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Can't Husbands Lovingly Lure Their Wives To Have Sex With Them? by Sweetmarriage: 8:26am On Feb 19, 2015
This Man Has Something To Say...

'I want to talk about the issue of men complaining that their wives are denying them sex. Though i'm not presently married, i think i can give some advices.

You know, there was a study i read. There was a woman who has a high sex drive, but whose husband has low one. Despite this, the woman do get more sex from her husband by 'seducing' him- even when he said he is not in the mood.

Thus, i think just as women could employ some tactics (like wearing 'see through' dresses, etc) to get sex from their husbands. Husbands also should learn how to lovingly and unselfishly 'lure' their wives to give them sex, even when they are not in the mood. Thanks.'

So, what do you think about this?
https://www.facebook.com/pages/Nigerian-Papalette/312263085651212

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Re: Can't Husbands Lovingly Lure Their Wives To Have Sex With Them? by delishpot: 8:28am On Feb 19, 2015
They want a reason to cheat. Why lure her when they have eyes for ekaite? What excuse will they give after doing her?

You try but naija men nor like good advice when it concerns $€X , one wife, pleasing a wife or any of that sort. The only advice they welcome is making money.

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Re: Can't Husbands Lovingly Lure Their Wives To Have Sex With Them? by nerodenero: 8:34am On Feb 19, 2015
I beg to differ.Lure him/her or not, a cheat will always be a cheat.
delishpot:
They want a reason to cheat. Why lure her when they have eyes for ekaite? What excuse will they give after doing her?

You try but naija men nor like good advice when it concerns $€X , one wife, pleasing a wife or any of that sort. The only advice they welcome is making money.
Re: Can't Husbands Lovingly Lure Their Wives To Have Sex With Them? by delishpot: 8:44am On Feb 19, 2015
nerodenero:
I beg to differ.Lure him/her or not, a cheat will always be a cheat.

You dont get my point. A cheat wikk be a cheat but he will try to find a reason to justify his cheating ways. same with women too.

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Re: Can't Husbands Lovingly Lure Their Wives To Have Sex With Them? by cococandy(f): 8:44am On Feb 19, 2015
cheesy lolz.
delishpot:
They want a reason to cheat. Why lure her when they have eyes for ekaite? What excuse will they give after doing her?

You try but naija men nor like good advice when it concerns $€X , one wife, pleasing a wife or any of that sort. The only advice they welcome is making money.

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Re: Can't Husbands Lovingly Lure Their Wives To Have Sex With Them? by Tallesty1(m): 8:51am On Feb 19, 2015
delishpot:
They want a reason to cheat. Why lure her when they have eyes for ekaite? What excuse will they give after doing her?

You try but naija men nor like good advice when it concerns $€X , one wife, pleasing a wife or any of that sort. The only advice they welcome is making money.
Kataway, what do you about Naija men huh??..


That his wife who is denying him sex was another man's Ekaitte when she was single. It goes around

Why deny your own husband sex huh??

Why wait to be lured before she opens legs to him?

Luring won't help, if your woman is not interested in having sex with you then something is definitely wrong somewhere.

Find out the problem and solve it.
Re: Can't Husbands Lovingly Lure Their Wives To Have Sex With Them? by delishpot: 9:06am On Feb 19, 2015
Tallesty1:
Kataway, what do you about Naija men huh??..


That his wife who is denying him sex was another man's Ekaitte when she was single. It goes around

Why deny your own husband sex huh??

Why wait to be lured before she opens legs to him?

Luring won't help, if your woman is not interested in having sex with you then something is definitely wrong somewhere.

Find out the problem and solve it.


Dont men get lured too? So whats tge biggie? My point is, as long as the advice does not include go out and play games, many naija men wont buy it.. If there is a problem work on it.

I understand luring a partner to have sex is not nice if the partner has to be lured every freaking time. It gets boring after a while. I cant for the life of me understand why a woman will even be the one luring her man to have sex, haba, a man for that mater o. She must feel
like a sex freak.
But, its okay to lure your partner every once in a while. Its perfect way to spice up the relationship. Its disgusting if a wife says ahh ahh honey I tire tonight o, and the man just slumps back in the bed without even saying some sweet stuff and touching places grin. so yes luring is okay every once in a while esp if kids are involved in that marriage.

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Re: Can't Husbands Lovingly Lure Their Wives To Have Sex With Them? by Tallesty1(m): 9:17am On Feb 19, 2015
delishpot:



Dont men get lured too? So whats tge biggie? My point is, as long as the advice does not include go out and play games, many naija men wont buy it.. If there is a problem work on it.

I understand luring a partner to have sex is not nice if the partner has to be lured every freaking time. It gets boring after a while. I cant for the life of me understand why a woman will even be the one luring her man to have sex, haba, a man for that mater o. She must feel
like a sex freak.
But, its okay to lure your partner every once in a while. Its perfect way to spice up the relationship. Its disgusting if a wife says ahh ahh honey I tire tonight o, and the man just slumps back in the bed without even saying some sweet stuff and touching places grin. so yes luring is okay every once in a while esp if kids are involved in that marriage.
Have you ever hit your head on something and then there was a lightning and then you saw some stars of different colors and sizes and THEN THE WHOLE WORLD SWITCH OFF?
You woke up minutes later and couldn't even remember what time of the day, month, year you're in?

