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Message From A Heart Broken Friend by LarryTreash(m): 5:36pm On Feb 02, 2015 |
BE PROUD OF SOMEONE WHO LOVES YOU, WHO HAS YOUR TIME & WHO CARES ABOUT YOU! Some people don’t know how lucky and blessed they’re with their partners. They take their love for granted. They’re not proud of them at all. They see less value in their care and efforts. They always stress them, they disappoint them and they enjoy making them cry and plead. They make them regret why they fell in love with them because of the hurting things they do to them. But I pity those careless and heartless people. They don’t know that someone is out there single and searching for someone like they’re blessed with. They don’t know that what they take to be worthless, someone out there takes it to be precious. They don’t know that somebody is out there praying to God every night and day to help them find someone like the one they have. They don’t know that someone is out there ready to rub their partners tears and to give them everlasting love. My friends, If you got someone who truly adores you without any measure, who cares about you, who is proud of you, who shares the little s/he has got with you, who has fear of losing you, who takes you to be precious, who likes to make you happy, who has your time, who introduced you to his/her friends and family, who is willing to marry you and make a happy home with you, who is understanding, forgiving and patient with you. Please keep that person. Appreciate what they do for you and give them your undying love. Don’t give them reasons to doubt you. Don’t allow small arguments tear you apart. In case they happen, resolve them and push on with your partner. If you need to adjust in some things so that your relationship stays on track, please do it. If it needs to drop some habits like smoking, boozing, going out late nights, and taking any illegal drugs please do it for the sake of your relationship/marriage. If it needs you to limit yourself from some friends of bad influence so as to keep your relationship on a straight road, please do it. Do whatever it takes to make your relationship work. The onus is on you not anyone else. So play your part well and you’ll live in a happy and healthy relationship or marriage. Lastly but not the least, always include God in your relationship and He’ll protect it, shape it and make it last forever. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Message From A Heart Broken Friend by agarawu23(m): 5:39pm On Feb 02, 2015 |
only strong niggas fall in love in case of hrt brk |
Re: Message From A Heart Broken Friend by naijaboiy: 5:40pm On Feb 02, 2015 |
Ok thanks for this message! |
Re: Message From A Heart Broken Friend by Shugaryme(f): 5:46pm On Feb 02, 2015 |
Awwww... noted. btw, who broke your heart? gist us na... |
Re: Message From A Heart Broken Friend by prettyjo(f): 5:46pm On Feb 02, 2015 |
#word# |
Re: Message From A Heart Broken Friend by Nobody: 5:55pm On Feb 02, 2015 |
Why is it hard for a nice guy to be loved whole heartedly in return? Is it too hard to ask for |
Re: Message From A Heart Broken Friend by tpiaobsession: 5:57pm On Feb 02, 2015 |
Cutehector4u: Don't be going around with your heart on your sleeve bro. Stop putting people on guilt trips. |
Re: Message From A Heart Broken Friend by Nobody: 6:00pm On Feb 02, 2015 |
tpiaobsession:I guess dats my mistake. Puttin my heart on my sleeve. Wat's d meanin of puttn people on guilt trips |
Re: Message From A Heart Broken Friend by Crocz(m): 6:04pm On Feb 02, 2015 |
Re: Message From A Heart Broken Friend by tpiaobsession: 6:04pm On Feb 02, 2015 |
Cutehector4u: Means trying to make them feel responsible for your feelings which 9 times out of 10, they are not the cause of. |
Re: Message From A Heart Broken Friend by Nobody: 6:06pm On Feb 02, 2015 |
tpiaobsession:ok thanks. I'd stop doin dat. What do u advice me to do again bro? Let dem go right? |
Re: Message From A Heart Broken Friend by Nobody: 6:07pm On Feb 02, 2015 |
Shugaryme:chaii the person scatter his heart...even grind am join.... this is what all single guys think until they fall in love and do the same mistake they are warning people abt |
Re: Message From A Heart Broken Friend by tpiaobsession: 6:07pm On Feb 02, 2015 |
Cutehector4u: Stop attaching your happiness to another human being. Let your true joy come from God. |
Re: Message From A Heart Broken Friend by Nobody: 6:11pm On Feb 02, 2015 |
tpiaobsession:thnks so much. I'd turn a new leaf |
