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Re: Common Problems Nigerians Living Abroad Face From Relatives by ijechikky(f): 1:03pm On Jan 22, 2015 |
Weda na my broda,fada or evn fiancee dey abroad na large expectations o! i no send any1........ |
Re: Common Problems Nigerians Living Abroad Face From Relatives by noblealuu: 1:03pm On Jan 22, 2015 |
oge4real: Ok eh!!! No wonder... ![]() |
Re: Common Problems Nigerians Living Abroad Face From Relatives by Celepope: 1:04pm On Jan 22, 2015 |
Na many of these things dey let me fear to go Naija.After hustling from January to November,with plenty overtime,some people go tanda dey wait for Area make I buy different Jordan Air for them and still come buy them shayo everyday for the two weeks when I won spend for December..Hunger really dey for street...o ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: Common Problems Nigerians Living Abroad Face From Relatives by mya1: 1:05pm On Jan 22, 2015 |
pickabeau1: That's where you are wrong! It's the poor folks at home that have a warped mentality that you pick money from the streets of obodo oyinbo(when they are not pickabeau-pun intended) hence their incessant requests. I remember a gateman we had a long time ago whose son travelled to one of the EU countries, would you believe that just three days after the son departed, papa was already writing letter to him to send money- his siblings school fees are due, his mother's store needs restocking- shoo. Needless to say the son was deported barely a week later. During one of my visits home, I was with my friend one day when his mum called. What she said, "didn't she bring anything for us?" I was only a student oooooooo and still had my own family to attend to not to talk of external parties.. I was so pissed . 17 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Common Problems Nigerians Living Abroad Face From Relatives by noblealuu: 1:06pm On Jan 22, 2015 |
ijechikky: Noted! Wil alwayz oblige ur requests when I get there nxt yr ![]() |
Re: Common Problems Nigerians Living Abroad Face From Relatives by Nobody: 1:08pm On Jan 22, 2015 |
Nice write up |
Re: Common Problems Nigerians Living Abroad Face From Relatives by ijechikky(f): 1:09pm On Jan 22, 2015 |
noblealuu:What am i seein? |
Re: Common Problems Nigerians Living Abroad Face From Relatives by Nobody: 1:10pm On Jan 22, 2015 |
D last time i travelled to Italy, one of my friend did sumtin dat surprised me, his fone waz ringing nd i asked him y he waz nt pickin up his call, bt d response i got waz; "itz from Nigeria" and i waz like; and so ![]() 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Common Problems Nigerians Living Abroad Face From Relatives by tellwisdom: 1:11pm On Jan 22, 2015 |
KanwuliaJara: 650k in 12 years?? ![]() ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Common Problems Nigerians Living Abroad Face From Relatives by misreal(m): 1:15pm On Jan 22, 2015 |
KanwuliaJara:tah ![]() |
Re: Common Problems Nigerians Living Abroad Face From Relatives by mutter(f): 1:15pm On Jan 22, 2015 |
tellwisdom:I think she meant the kids are under 12 years. That was a kind gesture comming from her part! ..and getting rid of the contact was a wise decision! 15 Likes |
Re: Common Problems Nigerians Living Abroad Face From Relatives by noblealuu: 1:15pm On Jan 22, 2015 |
Re: Common Problems Nigerians Living Abroad Face From Relatives by misreal(m): 1:16pm On Jan 22, 2015 |
ijechikky:hahahahahah..original naija woman.. ![]() ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Common Problems Nigerians Living Abroad Face From Relatives by BERNHARDT(m): 1:17pm On Jan 22, 2015 |
When you live a fake life style, doing things beyond yoir reach,you will always be frustrated and a victim of competitive life 4 Likes |
Re: Common Problems Nigerians Living Abroad Face From Relatives by Nobody: 1:17pm On Jan 22, 2015 |
forming wify tins ; :lol tzoracle: |
Re: Common Problems Nigerians Living Abroad Face From Relatives by chrisviral(m): 1:17pm On Jan 22, 2015 |
tellwisdom: English, he said.. A couple with five children under 12 years. 650k 2 years ago. ![]() ![]() 15 Likes |
Re: Common Problems Nigerians Living Abroad Face From Relatives by pickabeau1: 1:19pm On Jan 22, 2015 |
Continue... mya1: |
Re: Common Problems Nigerians Living Abroad Face From Relatives by Nobody: 1:19pm On Jan 22, 2015 |
when u send money to nigeria to invest in projects like building, them go chop ur money 10 Likes |
