i don't think so cos it will help in controlling kid manufacturing

Chukzcolin:
I need a sex mate..am still a vergin..and its killing me inside..

Chukzcolin:
I need a sex mate..am still a vergin..and its killing me inside..

if nah money u want!! He dey!! If nah bugatti!! He dey!! Ferrari no b problem!! Oya make we dey roll nah!!

chibarbie:
who dash u first to comment??

omo nah baba God Oo!! He No Easy nah!!

danielmichael:
Ive been so doubtful if using condom during sex in marriage is cool or not or is a sin against the bible...pls is dis rilly making sense..


Like Use of condom as a pregnancy preventive measure, when they are not ready for kids.

Matured comments and responds

why must we discuss about sex all the time... i think nairaland is heading towards flirting blog.

ifysimple:
In the Catholic Church, it is a sin to use condom and withdrawal method.

They taught us that in marriage course. Once you re ready to marry and attend marriage course, you shall be taught natural way of family planning which is billings method.

please I will what to know the billings method. can you share more light on it please

diddydiva:
to me there is nothing wrong with it.

it's a way of protecting unwanted pregnancies.

Biblically, nothing like unwanted pregnancies. Any semen should naturally go in, so you rely on her cycle as birth control and not condom. Temporal ways are not what heaven knows oh.

IVORY2009:


do you want a football team and you will be the coach or perhaps the goalkeeper?

LOL.
For christ say this is your wife! Why must you use condom for christ sake? Then you're not ready to have a baby any way.

bamog:
at last!! 1st to comment!! Abeg wu get garri?? Up chelsea!! Bleep david luiz!! ASUU don call off strike!! Api new year!! Odun lo n sopin ooo baba rere!!!

chei!

If papa shekau had used one and some of our leaders' babaz had used this simple device eh? We wouldn't have bn in this mess .

jerrymej:



LOL.
For christ say this is your wife! Why must you use condom for christ sake? Then you're not ready to have a baby any way.

have you ever heard of the word, "prevention is better than cure"?

danielmichael:
Ive been so doubtful if using condom during sex in marriage is cool or not or is a sin against the bible...pls is dis rilly making sense..


Like Use of condom as a pregnancy preventive measure, when they are not ready for kids.

Matured comments and responds

Which kind of questions are these kwa nu?

Very good, its one of the contraceptive methods and I see nothing bad in it

justmag:


Yes they are...I meant the pill. Most couples use that now.

. Those pills sometimes have side effects, while condoms doesn't......

justmag:


I know my ex used them and she was skinny thick as the day I met her. So i don't know about all that weight gain side effect!!

it depends on the lady, I know somebody that was beginnin to have spots all over her skin like measles. in fact, she became ugly with a confused skin colour.

Daninya11:
To be honest with you op, the issue of birth control - use of contraceptives, condom and withdrawal is a major concern in the Christiandom..
The Roman Catholic are at the pivot of the matter but the debate still rages on with the pentecostal and evangelical with divergent view..
Sex is for procreation and intimacy (soul tie). Some scholars point to the fact that because God slayed Onan because he spilled his seed on the ground (withdrawal method) any form of birth control is wrong..
I know of a MOG who told me that before he got married, He told God that he wanted 3 children - 2 boys and a girl.. God answer his prayers oo, the man in question is almost 90 years.. Do you expect such a man to use birth control method when he has a God that answer prayer?
I will rather opine that, a man should ask God for counsel, pray and then act accordingly.
Next to God's word, there is no more precious treasure than holy matrimony..
Enjoy your marital life according to God's will

best comment so far!!! I have thought of this topic before too, and I also remembered the story of Onan.
Many people here are just giving false reports because they indulge in premarital sex.

shadowgwalker:
it depends on the lady, I know somebody that was beginnin to have spots all over her skin like measles. in fact, she became ugly with a confused skin colour.

Mmmm and who confirmed that it was d pill dat caused this?? Well...I can only speak for two people who used it. So idk

twinee:
. Those pills sometimes have side effects, while condoms doesn't......

condoms can break! Lol.

chibaik:


Do you really know the side effects of pills? Hmm! If you know you will never think about using it or advising anybody to use it.

I know two people using the same pill and they are perfectly fine. I think it depends on the pill. If it's some over the counter cheap product then I can understand why someone may have side effect. The most side effect I heard is partial diziness in the first two week and that's it.

Am not married. I currently don't use condoms with my long time girlfriend. I don't plan on using condoms when I get married.

adconline:

What is sin, is having many kids you are not able to take care of..