Re: Message From A Heart Broken Friend by Shugaryme(f): 6:17pm On Feb 02, 2015 |
kallmemrB:The mistake of? |
Re: Message From A Heart Broken Friend by Nobody: 6:21pm On Feb 02, 2015 |
Shugaryme:of all what the op wrote.....not appreciative,not caring enough...not this not that |
Re: Message From A Heart Broken Friend by Shugaryme(f): 6:27pm On Feb 02, 2015 |
kallmemrB:Hmmmm Are you guilty of the mistake? |
Re: Message From A Heart Broken Friend by Nobody: 6:32pm On Feb 02, 2015 |
Shugaryme:hell yes and i learnt my lessons the hard way....its the experience that makes u a better person not the words |
Re: Message From A Heart Broken Friend by MizMyColi(f): 6:35pm On Feb 02, 2015 |
Cutehector4u: Let me help you rephrase. [b]There are genuinely nice girls out there (0.01% of the world's population though) who have willing and adorable hearts, who want to explore the beauties of love. Why is it hard for a guy they're into to love them truly and genuinely --- and reciprocate at least 50% of their love? Why do guys have this mentality that it's impossible for a girl to be really nice without having a motive. I read with utter and abysmal dismay, the comment of one of the people whom I follow on this forum, that a lady only starts acting all nice and enters pretend mode when she finds that her BClock is ticking at a geometrical rate. He warned his fellow guys to be wary of such ladies. Granted, he has a point. But why do we make out our world as so bad, when there's sheer beauty around us, amid the strife we sometimes experience. What about those who genuinely want to be better? Do we dismiss them too simply because they're whatever you fathom them as? When will we learn to give everyone we're opportune to encounter the benefit of the doubt, that they may either prove or disprove themselves? (Sigh) My dear, don't mind me joor. T'wasn't my intention to go this deep. Had to lerritout. #Bless[/b] |
Re: Message From A Heart Broken Friend by Shugaryme(f): 6:37pm On Feb 02, 2015 |
kallmemrB:Awwww, ehya how did it happen? |
Re: Message From A Heart Broken Friend by Nobody: 6:40pm On Feb 02, 2015 |
Shugaryme:sorry lady cant share that here....we aint close enough for that yet |
Re: Message From A Heart Broken Friend by Nobody: 6:41pm On Feb 02, 2015 |
Shugaryme:nice dp...u got me laughing alot |
Re: Message From A Heart Broken Friend by MizMyColi(f): 6:42pm On Feb 02, 2015 |
Ultimately, we must be our best encouragers and do our best to see that our validation comes from within. Or else? Frustration galore. #Believe though. There's someone out there whose butter fits your bread perfectly; taste, texture, tidyness et al 1 Like |
Re: Message From A Heart Broken Friend by Nobody: 6:56pm On Feb 02, 2015 |
MizMyColi:hehe I read this your comment five times to really understand the message u wr tryn to pass thru. The thing is jus dat I duno why am unlucky. Most ov d gurls am tryn to get close with have been hurt pretty bad in the past and when I try to make dem fell bera, its all a fruitless eFfort cuz dey will think all guys r dsame and put all d sins of dr past bfs on me. Sum1 just gave me a good advice dat I shouldn't depend on anyone for my happiness and stop mkn dem feel guilty onto my own feelings. I guess he was right afterall. I hv learnt my lesson. Never again will I find love online. I used to b optimistic that it would lead to smth positive buh it never really works. |
Re: Message From A Heart Broken Friend by tpiaobsession: 7:15pm On Feb 02, 2015 |
kallmemrB: quite true. |
Re: Message From A Heart Broken Friend by tpiaobsession: 7:17pm On Feb 02, 2015 |
Cutehector4u: its not your responsibility to "try to make them feel better" inasmuch as you werent the one who hurt them to begin with. that's the root of the problem. i think you try to make yourself "feel better" by singling out girls who you feel are emotionally vulnerable due to their past experiences. but the thing is the girls can sense your emotions are shallow (no offence) even though you feel they are deep. you are trying to atone for something in your own personal life without explaining exactly what the thing is. And the risk you will do exactly what you're condemning in their previous boyfriends, is quite high, since you are also not respecting their feelings just like the previous ones. |
Re: Message From A Heart Broken Friend by Nobody: 7:20pm On Feb 02, 2015 |
tpiaobsession:thanks for d advice. I appreciate |
Re: Message From A Heart Broken Friend by tpiaobsession: 7:21pm On Feb 02, 2015 |
that's ok. |
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