Re: Common Problems Nigerians Living Abroad Face From Relatives by ijechikky(f): 1:21pm On Jan 22, 2015 |
misreal:Lol.....dey dia na ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Common Problems Nigerians Living Abroad Face From Relatives by deskossy(m): 1:21pm On Jan 22, 2015 |
Everybody asking for money. ...friends, families. .immediate and extended family. .how many people u gogo send....i just tire 3 Likes |
Re: Common Problems Nigerians Living Abroad Face From Relatives by tociano009(m): 1:22pm On Jan 22, 2015 |
That is why I even deactivated my Facebook, I came to Germany not up to a year, person that never talk to me before start to ask me how I can help him to invitation letter,. Many things ![]() ![]() 4 Likes |
Re: Common Problems Nigerians Living Abroad Face From Relatives by sanmibukunmi: 1:22pm On Jan 22, 2015 |
KanwuliaJara:lol.............people are wicked ooo. na them send you go abroad ni abi u get share for the kids wey them born............ ![]() ![]() |
Re: Common Problems Nigerians Living Abroad Face From Relatives by ijechikky(f): 1:22pm On Jan 22, 2015 |
noblealuu:Aluu ![]() |
Re: Common Problems Nigerians Living Abroad Face From Relatives by misreal(m): 1:24pm On Jan 22, 2015 |
ijechikky:abeg anytime the packages reach,make u no forget me oh,shey ayam ya fwend ![]() ![]() |
Re: Common Problems Nigerians Living Abroad Face From Relatives by SFSNIPER(m): 1:26pm On Jan 22, 2015 |
My elder bro is a US marine but we d direct family don't stress him at all. In fact my dad has told him not to bother sending a dime or even "wasting" money coming home. Since 2006 he hasn't visited Naija. When he sends he does it big time. But if he sends u a record of mails he receives for assistance u will pity him. Even me who is a private soldier I have seen hell in the hands of friends. My relatives don't even ask for a dime. But friends and classmates are the ones asking. The most recent is a gal who is from a very wealthy family(dads bro was a federal director and dad is an oil big boy) and uses an iPhone6+ but asked me for 3k. So I wonder if she is just greedy. 20 Likes |
Re: Common Problems Nigerians Living Abroad Face From Relatives by Ilekeh(f): 1:27pm On Jan 22, 2015 |
tzoracle: None of these are my problems. The know my parent's numbers......... Just thinking about it......no one asks me for anything. Na wa oh Dem think say I be meanie? I remember when my cousins used to ask when I was a teen......I think message was received. ![]() |
Re: Common Problems Nigerians Living Abroad Face From Relatives by Nobody: 1:29pm On Jan 22, 2015 |
I need responsible and working class female friends in abuja on 29C329CA/08100392181. oge4real: |
Re: Common Problems Nigerians Living Abroad Face From Relatives by ijechikky(f): 1:30pm On Jan 22, 2015 |
misreal:U and who go share package's ![]() no lemme change am for u naw,,abi no be ya mates dey yankee dey hussle? |
Re: Common Problems Nigerians Living Abroad Face From Relatives by eagleeye2: 1:32pm On Jan 22, 2015 |
I guess these problems are for those who have hungry and low esteemed relatives. for someone with self respect, and I am not crippled why should I always bother another person? 3 Likes |
Re: Common Problems Nigerians Living Abroad Face From Relatives by tellwisdom: 1:33pm On Jan 22, 2015 |
chrisviral: Eh 650k in 2years..Is she not still poor?? ![]() |
Re: Common Problems Nigerians Living Abroad Face From Relatives by noblealuu: 1:33pm On Jan 22, 2015 |
[quote author=ijechikky post=30027077]Aluu ![]() [/quote Yes that's humble me! ![]() But sorry I can't recollect ur face dear! |
Re: Common Problems Nigerians Living Abroad Face From Relatives by Nobody: 1:34pm On Jan 22, 2015 |
look at all of dem,shame on all of you complaining,if you notice dey are mostly ibo n few yorubas. Its a culture,some of you were sent abroad by pains frm dose relatives you so despise now,if its so bad out dere y dont you go back to naija?! I have friends dt ar abroad,dia family sold dia lands n even borrowed money to sponsor dem abroad and you hv d effrontery to say dey r disturbin you. Try dt in some families u go see pepper!. That is why i like the edo pple,wateva dey can do,dey will do. Any money i make i will send for my people because you will not live foreva overseas. Even if you die dere na dem go bury u. I know your types complaining,all dis janitors and burger joints workers. Rubbish. 11 Likes |
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