dharay99:


Wetin b her name, lemme help u...

Instead of u to encourage me u won come steal the babe. Guy any other way I'm Scared of this one step u posted

Ok

missjenna:
Op you are correct.
These points you stated are for winning the hearts of girls, not women

Anytime I see missjenna's comment I start losing hope mehn.

wondering what will work on her type..this is not supposed to be a job interview na

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Observing all of you, i will show all these to your parents in the next PNA meeting(Parents , nairaland association)

Princecalm:
Observing all of you, i will show all these to your parents in the next PNA meeting(Parents , nairaland association)

CharlesNneji1:
I got over a hundred email this week from guys who want to know "how to talk to a girl"...

...and today i am going to address that question..

These 3 ways of talking to girls that i am about to pour on your laps always work like magic, every single time. with just these three ways of talking to girls you can get them to become addicted to you, always come around you and basically love to be around you like crazy. Turn it up just a bit, use it on your dream girl and you will have her sending you love texts like her life depends on it

Go through these strategies then ask any girl around you weather they work and my guess is that they would give you a resounding yes.

Before i go into the strategies let me quickly tell you why these strategies work.

stay with me

Here is the thing;

- One; girls always get guys coming around them - every single time. walk through a girl's Facebook inbox and you will be marveled at the tons of unread messages in it. In real life, same thing happens - they get approached by guys all the time. an average girl gets approached by at least two guys every week or two guys everyday if she is pretty (that's 4 guys every week)

This attention gets to a girl's head, she starts feeling like a prize and when that happens shakara steps in.

- Two; Girls are bombarded by loads and loads of boring guys everyday. it can be tiring, trust me - what they do is to filter away the boring guys and focus on the more interesting ones.

If girls don't like talking to you long in real life and in social media then it means you are not communicating with them in these three ways i am about to reveal. If girls always give you "k" and "lol" on social media, it is not because they are rude - it is because you are plain boring (that is the painful truth). but here is the good news, you can change how you communicate with girls and become a more attractive guy by using this 3 strategies

here they are -

1. Teasing
2. Sarcasm
3. Bedroom talk

#1. Teasing:

Some guys can be a big nightmare to girls. what girls hate like crazy is a guy who keeps asking tons and tons of question when they discuss with them. questions like: "how was your day", "have you eaten", "hope your day was good", "hope you are fine"

all in one chat/conversation.

This is boring, it bores the hell out of girls.

You have to be more interesting than that if you want that girl to find you interesting. You have to flirt with her using the teasing strategy.

how does this work?

simple - teasing basically means to make fun of a girl in a playful way.

let me give you practical examples - Instead of coming to a girls Facebook Picture and commenting with "Beautiful Picture" (which is boring - every guy does it), You could flip this around and comment instead with - "Comot here joor, you are too sexxxy for my liking, i can't date someone like you."

To a guy, a talk like this is silly (i know) but to a girl it works like magic. (Try it right now, go on Facebook and try it out under a girl's picture and watch her reaction).

More examples - You could call up a girl and instead of asking her "did you think of me?" (which is as boring as hell and makes her feel like you are begging to be thought of), the best way to start the conversation is to playfully say - "I know you've been thinking about me all day so i am here to free your mind" *smile* "how are you". The reason why this works on girls is that it:

- makes you different from other guys who are boring
- Makes you appear confident.
- Makes you more attractive because by making fun of her you give her the impression that you are not trying to impress her like other guys do (and nothing is as attractive to girls as a guy who doesn't try to impress them like a puppy)

Now note; it doesn't matter what you say but how you say it. someone can say the above things and it will seem like he is arrogant while another person would say the exact same thing and it would work like a magnetic magic on a girl. so the right way to tease a girl is to always make fun of her with a smile. it doesn't mean saying nasty things to her; the right way to tease is to always make it seem like you are playing around with your little sister.

for more on how to tease a girl and the right ways to go about it so as to make her see you as a potential boyfriend in minutes, that is where my e-book comes in (see my profile for a picture of it), in it i went into very deep details on how to tease your way into a girl's heart - no matter how tough or hard to get she is (to get the e-book you can add the number above on watsapp and send your messages to it or call the number on my profile).

PS: will continue with the other two strategies in my next posts on this thread. stay tuned. meanwhile you can visit my website (see my profile)

Stay tuned.

If a lady senses you do these just to get her she will be repelled by you...its just like reading just to pass an exam den forgetting everything afterwards...

Do these because thats who you are & not because of some girl & den you're good to go..kapish?

CharlesNneji1:


*shakes ma head* Bad girl, you are looking for what to jaz ya boyfriend for life with abi. *smiles* Well, i will think about it. If i create a thread for ladies, i will send you a text message *winks*

pls stop using all these 'smiles', 'winks', 'big grin', in ur posts, its becoming a little too drab. Rather use the emoticons.

Nice topic btw

EroticAngelina:
try harder

U no fine joor u are too sexy 4 my liking ....
Shebi u haf being tinkin of me

vinxce:


Instead of u to encourage me u won come steal the babe. Guy any other way I'm Scared of this one step u posted

Steal keh...no o.

CharlesNneji1:


Thank you dear; *smiles* Now get out of you - you are too sexxy for ma liking *big grin* If you tell me that line didn't work on you i will have 2 bite off ya lips for you.

OP im lips ke? Na 14yrs IT oo

I used to date one of the best teasers there is, dude teased me like his life depended on it, I would even form vex at some points, he still wouldn't stop till I will end up laughing out loud like a lunatic. Very funny guy.

