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Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man...is It Right To Go On With Her? by Nobody: 7:58am On Feb 22, 2015 |
ivyT: I viewed your dp and forgave you for this your talk... 1. She is a cheat 2. She is a careless cheat for having sex without a condom 3. She has dead emotions for sayings she is sleeping with a man she does not love. 4. She is a champion in emotional blackmails with all those her overflowing tear bags 5. If really she didn't get pregnant and went for an abortion, then she is a thief and a liar for saying that to the man.. Only beg no fit mange all these ones.... 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man...is It Right To Go On With Her? by FrenchyL(m): 7:58am On Feb 22, 2015 |
My brother it is a terrible feeling. I think you should let her go. She will do it again and again. She knows that you love her dearly so she will use that to manipulate you. This is the one you know for now but what there are others?? Save yourself the heartache and stress and let her go. Someone else is waiting for you. Remain on top of all things and think clear thoughts. |
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man...is It Right To Go On With Her? by Nobody: 7:58am On Feb 22, 2015 |
Acidosis: You are right bro. If you have the opportunity GO THROUGH YOUR PARTNER'S PHONE AND MESSAGES. Afterall if you guys do not keep your bodies (love making) a secret from each other why keep messages a secret? 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man...is It Right To Go On With Her? by uchejames2(m): 7:59am On Feb 22, 2015 |
My man na u hold the yam and also the knife begin to chop am! Which other advice are you seeking for rather than the one you can give to yourself.... A stitch in time saves nine |
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man...is It Right To Go On With Her? by ELGREF(m): 7:59am On Feb 22, 2015 |
I saw danger ahead if you continue with her |
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man...is It Right To Go On With Her? by ochukofortune(m): 7:59am On Feb 22, 2015 |
I will understand that the girl in question is a Yoruba girl likely from Ogun, Kwara or Ibadan. Secondly she isn't on nairaland. My one kobo is dat there is a diff btw a wife and any girl, most girls won't make good wives hence they are not supposed to get married and dis ur girl is one of d second class.Pls if u need a wife den dump her sorry Ass cos she is a LovePeddler! 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man...is It Right To Go On With Her? by Olushauneddy(m): 7:59am On Feb 22, 2015 |
According to an adage in my tribe " An adulterous woman will end up killing her husband if she didn't kill herself " A word is enough for the wise. |
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man...is It Right To Go On With Her? by lirusehn(m): 8:01am On Feb 22, 2015 |
if she had slept with a dog it could have bin better but an alfa *spits* woe unto them both |
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man...is It Right To Go On With Her? by Nobody: 8:01am On Feb 22, 2015 |
dpoladapo604:Wrapped with a chick...drama, drama, drama OP, that lady is playing with you and will finish you if you go ahead and marry her. Lots of bitchhes out there pretending to be in love because they only want to get married. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man...is It Right To Go On With Her? by Nobody: 8:02am On Feb 22, 2015 |
Oju to ma bani kale ki n se ipin laaro. My friend u dont need serius advice here. Use your brain. A cheat is a cheat and will continue to cheat no matter what you may do. U dont need to deceive yourself, u wil regrete if you mary her. However, u have to leave her with inteligent so that she wil take your name and picture to harbalist. Start treating her like ordinary girlfriend b4 u let go finaly. Use ur brain and dont be deceived by LOVE. |
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man...is It Right To Go On With Her? by Nobody: 8:03am On Feb 22, 2015 |
Omotolu: Keep shut please. Cheating even to the point of abortion? Even had the guts to lie to him about it. Spinning tales. Is that what you call loving angel? 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man...is It Right To Go On With Her? by firstolalekan(m): 8:03am On Feb 22, 2015 |
menix:Yes o I even noticed too many Gbagauns 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man...is It Right To Go On With Her? by veraiyke(m): 8:04am On Feb 22, 2015 |
Itz still very early. It very right for u to pick up ur partner's phone n go thru it. Abeg let her to waka. Is it dat u dnt ve money dat she is playn abortion to xtort money or is it dat dats hw she is generally. For ur own gud dnt proceed with d relatnshp |
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man...is It Right To Go On With Her? by PreciousBro: 8:04am On Feb 22, 2015 |
From All Indication, Its Clear That Trust' ,Loyalty' are Big Issues. She Lacks Those Sufficient Virtues Men Crave In Women Hence Making You Insecure wIth/around Her. If She Were a Footballer,She'd Be a Mid-fielder,That Explains The Reason She Dribbles You With Her Disobedience. When Is It Gonna Stop huh ? I'm Sorry,Love Isn't Enough In Your Case, She Has To Deal With Her Self Issues Without You In Her Future . |
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man...is It Right To Go On With Her? by Sarimah(f): 8:04am On Feb 22, 2015 |
this one is strong forgive her but don't continue with the relationship 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man...is It Right To Go On With Her? by handsome86(m): 8:04am On Feb 22, 2015 |
