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My Fiancee Slept With Another Man...is It Right To Go On With Her? by dpoladapo604: 10:07pm On Feb 21, 2015 |
We have been together for over six months. I love her so much (never fell so much in love) and she's so crazy in love with me too. she's such a wonderful lady I've ever met. she would do anything just to prove and protect our relationship. Early January this year she came to my place to spend few days. during her visit, I one day took her phone and checked through her bbm I saw her chat with one cleric (Alfa) asking the man to help her about a shocking dream she had about me and also talking about d previous guy she was dating before I met her. I was so confused I couldn't talk till she left but on her way to the park I ask her if she was cheating or something and she assured me that she's all mine. So the following day after she left I called her and told her that I went through her phone and I observe that she's still having some affairs wit her previous boy friend, she first started talking angrily that why should I go through her phone without her conscience but after few minutes she called back and started begging not to be annoyed by the way she talked regard me checking her phone. after a lot of begging I told her I'm no more annoyed but I warned her not to go to the Alfa because I could observe that the Alfa has other interior motive from the way he was chatting and she promised not to visit him. So last Tuesday she came to my place and I tried to go through her chats on bbm and to my biggest surprise my lady was asking the man to pay her the money she spent on abortion to her (omo I was so shocked) I couldn't blv my eyes,I saw a part where the man was asking if she love him and she said no...dat thats why she couldn't keep his pregnancy. I kept it for good days till when she was about to leave this morning. The question I threw at her was "did you really did abortion?" she was shocked and started swearing with the holy book...I asked her to bring her fone and I viewed the Alfa's pics and asked if dis was d same Alfa I asked her not to visit and she said no he's the not him. I showed her the pics I tuk from that chat....she was shocked and accepted she slept with him but she did no abortion saying she only want to use that to get money from the Alfa. I asked her why....but she kept saying she didn't know how it happened. she was just begging and crying. the reason y I was so pained is that I warned her not to go to him but he go against my warning. I love her but I'm not comfortable with her. after too much begging and crying I told her I've forgive her. Please is it advisable to go on with this lady?...I'm confused because I'm still in luv with her I can't just let her go but something keeps telling me that I may regret go on with her. AND IS IT WRONG FOR PARTNERS TO CHECK EACH OTHERS FONE? 13 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man...is It Right To Go On With Her? by ronald4lif(m): 10:15pm On Feb 21, 2015 |
I will advise you let go of her, the memories of her sleeping with this Alfa will never wane off and it will spring up feelings of resentment in the future. If you can let go fine but if you can't oh well... 170 Likes 12 Shares |
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man...is It Right To Go On With Her? by Nobody: 10:15pm On Feb 21, 2015 |
The choice is yours to make are you ready to continue with her and live with the imagination of that Alfa combing her ? or you move on. Finally guys stop snooping around your lady's phone because you will do yourself much harm by seeing things that exceeds your suspicions/expectations/intuition Voila! 14 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man...is It Right To Go On With Her? by delishpot: 10:18pm On Feb 21, 2015 |
Hmnnn, to me o, I will say dump her already. 30 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man...is It Right To Go On With Her? by menix(m): 10:21pm On Feb 21, 2015 |
Narrating ur plight is good, at least it keeps us busy buh asking us to advice u is quite annoying. Are u not a man, if u can live wiv a cheat y not go on nd stop askin us to mislead u.... 103 Likes 8 Shares |
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man...is It Right To Go On With Her? by mkoabiola: 10:21pm On Feb 21, 2015 |
Alfa don chop d pussssy,let her go joooo Anytym u rember u find it hard to let go 13 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man...is It Right To Go On With Her? by LewisO: 10:22pm On Feb 21, 2015 |
Dump her! ![]() They aren't just Loyal. ![]() Imaging the fücking lies she's giving, still went ahead and deny, that lady can kill a broke nigga just to go for a richer man. ![]() 35 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man...is It Right To Go On With Her? by tintingz(m): 10:23pm On Feb 21, 2015 |
Thank God you guys are not married yet, you can give a stop to the relationship. 25 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man...is It Right To Go On With Her? by Samiceman: 10:26pm On Feb 21, 2015 |
Them no dey tell blind man say rain dey fall now! Dump her sorry ass joor! NEXT! 34 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man...is It Right To Go On With Her? by BeeBeeOoh(m): 10:28pm On Feb 21, 2015 |
Yes! It's right to move on with her. But when she might have slept wit ur father, "Stop On.. 5 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man...is It Right To Go On With Her? by Nobody: 10:31pm On Feb 21, 2015 |
Love no blind reach this place oo ![]() 13 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man...is It Right To Go On With Her? by Nobody: 10:34pm On Feb 21, 2015 |
look at the systematic lies she's been telling u. at the last count she claimed she didn't have an abortion. her lies have been step by step until u discover the previous lie to which she admits. why would a woman preparing for marriage be trying to scam an alfa of 5K in the name of abortion? guys beware after they have done all the fvcking around with different t guys in the name of BF they will come and form wife material for u. shine your eye. 82 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man...is It Right To Go On With Her? by immortalvoices(m): 10:36pm On Feb 21, 2015 |
