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Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man...is It Right To Go On With Her? by Dubemkelly(m): 9:23am On Feb 22, 2015
You understand her better than I do, the ball is right on ur court, strike if u can...
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man...is It Right To Go On With Her? by xest(m): 9:24am On Feb 22, 2015
ivyT:





Wicked* grin
Shebi she don beg d guy na
see ur head,na d way una go dey sleep arnd wit different men for money. Dem do una do money? Make him forgive her.... Rubbish
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man...is It Right To Go On With Her? by lolaxavier(m): 9:24am On Feb 22, 2015
adahgold:
I will advise u to dump her cuz d imagination of her sleeping with d Alfa will always hunt u,it's a good idea u check her fone because if not for DAT she will still be sleeping with him,let me tell u something bro if a man sleeps with a lady ones it will surely continue as long as possible.

Are you serious about this advise
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man...is It Right To Go On With Her? by xtervaganza(m): 9:26am On Feb 22, 2015
I won't advise you to leave her but she's f*cking an alfa?



I'm sure you know those alfas have jazz?



Hmmmm I pity you small o
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man...is It Right To Go On With Her? by lolaxavier(m): 9:27am On Feb 22, 2015
Odunharry:

true........i use 2 be an advocate of not checking each other's phone but e get wtn i see some years ago..
My guy,fear catch me o....many girls aint loyal..

I dnt have problem with anybody going thru my phone and i notice it ladies who do that.

I also do not support checking each other's phone but seriously, I think it is something I will have to do in my next relationship. Maybe I wouldn't have fallen prey in my previous relationship if I had done that. Some ladies will lie and you will think you are dealing with Mother Theresa...
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man...is It Right To Go On With Her? by xreal: 9:32am On Feb 22, 2015
u know wetin the alfa don deposit put?

booomb!!!
run for ya liiiife.
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man...is It Right To Go On With Her? by Don11673: 9:37am On Feb 22, 2015
The reason this story is here is becos, with all you ve said you still wanna be with this lady. Bros, makeup ya mind and leave this lady bfor this story gets more complicated.
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man...is It Right To Go On With Her? by Odunharry(m): 9:37am On Feb 22, 2015
lolaxavier:


I also do not support checking each other's phone but seriously, I think it is something I will have to do in my next relationship. Maybe I wouldn't have fallen prey in my previous relationship if I had done that. Some ladies will lie and you will think you are dealing with Mother Theresa...
guy u need do am o....Dnt mind her if she tries to blackmail u by crying or saying u dnt love her and all that..Girls are masters when it comes to pretence and the funny thing is many of them will always check ur phone..Atimes i wonder what is in a phone that they hide.

This Op own worst o.Me na text msg sent and recieve i see i was just playing along then i kickd her out didnt evn bother the begging or tears
Beware of girls who dnt answer call when u are 2geda or who always answer with Yes,no,later(one/two word reply)...My guy,RUNNNNNN FASTTTT
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man...is It Right To Go On With Her? by Nobody: 9:40am On Feb 22, 2015
cluksy:

Grow old nigger; u'll fall in love and get married to a virgin prostitute in ur old age.
who's nigga?Never. U quote me again ok!Lil kids roaming on the internet these days.May be the kid is a lady in a guy's moniker deceiving herself.
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man...is It Right To Go On With Her? by lyricalz: 9:51am On Feb 22, 2015
Dats yoruba gals 4 u, cheating is dia 2nd name. 1 di*k no dey do them.

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Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man...is It Right To Go On With Her? by 9jatatafo(m): 9:56am On Feb 22, 2015
If you place that your girl and black mamba snake (poisonous snake) together and you asked me to choose one, I will go for the black mamba snake. That your girl is very dangerous and poisonous. Flee far from her. That girl will not break your heart but she will use pin to pierce a very deep and painful holes in your heart and she will leave you to die slowly. Guy fade that girl away fast from your life. She belongs to the Alfa, you are just her spare tyre.
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man...is It Right To Go On With Her? by ifoundmyperfect: 9:59am On Feb 22, 2015
In Sam Smith's tune...
... And when she calls me baby, I know I'm not the only one...

You know what to do bro! For the record, she had the abortion. Don't ask me how I found out. You will find out when your eye don clear...

Lastly, go check yourself for any venereal disease since shez been keeping multiple sex partners and having unprotected sex.
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man...is It Right To Go On With Her? by abdillahee(m): 10:00am On Feb 22, 2015
Warning!!! If you catch HIV AIDS that's when you go shine your eyes, you should also go on test now, hmmmmm women of now a days, she is already a prayer she can't stop even when you guys got married, so let her go with immediate effect
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man...is It Right To Go On With Her? by InvertedHammer: 10:02am On Feb 22, 2015
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Some people sef.

