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Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man...is It Right To Go On With Her? by princejayboss: 12:29pm On Feb 23, 2015 |
delishpot: For me ...i dont think it was right going through her cell phone, if you want the relationship you not go through a woman cell phone.....we are men and we feel as Saint and sometimes we feel its right for us to cheat while the lady never tries so.. I can bet with my last penny that you were screwing another side chic during this tym.. If you do knw wht is bad when done unto you.. Dont do that to your lady.... After all if she had gone to your cell phone,she will find your short coming. ....an honest man calls a thief... A thief... Because he has not gotten the hood chance to steal. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man...is It Right To Go On With Her? by Avalani(m): 12:34pm On Feb 23, 2015 |
khiaa: Hey Level 2 Feminist, take a chill pill and relax. When you're well rested, come back, study your post hard and explain to the house what kind of logical (or illogical) conclusion you made. |
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man...is It Right To Go On With Her? by Avalani(m): 12:37pm On Feb 23, 2015 |
princejayboss: A damaged, broken drum always produces terrible music. |
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man...is It Right To Go On With Her? by Avalani(m): 12:49pm On Feb 23, 2015 |
pretydiva: Is it too much to ask for more women like this, who will give their candid opinion regardless of gender bias? |
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man...is It Right To Go On With Her? by Avalani(m): 1:03pm On Feb 23, 2015 |
Omotolu: Broken heart? Na wah o! |
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man...is It Right To Go On With Her? by delishpot: 1:13pm On Feb 23, 2015 |
princejayboss: True, if this case is reversed and the girl comes here to ask? I will say dump him too. Cos if trust will be an issue after marriage, I d rather people dont enter such unions, 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man...is It Right To Go On With Her? by Avalani(m): 1:42pm On Feb 23, 2015 |
dpoladapo604: Good news is, you have a brain. Bad news is, she's the only one using it. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man...is It Right To Go On With Her? by 2goodbobo(m): 2:34pm On Feb 23, 2015 |
There is safety in multiple of council. Majority has said you should let her go. What is the possibility that she won't cheat on you again? |
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man...is It Right To Go On With Her? by Nobody: 3:03pm On Feb 23, 2015 |
100Cents: like who? i'm a guy pls |
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man...is It Right To Go On With Her? by 100Cents: 3:14pm On Feb 23, 2015 |
Bolded: Coincidence of names and words.. |
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man...is It Right To Go On With Her? by khiaa(f): 11:11pm On Feb 23, 2015 |
Avalani: I guess you are one of those guys that label a woman a feminist when she points out a hypocritical error in your thinking, that is not a good look for you, it only shows your arrogance and stubbornness. I think the house is intelligent enough to understand my post, if you are not, hit me up and I will explain it to you step by step. |
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man...is It Right To Go On With Her? by khiaa(f): 11:23pm On Feb 23, 2015 |
hoojay4: If he takes your advice he would be doing the exact thing he is condemning her for, lets see what is the word for this, hmmmm! *Hypocrite* It would be better for him to let her go than for him to become the very thing he dislikes in her. |
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man...is It Right To Go On With Her? by Avalani(m): 1:32pm On Feb 24, 2015 |
khiaa: You are a feminist, and I really don't understand why you should be ashamed of it or deny it. I checked your profile and saw you posted a similar "Men are hypocrites" article in 2013. You have deep lying emotional baggage, and the sooner you seek help, the better it will be for you and your future generations. Just because all the men in your life have proven to be hypocrites (a sad thing) doesn't mean all men are. I would have asked you to pray for a good man, but I'm not sure you are deserving of one. Hit you up? Don't make me laugh. Explain how you arrived at your conclusion here and now. I'll read it. Maybe it will make sense. I'm keen to know how a cheating, baby-aborting, fetish woman's case connects with men as hypocrites. Seriously, you have a big emotional problem. |
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man...is It Right To Go On With Her? by khiaa(f): 12:15am On Feb 25, 2015 |
Avalani: Correction! I posted *You men cheat on your wives all the time* WOW!!! You are a very emotional man, I feel sorry for your girl *if you can find one who will put up with your whining*, as far as hypocrites are concerned I was talking about the double standard men not all men, so you being offended by my post only shows that you are one of them, by the way *hit me up* only means for you to post back to me for questions you need answered. I already answered you question in my previous post, but for the slow at mind I will break it down. #1 When a man cheats on his wife/fiance/woman alot of men on this site will blame the female with these excuses. A...she was a nag B....she got fat C.....she doesn't want to have sex often D.....she doesn't exercise E...... she, she, she never him #2 The advice to the woman is to forgive the cheating man and to pray to God for his deliverence *in other words do nothing and take it* even if he got another woman pregnant. #1 Now in the case of the woman cheating like the situation as the op. A... dump her cheating azz B.... She's a who.re C... She will cheat on you again D.... Don't marry this Jezebel #2 Fellas, where are the prayers and forgiveness for her. I believe the op should find someone who really cares about him but I HATE double standards/hypocrites. |
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man...is It Right To Go On With Her? by richielan: 12:25am On Feb 25, 2015 |
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Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man...is It Right To Go On With Her? by Truckpusher(m): 1:12am On Feb 25, 2015 |
Acidosis:Be very careful the moment a woman sings about trust like a song to your ears - Check everything out ,she might just be careless. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man...is It Right To Go On With Her? by Avalani(m): 9:39am On Feb 25, 2015 |
