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Re: How To Find Your Future Spouse by EfemenaXY: 5:46pm On Jan 18, 2015 |
moca: Yayyy!! Well done! But you should let others know na |
Re: How To Find Your Future Spouse by Nobody: 5:46pm On Jan 18, 2015 |
EfemenaXY:So u don't like it too? Ukpari o!! U Oyinbo ladies won't kill me Infact, anyday I see myself for oyinbo land, na so so local food I go dey chop . Abi dem no dey shops? |
Re: How To Find Your Future Spouse by Nobody: 5:47pm On Jan 18, 2015 |
EfemenaXY:Was afraid cos of what happened d other time. 1 Like |
Re: How To Find Your Future Spouse by Dheartless: 5:50pm On Jan 18, 2015 |
carefreewannabe:well then why do they start forming when a brother start showing those warm feelings? for example I really don't like my present girl but she was just too nice when we first met so I gave it a try and she was worth loving but after sometime she just start making it seem like I should be the only one to make the relationship work. I told her to go her way two days ago. am starting to feel like maybe cause I was never really attracted to most of them in the first place that's why. I don't know is a guy the only one to meant to put into a relationship? or maybe I need to find a lady that catches my attention from the very beginning. cause am starting to believe love don't grow with time. ( note am really a happy face and friendly guy, I just don't let me get ride over) |
Re: How To Find Your Future Spouse by Nobody: 5:50pm On Jan 18, 2015 |
EfemenaXY: "Notice me or I'll die". Bwahahaha! Ok o, back to 'how to hook a spouse'. 1 Like |
Re: How To Find Your Future Spouse by maryhaam(f): 5:51pm On Jan 18, 2015 |
Cool nice thread 1 Like |
Re: How To Find Your Future Spouse by EfemenaXY: 5:52pm On Jan 18, 2015 |
moca: I know dear. I understand. But it's over now isn't it? |
Re: How To Find Your Future Spouse by EfemenaXY: 5:54pm On Jan 18, 2015 |
moca: Like what? Goat nose with mucus in it? Abeg, abeg... I'm not as brave as Chillisauce. I'm sure even at that, she still closed her eyes and slurped the whole lot up... |
Re: How To Find Your Future Spouse by maryhaam(f): 5:57pm On Jan 18, 2015 |
Dheartless:loooool,weird |
Re: How To Find Your Future Spouse by Nobody: 6:01pm On Jan 18, 2015 |
EfemenaXY:For wia! Na by his grace everyday o! minus6kg already. Worst than others. God dey sha Dem don come back. Party time over. Let me see if they can help me in d kitchen. I left everything as soon as they went out. Where strength? 1 Like |
Re: How To Find Your Future Spouse by Nobody: 6:09pm On Jan 18, 2015 |
EfemenaXY: How do you know? You are beginning to know me too well . But that goat head eh, nothing inside. But bloody mucus nose and dirty hairy eyes that fire couldn't burn off.dont ever eat that in public restaurant |
Re: How To Find Your Future Spouse by Nobody: 6:10pm On Jan 18, 2015 |
EfemenaXY: How do you know? You are beginning to know me too well . But that goat head eh, nothing inside. But bloody mucus nose and dirty hairy eyes that fire couldn't burn off.dont ever eat that bin public restaurant |
Re: How To Find Your Future Spouse by Nobody: 6:11pm On Jan 18, 2015 |
Sorry carefree, I thought we were in the kitchen thread. 1 Like |
Re: How To Find Your Future Spouse by obowunmi(m): 6:11pm On Jan 18, 2015 |
Sophyrocks: Why are you humming? |
Re: How To Find Your Future Spouse by EfemenaXY: 6:11pm On Jan 18, 2015 |
Dheartless: You need to ask yourself what it is that you want. Are you looking to get married now, and are therefore seeking a long term relationship that would lead to that? I think not. I don't know how to say this without sounding condenscending, but you are very young. Too young if your profile pic is anything to go by, and you should therefore be concentrating on your studies. You aren't even in your mid-twenties yet, are you? Have girls as friends. Very good friends if you must, but I don't think now's the time for you to be looking for anything deeper. |
Re: How To Find Your Future Spouse by maryhaam(f): 6:12pm On Jan 18, 2015 |
Dheartless:am in such situation,mine is a bit different,was into him @first den he was messing up,ndatin all,so now he has loved up,n mine has wear out,dunno he took me for granted as first |
Re: How To Find Your Future Spouse by EfemenaXY: 6:13pm On Jan 18, 2015 |
Chillisauce: Yuk! If it really was that bad, then then restaurant / bukka should close down sharpish. That thing from your descriptions wasn't cooked well. How can you see mucus and blood in your plate of soup? Ayama... |
Re: How To Find Your Future Spouse by EfemenaXY: 6:15pm On Jan 18, 2015 |
moca: You'll find it. Keep positive dear. |
Re: How To Find Your Future Spouse by Dheartless: 6:28pm On Jan 18, 2015 |