That's how we feel when we are really, really in the mood and she say NO and MEAN it............
Re: Can't Husbands Lovingly Lure Their Wives To Have Sex With Them? by Sweetmarriage: 9:42am On Feb 19, 2015
Tallesty1:
Have you ever hit your head on something and then there was a lightning and then you saw some stars of different colors and sizes and THEN THE WHOLE WORLD SWITCH OFF?
You woke up minutes later and couldn't even remember what time of the day, month, year you're in?

That's how we feel when we are really, really in the mood and she say NO and MEAN it............

And don't you think if you lovingly 'turn her up', she will be in the mood?
Re: Can't Husbands Lovingly Lure Their Wives To Have Sex With Them? by delishpot: 9:59am On Feb 19, 2015
Tallesty1:
Have you ever hit your head on something and then there was a lightning and then you saw some stars of different colors and sizes and THEN THE WHOLE WORLD SWITCH OFF?
You woke up minutes later and couldn't even remember what time of the day, month, year you're in?

That's how we feel when we are really, really in the mood and she say NO and MEAN it............

Ha ha. Sorry bros. I do not buy the saying No and MEAN it idea o. Haba, that is a case of NO HOPE o. Na to tell her hoha say if she no do, ol man dey waka find who go do o! And if you get snatched in the end, na her fault o. Its well, na understanding be the main koko in this situation
Re: Can't Husbands Lovingly Lure Their Wives To Have Sex With Them? by Cesclxg(m): 11:18am On Feb 19, 2015
If the woman is not in the mood, she can give her husband a BJ, at least to empty his epididymis of se*men...
Re: Can't Husbands Lovingly Lure Their Wives To Have Sex With Them? by bukatyne(f): 11:27am On Feb 19, 2015
Because they never learn the art of persuasion/really loving their wives and think everything can be achieved by force undecided

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Re: Can't Husbands Lovingly Lure Their Wives To Have Sex With Them? by xynerise: 11:37am On Feb 19, 2015
So because our wives wear see-through dresses to lure us we should also wear bum shorts or boxers and a pair of socks to lure them or what? Physical luring/initiation is a woman thing jare grin. The only time I can make her succumb is when she mistakenly look into my eyes directly grin

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Re: Can't Husbands Lovingly Lure Their Wives To Have Sex With Them? by olamydey(f): 12:01pm On Feb 19, 2015
I have been waiting for a thread like this...
I dey office. Will come back to comment. .. wink
Re: Can't Husbands Lovingly Lure Their Wives To Have Sex With Them? by KanwuliaJara: 12:17pm On Feb 19, 2015
Not in Africa.
Welcome to sex without romance. . . in less than 5 minutes! cheesy
No love and romance for dia o.
JUST PHOCKING with slaps for face! cheesy

GORILLAS are even more romantic o!!!!! cry


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kGbj1WsngEY


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BTMAG0-9DyE
Re: Can't Husbands Lovingly Lure Their Wives To Have Sex With Them? by Tashaamania(f): 12:20pm On Feb 19, 2015
xynerise:
So because our wives wear see-through dresses to lure us we should also wear bum shorts or boxers and a pair of socks to lure them or what? Physical luring/initiation is a woman thing jare grin. The only time I can make her succumb is when she mistakenly look into my eyes directly grin
La experté! cheesy
Re: Can't Husbands Lovingly Lure Their Wives To Have Sex With Them? by crackhaus: 12:58pm On Feb 19, 2015
Luring a woman to have sex can be tiring, considering the man will still be the one putting in all the work after she succumbs.

Once a woman starts singing the I'm-not-in-the-mood tune, I let her be in most cases - got no patience for lovingly luring a grown woman when I could be having a drink or getting some sleep.

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Re: Can't Husbands Lovingly Lure Their Wives To Have Sex With Them? by coogar: 1:19pm On Feb 19, 2015
Sweetmarriage:
This Man Has Something To Say...

'I want to talk about the issue of men complaining that their wives are denying them sex. Though i'm not presently married, i think i can give some advices.

You know, there was a study i read. There was a woman who has a high sex drive, but whose husband has low one. Despite this, the woman do get more sex from her husband by 'seducing' him- even when he said he is not in the mood.

Thus, i think just as women could employ some tactics (like wearing 'see through' dresses, etc) to get sex from their husbands. Husbands also should learn how to lovingly and unselfishly 'lure' their wives to give them sex, even when they are not in the mood. Thanks.'

