First off if this story is true, then I do not blame the guy. I blame your sister for helping him conditionally. She helped him conditionally. If she helped him unconditionally, then she won't be heartbroken.

The Shell jobs ought to be given on merit, and not by connection. It is unwise for any lady to wait for any man.

The brother should have spoken up earlier, and would called off the relationship at a much earlier stage...he knew from start he wasn't going for it.

Wise up ladies.

Wat a pity,I will say ur cousin is at fault cuz d signs were already dere dat d guy will not marry her but wen u r in love u seems not to see it,ur cousin sis made d mistake of rejecting many suitors who may love her deeply now she has lost every thing!as for d guy I wish him luck because wat goes around comes back around..

BIG DISAPOINTMENT

LadyX:

Am surprised that she expected him to marry her. Am sure within the first 1 or 2 years a man knows whether he'll marry you or not.

even a shorter period than that! people should not mistake that fact that because they help someone to be where they are today they r to marry them. most cases I know of end up sour. I feel the guy though she will walk out first. its sad tho.

JeffreyJamez:


You have no idea who I am or what I'm capable of,gently crawl back to wherever you came from.

What you are capable of doing huh? You just dey waste your talent dude; na your type we need for sambisa. Happy val anyway

Olufemiolaolu:
Let her move on with life. A broken relationship is better than a broken marriage. There is a reason God allowed it 2 happen, though its painful now, it gonna be a blessing in disguise in the long run.

God

Here is my heart pls don't break it *in Lionel Riche voice*

sweettease:
So sad, God will compensate her with a much better husband in Jesus name!
I can't begin to imagine what she is going through now, 11 years, kai! He will reap what he has sown.

Typical Naija girl, dey must shaa curse when their relationships and those of their pals hit the rocks. Won fi seyin ni? Na by force to marry? So if u help a man now, that automatically translates to mean that he must marry u? Where u keep love sef.? Mtcheww!

Divineluv14:
That man is heartless

yes he may be heartless. but you need to learn where she went wrong. else no lessons learned

My dream car

BrTune:
My people I greet una o.
This Valentine don Red 4 my Cousin o.
Her fiance whom she has dated for 11 years and whom she helped get a Job in Shell just dumped her.
My Cousin is turning 32 this year, and began dating this hediot immediately after NYSC. This man, she helped get a Job, through a retired senior officer in Shell.
When she began dating him he was a nobody, hopping around with his CV from pillar to post, until my sister started pushing his CV in Shell, until reluctantly a family relation gave this man the job, because he thought the Man was gonna go through with the marriage.
Fastforward to this day, after making my cousin turn down suitors in powerful positions, and so many eligible bachelors, he left her heartbroken this morning, when he informed her that he was in love with another girl.
My cousin is currently suicidal, infact sef, My family just hired a matured lady as a personal escort because we cant trust her with her life anymore.
This pig wasted 11 years of my Sisters life, when we were telling her to dump the man, she was forming love, now it haf done her like Nigerian movie and he even had the guts to buy a Range say na reconciliation gift, like my Sister needs his money.
To all the ladies out there, better shine eyes o. If the man is not ready 4 marriage better leave him bcoz time is not always on a Ladys side. Now na to start do night vigil 4 husband na him we dey o.
MoD move this 2 the approprait section so NL ladiea can see this n wiseup.

One sided story, he must have taken her for granted,toiled with her,no doubt, no be women again? Dem go give u N10 food and u go receive N1000 insults for that. So, bro, take a chill pill, hear the guy out 1st.

Tales by the moonlight.
But if true, foolishness was involved... no doubt about that. 11yrs and now she's 32 and she couldnt get him put the rings on it or find another suitor who is ready
Ladies: never take your heart on a journey without your brain.

Gabrielsylar:
fornication always ends badly

Wow!

Choi....i wud av preferred a a Mercedes G-Wagon na...range is jst too common for ma liking

Chai......

Ehyaa.......

Ewuoooo.......


# sipping hot coffee
Correct movie. Please what's the title?

Truckpusher:
I taya for some people sha .

Op, cousin na mumu reloaded.

You go blame her? Na rove jare

immortalvoices:
11 years of courtship and yet no marriage...your sister finger na key holder or na she be lords of the rings


Beside this tale seems like nollywood

Ha ha, so op's sister is frodo the ring bearer.

I hate stories like this, wat was she doing wit a guy for 11 years? Any way she shuldnt shed a tear for the hediot cos sooner or later looking bak, she will tnk God she did not marry him.

If your post is true, I'm willing to marry her.
Best regards.

OP,u fit still hook me up wt ur cousin o.me sef dey find jab 4 Shell.
I promise 2 marry her.

I believe d Story. Its Possible.

abatically:


Ha ha, so op's sister is frodo the ring bearer.

Lmao baba

I dont believe this story..
even if it happened, cant be 11years

Any dating that lasts more than 8 months I repeat 8months the guy isn't ready to marry you ladies take note

LadyX:
How can you date for 11 years?

2face dated for 13years. jus bcus are own doesnt wrk does nt make it wrong.

richjohn1:
Any dating that lasts more than 8 months I repeat 8months the guy isn't ready to marry you ladies take note

Not always true

: Ooooobooooy!11 kini? :oHappy valentine to ur sis o!










On d other hand,why do I av dis nawty feelings dat op is lying?

08036624618 dats ma number. Hook me up wt ur sister. AM honest and ready 2 settle down immediatly

Liars Club Nigeria Ltd.

poo poo gist


tell this tale to primary sch certificate holders and those with long tribal marks on their faces.

oh mheen. guys get heart o.
anyway shaa. im z job seeker too. tired of lagos streets. make she push my cv too. i swear to clean up dat mess. i read civil eng and av served. im ready t serve anyway. na my salary i need.