Chinweblinkz:
Someone said something about working.
I do work!
But the money quicky disappears for household stuffs and other things.
Studies?? Am intelligent,very much but who will sponsor my Education?
Getting married to a Guy whom i have feelings for is the best option.
I think i have to pray and fast about it.
* * *Your's in Prayer
_ Anonymous

Chinweblinkz:
Maybe she made a mistake with the height,i think she is average height

ammyluv2002:
My dear, you should be proud of the woman that carried you in her womb for 9 months. Tell him the truth and if he's not cool with it let him go and wait for the right man....

Besides, I think you're getting married for the wrong reasons. Don't marry a guy because he's financially stable that's a wrong motive.

100Cents:


Leave her, all Nigerian girls are the same...

His business is booming. A girl of today doesn't want to hear you are managing money..

Chinweblinkz:
I have had sleepless nights thinking about these; what do i tell my prospect husband about my mother?
I feel shameful to tell my friends and i decided to do it here because i believe no one knows me here and i feel safe doing it here.
No need to keep it to myself again, a problem shared is a problem solved.
Please do read and give me your suggestions.

-Am a young girl in my late teens,6.5ft tall and light skinned.
Although am not up to the 'great' twenty,i have had so many suitors but none of them fit my choice.
Its either they are too tall,financially inbalanced or not even Literate to my taste.
Recently a guy came asking for my hand in marriage and he is exactly my choice.
Not too tall,dark and an introvet with a booming business.
You may ask 'why am i in a hurry to get married?'
it had to do with my family background,my getting married would lessen the mouths my Dad feeds.
It will go in a long way to enlighten the yoke of the poor man.
Now the problem is; what do I tell my prospective husband about my mother?
My mother is mentally inbalanced and lives with her parents,the last time i went to visit her i returned home in tears.
She was so lean,her hair was brown and bushy almost growing to a dreadlock but she recognized I and my siblings.
Her elder sister is also sick in the head and it scares me to think it may run in thier blood and am afraid of telling my prospective husband because he and his family may come to the same conclusion and they may withdraw thier interest in me.
Should i dare it and tell him the truth?
Should i tell him my mother divorced my dad long ago?
Should i tell him she is dead?
Please am confused.
I need your help.
Thanks.
* * *yours in Tears,
_ Anonymous

ammyluv2002:
My dear, you should be proud of the woman that carried you in her womb for 9 months. Tell him the truth and if he's not cool with it let him go and wait for the right man....

Besides, I think you're getting married for the wrong reasons. Don't marry a guy because he's financially stable that's a wrong motive.

100Cents:

Leave her, all Nigerian girls are the same...
His business is booming. A girl of today doesn't want to hear you are managing money..

ammyluv2002:
My dear, you should be proud of the woman that carried you in her womb for 9 months. Tell him the truth and if he's not cool with it let him go and wait for the right man....

Besides, I think you're getting married for the wrong reasons. Don't marry a guy because he's financially stable that's a wrong motive.

Chinweblinkz:

my dear we are not the same,think about it this way: with my family financial status i need to marry someone who can help and maybe train me in school like someone had suggested.
Or do U want me to jump from frying pan into fire?

Prixus:

this is idealistic reasoning. now let's talk about realistic reasoning. can you advice your own brother to marry from a family that has a history of mental illness?

ammyluv2002:
Honestly!

eightsin:
This is really a dilemma and a terrible position to be. I know my dad use to say before one gets married, the parents usually carry out an investigation to find out if there is/has been cases of mental illness, epilepsy or abino. I'd just say you tell the truth but don't include the story of her sister.

Chinweblinkz:

are you trying to say that those mad people in the streets thier children never get married?
All said and done,you speak the truth. But what if the lady you fall in love with in the future has such history?
I dont pray so.
But what if?

Chinweblinkz:
Amen! Thanks all.

Chinweblinkz:


-Am a young girl in my late teens,6.5ft tall and light skinned.
Although am not up to the 'great' twenty,i have had so many suitors but none of them fit my choice.
Its either they are too tall, financially inbalanced or not even Literate to my taste.

akatekpe:
Is the story about you or someone else? Cos your personal text and your pic is contradicting part of the story.

Chinweblinkz:

*smiles*
another work of fiction

akatekpe:
hmm,see how some ppl r going so emotional,praying and wishing you well. You now have plenty shoes like GEJ

Chinweblinkz:

*smiles*
another work of fiction

Chinweblinkz:

*smiles*
another work of fiction