Guys please I really need your help, am in a very very confused situation right now! There's is this particular girl I am dating, I love her sooooooo much, so also she loves me, and now we haven't had sex we are virgins. Now my friends who envy her are giving all sort of advice that I should go in to have sex with her that if I don't other guys out there will and they were like after that she will start ignoring me feeling am too small for her. As a result of her beauty I have noticed that whenever we walk together I do see a lot of guys starring at her. And this is what scares me the most, I don't want to loose her. My friend's where also like if I have sex with her she will stay glued to me, does it mean a relationship can't last without sex or what. please guys am really confused here, am scared I dont wanna loose her and I made a vow that I won't have sex with her till the right time..


Whats your say about this, I really need a matured and sincere advice from you guys please, no abuses please...



Please admins can you just please close your eyes and move this thread to the front page even though it may seem meaningless or worthless to be on front page.. But it will go a very big way in setting my life on the right path! Thanks

Bro how old are you and what are you doing for a living.
But if you are matured enough why will be dating a girl without sex

My question for you now is why are you dating her? Is is for marriage or just fun?

Princecalm:
My question for you now is why are you dating her? Is is for marriage or just fun?

for marriage

nzeobi:
Bro how old are you and what are you doing for a living.
But if you are matured enough why will be dating a girl without sex

am 25

Obiomon:
am 25

your old enough to know the right thing to do, premarital sex is a sin, do not compromise standards because of the world


God bless you

Don't compromise your standards for someone or something u have no guarantee will last. Ask your friends if they re still with the first person they had sex with, or if they eventually married the person.

If the girl appreciates ur qualities and character as a man, sex wouldnt be a problem (at least she's a virgin and has not tasted sex...so it's a lot easier to abstain).

The world is sex-crazed and will want to fold anyone different into its mold.

vfactor:
Don't compromise your standards for someone or something u have no guarantee will last. Ask your friends if they re still with the first person they had sex with, or if they eventually married the person.

If the girl appreciates ur qualities and character as a man, sex wouldnt be a problem (at least she's a virgin and has not tasted sex...so it's a lot easier to abstain).

The world is sex-crazed and will want to fold anyone different into it's mold.

God bless you! Please I will really need your number so I can seek for more deeper advice

ifex370:



your old enough to know the right thing to do, premarital sex is a sin, do not compromise standards because of the world


God bless you

thanks a lot

If you really love her, don't do it. If you eventually do it, you will awaken that lustful appetite in her. And surely she might want to try out those adventures with others.

P.S: Don't follow the way of this world abeg.

Obiomon:
Guys please I really need your help, am in a very very confused situation right now! There's is this particular girl I am dating, I love her sooooooo much, so also she loves me, and now we haven't had sex we are virgins. Now my friends who envy her are giving all sort of advice that I should go in to have sex with her that if I don't other guys out there will and they were like after that she will start ignoring me feeling am too small for her. As a result of her beauty I have noticed that whenever we walk together I do see a lot of guys starring at her. And this is what scares me the most, I don't want to loose her. My friend's where also like if I have sex with her she will stay glued to me, does it mean a relationship can't last without sex or what. please guys am really confused here, am scared I dont wanna loose her and I made a vow that I won't have sex with her till the right time..


Whats your say about this, I really need a matured and sincere advice from you guys please, no abuses please...



Please admins can you just please close your eyes and move this thread to the front page even though it may seem meaningless or worthless to be on front page.. But it will go a very big way in setting my life on the right path! Thanks

please don't yansh her..be a gentleman

Enegod:
please don't yansh her..be a gentleman

wow thanks

Jeromejnr:
If you really love her, don't do it. If you eventually do it, you will awaken that lustful appetite in her. And surely she might want to try out those adventures with others.

P.S: Don't follow the way of this world abeg.

thanks too

Obiomon:




God bless you! Please I will really need your number so I can seek for more deeper advice

No problem...u can send me a mail and i'll reply u. True and practical advice comes from above

Obiomon:
for marriage

then why are you afraid? Is she not commited or it will take some years before you finally marry hep.

Op should I give you my honest opinion?

First of all, is she a virgin?
If she is not, bleep her fast because if you don't someone else will

But before you bleep her, try it out with several other girls so that you won't seem like a novice and you will be able to satisfy her more.

Sex sustains a relationship, trust me on that

Ao r u sure she is a virgin

Princecalm:
then why are you afraid? Is she not commited or it will take some years before you finally marry hep.

I don't know yet.. It's just a matter of time...

Dotwillis1:
Ao r u sure she is a virgin

yeah! And I have noticed that she doesn't go for parties, just like me. And I trust her

seriousbabe:
Op should I give you my honest opinion?

First of all, is she a virgin?
If she is not, bleep her fast because if you don't someone else will

But before you bleep her, try it out with several other girls so that you won't seem like a novice and you will be able to satisfy her more.

Sex sustains a relationship, trust me on that

hmm really?

vfactor:


No problem...u can send me a mail and i'll reply u. True and practical advice comes from above

Don

RUBBISH, U want him 2 cheat on her and then bleep her, i see how contaminated the people of this world is......

seriousbabe:
Op should I give you my honest opinion?

First of all, is she a virgin?
If she is not, bleep her fast because if you don't someone else will

But before you bleep her, try it out with several other girls so that you won't seem like a novice and you will be able to satisfy her more.

Sex sustains a relationship, trust me on that

Ethereal0110:
RUBBISH, U want him 2 cheat on her and then bleep her, i see how contaminated the people of this world is......

hmmmmmmmm

Do these for ur good,
*keep ur distance frm dose friends ,
* instead of nursin fear of the unknown, confide in her n let her know ur cares and ur fears, make her reveal 2 u wats in her mind.
*respect eachothers principles.
*dont take evil advice.
*dont be afraid 2 talk 2 her.

Ethereal0110:
Do these for ur good,
*keep ur distance frm dose friends ,
* instead of nursin fear of the unknown, confide in her n let her know ur cares and ur fears, make her reveal 2 u wats in her mind.
*respect eachothers principles.
*dont take evil advice.
*dont be afraid 2 talk 2 her.

Wow I really felt this advice in the inside of my heart!

Thank you sooooooooooooooooo much! This is what I am going to do! Besides you are great. This is what's best for me now

U r welcome.

Obiomon:

Wow I really felt this advice in the inside of my heart!

Thank you sooooooooooooooooo much! This is what I am going to do! Besides you are great. This is what's best for me now

Ethereal0110:
U r welcome.

can I get your contact too please!!!??be vfactor is not responding to my emails

Just take things easy.. It's a two way thing. You may have sex with her and still lose her afterwards and vice versa

I will reply ur mail 2mrw. Wen i get 2 wrk oK... Promise

Obiomon:
can I get your contact too please!!!??be vfactor is not responding to my emails

Ethereal0110:
I will reply ur mail 2mrw. Wen i get 2 wrk oK... Promise

thanks! I appreciate