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Re: Having A Child With Future Husband who already has one -Whom does he love more? by Nobody: 8:59pm On Feb 04, 2015 |
LostMermaid: And what makes you think that you deserve more respect when you see kids as your rivals? 1 Like |
Re: Having A Child With Future Husband who already has one -Whom does he love more? by Nobody: 9:00pm On Feb 04, 2015 |
Annie Idibia comes to mind I'm pretty sure she said no problem,she can handle it when this type of question was thrown her way. Well, we all can see how well she is handling it without drama. It's never easy. Now consider all these. That d child is prettier than urs is wahala. That she is more obedient and intelligent,double wahala. That people will prefer associating with her instead of ur own is suicide mission. That daddy gave her a blue dress, gave ur daughter d pink one yet ur daughter wanted d blue dress and told u,u know what that means. D day ur child will tell u"mummy,daddy loves ibinabo more than me" heaven and earth will cease to exist Note:my answer is purely based on ur opening post. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Having A Child With Future Husband who already has one -Whom does he love more? by LostMermaid: 9:01pm On Feb 04, 2015 |
Ewuro4: I am always nice her. Actually I like her. And she likes me back. We play lots of games together and all. And I buy her lots of presents, she then loves. My problem with his ex and even with him, if I have any, has got nothing to do with her. She's a different person. And I would never hurt a child. 1 Like |
Re: Having A Child With Future Husband who already has one -Whom does he love more? by cococandy(f): 9:03pm On Feb 04, 2015 |
Ok sorry about the oversight. Are a virgin still? I bet you're sleeping with the dude while condemning another woman who's sin is equal to yours in the eyes of God. Ngwanu madam virtuous woman Pls stay away from that kid before you do something drastic out of the hate you have for the slutty mom who cheated on and decieved your darling man. She must have been the devil while your man was the angel all through their relationship. LostMermaid: 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Having A Child With Future Husband who already has one -Whom does he love more? by Nobody: 9:03pm On Feb 04, 2015 |
LostMermaid: Have you heard her side of the story? No So park it right there This man you are huffing and puffing over hasn't even married you yet. If you meant as much as you thought he will be your husband not husband to be. 4 Likes |
Re: Having A Child With Future Husband who already has one -Whom does he love more? by crackhaus: 9:06pm On Feb 04, 2015 |
moca:Oh my, moca if you really believe this then you will believe anything. If only you knew moca, if only you knew - but please carry on, keep making unfounded assumptions 2 Likes |
Re: Having A Child With Future Husband who already has one -Whom does he love more? by pickabeau1: 9:07pm On Feb 04, 2015 |
carefreewannabe: Don't bother waiting |
Re: Having A Child With Future Husband who already has one -Whom does he love more? by LostMermaid: 9:07pm On Feb 04, 2015 |
carefreewannabe: Because I noticed that that thought is not right, and wrote it here with sincere honesty, in hopes of fixing it [/b]with your (comment writers) help. "Help" Not judgement or condemnation. In my opinion, ANYONE, who realizes their fault (even if it's just [b]a thought- and not action! Because I have lovely relations with his kid), and seeks help to fix it, deserves respect. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Having A Child With Future Husband who already has one -Whom does he love more? by cococandy(f): 9:10pm On Feb 04, 2015 |
LostMermaid:the same child he didn't want. The one she tricked him into having is the same child he claims she was trying to keep away from him? Do you know how she may have felt when he didn't want the pregnancy ? Claiming he was tricked into it. Maybe he showed no support all through the pregnancy and she had to do it alone only for him to expect her to happily hand the child over to him. Did you stop to think of that ? All ye holy women need to start putting yourselves in other people's shoes before waxing all judgmental on them 8 Likes |
Re: Having A Child With Future Husband who already has one -Whom does he love more? by babygirlfl: 9:12pm On Feb 04, 2015 |
