How To Find Your Future Spouse by Nobody: 2:39pm On Jan 18, 2015 |
goofyone: Deutschland? Ja oder nein? Dann frag ich nicht mehr. |
Re: How To Find Your Future Spouse by Odunharry(m): 2:43pm On Jan 18, 2015 |
carefreewannabe:chaii |
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