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Is This Ok???? by Tarteenah: 1:24pm On Jan 31, 2015
I'm really confused and don't even know what to do, so I don't be seen as an over reacting biach!

Long story short, I'm dating this guy iv known for 5years now, although we started dating 3months ago.

He has this cousin that more like a brother to him, but my problem is not the cousin but his gf.

She is too close to my bf I'm mean when she sees him the way she would jump and hug him is disturbing angry to add salt to the injury, she would kiss him on his cheeks Okay! Not the first time or second! She calls to check on him anyhow! I talked to my bf about it, he said that's how she has bin doing, since her bf is dere and she is doing it I should be calm

But hey! I'm a girl, I know how jezebels behave grin so pls what shd I do! Shd I just confront her straight up and tell her I don't like that? Or just be swallowing it i sad
Re: Is This Ok???? by Rulloor(m): 1:29pm On Jan 31, 2015
Lol.

You're overreacting.
Re: Is This Ok???? by Tarteenah: 1:31pm On Jan 31, 2015
Rulloor:
Lol.

You're overreacting.
angry embarassed
Re: Is This Ok???? by Tarteenah: 1:32pm On Jan 31, 2015
Tarteenah:
angry embarassed

So ul be comfy with your gf pecking and giving ur cousin deep hug shey?
Re: Is This Ok???? by Nobody: 1:36pm On Jan 31, 2015
Tarteenah:


So ul be comfy with your gf pecking and giving ur cousin deep hug shey?
tarteenah d guy is your man, go tell dah babe you dnt like the way she throws her self on him! Fullstop! Now gather d mind and do what I hav advised.
Re: Is This Ok???? by Rulloor(m): 1:37pm On Jan 31, 2015
Tarteenah:
angry embarassed
Lady, calm down. Ain't nothing going on.

Funny grin
Re: Is This Ok???? by TrishaP(f): 1:38pm On Jan 31, 2015
Lol I can only imagine such scenario. It's left for your bf to do something about it. Don't take laws into your hands dearie because you are just his girlfriend.
Re: Is This Ok???? by Les: 1:40pm On Jan 31, 2015
Rulloor:
Lol.

You're overreacting.
will you say same if the so called bf end up pounding the so called cousin's gf Op, since the cousin is aware, he's the only person you can meet who will then talk to his gf about it. You can't meet her directly cos of something she's been doing even before you came into the picture. I have a feeling that the possibility of you picking ur teeth from the ground with broken neck is directly proportional to you confronting her cos of this issue, be wise!!!

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Re: Is This Ok???? by Nobody: 1:40pm On Jan 31, 2015
Tarteenah:
angry embarassed

Chill jhor. Dnt drive him away wit your jealousy. You can also ask your bf's friend ow he feels about his girl friend's actions. If he is ok wit it, den chill
Re: Is This Ok???? by dstnd: 1:41pm On Jan 31, 2015
abeg u are not overreacting ur bf need to respect you as his gf....tell him your mind and if he insist get ur own cousin bf

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Re: Is This Ok???? by Rulloor(m): 1:42pm On Jan 31, 2015
Les:
will you say same if the so called bf end up pounding the so called cousin's gf Op, since the cousin is aware, he's the only person you can meet who will then talk to his gf about it. You can't meet her directly cos of something she's been doing even before you came into the picture. I have a feeling that the possibility of you picking ur teeth from the ground with broken neck is directly proportional to you confronting her cos of this issue, be wise!!!
Ladies... Smh. I believe it's just a harmless gesture. She likes him. It's cool.
Re: Is This Ok???? by Nobody: 1:43pm On Jan 31, 2015
dstnd:
abeg u are not overreacting ur bf need to respect you as his gf....tell him your mind and if he insist get ur own cousin bf
two wrongs can't make a right, u knw dat right?
Re: Is This Ok???? by Lisaflex(f): 1:44pm On Jan 31, 2015
Confront her? Nah! dt'll jes mk u d biatch u do not wnt 2 be called...If ur bf doesn't let her do all d cray stuff she does 2/with him,she wouldn't dare..Apparently, ur bf is njoyin it n letting her do it,so its him u should hv an ish wt n not d gyal...Ask ur bf 2 call her 2 order n be firm abt it

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Re: Is This Ok???? by Tallesty1(m): 1:45pm On Jan 31, 2015
Cheats no dey allow girls to near their bf at all.
Re: Is This Ok???? by Tarteenah: 1:46pm On Jan 31, 2015
Cutehector4u:
tarteenah d guy is your man, go tell dah babe you dnt like the way she throws her self on him! Fullstop! Now gather d mind and do what I hav advised.