LostMermaid: You keep judging and calling his ex a slut but you don't want to be judged yourself. 5 Likes |
Re: Having A Child With Future Husband who already has one -Whom does he love more? by pickabeau1: 9:12pm On Feb 04, 2015 |
LostMermaid: Since you are honest about ur thoughts I've said before.. Let the man be if you cant stomach the kid being involved in your life Simple If you can love her as your own and not be partial to your own kids honest to God then go ahead No one here can help u 1 Like |
Re: Having A Child With Future Husband who already has one -Whom does he love more? by LostMermaid: 9:12pm On Feb 04, 2015 |
babyosisi: Husband to be means "He will be my husband" anyway. It's the same thing. I already stated he proposed to me. Her side of the story might be different. About cheating on him. Let's suppose it's the claim of the man. Yet, I observed her behaviors making it always difficult for him to see the child, even when the child is crying for dad, and I know he went to court for that; so about her acting immoral regarding showing the kid to the father, I don't need to listen to her story; as the truth is obvious. |
Re: Having A Child With Future Husband who already has one -Whom does he love more? by Nobody: 9:12pm On Feb 04, 2015 |
LostMermaid: I am not condemning you. I am just speaking my mind and my opinion is that you should not marry this man if a) you are jealous of his child and see this child as a rival and b) if you hate the mother's child. A situation in which kids from previous relationships are involved require mature minds who are able to leave emotions aside and act in the interest of the innocent kids. You asked for opinions and I am convinced that you are not mature enough to handle the situation and I am really concerned about the child's well-being. 2 Likes |
Re: Having A Child With Future Husband who already has one -Whom does he love more? by babygirlfl: 9:13pm On Feb 04, 2015 |
LostMermaid: You still have no right to call her a slut. 5 Likes |
Re: Having A Child With Future Husband who already has one -Whom does he love more? by Nobody: 9:13pm On Feb 04, 2015 |
cococandy: I have read her story again and it makes me angry that a woman would dare call another woman a slut based On what the man she calls husband to be tells her? Then hating on a 4 year old over proposed babies she hopes to have. What makes her so sure she will have babies self Is there a guarantee? 4 Likes |
Re: Having A Child With Future Husband who already has one -Whom does he love more? by Nobody: 9:14pm On Feb 04, 2015 |
LostMermaid: Again I ask did the woman cheat on you? What exactly did she do to you? Why do you hate her so much? Why not let your ex be the one expressing all these emotions? Has she offended you? Isn't it your fiancee who should have these feelings and carry this beef? They had a relationship it ended badly. Why are you carrying this matter on your head? 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Having A Child With Future Husband who already has one -Whom does he love more? by cococandy(f): 9:16pm On Feb 04, 2015 |
babyosisi:as if people ever have nice things to say about their exes. This OP is a learner. 4 Likes |
Re: Having A Child With Future Husband who already has one -Whom does he love more? by LostMermaid: 9:17pm On Feb 04, 2015 |
babygirlfl: Because she caused harm to him by getting pregnant when he wanted to split up. And then she caused another harm to him by cheating on him with another man, after the baby was born. Then, yet another harm to him, by trying to keep the child away from him, so much that he had to go to court. So ---> Here, a person who keeps causing harm and doing one after the other. WHY should one respect that? --- Whereas I only wrote some THOUGHTS (not actions) and to make them right, and NOT CAUSE ANY HARM. So, WHY are you judging me for that? --- I think the difference is obvious. I don't know why you can't understand? |
Re: Having A Child With Future Husband who already has one -Whom does he love more? by Nobody: 9:18pm On Feb 04, 2015 |
You can never love that child because you will always see her as a seed of " deceit ". The one who rubbed you of the opportunity to have his first child. Love cannot walk side by side with so much hate 10 Likes |
