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Re: Ever Turned Down A Lady ? Guys Share Your Experiences by Nobody: 4:03pm On Jan 26, 2015
zick19:

Ok ooo.... If u say so, and dnt let those guyz to be looking at ur panties frm d bottom of d tree ooo
Gosh!!! must u sound nasty?
well am putting on trouser


NowRun along jare ya disturbing my observation
Re: Ever Turned Down A Lady ? Guys Share Your Experiences by tosyne2much(m): 4:04pm On Jan 26, 2015
naijaboiy:
Which one I wan talk about sef? cheesy

Shey na the ones wey happen for Nairaland abi for real life grin
hahahahahaha lwkmd grin

Oga nawa 4u ooooo.. Why you go share experience of person wey you turn down on this forum ? That's biazzare grin
Re: Ever Turned Down A Lady ? Guys Share Your Experiences by Nobody: 4:04pm On Jan 26, 2015
*clears throat*

d last one was during my NYSC. I No fit type long story now but I just couldn't give in despite d fact still we're v good friends. she understood and withdrew all of her advances and wooing.


We're still good friends though.
Re: Ever Turned Down A Lady ? Guys Share Your Experiences by Gooci(m): 4:04pm On Jan 26, 2015
naijaboiy:
Second space booked

but yur land is in rural area tongue
Re: Ever Turned Down A Lady ? Guys Share Your Experiences by Nobody: 4:08pm On Jan 26, 2015
naijaboiy:
Which one I wan talk about sef? cheesy

Shey na the ones wey happen for Nairaland abi for real life grin
the nairaland own grin
Re: Ever Turned Down A Lady ? Guys Share Your Experiences by Justeenaleo(f): 4:09pm On Jan 26, 2015
englishmart:
erh! Mama did you call me?
No
Go back to sleep, when you hear the call again say "speak lord for your servant is listening"




Stop lying.
Re: Ever Turned Down A Lady ? Guys Share Your Experiences by Nobody: 4:10pm On Jan 26, 2015
Tallesty1:
I am here to read comments.

Not true, the only girl I ever loved was the one that asked me out. She didn't beat about the bush but I acted like I didn't know what she was talking about and asked her out weeks later just for her "ego's" sake. The relationship was great and lasted long but along the line she met another guy who is ahead of me financially and you know what? She asked him out same tactics she used to woo me.

That was how that one ended.

Another lady wooed me again, that was years ago, I turned her down peacefuly. There are others that I don't wanna talk about. They all have one thing in common, switching guys is so easy for them.

The reason we don't take them serious most times is because they will dump your azz when they see another nigga.

Most ladies that av the balls to ask guys out got cheating tendencies.


Most ladies that av the balls to ask guys out got cheating tendencies"

You have said it all

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Re: Ever Turned Down A Lady ? Guys Share Your Experiences by Hazardd(m): 4:13pm On Jan 26, 2015
firstEVA:
so what happens when she shows all the green light and she's not your type?

i will not turn her down rather i will give her that respect for taking that bold step.

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Re: Ever Turned Down A Lady ? Guys Share Your Experiences by menix(m): 4:14pm On Jan 26, 2015
Turned down three so far.
Buh d very 1 dat pissed mii off was my colleague, i can neva do ofix romance thou d gal sef dirty.

She did not stop @ askin mii out only oo buh went further dat she kipz imagining us in bed.

Did not outrightly turn her down buh picked quarrel wiv her to ward her off until she left my branch..
Re: Ever Turned Down A Lady ? Guys Share Your Experiences by Nobody: 4:16pm On Jan 26, 2015
kallmemrB:
Funny thing is have turned like 2-3girls they always come around when am in a relationship....i don't double date so I do turn them down honorably and maturely....i became friends with some anyway..

Though I met one while I was single but I turned her down cos my friend was madly in love with her and he already asked her out...sometimes u got to respect the Bro code
we gat smtin in commo
Re: Ever Turned Down A Lady ? Guys Share Your Experiences by naijaboiy: 4:17pm On Jan 26, 2015
tosyne2much:
hahahahahaha lwkmd grin

Oga nawa 4u ooooo.. Why you go share experience of person wey you turn down on this forum ? That's biazzare grin
Lol...no mind me jare! grin

I don modify am sha!

