AyokunleRuth:
Nice one @op. you are sincere by telling us how the gal later turned you down. She had the last laff.

some guys will want to impress people and increase their sef esteem.
lemme just relax and read some lies.

observing clearly from ewedu tree

I didn't really have feelings for her but I enjoyed the way I kept her in suspense and torture her emotions. I remembered when her friend called and told me that she would like to see me. When we saw, she told me she didn't like the emotional torment I was giving her friend. She urged me to summon the courage and ask her out since I'm a guy but I told her I didn't understand what she was talking bout ( guys you know say u gat pretend na) wink

zick19:


Haven't i warned you not to climb that ewedu tree again If you fall down and break your leg, you think i will tell you sorry? Oya, get down from that tree right now!!!

firstEVA:


I only pity for girls who would openly display affection for a guy that does not 'send' them. To me its madness, guys are guys, they like to be the chasers, most times they are turned off from a girl that shows too much green light. ladies respect yourself and love only those who love you to avoid unnecessary embarrassment.

firstEVA:


I only pity for girls who would openly display affection for a guy that does not 'send' them. To me its madness, guys are guys, they like to be the chasers, most times they are turned off from a girl that shows too much green light. ladies respect yourself and love only those who love you to avoid unnecessary embarrassment.

firstEVA:


I only pity for girls who would openly display affection for a guy that does not 'send' them. To me its madness, guys are guys, they like to be the chasers, most times they are turned off from a girl that shows too much green light. ladies respect yourself and love only those who love you to avoid unnecessary embarrassment.

tosyne2much:
because I shared my experience abi ? Hehehe

tosyne2much:
We have heard so many stories of how dudes were turned down by the female folks.. I have also been turned down quite a number of times (let he who has never been turned down cast the first stone. Hehehe !!!)

In the recent time, dudes who turn down ladies' advances seem to take pleasure it in, maybe because it gives them reassurance of their self-worth, marketability, handsomeness, relevance and so on. You see some of them brag about it when with friends and raise their shoulders

Lemme keep the ball rolling

There was a lady who loved me so much and I knew it. I enjoyed the frequent calls, SMSes i received even though I wasn't ready for a date.. Guys you that feeling now, when you don't want to date a lady and she keeps doing things just to make herself liked

I didn't really have feelings for her but I enjoyed the way I kept her in suspense and torture her emotions. I remembered when her friend called and told me that she would like to see me. When we saw, she told me she didn't like the emotional torment I was giving her friend. She urged me to summon the courage and ask her out since I'm a guy but I told her I didn't understand what she was talking bout ( guys you know say u gat pretend na)

Fast-Fwd
It got to a point that she opened up that she liked me so much but I have just been showing no concern. That was how I told her that I understood all her signals and I knew she loved me, just that I had no atom of feelings for her ( I mean who tells a lady such ?) * guys make una no mind me oooo **

We lost contact and when we got to meet a year later, eeeewooo see Behind babe. I flashed back to that scene when I turned her down and I regreted it. I took the courage and asked her out and she ballantly turn me down too

Guys in the house, oya share your experiences

Note: Originality and honesty works rocks my boat, so don't cook up false stories just increase your esteem self on the forum

Oya let forming and claiming of fine boy begin

englishmart:
big boys don't get turned down.

Justeenaleo:

Baba oooo

AyokunleRuth:

sorry am short sighted. From here i can see clearly.
i won't fall.

thanks

Hazardd:


is not all guys dear,

i love those girls that show green light and thats shows that they love going to what they want, than dying in silent

Tallesty1:
I am here to read comments.

Not true, the only girl I ever loved was the one that asked me out. She didn't beat about the bush but I acted like I didn't know what she was talking about and asked her out weeks later just for her "ego's" sake. The relationship was great and lasted long but along the line she met another guy who is ahead of me financially and you know what? She asked him out same tactics she used to woo me.

That was how that one ended.

Another lady wooed me again, that was years ago, I turned her down peacefuly. There are others that I don't wanna talk about. They all have one thing in common, switching guys is so easy for them.

The reason we don't take them serious most times is because they will dump your azz when they see another nigga.

Most ladies that av the balls to ask guys out got cheating tendencies.

i totally agree with your post.

Most times we don't take them serious because at a point they may feel some sort of entitlement because they are the ones who asked you out. And so they feel they can also leave anytime they want to.

I'll also like to chip in that being asked out by a lady boosts some guys ego. Because no be everyday babe go come tell you say she like you o.

So we cherish the experience like Gold .

But it all boils down to how we handle it,,the fact that our egos are boosted doesn't mean we won't handle the matter maturely.