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Re: My Husband Thinks I Lied 2 Him About My Virginity Bcz I Didnt Bleed The 1st Time by Nobody: 6:31pm On Jan 20, 2015
imsuboi:
No offense.. Your husband is an illiterate like Buhari undecided
some people will die of heart attack after febuhari 14 seriously.

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Re: My Husband Thinks I Lied 2 Him About My Virginity Bcz I Didnt Bleed The 1st Time by eminent007(m): 6:31pm On Jan 20, 2015
12ema:
Some men are really weird. They sleep with everything in skirts and expect to marry a virgin. I wonder what goes on their warped male machismo minds. Do they think they are the only player in town? Whoever expects to marry a virgin in this day and age is totally naive. If you find one all when and good but if not, suck it up.

sure u meant to say "All well and good"
Re: My Husband Thinks I Lied 2 Him About My Virginity Bcz I Didnt Bleed The 1st Time by amokeme(f): 6:31pm On Jan 20, 2015
freeboy604:


What is awkward about this issue? What of ladies who discuss with their Mother-Inlaw by informing them that their husband refused to make love to them because is one thing or the other, will you also discredit my submission? Is just that some of you are still inexperienced in this matter.
this one is totally different naw.. You can't rank the two together... If you are then its like saying there is nothing wrong in telling the mother in law to talk to her husband for her, that she was disvirgined at age 4.. It doesn't work that way at all
She should talk to the husband about it herself. That's all am saying
Re: My Husband Thinks I Lied 2 Him About My Virginity Bcz I Didnt Bleed The 1st Time by delors(m): 6:31pm On Jan 20, 2015
Here's my take:
How did you guys first have yoga? If on your first time (with him), you guys used lubricants (KY jelly for instance), there might not be blood.
If you guts tried several times before he finally gained admission into the tertiary institution, and in the process of trying, you guys used fingers, etc with lubricants, there might not be blood.
Most lubricants are prepared to ease pain and enhance penetration without pain or blood.
It's like modern technology where woman now give birth without feeling a single pain. Yes. Check Google .
However, if the bros na rough rider like DMX, and he didn't use any lubricant on first attempt, and truly nobody else don gain admission into that school before, then my sister, at least one drop of blood suppose confirm your virginity in that case.


All from personal expi

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Re: My Husband Thinks I Lied 2 Him About My Virginity Bcz I Didnt Bleed The 1st Time by whysquare4real(m): 6:32pm On Jan 20, 2015
imsuboi:
No offense.. Your husband is an illiterate like Buhari undecided
Must you abuse Buhari on every thread. Am compiling the list of those of you that ar abusing Buhari for future reference/purpose. As for d OP, Let your mother be ur witness.
Re: My Husband Thinks I Lied 2 Him About My Virginity Bcz I Didnt Bleed The 1st Time by legendromex: 6:33pm On Jan 20, 2015
[b][/b][color=#770077][/color]I am a victim of the same as the husband. I met this lady who told me that she is a virgin and we dated 4 one year just for me to go down with her and no blood showed up. I asked her and she said that maybe she has lost it during the time she was into gymnastic and football. Should I believe her
Re: My Husband Thinks I Lied 2 Him About My Virginity Bcz I Didnt Bleed The 1st Time by cocopuffs(f): 6:34pm On Jan 20, 2015
Most females don't bleed on their first Sexual inercourse just explain to him or best get a doc speciallized in (OBGYN) to do the explano plus tell him of d issue ur mom told u and that u just got to know when this issue of your virginity came up if he married you as a trohpy you will know or if he married you cause he loved you, you will also know.
Re: My Husband Thinks I Lied 2 Him About My Virginity Bcz I Didnt Bleed The 1st Time by ogawisdom(m): 6:34pm On Jan 20, 2015
lipsrsealed hmmm u were disvirgined at 4yrs. I hop ur hubby can related to dt n understand u neva knew. Someone shld explain this to him. But a primary virgin lik u is supposed to bleed bc of hw tight ur VJ shld b tongue