Go read am
Re: Ever Turned Down A Lady ? Guys Share Your Experiences by naijaboiy: 4:18pm On Jan 26, 2015
Hazardd:


i will not turn her down rather i will give her that respect for taking that bold step.
We think alike wink

It's good to keep such people as friends except they choose to walk away.
Re: Ever Turned Down A Lady ? Guys Share Your Experiences by naijaboiy: 4:21pm On Jan 26, 2015
AgapeCharis:
the nairaland own grin
Hahaha...abeg I no wan cause wahala grin

Besides I don modify wink
Re: Ever Turned Down A Lady ? Guys Share Your Experiences by Nobody: 4:24pm On Jan 26, 2015
Hazardd:


i will not turn her down rather i will give her that respect for taking that bold step.
that's the problem, you will date her out of pity not out of genuine love or likeness. I can assure you that the day you find the girl you truly love, you will look for a very good reason to dump her, Fact.
Re: Ever Turned Down A Lady ? Guys Share Your Experiences by menix(m): 4:27pm On Jan 26, 2015
chaiii...
jst remembered dis gal i used to help her mum wen she comes to d ofix, later d mum wuld prefer sending her.

Dis very day i was attending to a customer she walked in wiv an enclosed letter that i should go tru it wen am less busy nd she left.

o boy!!! wen i opened it nah luv letter oo, immediately dis flash bak of luv letter dat i sent to som1 in secondary school nd she tore it cous of dat i no gree enta skool for one week.

well afta readin i jst zeroed my mind dat i cant advise a foe to attend OOU..

My colleagues nd i had a swell time reading it, well i called her to explain dat it cant work cous am in a relationship..
Re: Ever Turned Down A Lady ? Guys Share Your Experiences by Hazardd(m): 4:28pm On Jan 26, 2015
naijaboiy:

We think alike wink

It's good to keep such people as friends except they choose to walk away.

abi grin
Re: Ever Turned Down A Lady ? Guys Share Your Experiences by naijaboiy: 4:35pm On Jan 26, 2015
menix:
chaiii...
jst remembered dis gal i used to help her mum wen she comes to d ofix, later d mum wuld prefer sending her.

Dis very day i was attending to a customer she walked in wiv an enclosed letter that i should go tru it wen am less busy nd she left.

o boy!!! wen i opened it nah luv letter oo, immediately dis flash bak of luv letter dat i sent to som1 in secondary school nd she tore it cous of dat i no gree enta skool for one week.

well afta readin i jst zeroed my mind dat i cant advise a foe to attend OOU..

My colleagues nd i had a swell time reading it, well i called her to explain dat it cant work cous am in a relationship..
The babe go don cry tire grin
Re: Ever Turned Down A Lady ? Guys Share Your Experiences by agoadiv(m): 4:39pm On Jan 26, 2015
naijaboiy:
Which one I wan talk about sef? cheesy

Shey na the ones wey happen for Nairaland abi for real life grin

*mhurdified*
One of my experiences was the one that happened between my friends sister and i.

The girl stole my number from my friend's(her brother) phone and began to call me regularly. A day did not pass without her calling or texting to check up on me.

I was really playing nice but I felt uncomfortable because I started to notice the signs and I was not really into her. Besides I couldn't think of dating my friend's sister because it wasn't right to me. I also did not want to tell my friend in order not to bring up any trouble.

On one of the lengthy calls we made she told me how she really liked me and wouldn't mind if I ask her out. I was like "Wow..i saw this coming" I told her it didn't sound like a bad idea but her brother may not be Ok with it and i'm really cool being friends with her instead.

She felt dejected but still tried few more times and after she saw I wasn't giving in,, she let me be. We didn't talk for a very long time sha! Because she was hurt. After a while she came over it and we became friends again.

All these happened without her brother's knowledge.
it's only in Nigeria that a guy can put up a lie dis great for both male n female readers....

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Re: Ever Turned Down A Lady ? Guys Share Your Experiences by Hazardd(m): 4:40pm On Jan 26, 2015
firstEVA:
that's the problem, you will date her out of pity not out of genuine love or likeness. I can assure you that the day you find the girl you truly love, you will look for a very good reason to dump her, Fact.
maybe love can grow from there,love dont start in one day

it all depends on how she plays her game,after all we are all human beings we all have feelings
Re: Ever Turned Down A Lady ? Guys Share Your Experiences by Kedam(m): 4:41pm On Jan 26, 2015
Hazardd:


i will not turn her down rather i will give her that respect for taking that bold step.
Guy that's true. To most men a woman with the courage to ask a guy out is invaluable, most especially when they both feel love for each other.
Re: Ever Turned Down A Lady ? Guys Share Your Experiences by agoadiv(m): 4:41pm On Jan 26, 2015
menix:
chaiii...
jst remembered dis gal i used to help her mum wen she comes to d ofix, later d mum wuld prefer sending her.

