LostMermaid:


She cheated on him when they were living together. Then, started living with that other man she cheated on with, and, started keeping the kid away from my future husband, now that she's found 'a better dad for the child'. That's what makes me call her a slut. Because I think people who cheat on their partners, and then who torture them by not showing their kid, shouldn't deserve much respect, should they?

Ewuro4:
LostMermaid.. Please be nice to that girl. Please .

LostMermaid:


Where did you make up i'm pregnant from? I'm not pregnant or anything. He wants to marry me. And he wants to have a child (or two) with me. So it's a PLAN. Nothing to do with what his ex did; nothing to do with saying she's on birth control to a man(who wants to split up!!), and then tricking him into pregnancy and then claiming not understanding that pregnancy until 4th month.

Secondly, to me, cheating on a man doesn't make a woman very moral. And as far as I know this is the same all over the world. This woman cheated on my future husband, and she is still together with that man. She was sending that man love messages when she was living together with my future husband and their child. This is why she is slutty.

I never cheated on anyone. And never tricked anyone!

I hope you haven't either!

So you won't go ahead and act like the lawyer of a 'slut' who cheated on the father of her child, and then tried to keep that child away from him, causing him so much pain.

LostMermaid:


She cheated on him when they were living together. Then, started living with that other man she cheated on with, and, started keeping the kid away from my future husband, now that she's found 'a better dad for the child'. That's what makes me call her a slut. Because I think people who cheat on their partners, and then who torture them by not showing their kid, shouldn't deserve much respect, should they?

moca:
It's very obvious he's smitten by her @aluta.
I've been watching them from d sideline.

Not only him,some of them guys who were once her online friends became critics as soon as she posted some pictures

To study d body language of an average male online/offline is very simple.
And then again,it seems like coco likes d attention hence she would hv put an end to it.

So chill and let them be
Or,r u jealous?

carefreewannabe:


Show us the statistics and when doing so, please consider the proportions of women accepting children from other women as compared to men accepting children from other men. I am waiting.

carefreewannabe:


And what makes you think that you deserve more respect when you see kids as your rivals?

LostMermaid:


She cheated on him when they were living together. Then, started living with that other man she cheated on with, and, started keeping the kid away from my future husband, now that she's found 'a better dad for the child'. That's what makes me call her a slut. Because I think people who cheat on their partners, and then who torture them by not showing their kid, shouldn't deserve much respect, should they?

LostMermaid:


Because I noticed that that thought is not right, and wrote it here with sincere honesty, in hopes of fixing it [/b]with your (comment writers) help.

"Help"

[b]Not judgement or condemnation.

In my opinion, ANYONE, who realizes their fault (even if it's just a thought- and not action! Because I have lovely relations with his kid), and seeks help to fix it, deserves respect.

LostMermaid:


Because I noticed that that thought is not right, and wrote it here with sincere honesty, in hopes of fixing it [/b]with your (comment writers) help.

"Help"

Not judgement or condemnation.

In my opinion, ANYONE, who realizes their fault (even if it's just [b]a thought- and not action! Because I have lovely relations with his kid), and seeks help to fix it, deserves respect.

babyosisi:


Have you heard her side of the story?
No
So park it right there
This man you are huffing and puffing over hasn't even married you yet.
If you meant as much as you thought he will be your husband not husband to be.

LostMermaid:


Because I noticed that that thought is not right, and wrote it here with sincere honesty, in hopes of fixing it [/b]with your (comment writers) help.

"Help"

Not judgement or condemnation.

In my opinion, ANYONE, who realizes their fault (even if it's just [b]a thought- and not action! Because I have lovely relations with his kid), and seeks help to fix it, deserves respect.

LostMermaid:


She cheated on him when they were living together. Then, started living with that other man she cheated on with, and, started keeping the kid away from my future husband, now that she's found 'a better dad for the child'. That's what makes me call her a slut. Because I think people who cheat on their partners, and then who torture them by not showing their kid, shouldn't deserve much respect, should they?

cococandy:
Ok sorry about the oversight.