So, what do you think about this?
https://www.facebook.com/pages/Nigerian-Papalette/312263085651212

because women are emotional beings....
they have more than a million reasons not to want sėx & men have come to respect that. so why lure them to have sëx?

if she says she's not in the mood, that's final!
Re: Can't Husbands Lovingly Lure Their Wives To Have Sex With Them? by itstpia8: 2:55pm On Feb 19, 2015
Wear see through shorts
Re: Can't Husbands Lovingly Lure Their Wives To Have Sex With Them? by Tallesty1(m): 3:15pm On Feb 19, 2015
delishpot:


Ha ha. Sorry bros. I do not buy the saying No and MEAN it idea o. Haba, that is a case of NO HOPE o. Na to tell her hoha say if she no do, ol man dey waka find who go do o! And if you get snatched in the end, na her fault o. Its well, na understanding be the main koko in this situation
lols.


It is about understanding sha.
Re: Can't Husbands Lovingly Lure Their Wives To Have Sex With Them? by Tallesty1(m): 3:15pm On Feb 19, 2015
Sweetmarriage:


And don't you think if you lovingly 'turn her up', she will be in the mood?
For how long?
Re: Can't Husbands Lovingly Lure Their Wives To Have Sex With Them? by Rapsainot(m): 3:20pm On Feb 19, 2015
delishpot:
They want a reason to cheat. Why lure her when they have eyes for ekaite? What excuse will they give after doing her?

You try but naija men nor like good advice when it concerns $€X , one wife, pleasing a wife or any of that sort.The only advice they welcome is making money.
Don't you know that if it's not making money then it is not making sense
Re: Can't Husbands Lovingly Lure Their Wives To Have Sex With Them? by delishpot: 3:25pm On Feb 19, 2015
Rapsainot:
Don't you know that if it's not making money then it is not making sense

You too like money grin
Re: Can't Husbands Lovingly Lure Their Wives To Have Sex With Them? by Nobody: 3:42pm On Feb 19, 2015
It turn some women on.
Infact most women.
U r in a marriage prone to disaster if u can't lure ur woman into doing it.
What is wrong with this people?
R they real?
Smh.

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Re: Can't Husbands Lovingly Lure Their Wives To Have Sex With Them? by coogar: 3:45pm On Feb 19, 2015
moca:
It turn some women on.
Infact most women.
U r in a marriage prone to disaster if u can't lure ur woman into doing it.
What is wrong with this people?
R they real?
Smh.

so a husband has to beguile his wife to enjoy his own conjugal rights? what happened to all those vows she made at the altar? grin
Re: Can't Husbands Lovingly Lure Their Wives To Have Sex With Them? by Sweetmarriage: 3:53pm On Feb 19, 2015
coogar:


because women are emotional beings....
they have more than a million reasons not to want sėx & men have come to respect that. so why lure them to have sëx?

if she says she's not in the mood, that's final!

No, i don't agree with this. What if she intentionally did it so you could try persuading her?
Re: Can't Husbands Lovingly Lure Their Wives To Have Sex With Them? by Rapsainot(m): 3:54pm On Feb 19, 2015
delishpot:


You too like money grin
nah only me waka come? grin don't tell me you don't like money too
Re: Can't Husbands Lovingly Lure Their Wives To Have Sex With Them? by coogar: 3:55pm On Feb 19, 2015
Sweetmarriage:


No, i don't agree with this. What if she intentionally did it so you could try persuading her?

that's her loss!
i don't persuade women to have sex with me. if i ask once & she says no then it's final. anything beyond that is one step away from räpe. grin
Re: Can't Husbands Lovingly Lure Their Wives To Have Sex With Them? by Nobody: 4:05pm On Feb 19, 2015
coogar:


so a husband has to beguile his wife to enjoy his own conjugal rights? what happened to all those vows she made at the altar? grin
Coogar,shift one side abeg!
D way I lure my hubby is d way he lures me too. It spices things up.
Most times,it makes a woman say yes even though her body tells her otherwise.
Some that have problems after child birth come along tru luring.
Anyway,what do u guys know.
Marry first.
Nobody will tell u when d time reach cheesy cheesy

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Re: Can't Husbands Lovingly Lure Their Wives To Have Sex With Them? by xynerise: 4:08pm On Feb 19, 2015
Tashaamania:

La experté! cheesy
Bien venue grin
Re: Can't Husbands Lovingly Lure Their Wives To Have Sex With Them? by xynerise: 4:09pm On Feb 19, 2015
coogar:


that's her loss!
i don't persuade women to have sex with me. if i ask once & she says no then it's final. anything beyond that is one step away from räpe. grin

Rapis't grin
Re: Can't Husbands Lovingly Lure Their Wives To Have Sex With Them? by coogar: 4:15pm On Feb 19, 2015
moca:

Coogar,shift one side abeg!
D way I lure my hubby is d way he lures me too. It spices things up.

every relationship is different.
i don't lure women to bed....it's the other way round. grin that is what i have been used to all my life.


Most times,it makes a woman say yes even though her body tells her otherwise.

if her body says no, how can the man enjoy it? dryness, tightness, frustration, routine sėx. it's not healthy. cool


Some that have problems after child birth come along tru luring.

she better starts taking testosterone pills to bring back her lïbido. who has time to be singing romantic indian songs & dancing round flowers because of sex?


Anyway,what do u guys know.
Marry first.
Nobody will tell u when d time reach cheesy cheesy

it's her loss. grin
that can only work for men who have always lured or begged for sėx.

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