Good one OP.

kilokeys:
Nneka123 "Comot here joor, you are too sexxxy for my liking, i can't date someone like you."




i hope it works

if it doesn't.. op, you are fired

Hahahahahahahaha Nl no go kee me with laugh ooo a whole truck load of relationship experts... Naija we too mush!!!!!!

CharlesNneji1:


*smiles*

My brother; yes - money can attract girls but still, a boring guy is still a boring guy. the money can't take that away, even with the money we all still need to learn some social skills or the girl will dump you for another rich guy with a better personality. If a girl like you for your money she will leave you when a richer guy shows up, so it is always better to make her attracted to you as a person rather than to get her attracted to your pocket.

secondly, Sure, giving a girl attention is nice but when you do it too much it will make her loose interest in you (ask any girl). You have to make her miss you sometimes (i explained all that in my e-book)

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To get a girl is one thing, but to keep the girl is another thing.
And if you have to expend all these efforts to get a girl's attention, what time will the guy have to build himself and his career?
The most boring guy with a lot of expendable income always wins. You will be surprised at how money cures boredom.


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CharlesNneji1:


Thank you dear; *smiles* Now get out of you - you are too sexxy for ma liking *big grin* If you tell me that line didn't work on you i will have 2 bite off ya lips for you.

Baaaaaaad guy. U just applied that same strategy. In a grand style I know it worked

O boy! Na true oo..The girl wey dey reply me with 'k' don dey reply me with her dad PhD thesis..

obongproff:


Iyanmi! Nsuto lowkey ade mi naha? May afo bah kay sabathical?

Ami nsong ba ba naha. Nko afo usu pickay calls, afo abah kay government house idahami, so owo apay kode fien ubugu pick.

Mfana ibaga!

This language is officially murdered

When will yall guys start learning sometins beneficial to planet earth and the rest of humanity other than all this chicago bull s h i t s, there aint no particular way to talk to a woman or gal.

Total rubbish

CharlesNneji1:
TIP #2 SACARSM

This is another powerful way to communicate with girls that will make her find you interesting. But before i go into this strategy proper, let me first tell you why it works.

Every single minute a girl gets attention from dozens upon dozens of guys struggling real hard just to impress her. During a girl's teenage years, she finds this interesting and she might even fall in love with you if you show her enough interest than other guys. But as she grows older she gets used to it and it starts to bore her. A teenage girl might fall for sweet talk but a grown girl won't - as a matter of fact she has heard it all.

two; girls are never attracted to guys who always try to impress them - they prefer free guys who they cannot control.

If you join dozens of other guys who are saying the same sweet things and acting in the same sweet way then how do you intend to stand out?

That is where "Sarcasm" comes in...it makes you stand out, It gives a girl the impression that you are not like the next guy who will only say what she wants to hear just to please her, it shows her that you are in control, it shows her that you are DIFFERENT - and girls find that attractive.

so how do you apply sarcasm in real life?

Again i will give you real life examples - let me use Facebook again; Take for instance a girl puts up a new profile picture you could inbox her and say - "Thank God for that profile picture, no guy will look at it two times and that means there is no way they will take you from me - keep uploading those kinda ugly picture"

if she gets angry don't apologizes (assuming she is the dull type that doesn't understand a joke - a smart girl will understand a joke when she hears it).

Also, for instance; if a girl says hi to you on social media you could reply with: 'You want to snatch me from my girlfriend abi, alright, if i must cheat on her for you then i need 2 sons from you"

You get the gist?; mixing a little sarcasm with a little humor is the key.

It makes you appear like you have options, but when you run around trying to impress a girl like your life depends on it it gives her this impression that you don't have much choices (that could turn a girl off big time). Girls love guys who have self worth and not ones who jump up whenever they (the girls) says jump.

For more of how to use this strategy plus other powerful secrets of getting your dream girl to fall for you, contact 08158068422 on watsapp to get a copy of my e-book "The Bang Rule...Ultimate Seduction Guild For Nigerian Guys"

PS: In my next month i will cover "Bedroom Talk", in that post i will cover how to make a girl see you as someone she must kiss and have intimate relationship with (don't read that next moth if you are not above 19, please). Meanwhile you can read my other articles here on nairaland by going to my profile or to my website (See my profile for the web address)

stay tuned...

a profound waste of tym..every guy gets a gal..boring or not, bt since da aim mainly for numerous guys is to bang..all dis mata less..one more thing, invest this into writing truly beneficial &lifechanging articles and books..make ur existence constructive...

Rennee:

Lol.. Just tell us you love a girl in your street and don't know how to go about it

ℓ☺ℓ.....it happens now

dharay99:



Take brush, use am remove d blushing sharp sharp.!

lol.. I no wan use brush spoil my fine face

beau49:


Lol...

Now I believe
This strategy works

Mprex:

sweetheart. Happy sunday

mprex had it been u r beautiful i for don use one or two of those trick on u, i no want ugly girl to fall for mi.... atiedie eyen eka mmi

CharlesNneji1:


I will cover just that in my next article

Aiit bro will be waiting.....

guys help a bro out.. I got this gal who doesn't feel me like before.. could it be that she found out that I care too much or due to the fact that I pulled her and I failed to hit.. really wanna win her back I actually love her

naijaboiy:

Aah!

Wetin you wan use that one do

the one we d use on her no do her she want go by her slf

oloyolo:


Now I believe
This strategy works