khiaa: When a man cheats on his wife, what do ALL WOMEN on this site advise? Because you seem caught up in your "hypocrisy" of men that it is starting to fill you up with hate. Do ALL MEN on this site advise a woman to forgive a cheating husband? The answer is, of course, no. Do ALL MEN on this site advise a man to dump a cheating woman? The answer is, again, no (evidence of the latter can be found on this very post). Did every guy on this post advise the man to divorce this cheating, fetish woman. The answer is no. Do you see the point I am making, or are you a simple lass? People of both sexes give different opinions, some in favour of their gender, others against. My problem is not the opinion of others, but it seems it is yours. Rather than give your own opinion jeje, you attacked someone's No.9 and diverted into your hate for men and their double standards. All men cheat on their wives, blah blah blah... And then you couldn't resist feeling "pity" for my girlfriend, someone you know nothing about. How nice of you. The truth is, you are either damaged goods, or 13 years old. How many lovers have come and gone in your life? You don't have to answer me on that one. Answer yourself. Have you been cherished by one man who still loves you, or are you what you sound like : damaged goods? It's probably too late for you, but don't teach younger girls this general hate and distrust you have for men. Smh Pity my sunshine, she says - very funny |
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man...is It Right To Go On With Her? by fantastic47: 11:32am On Feb 25, 2015 |
Next thing u no she will b sleeping with your pastor because she saw u in during d day. Rubbish!!! |
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man...is It Right To Go On With Her? by khiaa(f): 2:17am On Feb 26, 2015 |
Avalani: You are a fo.ol if you think I hate men because I give them some constructive advice and point out to some of them the error of their hypocrisy, *shows how lame and insecure you are* My man and I are very happy so that debunks your theory of me being unloved. Damaged goods? Sorry hon wrong again *Wise Goods*. Learn how to read with comprehension. I never attacked a poster about his #9 point, I simply asked him a question. I said you men cheat on your wives all the time (meaning the cheaters) I never said ALL men cheat, once again learn to understand what you are reading before you go out on the attack. Once again Comprehension is the key word here, I didn't say every man on this thread were hypocrites but the one who are, barks the loudest AVALANI. As for your sunshine, it would take years and years to unbrainwash her feeble mind. Aaaaaah! Don't get mad, if you can dish out the insults to me you can always expect to receive them back. Remember, *Don't start none and there will be none* I'm out!! |
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man...is It Right To Go On With Her? by Fulaman198(m): 3:45am On Feb 26, 2015 |
I don't know man, I think you are being too lenient with her. Just tell her you can't be in a relationship anymore and that you think it's best if you two go your separate ways. Do it in a manner that is reminiscent of a gentle man. |
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man...is It Right To Go On With Her? by Avalani(m): 7:43am On Feb 26, 2015 |
khiaa: You're so insignificant, yet you can't see it. Insults from you mean nothing, the same way insults from a talking antelope wouldn't matter. Your bitterness is hard to hide, and no matter how much you tell yourself you are happy, the truth seeps out. Denial isn't absence. You believe I am your enemy because I am a man but you're wrong. "My man and I are very happy" or so you say. By the way I didn't ask you that. I asked you how many lovers have come and gone. I asked you if you have been cherished by one only, and if he's still the man you're in a relationship with. The answer is of course no. Because a trained ear can tell the musical instrument from the sound produced. Quoting rap lyrics, she is (now, that made me laugh) |
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man...is It Right To Go On With Her? by Nobody: 9:23am On Feb 26, 2015 |
[quote author=Avalani post=31093639] Hey are you a biochemist? If yes I will give you a punch on the face.. |
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man...is It Right To Go On With Her? by khiaa(f): 11:17am On Feb 26, 2015 |
Avalani: LMAO You are just as feeble minded as your sunshine. Quoting rap lyrics? Are you talking about the black American saying that goes *don't start none and there won't be none* that goes as far back as the 1960's? Rap lyrics indeed.!! My man and I are happy and any person with an ounce of intelligence would be able to conclude from that statement that we are loved. How does it benefit you to know how many lovers I have had in my life? I am not your business so save those insecure questions for Sunshine. So you think I am bitter because I don't respect hypocrites like you, well you are wrong because you are just a little peon who only exist on Nairaland, so I will take my little insignificant self off of this thread and find interesting people to converse with because you my dear are a bore. Please don't quote me again, save your mumbo jumbo for Sunshine. PEACE!! 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man...is It Right To Go On With Her? by Avalani(m): 11:58am On Feb 26, 2015 |
khiaa: Goodbye feminist. |
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man...is It Right To Go On With Her? by Avalani(m): 12:01pm On Feb 26, 2015 |
[quote author=favoured234 post=31096399][/quote] Knock yourself out |
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man...is It Right To Go On With Her? by khiaa(f): 1:26am On Feb 27, 2015 |
Avalani: Thanks for the compliment. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man...is It Right To Go On With Her? by Nobody: 8:55am On Feb 27, 2015 |
its very clear that your girlfriend is a crook,no apology.I understand d way u feel right now cos I hate it wen people tell lies especially in a relationship.she slept with an Alfa,its too bad |
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man...is It Right To Go On With Her? by adahgold(m): 5:13pm On Feb 27, 2015 |
[quote author=lolaxavier post=30966968] Are you serious about this advise [/qu don't be sad,I just told u d truth... |
Re: My Fiancee Slept With Another Man...is It Right To Go On With Her? by Nobody: 6:39pm On Mar 04, 2015 |
Acidosis: U r absolutely right ooo, I almost turned a blind eye in the name of trust but when I summoned the courage to go through her chat what I saw aggravated that break up hormones in me ...choi, ladies Una dangerous. |
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