Is it me or have anyone noticed that some smart girls have perfected the act of crying with extreme tears to blackmail guys into forgiving them. ...whenever they are wrong... Well dear OP get ready to start seeing nudes and soft porn on her fone...she is taking advantage of your weak and fragile heart. You do not love her you are only infatuated, so quit now before you hurt her and hurt yourself 83 Likes 7 Shares |
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man...is It Right To Go On With Her? by dajoaneke(m): 10:39pm On Feb 21, 2015 |
You see love matter eh!, I hands off. If I say leave am na that time the love go begin hungry u pass... No leave am, you go say I no sabi advice person. Na your matter; carry am for your head. 31 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man...is It Right To Go On With Her? by princeogbeide1(m): 10:45pm On Feb 21, 2015 |
see man" a girl remains to be everybody's girl until she gets married. 7 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man...is It Right To Go On With Her? by Doortun(m): 11:07pm On Feb 21, 2015 |
It depends on how you view the concept of marriage. Ask yourself is that the type of person you want to be with for the rest of your life ( that's if you don't believe in divorce ) 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man...is It Right To Go On With Her? by dkronicle(m): 11:13pm On Feb 21, 2015 |
Dictionary didnt define ''GIRL' very well so i wont comment about it. Just be ur self bro. If ox 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man...is It Right To Go On With Her? by MORNDEW(m): 11:28pm On Feb 21, 2015 |
I have an interest in dis topic, guys keep the advice coming but with concrete reasons. |
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man...is It Right To Go On With Her? by scribble: 11:30pm On Feb 21, 2015 |
Op let her be gone with the wind so that this destiny terminator will not truncate your destiny. This one can plan with assassin's or robbers to dispossess you of your valuables. Shine the eyes. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man...is It Right To Go On With Her? by ABEngine(m): 11:32pm On Feb 21, 2015 |
Oga wear your shoe fast fast, run, flee, elope, any or all of the above 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man...is It Right To Go On With Her? by igorekpengmail: 11:47pm On Feb 21, 2015 |
Guy free that babe. Make she go 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man...is It Right To Go On With Her? by ivyT(f): 1:05am On Feb 22, 2015 |
Samiceman: Wicked* ![]() Shebi she don beg d guy na |
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man...is It Right To Go On With Her? by austine4real(m): 1:12am On Feb 22, 2015 |
Kip foolin ursef o afta u marid i'l kip bangin.. U beta let go b4 u fada anoda man's child 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man...is It Right To Go On With Her? by braine(m): 1:59am On Feb 22, 2015 |
dpoladapo604: This part is really annoying.. Women are just too deceptive. I don't know how your common sense doesn't tell you to dump her. Only God knows the other guys doing her. The fact that she even got pregnant means they did it skin2skin! Dear Lord! To you my Nairaland brothers I say: check your girlfriend's phone today! 53 Likes 3 Shares
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Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man...is It Right To Go On With Her? by argon500: 2:49am On Feb 22, 2015 |
If you cheat on her, she will definitely go back to alfa to finish you. Oboy, tear race.. Talking from experience. 20 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man...is It Right To Go On With Her? by Nobody: 4:31am On Feb 22, 2015 |
God cries when he sees your stupidity 13 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man...is It Right To Go On With Her? by pretydiva(f): 4:49am On Feb 22, 2015 |
Dat ur gf is a big w.hore. U better dump her silly ass or else sorry wil b ur name. Even after warning her nt 2 c d alfa she stil went n dat wasn't enough, she slept wif him. Haba guy u use ur brain 4 once nau 24 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man...is It Right To Go On With Her? by Asiwaju9ja(m): 5:21am On Feb 22, 2015 |
Bro na God show u her colour. I'd advise that u let go, but just continue kpenshing d thing(Protected)until u find urself a fiancee. This one na Kpiance and a fiend not friend. The continued Kpenshing na to pay her back and to help u heal from all the hurt. 8 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man...is It Right To Go On With Her? by Nobody: 5:47am On Feb 22, 2015 |
Op,please change the topic to my dog slept with an Alfa,till she sleeps with your father,before you send her packing.. 24 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man...is It Right To Go On With Her? by daben1(m): 6:02am On Feb 22, 2015 |
Go on with her and I bet you your next post here will be ''my wife slept with my gate man'' 11 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man...is It Right To Go On With Her? by Acidosis(m): 6:08am On Feb 22, 2015 |
...and some people will say it's wrong to check or read their partners' chats. Trust is an intangible word. Check that damn phone and chats before she gives you AIDS & truncate your destiny. After all there are many decent fishes in the ocean, so why expose yourself to AIDS & other spiritual diseases in the name of "trust"? 77 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man...is It Right To Go On With Her? by macklef(m): 6:08am On Feb 22, 2015 |
Some say its a Man's world. True or not i cant say. But what i know is this, if a man sleeps with another lady it can be overlooked, hes a striker, his self control can be bashed. But For a Lady, its a complete no no, she was made to be a keeper, if she gives in, shes a hoe. Her dignity lies on the floor man. 6 Likes 2 Shares |
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