My first advise is you should forgive. Her ,my second advise is you should end the relationship. my third advise is you should go for hiv test after 3months . 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man...is It Right To Go On With Her? by tonero230(m): 8:04am On Feb 22, 2015 |
ivyT: Birds of the same feather!Only God knows how many times you have committed abortion 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man...is It Right To Go On With Her? by tundeotunba(m): 8:05am On Feb 22, 2015 |
Alfa no be human being. My guy, na peace of mind important pass o. Stick wit her if U can deal wit it. |
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man...is It Right To Go On With Her? by Doughyeenbae(f): 8:05am On Feb 22, 2015 |
dajoaneke:perfect |
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man...is It Right To Go On With Her? by lumidey2013(m): 8:05am On Feb 22, 2015 |
Bro, the Gal na "Ololudo" and not "Ololufe". Beware ! |
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man...is It Right To Go On With Her? by Nobody: 8:06am On Feb 22, 2015 |
favoured234: 6. The guy (OP) means nothing to her, thats why she took him for granted and visited the alfa despite his warnings 7. She is a manipulator and a liar. 8. She is fetish. Like someone said above if the OP continues the relationship and eventually cheats on her or hurts her she will go back to that same alfa or another one to seek revenge or ruin for the guy 9. She is ultimately disobedient and selfish. She puts only herself into consideration. 10. She is dangerous. She keeps dangerous secrets hidden ti herself. Secrets dangerous enough to ruin her partner. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man...is It Right To Go On With Her? by Esdb3: 8:08am On Feb 22, 2015 |
dpoladapo604:lord see how God just saved this one and he is still dulling. God just showed the 'thing' you've been in love with. Dontt be samson fa drop this delilah before she shaves your head. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man...is It Right To Go On With Her? by Nobody: 8:09am On Feb 22, 2015 |
dpoladapo604:Forgive her and stay out of her private life. Love ke, do the 2 of you even know the meaning of the word. If you can not stomach it then move on. |
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man...is It Right To Go On With Her? by Nobody: 8:09am On Feb 22, 2015 |
Sarimah:Hey, you've got a nice up there. Is it real or fake? |
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man...is It Right To Go On With Her? by eromspete(m): 8:09am On Feb 22, 2015 |
She used the ABORTION story to try to get money from the Alfa. She' obviously a CON ARTIST. If you get married to her, expect alot of manipulation from her to satisfy whatever she wants. If she wants money she will scam you emotionally to get it. Separation from a partner is painful especially when emotional investments are high but you should be able to let go. She messed up and now you have two choices: 1 - To forgive and WARN her strongly not to try it ever again as long as she's with you OR 2 - Let her go (people rarely change from already established behaviours) |
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man...is It Right To Go On With Her? by sagaciousblog: 8:10am On Feb 22, 2015 |
am i d only ignorant one here? PLZ WHATS AN ALFA? the thing no dey google.. 3 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man...is It Right To Go On With Her? by kobonaire(m): 8:11am On Feb 22, 2015 |
@OP, you have been alpha-f'ked by 50 shades of a cunning individual..... RUN AWAY!! |
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man...is It Right To Go On With Her? by Nobody: 8:11am On Feb 22, 2015 |
ronald4lif:abeg wetin be Alfa? And as for the op. If u love her. U wouldn't be here creating this thread. Since u said uv forgiven her. And forgiveness don't mean forgive and remember but forgive and forget. We are not the one into this. So we can't make decisions for u. So fvck off. Why should u even be viewuing her chats? From all indications ur also cheating on her. Won't she have her own private life cause she is dating u? Or have u paid her bride price? Omo dey ur lane. Please what is alfa? |
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man...is It Right To Go On With Her? by UncleJudax(m): 8:12am On Feb 22, 2015 |
ivyT:Really? I am speechless. |
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man...is It Right To Go On With Her? by kobonaire(m): 8:12am On Feb 22, 2015 |
sagaciousblog:you need the Naija Google ... 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man...is It Right To Go On With Her? by charismaticdave(m): 8:14am On Feb 22, 2015 |
dpoladapo604: brother, no one is perfect, not even me or you, we guys don't own them (ladies) they have their own beliefs and we have ours, if you are ready to let go, do and forgive her, if you can't, just break up already, don't manage the relationship because you will regret later. why are you going through her phone, that means the trust is not there, does she goes through yours? |
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man...is It Right To Go On With Her? by Nobody: 8:14am On Feb 22, 2015 |
Very painful,I understand ur plight.Truely,all ladies are bitche.s,I prefer 2 stay alone till I grow old.No wonder,most whites divorce so easily.For me,don't continue with her,let her bear the brunt of her actions and live with the pain for ever. |
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