Men are frustrated with women because they never
seem to want sex. Women are frustrated with men
because they always seem to want sex. Women
blame men that they don't how to love. Men blame
women that they only talk about love but don't
want to to prove it. One is not to for a 'blame
game' here but an attempt to put things in their
proper perspective should be made, as i have come
to understand that a lot of the heartbreaks that
are are left in the wake of most relationships are
due to undue expectaions.
I do not not see why one who is purely in a
relationship for sexual gratification should make
the other believe otherwise. I also do not think it's
realistic for any woman to assume that a man that
has looked her way (sexually) is readily in love with
her. Such women even begin to feel 'entitled'
because sex is involved...SEX IS NOT LOVE. It has
been said a thousand times that men and women
are wired differently, thus for a man, sex is a
physical act that eases the biological pressure he
experiences constantly. Only after this tension has
gone can a man begin to think straight. This is
why it often happens that men (in some cases)
disappear after the get what they want. It isn't
love; is just some hormonal pressure. SEX for most
men is a 'relaxant' of sorts.
Having sex early in a relationship can be hazardous
for the woman (who wants more from a man); the
man has not had the time to develop any romantic
feeling for her. He needs time to develop those
feelings and it is not what sex alone can achieve.
Indicators of love in every relationship are rather
substance based. For example, realising that
friendship is an important ingredient of love and
TRUE LOVE is knowing that you can enjoy each
other's company thoroughly, without first rushing
to the bedroom.
Things have become so pathetic that some people
don't even what to discuss with each other once
the 'sex marathon' is over. What i am saying is
that if the only thing that seems to bind a lady to
a man is sex, then none should delude him/her into
that love is at work.
SEX is not love. Love is not sex. You can have sex
and not be in love. You can be in love and not
engage in sex. A man may not be crazy about you
and still have sex with you. Using sex to
manipulate a man may not always have desirable
ending.
It is self - deception for a woman to think that
giving a man sex will make him love her. TRUE
LOVE WILL NEVER MAKE SEX A PRIORITY. A man
who doesn't love you will not change his mind
because of sex. If he tells you to 'PROVE YOUR
LOVE' by having sex with him, he is only in for sex,
'better sex' will take him away from you.
Love never shames or degrades. If you have made
the mistake of trying to use sex to buy a man, now
is the time to reassess your relationship and build
it on the right foundation.
SEX is good but there is more to a lasting
relationship. Let a man get married to you because
he loves you, honours you, feel a strong emotional
and spiritual connection with you and wants to
spend the rest of his life with you

Cloud is not rain but where there is rain there is cloud.
Love and making love are part of the same process, the mistake is which one has more priority

Love and sex works together.

Girls look for love and find sex
Guys look for sex and find love

Old news.

Eh when you get married, don't have sex. Let her have your babies via IVF. Mtcheew

ITbomb:
Cloud is not rain but where there is rain there is cloud.
Love and making love are part of the same process, the mistake is which one has more priority

sex shouldn't be

Skillfullulu:
Love and sex works together.

only in a marriage setting

Juliano47:
Old news.

knwin ain't enough but doing/acting in accordance

Ochedi:


only in a marriage setting

if u say so

see guys as them dey vex

what a pity

diddydiva:
see guys as them dey vex

what a pity

hehe.na so o