Can abstaining from premarital sex make you faithful to your future wife? And can indulging in series of premarital sex increase your chances of cheating on your future wife?

It's never a criteria, remember those men that cheats on their spouses was once virgins...

Well first of all it depends on the reason why one isn't sexually active...



Cuz if I say to myself I am abstaining from premarital sex until I finally get married, and begin to chase other ladies, den what is now the need of all those years of self control? It's gone to the wind then...


One thing I have noticed about nigerians is that they tend to see the impossibilities of men just loving only one woman or men being virgins. Some people even doubt the possibility of our Lord Jesus Christ abstaining from sex during his youth. Others question the impossibilities of Saint Joseph not having sex with Blessed virgin Mary...


Look. Op, if u really ask me, I will tell you a capital YES, it is possible for one who after abstaining from premarital sex to be faithful to his wife.


And I also stand on my grounds to say YES to your second question.


There will be a "BUT" tho


Cux there Is room for repentance in life regarding your second question. There are men out there who still believe that adultery is a no go area.. even if they commit other sins, they strongly believe in their heart that commiting adultery is off from their black book.

So there will be exceptions to that. Concluding, I should say "NO" that because one have committed series of premarital sex in his past, dat doesn't mean there wouldn't be a room for repentance and responsibilities.

CAPITAL NO.

Majority of them cheat on their husbands when they eventually marry

It depends on the reason for abstainace if the reason was shyness to woo a woman or lack of money to take care of a woman then there is 99.9% assurance that such a person will cheat on the wife bt if his reason for abstainace is unflinching belief that premarital sex is not good then there's 99.9% assurance that he will not cheat on the wife.

Not really.

Lalasticlala over to you

NO

it depends on the kind of man you gets married to

It all depends on mindset....!


Take note of this key word....

Self Discipline.

I would say that someone who has indulged in several premarital sex is most likely to continue the act even after marriage....

Not a certainty, but the probability of outcome is high.. !

can buhari's promises of change change d present state of our economy

fallacious

yope

A dighi amu aka ekpe na nka.

No... Not just self discipline but grace! Married a virgin wife doesn't make her faithful either.

See Question! Bros, it's a decision and not a function of anything.

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its like a two way thing.. A Man DAT has Neva tested his joystick may get super excited after the first encounter and may really want it more often. if unfortunately the wife doesn't av such libido and strength, an inconsiderate man may look elsewia for puna.. I believe it all boils down to knowing ursef wella and being very considerate.. As no one thing is the cause of all evil, so is the case of infidelity.. ma opinion

Well I guess if you research there's probably a study already conducted that proves a positive correlation between multiple pre-marriage sexual escapades and infidelity after marriage.

That said, I believe it's all about self control, some men have it, others don't. SIMPLE

You don't develop self control overnight, you consciously grow it over the years.

So guys that don't have it pre-marriage can't get it post marriage. There's just no magic there.

Not a determinant but its good.

It is good because it can help you to be discipline which will in turn help you in marriage.

Just let's say if you have self control before marriage, you have a higher chance of having control in marriage also.

Don't mind what some devils will tell you. They will tell you otherwise.

Toss a coin and there you go with your answer.

it can help.....since u were able to resist it in ur youthful age,when sexual pressure is intensive,it would be easy to stick to ur wife

Yes and No.

What you actually need is to take your vow very serious and ask Holy Spirit to help you say NO to fornication.

Abstinence from cheating is a function of self control.

man is innately promiscuous. It takes grace my brother.

you marry her a virgin and begin to Nyansh, after a while you will get tired.

The urge to try outside will be so strong.

what keeps you at that point is her character, Your fear for God and the vow at the altar.

For any man to start cheating, the woman must give the man a reason.

men don't cheat till they have a reason

NO

it alll depends on human mind and situation.

So many things can make a man cheat on his wife. Abstinence from premarital sex is not a guarantee that a man will be faithful. What if the wife starts it and the man in order to get back at his wife decides to start flirting

It's more of individual's decision.... You can't predict a man's character until he is wealthy.

Wondering what you stand to gain by limiting your youth..... Lots of regrets loading. Any babe who asks you for sex, please direct her to me........outsourcing on point braaah

Ma chill for other ppl to come talk oya d person below me talk