Herzumpther:
Good morning.

Just like ma'am kimoni suggested I wrote a letter before I slept I then dropped it in his car. He left for work by 4 because he has some suspect he is taking to court this morning. He sent me a text saying "Herz, I don't hate you or your friend, just remove your mind from there and go for a man from the east or somewhere else. I am your father and I want the best for you. You don't know the Yoruba's. I dont want to see him but if you insist I see him then no problem, I will see him but it really won't change anything. We will talk more when I return and please cook banga soup and pounded yam for me".


I think I'm beginning to understand his fears/why he is saying a big NO........now I understand.......well people can't be the same but it will take a long time to make dad see that.

Good morning everybody.

okotv:
it seems easier now. He is willing to shift ground but would only want to do that with the right guy. Listen to what dad wants to say today and update us. And the guy should get ready to defend his and your worth. He would do well sha.

good morning.

Herzumpther:
You back fully?

Good morning Okotv.

Herzumpther:
Good morning.

Just like ma'am kimoni suggested I wrote a letter before I slept I then dropped it in his car. He left for work by 4 because he has some suspect he is taking to court this morning. He sent me a text saying "Herz, I don't hate you or your friend, just remove your mind from there and go for a man from the east or somewhere else. I am your father and I want the best for you. You don't know the Yoruba's. I dont want to see him but if you insist I see him then no problem, I will see him but it really won't change anything. We will talk more when I return and please cook banga soup and pounded yam for me".


I think I'm beginning to understand his fears/why he is saying a big NO........now I understand.......well people can't be the same but it will take a long time to make dad see that.

Good morning everybody.

halldoran:


Tales by moonlight. You are not ready to get married. If you are, you won't be waiting for your dad's permission. This is 2015. I have a feeling you don't really like the yoruba guy, you are just using your dad as an excuse.

Herzumpther:
Lol. Oguta men are proud I've heard so much about your oguta lake o, dad has served around there too.

Lol @ Ogutaeeeeeeee! I ra nshi make my mama interpret this for me abeg.

okotv:
not yet. Actually in class as I type.

okotv:
Marriage is beautiful if consummated properly. Marriage isn't meant for everyone but do you have the consecration to remain chaste all your life ? You might be scared because of all you have heard but its not always that way.

Good morning

FOREXMARTS:


Hmmm it depends on what they proud of, I have spent most of my life in different parts of Nigeria and have lived there for one month, the rest na visit, me I be Nigerian, good to know ur Dad has served around there.

Herzumpther:
Really? Thanks for your contribution.

halldoran:


Yes, really.

delightful1:
Herzumpther, I think It's a lot easier now since he has agreed to meeting him. Done forget to pray along though and maybe have a one-on-one talk with dad.

Wish you the very best

Herzumpther:
I hope you visit sha. Hmmm one month..hmmm.

Herzumpther:
Lmao. Thank you again.

halldoran:


You are welcome. I hope you will get the guy your heart really want. You know..

Herzumpther:
I've gotten dear. 20 Igbo men can't replace this one Yoruba guy.


Will invite you to my wedding when all works well.

FOREXMARTS:

When and if necessary. I get gypsy spirit, like changing locations lol. Thank God my work can be done from any location. Make sure that Banga soup set wella and u can add the cat fish peppersoup by the side as a surprise cos today ur bill will go through first reading lol.

Herzumpther:
This thread will be the perfect thread to post my wedding pictures.

bukatyne:


Amen

And goodluck....

And this is a fight you must win (If he is the right person)

Herzumpther:
Odillz Okotv is preparing for a serious exam.

thorpido:
There are people who say they can't marry someone with a deep accent and they walk from such relationships.
You will have to ask yourself if it is something you can live with.
Apart from the constant arguments,how is his character?
I think you both need to know how to have discussions and listen more rather than just reacting.

Herzumpther:
My sister after reading her Post I became scared of even getting getting married or pushing my own ish forward.

See that of Sunshinny That got me thinking really bad, I can't even have dinner.

Funjosh:


Lolz.... But honestly their are some husbands that their wives shouldnt just bother checking their sms or rushing to pick their calls.

Herzumpther:
Also his friend's daughter married a Yoruba man who eventually turned her into a punching bag. He would beat her till she sometimes faints. He did it to the extent that he killed his baby in her womb and she had to go through major operation twice and to crown it all, he was an armed robber unknown to everybody until he went for a robbery mission and was caught.....I also think its part of it but like I said everybody can't be the same. The Igbo's he wants me to go to, I tried this awka guy but the communion was zero, in fact if I don't move then no communication. I see people's relationship too and I know how it goes. Again everybody can't be the same.

For me I will say its character, who we are and not where we come from.

My night was good thank you.

ichidodo:
That's it then...the knotty issue why your dad won't allow you marry your guy...He's a crime fighter, he's seen horrible stuff on his beat that you wouldn't believe...then there is the small matter of a dear friend's daughter beaten to an inch of her life by her yoruba husband...Its no brainer, your guy wont make a dent on popsie's mind even if he brings his family to beg,we believe it will boil down to the point of "over his dead body"..damn.

tchidi:


Hmmm...
My Mum is like your Dad. She says it has to be Igbo, so I looked everywhere and it was a Tiv man I decided to fall in love with. We still de battle am sha.

halldoran:


Tales by moonlight. You are not ready to get married. If you are, you won't be waiting for your dad's permission. This is 2015. I have a feeling you don't really like the yoruba guy, you are just using your dad as an excuse.

Herzumpther:
Lol. TIV's are cool. They know how to prepare sweet indomi.