Are a virgin still? I bet you're sleeping with the dude while condemning another woman who's sin is equal to yours in the eyes of God.

Ngwanu madam virtuous woman Pls stay away from that kid before you do something drastic out of the hate you have for the slutty mom who cheated on and decieved your darling man.

She must have been the devil while your man was the angel all through their relationship.

LostMermaid:

Because I noticed that that thought is not right, and wrote it here with sincere honesty, in hopes of fixing it [/b]with your (comment writers) help.
"Help"
Not judgement or condemnation.
In my opinion, ANYONE, who realizes their fault (even if it's just [b]a thought- and not action! Because I have lovely relations with his kid), and seeks help to fix it, deserves respect.

babyosisi:


I have read her story again and it makes me angry that a woman would dare call another woman a slut based On what the man she calls husband to be tells her?

babygirlfl:


You keep judging and calling his ex a slut but you don't want to be judged yourself.

aisha2:


Again I ask did the woman cheat on you? What exactly did she do to you? Why do you hate her so much? Why not let your ex be the one expressing all these emotions? Has she offended you?

aisha2:


Again I ask did the woman cheat on you? What exactly did she do to you? Why do you hate her so much? Why not let your ex be the one expressing all these emotions? Has she offended you?

Isn't it your fiancee who should have these feelings and carry this beef? They had a relationship it ended badly. Why are you carrying this matter on your head?

LostMermaid:


Because she caused harm to him by getting pregnant when he wanted to split up.

And then she caused another harm to him by cheating on him with another man, after the baby was born.

Then, yet another harm to him, by trying to keep the child away from him, so much that he had to go to court.

So ---> Here, a person who keeps causing harm and doing one after the other. WHY should one respect that?

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Whereas I only wrote some THOUGHTS (not actions) and to make them right, and NOT CAUSE ANY HARM. So, WHY are you judging me for that?

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I think the difference is obvious. I don't know why you can't understand?

cococandy:
Ok sorry about the oversight.

Are a virgin still? I bet you're sleeping with the dude while condemning another woman who's sin is equal to yours in the eyes of God.

Ngwanu madam virtuous woman Pls stay away from that kid before you do something drastic out of the hate you have for the slutty mom who cheated on and decieved your darling man.

She must have been the devil while your man was the angel all through their relationship.

crackhaus:

Let's say you're involved with a man who already has a child, will you be able to love that child as much as you love yours especially when that man appears to give more attention to the child than yours?

freecocoa:
firstly, if I am involved with a man with a child and love him, then I must love his child, if he gives more attention to the his child from another woman, then that's something I have to discuss with him, it's no business of the child in any way.

LostMermaid:


Yes, I'm a virgin.

Chillisauce:


The husband to be was even a drug dealer . Why won't the ex girlfriend hide her daughter from him.

Op is just insecure. Since last yr, this thing has been bothering her.

My advice to you, get married to your boyfriend but pls let the mother of the girl take care of her child.


Make una no bite me, na Op use her mouth talk say the guy na cannabis dealer

aisha2:
You can never love that child because you will always see her as a seed of " deceit ". The one who rubbed you of the opportunity to have his first child.

Love cannot walk side by side with so much hate

LostMermaid:


That's right. I love the child though. When I see the child, none of these come to my mind. She's lovely. And a different person.

But I wonder;

How would you exactly see the situation instead? Would you ever feel a little bit bad or sad about not having the opportunity of having his first child?

aisha2:

Again I ask did the woman cheat on you? What exactly did she do to you? Why do you hate her so much? Why not let your ex be the one expressing all these emotions? Has she offended you?
Isn't it your fiancee who should have these feelings and carry this beef? They had a relationship it ended badly. Why are you carrying this matter on your head?

aisha2:


Drug dealer ke? Where you see that one?

LostMermaid:

Yes, I'm a virgin.