Re: Having A Child With Future Husband who already has one -Whom does he love more? by Nobody: 9:19pm On Feb 04, 2015 |
aisha2: The husband to be was even a drug dealer . Why won't the ex girlfriend hide her daughter from him. Op is just insecure. Since last yr, this thing has been bothering her. My advice to you, get married to your boyfriend but pls let the mother of the girl take care of her child. Make una no bite me, na Op use her mouth talk say the guy na cannabis dealer 1 Like |
Re: Having A Child With Future Husband who already has one -Whom does he love more? by Nobody: 9:19pm On Feb 04, 2015 |
aisha2: She will soon learn. If he ends up marrying her she will soon see what the ex saw and fled.no be the same man? 2 Likes |
Re: Having A Child With Future Husband who already has one -Whom does he love more? by Nobody: 9:19pm On Feb 04, 2015 |
LostMermaid: Cheating is not the worst crime. The bible says if you think it its like you have done it. So if you have hateful thoughts you have already done the act. The sin of cheating and the sin of hate is one and the same. Your sin isn't better than hers. You have heard that it was said to the people long ago, ‘You shall not murder,[a] and anyone who murders will be subject to judgment.’ 22 But I tell you that anyone who is angry with a brother or sister[b][c] will be subject to judgment. Again, anyone who says to a brother or sister, ‘Raca,’[d] is answerable to the court. And anyone who says, ‘You fool!’ will be in danger of the fire of hell. You have heard that it was said, ‘You shall not commit adultery.’[e] 28 But I tell you that anyone who looks at a woman lustfully has already committed adultery with her in his heart 1 Like |
Re: Having A Child With Future Husband who already has one -Whom does he love more? by LostMermaid: 9:20pm On Feb 04, 2015 |
cococandy: Yes, I'm a virgin. 3 Likes |
Re: Having A Child With Future Husband who already has one -Whom does he love more? by Nobody: 9:20pm On Feb 04, 2015 |
Poster you are answering everyone but me. Whats your own with her? Why not leave two of them with their issues? |
Re: Having A Child With Future Husband who already has one -Whom does he love more? by freecocoa(f): 9:21pm On Feb 04, 2015 |
crackhaus:firstly, if I am involved with a man with a child and love him, then I must love his child, if he gives more attention to his child from another woman, then that's something I have to discuss with him, it's no business of the child in any way. 2 Likes |
Re: Having A Child With Future Husband who already has one -Whom does he love more? by crackhaus: 9:23pm On Feb 04, 2015 |
freecocoa:Enough said... 4 Likes |
Re: Having A Child With Future Husband who already has one -Whom does he love more? by cococandy(f): 9:25pm On Feb 04, 2015 |
LostMermaid: Good for you. Doesn't make you a better person anyway. I can see you've created this thread 2times before and people called you out on your judgmental attitude towards the other lady. Yet you insist on doing just that. 2 Likes |
Re: Having A Child With Future Husband who already has one -Whom does he love more? by Nobody: 9:25pm On Feb 04, 2015 |
Chillisauce: Drug dealer ke? Where you see that one? |
Re: Having A Child With Future Husband who already has one -Whom does he love more? by LostMermaid: 9:26pm On Feb 04, 2015 |
aisha2: That's right. I love the child though. When I see the child, none of these come to my mind. She's lovely. And a different person. But I wonder; How would you exactly see the situation instead? Would you ever feel a little bit bad or sad about not having the opportunity of having his first child? |
Re: Having A Child With Future Husband who already has one -Whom does he love more? by Nobody: 9:26pm On Feb 04, 2015 |
LostMermaid: Answer my questions first. aisha2: |
Re: Having A Child With Future Husband who already has one -Whom does he love more? by Nobody: 9:27pm On Feb 04, 2015 |
aisha2: How mush you go pay.? Ask her whether the guy na drug dealer before he "repented" . |
Re: Having A Child With Future Husband who already has one -Whom does he love more? by Stillfire: 9:28pm On Feb 04, 2015 |
LostMermaid: You are a virgin, and it's a baby father you want to end up with? You can do 100 times better than a baby father. Baby mama trouble is not beans. Baby fathers should marry baby mamas. 3 Likes |
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