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Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by Nobody: 9:54am On Feb 19, 2015 |
Odillz: ![]() ![]() ![]() Honestly TIV's cooks sweet noodles. Why is your mum against deltans? Tell her we are cool jor. ![]() ![]() |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by Nobody: 9:54am On Feb 19, 2015 |
Herzumpther: Indo gini? ![]() Na Wetin I go chop? He has never it since I knew him. But call pounded yam and he'll appear like winch! Yesterday I spoke with Mumsy, she said I should come home let's talk more.. ![]() I wish my Dad were alive. He's the one we'd have bribed to talk to her.. ![]() ![]() |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by Odillz: 9:56am On Feb 19, 2015 |
Herzumpther:I dunno o ![]() Especially Agbors. ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by Nobody: 9:56am On Feb 19, 2015 |
tchidi:Lol. Pounded yam? You should be happy na. ![]() You sef go home and talk to your mum, mums are softer than dads honestjy. Imagine the closeness between me and my dad and he is still saying NO. |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by Nobody: 9:57am On Feb 19, 2015 |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by Odillz: 10:01am On Feb 19, 2015 |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by Nobody: 10:02am On Feb 19, 2015 |
Na wa. Daddy saying no Yoruba and another saying no Delta, why all this ![]() 3 Likes |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by Nobody: 10:05am On Feb 19, 2015 |
Odillz:Sorry eh. This is sad sha.......... Sha agbors bad ni? The thing is tiring babe. |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by ichidodo: 10:08am On Feb 19, 2015 |
Herzumpther:[b] We know you're in love..you got butterflies around your eyes where it concerns lakes....but you must understand that we all must be very practical to matters such as these instead of being carried away.We must have a third party to look out for us inspite of ourselves. And that includes tribal,religious,domestic and financial matters. Example you was to put your daughter on a flight somewhere..say i don't know....Brazil? and it was common knowledge a particular airliner had experienced a spate of aircrashes recently...would you feel safe taking that risks with your daughter,even though your daughter likes the interior decor or attendants of the commercial airliner?....i don't think so....So you must look into yourself and the possibility that things may not work as planned,play it in your mind so you don't get crushed if dad says no...he loves you..wants the best for you...And we believe he will be crushed if his fears are confirmed.You can have so many loves from all tribes if you set your mind at it....but you can't repair the crushed spirit of a broken father.[/b] 1 Like |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by Odillz: 10:11am On Feb 19, 2015 |
Herzumpther: ![]() |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by Nobody: 10:12am On Feb 19, 2015 |
ichidodo: ![]() ![]() ![]() Speechless. |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by Nobody: 10:14am On Feb 19, 2015 |
Odillz:Odillz you know how fragile I am . how will I survive if dad stands on his NO. ![]() ![]() will call you later dear, I want to take a walk. |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by Nobody: 10:19am On Feb 19, 2015 |
Odillz:Lol, your mum is funny o. But it has to be a strong thing for her to prefer hausa in-law over a deltan. Hausa people are cool sha, the educated ones really know how to take care of their wives ![]() |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by urchbarbie(f): 10:21am On Feb 19, 2015 |
My dear! Am in ur kind of soes right now. My parents are so anti-non igbo. My mum carry d tin for head pass. Even within d igbo folks, she wld say, don't go to mbaise, ebonyi. Kai! D tin tire me o. Am cureently serving and am celebrating my silver jubilee bufday soon, yet no serious "ibo" relationship. I met a guy here in jalingo from dis part, mumsi just change am for me "biko, even if its mbaise, come n marry" The whole tin is really scaring me. Met a yrouba too, she said no way. Dad doesn't show much refusal tho he loves me omre dan anytin in d world (my guess). I asked mum 1 day if she would mould an ibo man for me and she culdnt reply. Dis tin is making guys see me as being smhw. One even asked me if am just using mum won't let me to refuse him cos I feel he is not my level. The whole tin is tiring me dear. I have only ever loved one ibo guy way back in my teen years. Now am so single, it hurts ![]() Herzumpther: |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by Odillz: 10:21am On Feb 19, 2015 |
Herzumpther: ![]() |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by Odillz: 10:23am On Feb 19, 2015 |
delightful1:I just dey wonder. |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by halldoran: 10:27am On Feb 19, 2015 |
LaRoyalHighness: No it is not important in this century. What is important is her wish and the love between her and the guy. |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by Nobody: 10:30am On Feb 19, 2015 |