U see this kind thing and u still get mind to dey ask for opinions and advice?

People just carry themselves dey dash trouble for free.
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Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man...is It Right To Go On With Her? by Kingsasian(m): 10:04am On Feb 22, 2015
immortalvoices:
Is it me or have anyone noticed that some smart girls have perfected the act of crying with extreme tears to blackmail guys into forgiving them. ...whenever they are wrong...

Well dear OP get ready to even seen nudes and soft porn on her fone...she is taking advantage of weak and fragile heart.

You do not love her you are only infatuated, so quit now before you hurt her and hurt yourself
my brother God will surely bless u for this@first paragraph. Choi I don experience am tire.
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man...is It Right To Go On With Her? by Nobody: 10:06am On Feb 22, 2015
..........Meaning that the Alpha even combed your babe skin-2-skin and you are here asking the most stuupid question ever??Some dudes sha oo.
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man...is It Right To Go On With Her? by Phoenixfrank(m): 10:09am On Feb 22, 2015
Please let her go I promise you there is someone better out there. I ve had a similar experience... There is always someone better but we are just afraid of change and the illusion of being in love
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man...is It Right To Go On With Her? by andyanders: 10:09am On Feb 22, 2015
ronald4lif:
I will advise you let go of her, the memories of her sleeping with this Alfa will never wane off and it will spring up feelings of resentment in the future. If you can let go fine but if you can't oh well...

Exactly.Even with her association with the Alfa, the man could turn around and harm OP because the girl herself may have jazzed OP hence he is here saying that he is in love with a young lady at her age that goes to an Alfa for spiritual help.She will finish this guy.

OP, just run for your life is in danger. No love can buy life. This is a sign now that you are heading to what would end your life. There was a case like this that a young lady ended killing her young husband because an Alfa asked her to bring the guy's underwear for him to do a medicine that would make her husband love her the more. After he did that, the lady started having feelings for the Alfa and ended up sleeping with him.At the end, when the husband came back one night and took the underwear and wore it, he slept and never woke up again.
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man...is It Right To Go On With Her? by pappilo(m): 10:09am On Feb 22, 2015
Never!

If it was a 5 year marriage, then I would understand but a 6 month 'relationship' drop her like its hot!

Ladies can cheat if they want but just dont get caught. What one doesnt know cant kill one.

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Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man...is It Right To Go On With Her? by skj1377(m): 10:09am On Feb 22, 2015
Bros the problem is you. How come your attracted to such a person to the extent that your in love. I think your intuition is dead or something spiritual is binding both of you . Naira land cant help you go for prayers please
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man...is It Right To Go On With Her? by Kingsasian(m): 10:09am On Feb 22, 2015
Acidosis:
...and some people will say it's wrong to check or read their partners' chats.

Trust is an intangible word. Check that damn phone and chats before she gives you AIDS & truncate your destiny.

After all there are many decent fishes in the ocean, so why expose yourself to AIDS & other spiritual diseases in the name of "trust"?
u are right bro, God bless u.
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man...is It Right To Go On With Her? by braine(m): 10:09am On Feb 22, 2015
immortalvoices:
Is it me or have anyone noticed that some smart girls have perfected the act of crying with extreme tears to blackmail guys into forgiving them. ...whenever they are wrong...

Well dear OP get ready to even seen nudes and soft porn on her fone...she is taking advantage of weak and fragile heart.

You do not love her you are only infatuated, so quit now before you hurt her and hurt yourself
that crying part is just annoying.
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man...is It Right To Go On With Her? by emmillyfaith(f): 10:10am On Feb 22, 2015
Please let's look at this issue from a proper point of view,d lady in quetion had a dream and decided 2 seek solution from d socalled alfa,she wasn't wrong because in their conversation he never asked her out,the only way she went wrong was that she should hav obeyed her fiance's instruction. But meanwhile,I strongly believe that she was anxious 2 know d meaning of what she saw in d rem of d dream,furthermore this socalled Alfa is obviously not ordained by God therefore he was led by d flesh and wit d aid of his fetish powers he lured he in2 sex,she couldn't have known when it happend and by requesting money 4 abortion may be she wanted her pound of flesh. MY DEAR BROTHER I see no reason why u should dump ur fiancee u saw d conversation ur self she wasn't 100% faulty and besides if God can forgive den whom are we not 2 do d same. True love endureth trials and temptations obviously she loves u and if she were a cheat u wld hav seen d traits in her b4 d ALFA issue came up. Pls give her a second chance. She's human and only but a woman. GOD be wit u both. COMMENTATORS pls think twice.
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man...is It Right To Go On With Her? by Kingsasian(m): 10:13am On Feb 22, 2015
This is one reason why I will always be in support of us checking our partners phones. I found out about all my exs sex escapades with other guys through it. Funny enough ladies or girls of nowadays are very deceptive, pretenders and great liars who can deceive the devil himself. So I advice that we check our partners phones so that we know the kind of human beings we are dating and intimating with. My dear op forgive if u truly luv her and if she is sincere and genuine about changing for good. I am still recovering from almost the same experience of urs which I found out last month. God help us.
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man...is It Right To Go On With Her? by savanto: 10:15am On Feb 22, 2015
@OP,