D man may ve married u bc u claim to b virgin or may ve dated u for yrs without sex only for u to serve him this undecided

Explain things to him n goodluck
Re: My Husband Thinks I Lied 2 Him About My Virginity Bcz I Didnt Bleed The 1st Time by enioladeran: 6:36pm On Jan 20, 2015
Good ridings to him if u permit me. Do you have to die before he know u're a virgin. All I saw was a pinch of blood when I did it and I did not show my main till date and its been 13 years now
Re: My Husband Thinks I Lied 2 Him About My Virginity Bcz I Didnt Bleed The 1st Time by Onyinyechi1008: 6:36pm On Jan 20, 2015
rexkexmilan:
Your husband have come from mercury for him to expect to marry a virgin. At this 21 century??

And you from pluto to think that there are no virgins out there
Re: My Husband Thinks I Lied 2 Him About My Virginity Bcz I Didnt Bleed The 1st Time by tunapius(m): 6:36pm On Jan 20, 2015
U2ice:


Well in ma opinion, gainin ur trust bac is very paramount so I fink ur mum shud do d work of explainin 2ur husband...cos if I b ur hubby I no go believ ur good mornin o
Meanwhile nt every1 bleeds on dia 1st time
Re: My Husband Thinks I Lied 2 Him About My Virginity Bcz I Didnt Bleed The 1st Time by motherlode: 6:37pm On Jan 20, 2015
imsuboi:
No offense.. Your husband is an illiterate like Buhari undecided
No offense............. yet this illiterate has achieved what many literates like you couldn't!
Re: My Husband Thinks I Lied 2 Him About My Virginity Bcz I Didnt Bleed The 1st Time by Bonethugss: 6:42pm On Jan 20, 2015
This is weird, I thought guys would prefer it without the blood, wouldn't that be some nasty Shi.t... Staining the sheets and all....
Re: My Husband Thinks I Lied 2 Him About My Virginity Bcz I Didnt Bleed The 1st Time by Nobody: 6:44pm On Jan 20, 2015
amokeme:
this one is totally different naw.. You can't rank the two together... If you are then its like saying there is nothing wrong in telling the mother in law to talk to her husband for her, that she was disvirgined at age 4.. It doesn't work that way at all
She should talk to the husband about it herself. That's all am saying

Ok, but I urge you to kindly look at the number of people that like my submission while the other guy was insulting me.
Re: My Husband Thinks I Lied 2 Him About My Virginity Bcz I Didnt Bleed The 1st Time by silibaba: 6:45pm On Jan 20, 2015
just go ahead and tell ur hubby, if he truly loves you, he will certainly believe you sad
jaelz:
I'm a young girl of 28 years. I'm married to a lovely husband that loves me so much but my problem is this. I married my hubby as a virgin but the first time we made love, he was expecting to see blood which he didn't and since then he has been accusing me of telling him lies about being a virgin.
I asked few of my friends and they told me that yes that blood is suppose to be a proof to that. I became more confused as I know deep down in me that am saying the truth. I confided in my mother and she told me the story of my life.
My mum said that when I was 4years old that our tenant called me into his room to come and take toys. The next thing she saw when I came out from the man's room was blood coming out from my vagina.
Immediately she called my father and they went to meet the man and lo and behold he had ran away. My problem now is should I explain to my hubby all this? Will he still love me? My readers please i need your honest advice.
Re: My Husband Thinks I Lied 2 Him About My Virginity Bcz I Didnt Bleed The 1st Time by romzyxy(m): 6:47pm On Jan 20, 2015
FynBabe:
cheesy cheesy :DI can't stop laughing @ this comment. The guy must be high on something very strong to have suggested such a thing. I'm trying really hard to imagine how the dIscussion would start.