EfemenaXY:too young? lol am almost .... and that pics? I was like 27 then some years back. I know am cute ,I would have shown a pics of my face but you know how it is on here. my studies? you know the answer by now. marriage? not sure if am ready, but I know it wount be too long from now. you see I like cash and I want to make a lot while am still single but that doesn't mean I cant keep a girl while doing that, infact I feel any lady who is ready to stand by me while am building life is a girl worth spending forever with. 1 Like |
Re: How To Find Your Future Spouse by EfemenaXY: 6:36pm On Jan 18, 2015 |
Dheartless: Well then, in that case, you need to take a step back and look deep within yourself. What sort of vibes are you sending out? How do you come across to the ladies when you meet them? First impressions do last long. That aside, if you're sending out the wrong message, then you're bound to attract the wrong sort of girl. |
Re: How To Find Your Future Spouse by Nobody: 6:46pm On Jan 18, 2015 |
obowunmi: Because i dnt know what to say. |
Re: How To Find Your Future Spouse by Dheartless: 6:51pm On Jan 18, 2015 |
maryhaam:you see? now with this it shows that love is supposed to be mutual from the very beginning. I think if it is one sided then it must be infatuation or lust that's why don't get excited when I see someone who am attracted to and she pretends like she's blind when am around ( later they will say the guy was not showing interest) I might just steal a chance since we are on same page or are you one of those who suddenly turn an angel meant for God at the slightest complement? just joking you look good though |
Re: How To Find Your Future Spouse by Dheartless: 7:17pm On Jan 18, 2015 |
EfemenaXY:is not like I always end up with bad girls but I don't think I was ever in love with them. (well most are not really good as most of them mostly care about marriage and sex) so am starting to think maybe they have their hidden intention for even coming close in the first. maybe the solution would be for me to try locate a girl I feel attraction for. so I think I will keep the first impression in mind. so I don't come across as too cold or too desperate just as carefree advised the truth is i think most of those sexy and responsible ladies see me a player but I don't why, not like I flaunt girls around. although I have a lot of female friends thanks anyway |
Re: How To Find Your Future Spouse by obowunmi(m): 8:45pm On Jan 18, 2015 |
Sophyrocks: I am interested in you if you will permit me. |
Re: How To Find Your Future Spouse by okotv(m): 8:52pm On Jan 18, 2015 |
well since I have to get married to keep my body from getting burnt, I will simply ask God as I have being doing for a good woman. All this dating and all that is time wasting to me and I wont be testing ladies about. I need to change my orientation about ladies before its too late sha. |
Re: How To Find Your Future Spouse by bukatyne(f): 9:03pm On Jan 18, 2015 |
okotv: What is your orientation towards ladies? |
Re: How To Find Your Future Spouse by maryhaam(f): 9:08pm On Jan 18, 2015 |
Dheartless:is not dere fault,u can't convince someone who want a q10 to like q5 the feature he or she is looking for,no one knows......all I know is love hs to be balanced when is one sided,d effort wil b from one syd,thanks for d compliment,looool 1 Like |
Re: How To Find Your Future Spouse by okotv(m): 9:13pm On Jan 18, 2015 |
bukatyne:its becoming too much ......(just me thinking aloud)... I don't fancy ladies. They kinda bore me. A past life experience though. Am getting over it but then... Let me illustrate...if I see a lady anywhere, no matter how beautiful or caring I look out for faults. Cause of my analytical mind, I find faults easily and then the feelings poof......hope you get sha ?? |
Re: How To Find Your Future Spouse by bukatyne(f): 9:17pm On Jan 18, 2015 |
okotv: Past life ke? YOU Don come world before Why are you fault finding? Would like to hear your previous experiences and start from there 1 Like |
Re: How To Find Your Future Spouse by Nobody: 9:20pm On Jan 18, 2015 |
Hmmmm interesting. |
Re: How To Find Your Future Spouse by okotv(m): 9:26pm On Jan 18, 2015 |
bukatyne:life is a journey. An experience along the way. I don't fault find humans but in terms of relationship with the opposite, I think my mind isn't ready yet cause even if I have met her, she wouldn't stand chance. Well I was accused (over accused ) because of what happened between myself and a girl then. Was very young then. The hate developed and could have been minimal but I attended a boys only school, boarding house for that matter and that worsened and strained my relationship with the opposite. |
Re: How To Find Your Future Spouse by bukatyne(f): 9:28pm On Jan 18, 2015 |
okotv: OK then, do you care to share? |
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