I felt for you after reading you post. I'm glad that you are not yet married to her. I will tell you the truth because I have seen it all and even worse.

The lady in question, like most ladies our society produces today, wants to 'settle down with you' she could shed a drum full of tears to convince you of her undying love for you. She does not know anything about love. You are easily moved by a woman's tears and that could be your doom. Never allow yourself to be moved by tears. There are somethings I cannot say here but I can tell you that the tears she shed will not stop her from cheating on you soon...not later!

The problem is that most women don't know where they are with themselves. They seem to want to eat their cake and have it back. They are greedy and lack the will-power to say no to men when they are in a relationship.

Let me break it down a little bit for your comprehension. If for instance, you show me this girl that just shed tears of sorrow to you a few days ago, I can get to easily sleep with her while you monitor her movements to be sure that I'm telling you the truth.
I'm not writing to condemn our women. They are great and God created them to be our helpers. But don't think with your d1ck.

Con
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man...is It Right To Go On With Her? by ronald4lif(m): 10:17am On Feb 22, 2015
mikketech:
abeg wetin be Alfa?

And as for the op. If u love her. U wouldn't be here creating this thread. Since u said uv forgiven her. And forgiveness don't mean forgive and remember but forgive and forget. We are not the one into this. So we can't make decisions for u. So fvck off. Why should u even be viewuing her chats? From all indications ur also cheating on her. Won't she have her own private life cause she is dating u? Or have u paid her bride price? Omo dey ur lane.


Please what is alfa?

I think Alfa is a traditionalist, like Igbos call it Dibia. It's a native doctor sort of
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man...is It Right To Go On With Her? by Nobody: 10:19am On Feb 22, 2015
Forgive her bro smiley

But dump her ass as well angry
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man...is It Right To Go On With Her? by cinovikthor(m): 10:20am On Feb 22, 2015
Dear brother is it until you contact hiv/ebola from the spiritual world before u'd abscond for your dear life..."trust" is intangible oooo...better pack and run from the girl, or let the girl run from u....the earlier the best ooo...*strolling from chibok I'd be in lagos soon.
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man...is It Right To Go On With Her? by braine(m): 10:22am On Feb 22, 2015
andyanders:


Exactly.Even with her association with the Alfa, the man could turn around and harm OP because the girl herself may have jazzed OP hence he is here saying that he is in love with a young lady at her age that goes to an Alfa for spiritual help.She will finish this guy.

OP, just run for your life is in danger. No love can buy life. This is a sign now that you are heading to what would end your life. There was a case like this that a young lady ended killing her young husband because an Alfa asked her to bring the guy's underwear for him to do a medicine that would make her husband love her the more. After he did that, the lady started having feelings for the Alfa and ended up sleeping with him.At the end, when the husband came back one night and took the underwear and wore it, he slept and never woke up again.
Oh Lord! Chai!
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man...is It Right To Go On With Her? by Emaprince: 10:23am On Feb 22, 2015
Alexpissu:
God cries when he sees your stupidity
grin grin bros you come here?
You know some men are too good and normally turns stewpid.such excessively good men are always dealt with by women.

And the lieing part is something I'm not surprised about.women will deny and put their lives on the line when it comes to this type of issues unless you have a concrete evidence.upon that,some will still twist it somehow and call it ordinary flirt.

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Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man...is It Right To Go On With Her? by cluksy(m): 10:25am On Feb 22, 2015
Best relationship advice: Don't do anything you wouldn't want your boyfriend/girlfriend to do, in so doing, u'll see clearly than suspicious intrigues.

My dear brother, the mind is a leverage entity and on its own can make
(1) a heaven of hell and
(2) a hell of heaven

Not every girl out there is an asshole or grace mates.

BE FREE
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man...is It Right To Go On With Her? by Jennifer89(f): 10:25am On Feb 22, 2015
nawa for some girls o! latter they will say guyz are wicked. Op give another chance coz u said u love her but if u decide not to, u are not to blame

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