Herzumpther:Our parents just want the best for us but they are not always right in doing so. However, we can't really blame them, they have their reasons. My elder sister got married to an Edo man against our parents' Wish. It was a tough war, today they are divorced with 2 wonderful girls. My mum used to say non of her children Will marry outside our tribe and even within the tribe, there are restrictions to where you must marry from. But, all that has changed sha, even after what happened to my sister. One of my brothers is married to a Calabar woman and mum had no objection, she loves her. Dad's own is that, I must not marry an hausa man ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by Kimoni: 10:36am On Feb 19, 2015 |
ichidodo: Hmnnnn, I am assuming from your post above, the only bad guys he has seen from his vast experience are from the West, he has never met any criminal from the East and no Igbo man that he has heard of has ever beaten his wife?? Hence, he will never change his mind because of this perception. Really ![]() 6 Likes |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by LaRoyalHighness(f): 10:39am On Feb 19, 2015 |
Even the constitution which is of this century recognizes parental consent. Don't underrate a fathers' blessing. halldoran: 1 Like |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by ichidodo: 10:40am On Feb 19, 2015 |
Herzumpther:Ofcourse you should be...our mouth can be very sweet and persuasive if we put it stop chewing nicotine gum for one minute...But in anycase,you should let it percolate in your mind...meditate on it...Look it Babymama for example we can swear that in the middle of her first affair she was sold out on her politician boyfriend and yet by some sorccery and witchcraft she's already had kids for another love up to the point she doesn't miss a chance to eulogise him and we can boldly say she could die for him....If she can be smitten twice then so can you,this time bring it closer home and leave with the blessings of your proud father....just my opinion. |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by Kimoni: 10:41am On Feb 19, 2015 |
Herzumpther: Woke up to this cheering news. You have done your part, let Lakes too do his part, after that just commit it all into God's hands and let His will be done. What will be will surely be, it can get delayed but not denied. |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by halldoran: 10:50am On Feb 19, 2015 |
LaRoyalHighness: And don't underrate the power of love and wish. All she needs is courage to marry whom she wishes. A dad chooses to be a tribalist and the daughter must suffer for that. Please! This is the 21st century for Christ's sake. 3 Likes |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by ichidodo: 10:52am On Feb 19, 2015 |
Kimoni:Her father is a policeman...an experienced investigator who has been in the field since we can remember therefore he's in the best position to judge especially in matters that concerns his flesh and blood,his instincts are well honed over the years and it will be mighty foolish to disregard his inputs because of a whimsical, smokey non tangible feeling called love.....screw blind love...Tell that to a mother trying to explain her wailing 10 year old daughter why she can't get into an airline she loves because of its dodgy safety records(even though it almost claimed the life of her friend's daughter)tell her that aircrashes happen all the time and anywhere as such puttin her daughter on this particular flight wont make a difference never mind giving her peace of mind....goodluck with that. |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by LaRoyalHighness(f): 10:54am On Feb 19, 2015 |
That's your own... My point is that she is right to seek the fathers' consent. QED. (I quoted you because you claimed she doesn't love the guy enough and looking for excuses bla bla) 21st century or not. halldoran: 1 Like |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by FOREXMARTS: 10:58am On Feb 19, 2015 |
ichidodo: Hard truth, but i think i like her person enough not to ruin her day with that lol, thanks for making the job easier for moi. 3 Likes |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by halldoran: 10:58am On Feb 19, 2015 |
LaRoyalHighness: I get your point. And no, she doesn't love the guy enough in my opinion. 1 Like |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by LaRoyalHighness(f): 11:04am On Feb 19, 2015 |
She loves the guy enough ....that why she is trying.... I see an optimistic lady from her post. I am proud of her and I pray that everything will work out in her favour. halldoran: 6 Likes |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by LaRoyalHighness(f): 11:08am On Feb 19, 2015 |
I love everything about this thread. I am learning alot. I am humbled mehn! I have never imagined the challenges that some people face. E hugs to all. 3 Likes |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by Kimoni: 11:14am On Feb 19, 2015 |
ichidodo: We are still saying the same thing bro, from his vast experience, he has only met criminals and wife beaters from the West and non from the East where he wants her to marry from, every Igbo man is a saint so his stand on her relationship is well justified and should not be questioned. True love doesn't matter here at all!!! Smh 6 Likes |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by ichidodo: 11:22am On Feb 19, 2015 |
Kimoni:Not every igbo man is a saint but the old man including his family will rest easier if birds from the same feather flock together... |
Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by Kimoni: 11:27am On Feb 19, 2015 |
ichidodo: Because he can guarantee that the particular Igbo man she will bring will be a saint ![]() 6 Likes |
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