Dis very day i was attending to a customer she walked in wiv an enclosed letter that i should go tru it wen am less busy nd she left.

o boy!!! wen i opened it nah luv letter oo, immediately dis flash bak of luv letter dat i sent to som1 in secondary school nd she tore it cous of dat i no gree enta skool for one week.

well afta readin i jst zeroed my mind dat i cant advise a foe to attend OOU..

My colleagues nd i had a swell time reading it, well i called her to explain dat it cant work cous am in a relationship..
another liar detected... una wan kill pesin for dis thread...#runs out of thread
Re: Ever Turned Down A Lady ? Guys Share Your Experiences by Emodeee: 4:44pm On Jan 26, 2015
AyokunleRuth:
Nice one @op. you are sincere by telling us how the gal later turned you down. She had the last laff.

some guys will want to impress people and increase their sef esteem.
lemme just relax and read some lies.

observing clearly from ewedu tree


Share hw a guy turned u down
Re: Ever Turned Down A Lady ? Guys Share Your Experiences by Maamin(m): 4:48pm On Jan 26, 2015
Have been wooed by a girl not even long ago but we couldnt just work together coz she lacks the quality i desire in a lady embarassed so we kept being friends anyway.

But i do respect girls that summon courage to ask a guy out..is a sign of strength and confidence to me wink

One of those things sha!
Re: Ever Turned Down A Lady ? Guys Share Your Experiences by valmunich(m): 4:48pm On Jan 26, 2015
I've had just few experiences...

My problem is that I don't know the exact words to use when turning down such proposal so I always post my reply till you get tired cool
Re: Ever Turned Down A Lady ? Guys Share Your Experiences by Nobody: 4:50pm On Jan 26, 2015
Emodeee:



Share hw a guy turned u down
lolzzzzzzzzzz
i have never been turned down. Moreover i don't ask guys out.
mummy taught me not to.
Re: Ever Turned Down A Lady ? Guys Share Your Experiences by Emodeee: 4:52pm On Jan 26, 2015
AyokunleRuth:

lolzzzzzzzzzz
i have never been turned down. Moreover i don't ask guys out.
mummy taught me not to.

Bt u gv green lights, ryt?
Re: Ever Turned Down A Lady ? Guys Share Your Experiences by valmunich(m): 4:54pm On Jan 26, 2015
Tallesty1:
I am here to read comments.

Not true, the only girl I ever loved was the one that asked me out. She didn't beat about the bush but I acted like I didn't know what she was talking about and asked her out weeks later just for her "ego's" sake. The relationship was great and lasted long but along the line she met another guy who is ahead of me financially and you know what? She asked him out same tactics she used to woo me.

That was how that one ended.

Another lady wooed me again, that was years ago, I turned her down peacefuly. There are others that I don't wanna talk about. They all have one thing in common, switching guys is so easy for them.

The reason we don't take them serious most times is because they will dump your azz when they see another nigga.

Most ladies that av the balls to ask guys out got cheating tendencies.

Dude must be a psychic

You just poured out what I had in mind
Re: Ever Turned Down A Lady ? Guys Share Your Experiences by Nobody: 4:57pm On Jan 26, 2015
Emodeee:


Bt u gv green lights, ryt?
what are green lights?
Re: Ever Turned Down A Lady ? Guys Share Your Experiences by Nobody: 4:58pm On Jan 26, 2015
Hazardd:

maybe love can grow from there,love dont start in one day

it all depends on how she plays her game,after all we are all human beings we all have feelings

story
Re: Ever Turned Down A Lady ? Guys Share Your Experiences by Tymax(m): 4:58pm On Jan 26, 2015
AyokunleRuth:

what are green lights?

Lol. Come, you're a player right? Breaking hearts anyhow.
Re: Ever Turned Down A Lady ? Guys Share Your Experiences by Emodeee: 4:59pm On Jan 26, 2015
AyokunleRuth:

what are green lights?


Ur body language
Re: Ever Turned Down A Lady ? Guys Share Your Experiences by Nobody: 5:03pm On Jan 26, 2015
So this is like a thread for guys to feel cool about them selves, lol, issokay. Even those that girls detest will still come here to say they turned down a girl grin

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