Herzumpther:
I just did too.

@Royalroy, with due respect, you take this off front page or not please hide my every post. I can't stand you keep exposing us all to the world. We are not foolish posting our stories here.... Online for that matter and you show people's marital and relationship stories to the world since yesterday? I give up abeg.

Sweetlemon:
Oh lord!
Something is just not right about this thread.
What married woman starts a thread on a valentine's day evening to advise intending couples as stay devoted till far into the night?
Op sorry o. But the bitter part of my lemon just gotta let that question out.

ichidodo:
Who cares what your job looks like..with your nosy background we can go on a limb and guess it involves sniffing behind goats buttocks...Excuse us.

babyosisi:


And what eediot doesn't realize that people on nairaland live on different time zones and that feb 14 is just a regular day
The thread is on page 30 and you are on it so obviously it has something intelligent to convey

MojAyo:
maybe u kept doing the same thing dat makes him to hit u,children brought up in a divorced home takes marraige d way their parents take it,and it continues going on like dat in d family,if its something u re doing dats nt good,dat makes him to beat u,u need to change and dance to his tunes,men just dnt necessarily beat up a woman for nothing,if d nagging of a thing can stop for once,then he will stop beating u,cos u never knw what kind of behavior d next man u will marry have

armyofone:
Page 30

Osisi you should be on Seun payroll

crackhaus:
Don't you people have spouses to spend today/tonight with instead of discussing marriage again for like 1,000,000th time on NL?

cococandy:
Pls did anybody here go to school and work and have babies at the same time?

How did you do it?

I don't want to start what I can't finish

Cc efemenaxy
Moca
Babyosisi
Mutter

And all the mommas in the house

MrsOJ:

You a have a point but we can only give advice to her is left for her to make the choice. Sometimes we need to look beyond the kids and think more on the life of the woman involved cos even the children needs her alive. I pray the multiple girlfriends of the said husband doesn't come for her life so as to take her place in the man's house.

Sweetlemon:


You live in US right?
You started this thread like 7:30pm Nigerian time. That's like early afternoon US time. You stayed on till late US time. So madam you very much spent vals day on NL (chatting with strangers).
From the defensive way you replied me, I can see all is not just well somewhere. It's fine though that you are channeling your energy to advising others. Perhaps so they don't make the same mistakes you did?

It is well my dear.

babyosisi:


Nne why don't you try the sexuality section and see if anyone will buy what you are selling
This is way above your league Obviously
People have found and married husbands here on nairaland
God may just butter your bread

babyosisi:


Nne why don't you try the sexuality section and see if anyone will buy what you are selling
This is way above your league Obviously
People have found and married husbands here on nairaland
God may just butter your bread

Sweetlemon:


*sings* Coolu coolu coolu temper. Coolu temper
*whistles till fades*

blessedqueen:



Aunty Osisi they say Silence is Golden..... So pls just leave her

FOREXMARTS:
Something ain't right here today, why the negative energy? Ever since some mod who couldn't decipher the difference between a sensitive thread and a regular thread sent us to front page without anyone asking so much negative energies have started corrupting the initial motive of this thread.

Aunty Babyosisi abeg steer this ship well and avoid distractions oh. Ride on.

FOREXMARTS:
[s]

Hello, I don't know if ur a guy or lady but honestly you need to chill. Please, this thread is for serious issues and if someone steps on ur toes please brush it aside for the sake of those needing help. No distractions. We are entitled to our opinions but mustn't force it on anyone.Thank you.[/s]

babyosisi:



Read the thread below,same feb 14
The picture was taken with the card on the bed btw
Since you want to know me better,glad to get you acquainted
I usually don't respond to characters and names I don't recognize,this is your lucky day
Enjoy


https://www.nairaland.com/2147715/valentine-card-melted-heart-usual

babyosisi:

To make matters worse when the food came,he opened the wrap of moi moi and licked the foil and I wanted the ground to swallow me ,and that was the day my spirit left the union

mutter:


Five years is a long time to keep yourself and him hanging

A man can learn how to kiss. If he is a good man, then he is indeed a gift from God.
When he goes to the US he can also find his feet, other men have done so before him.
You probably get tired of him because he is in a disadvantageous position compared to you.

babyosisi:
I have made my share of mistakes,learned a world of lessons ,I have grown and matured while married to the same man a while and still very much in love with him and together we are raising some very well adjusted exemplary children.So I must have something to say about what makes marriage work and what doesn't .I know what doesn't ,I have tried them all.
I believe God gave me wisdom in marital issues because constantly young women ( and men) confide in me in real life and offline (from forum interactions )about personal issues with relationships and the response is always a big thank you for helping.
I have heard the stories of many and have counseled many also
I don't know it all so I welcome opinion from other wives on the forum who have been at this business at least for a decade
This Thread is intended to answer questions and dispel fears about men and husbands and marriage and children
How do you know he is the one?
What is appropriate?
Attitude towards inlaws?mother in law fears
Money issues
Parents say no to your intended spouse
Can't make up your mind
Time is passing by and still single,what could it be?
Bad habits you don't like in a man and how to handle it
Bedroom issues?
Handling conflicts?
Communication breakdown?
Old flames and admirers ?
His female friends how to handle that
Questions you had been embarrassed to ask people in real life,this is your opportunity to ask and have people share from their experiences truthfully.
I will be real,I promise
Physical abuse issues
Childlessness ?
You may not like the answer but I will tell you the truth uncoated
If you are too embarrassed to ask in your known moniker,you can create a new handle

Alright ladies,aunty babyosisi is waiting.

T3Amo:
My boyfriend and I started dating in 2010. I actually met him in Nigeria while I was on vacation there. I will be honest and say that initially he was not really my type(looks) but I decided to give it a try because he had a lot of things that I look for in a man and I did not want to be too superficial. Anyways it's a very long story but we have been in a long distance relationship for almost 5 years ( we see each other like twice a year). This guy really loves me and is a good guy but sometimes I feel 'tired of him' or perhaps I am not really in love with him. I feel bad because I wish I did not feel this way but I feel we have kinda grown apart. Am thinking that it's cos we have not really had a normal relationship, that perhaps maybe when we both in same country that things will be better. He has met most of my family and they love him and vice versa except my dad. Although my dad has never met him. He was not really happy about it. My dad says he wants to find out more about him and his family background. He has a job but it's not what he wants and he is not rich, I on the other hand come from a 'well off' family but money is not and has never been an issue. We are both tired of the long distance relationship so he said that I either relocate to Nigeria or he relocates to Us but since he knows that I will not be as comfy in Naija then he is willing to come this side but that is another headache cos of the process involved and while he is here it means that he may be out of work for a long time. He is very good to me and treats me well. There was a time I suspected infidelity but could not prove it. All his friends, family and colleagues know of me. Am actually in contact with his family and his friends. Another issue is we are not sexually compatible and he is also a bad kisser. I don't enjoy kissing him. I have really been trying because he is a good person and men like him and are rare these days. But since we started dating till now I have been battling if he is actually the one for me.

Herzumpther:
OK ooo.
Maybe I should fast in advance.

If I miss this man it will pain me o. Good men are many but hard to come by.