lol.......nt is fault he took indian hemp.
Re: My Husband Thinks I Lied 2 Him About My Virginity Bcz I Didnt Bleed The 1st Time by Bsc(m): 6:47pm On Jan 20, 2015
u sabi lie...e b lik ur husband na nairalander..dats y u saying dis shit...all the time u bathe..from kid to adult u never knew ur open..fat lie...from 6yr old according to science d human begins to memorize events..
Re: My Husband Thinks I Lied 2 Him About My Virginity Bcz I Didnt Bleed The 1st Time by amokeme(f): 6:48pm On Jan 20, 2015
freeboy604:


Ok, but I urge you to kindly look at the number of people that like my submission while the other guy was insulting me.
what has that got to do with me undecided
Re: My Husband Thinks I Lied 2 Him About My Virginity Bcz I Didnt Bleed The 1st Time by GoodFaith: 6:48pm On Jan 20, 2015
jaelz:
I'm a young girl of 28 years. I'm married to a lovely husband that loves me so much but my problem is this. I married my hubby as a virgin but the first time we made love, he was expecting to see blood which he didn't and since then he has been accusing me of telling him lies about being a virgin.
I asked few of my friends and they told me that yes that blood is suppose to be a proof to that. I became more confused as I know deep down in me that am saying the truth. I confided in my mother and she told me the story of my life.
My mum said that when I was 4years old that our tenant called me into his room to come and take toys. The next thing she saw when I came out from the man's room was blood coming out from my vagina.
Immediately she called my father and they went to meet the man and lo and behold he had ran away. My problem now is should I explain to my hubby all this? Will he still love me? My readers please i need your honest advice.
Husband is worried about if you are a virgin?
He need to pray and hope you are a good women that will bring him joy
I understand he might have some expectation but
now you are husband and wife
Re: My Husband Thinks I Lied 2 Him About My Virginity Bcz I Didnt Bleed The 1st Time by Nobody: 6:49pm On Jan 20, 2015
imsuboi:
No offense.. Your husband is an illiterate like Buhari undecided


What bring about Buhari in this matter, and why are stupid pple liking your comment. If you can't advise her don't play with her feelings.
Re: My Husband Thinks I Lied 2 Him About My Virginity Bcz I Didnt Bleed The 1st Time by romzyxy(m): 6:50pm On Jan 20, 2015
freeboy604:


Only if you are not a toddler, you would have understand that I have the right to make my submission and not to be insulted, and I wish my second young brother could see you in person, you would have learn to make your contributions and not insult others.

hahahahahahahahahah....guy ur comment is way 2 funny. r u a comedian or something?
Re: My Husband Thinks I Lied 2 Him About My Virginity Bcz I Didnt Bleed The 1st Time by saxtinz(m): 6:51pm On Jan 20, 2015
jaelz:
I'm a young girl of 28 years. I'm married to a lovely husband that loves me so much but my problem is this. I married my hubby as a virgin but the first time we made love, he was expecting to see blood which he didn't and since then he has been accusing me of telling him lies about being a virgin.
I asked few of my friends and they told me that yes that blood is suppose to be a proof to that. I became more confused as I know deep down in me that am saying the truth. I confided in my mother and she told me the story of my life.
My mum said that when I was 4years old that our tenant called me into his room to come and take toys. The next thing she saw when I came out from the man's room was blood coming out from my vagina.
Immediately she called my father and they went to meet the man and lo and behold he had ran away. My problem now is should I explain to my hubby all this? Will he still love me? My readers please i need your honest advice.
u been dealt with at 4 till 28,u should be tight as ever,if he feels d natural tightness of ur pu*** and ur reactions towards d whole exercise when he was doing it,they should be able to convince him,no bleeding type is strange to me o,but that clicks a further reseach button icon on my system,never bring in any third party to d matter.
Re: My Husband Thinks I Lied 2 Him About My Virginity Bcz I Didnt Bleed The 1st Time by DWJOBScom(m): 6:51pm On Jan 20, 2015
imsuboi:
No offense.. Your husband is an illiterate like Buhari undecided