Sometimes I get confused about what is right or wrong in these kind of topics. You r right. But what kind of method do they adopt before the contrceptives invention?

danielmichael:
Ive been so doubtful if using condom during sex in marriage is cool or not or is a sin against the bible...pls is dis rilly making sense..


Like Use of condom as a pregnancy preventive measure, when they are not ready for kids.

Matured comments and responds

Drop your bible for a moment to use common sense.
Bible was written by humans at a time they thought earth was flat. And they had no clue that earth was just one of more than septillion planets in the universe.

Do married people actually use condoms?
I don't think I could ever use condom on someone I've had sex with without condom, it's kind of weird.

kelvin100:
Do married people actually use condoms?
I don't think I could ever use condom on someone I've had sex with without condom, it's kind of weird.

your lack of experience speaks .

IVORY2009:


have you ever heard of the word, "prevention is better than cure"?

What does that mean? So you didn't truths her to be non effective and you still went ahead to marry her? Come on, for christ sake, she's your wife and not your flirt, unless you know you that she's infected. Even so do you have 100% assurance on the condom to protect you.

I think the word "protection" here is silly, and if not so, then tell me how 'll you make her to conceive at least to give you a baby!

Chukzcolin:
I need a sex mate..am still a vergin..and its killing me inside..

u re a dude Pls. No girl would say this

So nothing a decent person can do again without church or religious approval.

Our underdevelopment is really in our minds. Not just politics or poor infrastructure.

All begin in our enslaved minds.

Daninya11:
...Some scholars point to the fact that because God slayed Onan because he spilled his seed on the ground (withdrawal method) any form of birth control is wrong..

Biko, no vex but I beg to differ on the part of your comment I quoted.
The biblical record says,
"But Er, Judah's firstborn, was wicked in the Lord's sight; so the LORD put him to death. Then Judah said to Onan, “Lie with your brother's wife and fulfill your duty to her as a brother-in-law to produce offspring for your brother.” But Onan knew that the offspring would not be his; so whenever he lay with his brother's wife, he spilled his semen on the ground to keep from producing offspring for his brother. What he did was wicked in the Lord's sight; so He put him to death also."(Genesis 38:7-10, NIV)
Some have mistakenly assumed that Onan's sin was masturbation. However, it seems that this is not the case (please, note the emphasis on seems) Onan was prematurely withdrawing from sexual intercourse with his new wife, Tamar. This is a form of birth control still practiced today (coiitus interruptus per Latin - or should I say Catholic - parlance). Onan had an obligation to provide his wife with a child, and his brother with an heir (Deut. 25:5-6; Matt. 22:24). He was now the oldest son in a tribe that was supposed to be fruitful and multiply in fulfillment of God's promise to Abraham. As the heir of Judah, he was destined to one day become the tribe's spiritual and moral leader. Onan's sin was in purposely disobeying his father, denying his wife the opportunity of conceiving the child that she wanted (and probably needed). There were strong cultural and practical reasons for her desire for children, especially a male heir. Onan enjoyed sex, but rebelliously prevented its natural result, the conception of a child. He was selfish, and showed disrespect for his brother, his wife, his father, and God.
God judged Onan not fit for his ultimate position as the leader of this especially important tribe of God's chosen people, which was destined to be the line of King David, and ultimately of Mary and Joseph, the parents of Jesus. The tribe would one day become known as “the Jews.”
Onan died in the land of Canaan before grandfather Jacob and all his descendants went into Egypt (Genesis 46:12).
Tamar, his wife, later bore a child who is listed in the genealogy of Jesus Christ.
My post is not to support masturbation (and I'd say whoever is without sin as far as masturbation is concerned should cast the first stone) or promote fornication/adultery, it is just for us to put things in the right perspective but I may be wrong because I am not an authority on this topic.
For the records, I feel sex is meant for both procreation and to promote closeness between a husband and a wife; having to procreate more than you have capability to take care of while you are trying to engender closeness is wrong and as such you should try and control birth while you enjoy sex (this is strictly my own opinion). Every individual have their beliefs and practice, what is good for one man may be a sin to the other person. So the mode for which each person practice this rest solely on the individual. If you like sef, no Bleep unless you wan born and after the pikin don enter, hang ya boot, na ye sabi.
Let's not try not to misconstrue facts just to promote an argument.
Abeg, like I mentioned when I started, no vex, I don't mean any disrespect. This is just the way I see that part of your post I quoted.
Regards.

as a partner; for hw long do you wonna use condom It's not sinful though, but proper family planning is preferable.

what kind of mumu question is this eh

adconline:

What is sin, is having many kids you are not able to take care of..

Comment on point for Gods sake why born wetin you no fit feed? It's a sin to mankind!

With threads like this,just ban religion shikena!