Thank you so much
Re: Is This Ok???? by dstnd: 1:46pm On Jan 31, 2015
Cutehector4u:
two wrongs can't make a right, u knw dat right?
bros nah joke I deh joke oooo
Re: Is This Ok???? by Nobody: 1:46pm On Jan 31, 2015
dstnd:
bros nah joke I deh joke oooo
hehe I ce u.
Re: Is This Ok???? by Nobody: 1:47pm On Jan 31, 2015
Tarteenah:



Thank you so much
u r most welcome.
Re: Is This Ok???? by Tarteenah: 1:48pm On Jan 31, 2015
TrishaP:
Lol I can only imagine such scenario. It's left for your bf to do something about it. Don't take laws into your hands dearie because you are just his girlfriend.

Thanks dear, tot abt that too! But he is like "she is doing it in front of my cousin and you, so it's in the open, nothing is in her mind" imagine! I knw that biach is up to something
Re: Is This Ok???? by olexjay(m): 1:49pm On Jan 31, 2015
@OP.

Don't go up to her that might sound rude and immature, you can just talk to your boyfriend and let him know you don't really like that and if he truly love you then he should also respect you and try to withdrawn himself from all those stuffs atleast the girl should also put herself in your shoe
Re: Is This Ok???? by Tarteenah: 1:50pm On Jan 31, 2015
dicefrost:


Chill jhor. Dnt drive him away wit your jealousy. You can also ask your bf's friend ow he feels about his girl friend's actions. If he is ok wit it, den chill

My dear she has bin doing it in his presence eversince!i know he doesn't mind or is not talking! But I feel that girl is up to something! No girl with pure heart wud be doing that
Re: Is This Ok???? by dstnd: 1:52pm On Jan 31, 2015
Cutehector4u:
hehe I ce u.
I sight you bro
Re: Is This Ok???? by Nobody: 1:54pm On Jan 31, 2015
dstnd:
I sight you bro
with telescope abi? grin
Re: Is This Ok???? by Tarteenah: 1:55pm On Jan 31, 2015
Rulloor:

Ladies... Smh. I believe it's just a harmless gesture. She likes him. It's cool.
So if it's your gf, it's still going to be termed "harmless gesture" by you right?
Re: Is This Ok???? by dstnd: 1:56pm On Jan 31, 2015
Cutehector4u:
with telescope abi? grin
hahahhahahahahah.....microwave
Re: Is This Ok???? by Tarteenah: 1:56pm On Jan 31, 2015
olexjay:
@OP.

Don't go up to her that might sound rude and immature, you can just talk to your boyfriend and let him know you don't really like that and if he truly love you then he should also respect you and try to withdrawn himself from all those stuffs atleast the girl should also put herself in your shoe

Shebi?
Re: Is This Ok???? by Tarteenah: 1:59pm On Jan 31, 2015
Tallesty1:
Cheats no dey allow girls to near their bf at all.
This post is just showing how shallow ur reasoning is....like how did dis make sense?
Re: Is This Ok???? by olexjay(m): 2:00pm On Jan 31, 2015
Tarteenah:


Shebi?
dnt understand yhu
Re: Is This Ok???? by Tallesty1(m): 2:00pm On Jan 31, 2015
Tarteenah:

This post is just showing how shallow ur reasoning is....like how did dis make sense?
I may not make sense to cheats
Re: Is This Ok???? by Nobody: 2:09pm On Jan 31, 2015
This is not for you to bully an innocent gial. Tell your bf what you don't like, that's if you are not just jealous and paranoid.

Much ado about nothing!
Re: Is This Ok???? by Maamin(m): 2:13pm On Jan 31, 2015
Op. This is a trivial matter na! grin

Solution: whenever the cousin's babe jumps and hug and kiss your boyfriend..you, quickly reach down to your boyfriends zipper, pull out his abuna and give him a head in front of the biatch...you really need to set a pace for her..common life is competition na!

Thank me later for this cool *sips fayrouz*
Re: Is This Ok???? by misfab(f): 2:18pm On Jan 31, 2015
i really think u re overreactn babes. she kisses him on d cheek?..nuthn der. plus she has her own man. since u v talked to ur man abt it,i think u shuld just relax. Guess shes all these overzealous xtrovert of a gurl.

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