Chai chai......daris God o o o
And he's watching you in HD
Re: My Husband Thinks I Lied 2 Him About My Virginity Bcz I Didnt Bleed The 1st Time by kushsy: 6:52pm On Jan 20, 2015
soulglo:


We are gathered here today to discuss emm, emmm. Okay before we start let us pray grin
. Am sure they are igbos from anambra...the man no go gree. so let a Doc explain to him cos. The abuse thing would worst hit for him.
Re: My Husband Thinks I Lied 2 Him About My Virginity Bcz I Didnt Bleed The 1st Time by Muhsinkhan(m): 6:52pm On Jan 20, 2015
;DYoung girl of 28 years...
Re: My Husband Thinks I Lied 2 Him About My Virginity Bcz I Didnt Bleed The 1st Time by Nobody: 6:54pm On Jan 20, 2015
jaelz:
I'm a young girl of 28 years. I'm married to a lovely husband that loves me so much but my problem is this. I married my hubby as a virgin but the first time we made love, he was expecting to see blood which he didn't and since then he has been accusing me of telling him lies about being a virgin.
I asked few of my friends and they told me that yes that blood is suppose to be a proof to that. I became more confused as I know deep down in me that am saying the truth. I confided in my mother and she told me the story of my life.
My mum said that when I was 4years old that our tenant called me into his room to come and take toys. The next thing she saw when I came out from the man's room was blood coming out from my vagina.
Immediately she called my father and they went to meet the man and lo and behold he had ran away. My problem now is should I explain to my hubby all this? Will he still love me? My readers please i need your honest advice.


Your virginity was your pride as a wife and his pride as a man is to break it. So he may not be happy finding it not so. Sorry about it. Tell him to see your mom or dad.

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Re: My Husband Thinks I Lied 2 Him About My Virginity Bcz I Didnt Bleed The 1st Time by bandol(m): 6:56pm On Jan 20, 2015
@jaelz :Masturbation/Finger.ing or hard labour could also be the cause.
Re: My Husband Thinks I Lied 2 Him About My Virginity Bcz I Didnt Bleed The 1st Time by Nobody: 6:57pm On Jan 20, 2015
imsuboi:
No offense.. Your husband is an illiterate like Buhari undecided
...what has Buhari's level of intelligence get to do with any lady's virginity?
Re: My Husband Thinks I Lied 2 Him About My Virginity Bcz I Didnt Bleed The 1st Time by tunapius(m): 6:57pm On Jan 20, 2015
His hope is dashed to the Air..... Ayam so so sorry for him....Op, he may find it hard to forgive you but the state of ur "box 18"{narrow/wide} will judge his steps
Re: My Husband Thinks I Lied 2 Him About My Virginity Bcz I Didnt Bleed The 1st Time by creepsyme(f): 6:59pm On Jan 20, 2015
did he marry u becos he loved u or becos u were a virgin?
Re: My Husband Thinks I Lied 2 Him About My Virginity Bcz I Didnt Bleed The 1st Time by Nnachi404(m): 7:02pm On Jan 20, 2015
jaelz:
I'm a young girl of 28 years. I'm married to a lovely husband that loves me so much but my problem is this. I married my hubby as a virgin but the first time we made love, he was expecting to see blood which he didn't and since then he has been accusing me of telling him lies about being a virgin.
I asked few of my friends and they told me that yes that blood is suppose to be a proof to that. I became more confused as I know deep down in me that am saying the truth. I confided in my mother and she told me the story of my life.
My mum said that when I was 4years old that our tenant called me into his room to come and take toys. The next thing she saw when I came out from the man's room was blood coming out from my vagina.
Immediately she called my father and they went to meet the man and lo and behold he had ran away. My problem now is should I explain to my hubby all this? Will he still love me? My readers please i need your honest advice.
huuuuim you story na lie there is GoDooooooo

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