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14 Differences Between The Girl You Date And The Woman You Marry by falconey(m): 1:29am On Feb 15, 2015
Either way, the woman you marry will not be the same as the
girl you dated.


1. The girl you date does not want to meet your family or
friends, she wants you all to herself.
The woman you marry wants to know your family and
friends. She knows without them, you would not be where
you are, and who you are today.


2. The girl you date is overly worried about her nails been
done all the time, her eyelashes looking in a certain style,
and being beautiful for her peers. Her physical beauty is
important to her.
The woman you marry is not overly worried about her nails
being done. Instead, she is worried about being beautiful for
her man, even if that means wearing no makeup. She focuses
on her internal beauty and character building, because she
knows real beauty comes from within.


3. The girl you date only cares about her career and her
vision for life. She comes before the relationship, and does
not make her future plans with you in mind.
The woman you marry cares about your career and your
vision of life as well as her own. She knows you also have a
plan, and works together with you to achieve the goals you
both have. The marriage is her priority.


4. The girl you date loves the financial cushion you can
provide. She also expects something back whenever she
gives.
The woman you marry wants to build a financial cushion
with you. She believes that two heads will always be better
than one. When she gives, she does not expect anything
back.


5. The girl you date believes she knows everything.
The woman you marry is open to learning something new,
and knows there is always room for improvement.


6. The girl you date is scared to tell you her deepest secrets.
The woman you marry will share her deepest secrets with
you, even if it means losing you. She trusts you, and shares
everything with you. She knows honesty is always the best
policy.


7. The girl you date does not get excited about marriage and
children (even if she wants to have some one day).
The woman you marry gets excited about marriage and
starting a family with you.


8. The girl you date shows her cleavage all the time.
The woman you marry is more modest because she knows
her attributes are for your eyes only.


9. The girl you date is not concerned about cooking for you.
The woman you marry loves not only to cook, but chooses
delicious and healthy meals. The way to a man’s heart is
through his stomach after all, right?


10. The girl you date is overly concerned about how long
you will be around, and how she can keep you.
The woman you marry is not too concerned about keeping
you because she knows you want to have a future with her.
She is mature enough to know you can never force someone
to stay and that you each have to choose each other every
day, again and again.


11. The girl you date is not willing to compromise with you.
The woman you marry is willing to compromise, and sees
compromise as a necessity for a healthy marriage


12. The girl you date thrives on constant attention from you.
The woman you marry mirrors your affection and thrives on
providing you with the love, support, and respect you need.


13. The girl you date tries to change who you are and
compares you to her ex.
The woman you marry accepts you for who you are and will
not compare you to her ex. She knows you are the best and
that you cannot change another person no matter how hard
you try

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14. The girl you date has to be entertained.
The woman you marry is someone you can have fun with,
relax, do activities, or do nothing together and still enjoy
each other’s company.

What are your thoughts on these differences between the girl
you date and the woman you marry?

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Re: 14 Differences Between The Girl You Date And The Woman You Marry by saaedlee: 1:31am On Feb 15, 2015
Awww TGYD is a Devil, while TWYM is an angel
Re: 14 Differences Between The Girl You Date And The Woman You Marry by Nobody: 1:35am On Feb 15, 2015
I like this number, 10. The girl you date is
overly concerned about
how long
you will be around, and
how she can keep you.
The woman you marry
is not too concerned
about keeping
you because she
knows you want to
have a future with her.
She is mature enough
to know you can never
force someone
to stay and that you
each have to choose
each other every
day, again and again.
Re: 14 Differences Between The Girl You Date And The Woman You Marry by Yello1(m): 1:46am On Feb 15, 2015
don't some women we dated become the women we married sometimes??how did dey nw change?

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Re: 14 Differences Between The Girl You Date And The Woman You Marry by Thanos(m): 6:56am On Feb 15, 2015
Lies,lies and more lies. Irony of it all op is not yet married
Re: 14 Differences Between The Girl You Date And The Woman You Marry by falconey(m): 7:26am On Feb 15, 2015
Thanos:
Lies,lies and more lies. Irony of it all op is not yet married
how can you tell?
Re: 14 Differences Between The Girl You Date And The Woman You Marry by Ithee(m): 7:27am On Feb 15, 2015
Booked
Re: 14 Differences Between The Girl You Date And The Woman You Marry by Thanos(m): 8:04am On Feb 15, 2015
falconey:
how can you tell?
I it's obvious, you can tell a lot about an author from his post
Re: 14 Differences Between The Girl You Date And The Woman You Marry by eph12(m): 8:17am On Feb 15, 2015
Nice! I like it
Re: 14 Differences Between The Girl You Date And The Woman You Marry by Ehi69: 8:50am On Feb 15, 2015
Nice post op. Number 14 is right on the money
Re: 14 Differences Between The Girl You Date And The Woman You Marry by falconey(m): 10:40am On Feb 15, 2015
Yello1:
don't some women we dated become the women we married sometimes??how did dey nw change?
they learn inside the marriage
Re: 14 Differences Between The Girl You Date And The Woman You Marry by falconey(m): 12:54pm On Feb 15, 2015
saaedlee:
Awww TGYD is a Devil, while TWYM is an angel
what if you marry the girl you dated?
Re: 14 Differences Between The Girl You Date And The Woman You Marry by saaedlee: 1:01pm On Feb 15, 2015
falconey:
what if you marry the girl you dated?
What if I don't?

If I do, she'll no longer be the girl I dated buh The Woman I married who is an angel!
Re: 14 Differences Between The Girl You Date And The Woman You Marry by BreezyRita(f): 1:12pm On Feb 15, 2015
smiley
Re: 14 Differences Between The Girl You Date And The Woman You Marry by Nobody: 1:15pm On Feb 15, 2015
Fp material,make I dodge for here
Re: 14 Differences Between The Girl You Date And The Woman You Marry by falconey(m): 1:16pm On Feb 15, 2015
saaedlee:

What if I don't?

If I do, she'll no longer be the girl I dated buh The Woman I married who is an angel!
you can't just see a girl and you marry her immediately.........you guys will date for 1 or 2 years or early 6months, during that time she may do all the listed above
Re: 14 Differences Between The Girl You Date And The Woman You Marry by falconey(m): 5:31pm On Feb 17, 2015
Ipledge:
Fp material,make I dodge for here
space booker

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