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Re: Should I Tell My Husband? by sweetcocoa(f): 9:01am On Feb 23, 2015 |
asadike:The world will be a better place, if people married someone they don't have to be scared to talk to. 21 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Should I Tell My Husband? by Nobody: 9:20am On Feb 23, 2015 |
You should have told your husband already . . . what are you scared of? I would have told my hubby there and there . . I wont even let the guy leave my home Unless I wasnt sure about his intentions . . .even then I will still tell my hubby so that we can be more careful round this person till he is caught red handed. What an insult In my own home for that matter. Is he mad? @poster you need to wake up Not everyone round your hubby is supposed to be there This is not a good friend and should therefore have no biz being round you or your husband Today its you, next time he could be touching up your daughter or your kid sister living with you . . & they may not have a voice. Ma gba igbaku gba o! 13 Likes |
Re: Should I Tell My Husband? by asadike(f): 9:34am On Feb 23, 2015 |
sweetcocoa:example pls |
Re: Should I Tell My Husband? by TheProfe: 9:35am On Feb 23, 2015 |
Momma2: If U have a good rapport with your husband, it will be in your best interest to tell him. And mind you, such a "friend" DEFINITELY DOES NOT wish your husband well. So FLEE from him!!! 3 Likes |
Re: Should I Tell My Husband? by sweetcocoa(f): 9:45am On Feb 23, 2015 |
asadike:Example of what are you asking? The comment is self explanatory. Still, I'm just saying, I find it weird that you advice her to think carefully before telling her husband, talking about being easily provoked etc. Anyways, I guess asking if she should tell, already shows that something might be wrong in that marriage. 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Should I Tell My Husband? by sweetcocoa(f): 9:48am On Feb 23, 2015 |
chaircover:They were the ones visiting the guy. The guy has no respect whatsoever for his friend and wife. 5 Likes |
Re: Should I Tell My Husband? by asadike(f): 10:09am On Feb 23, 2015 |
sweetcocoa:good. 1 Like |
Re: Should I Tell My Husband? by menix(m): 10:39am On Feb 23, 2015 |
sweetcocoa: Madam disgust I ve noticed u.. |
Re: Should I Tell My Husband? by sweetcocoa(f): 10:42am On Feb 23, 2015 |
menix:what won't I read on NL, noticed me? Get real please. 9 Likes |
Re: Should I Tell My Husband? by Nobody: 10:45am On Feb 23, 2015 |
sweetcocoa:Ignore the guy, he obviously doesn't have any sensible thing to say.. 8 Likes |
Re: Should I Tell My Husband? by Nobody: 10:48am On Feb 23, 2015 |
Momma2: pls dear keep us informed on ur hubby reaction |
Re: Should I Tell My Husband? by greatgod2012(f): 10:53am On Feb 23, 2015 |
Whoever says you shouldn't tell your hubby must be the said yeye and randy friend. 8 Likes |
Re: Should I Tell My Husband? by Daresh(f): 10:57am On Feb 23, 2015 |
Momma2: My dear, you have to tell him. He has a bad friend that can try that crap. If you dont tell him and he finds out, how will he trust you again? 1 Like |
Re: Should I Tell My Husband? by Daresh(f): 11:00am On Feb 23, 2015 |
menix: Excuse me! Don't spoil that relationship? Seriously? Who spoilt the relationship? Her or the Hot friend? Can you call someone who makes a pass at your wife your friend? What disrespect! He doesnt respect her or her husband his supposed friend! Spoil the relationship? My God ! You must be one of those people who blame women for every thing. 7 Likes |
Re: Should I Tell My Husband? by Nobody: 11:56am On Feb 23, 2015 |
Tell your husband before its too late. I won't think twice before telling my hubby due to my past experience. 3 Likes |
Re: Should I Tell My Husband? by Nobody: 11:57am On Feb 23, 2015 |
kazrem, are you through?? |
Re: Should I Tell My Husband? by Momma2(f): 3:22pm On Feb 23, 2015 |
I have told my husband and he went wtf. He was and still is so upset that a so called friend would do that. He said he always thought he was a bit weird but never to that extent because the friend makes some sexual comments even in my hubby's presence which we always thought were very inappropriate. So he has been cut off effective immediately. Won't even let my daughters near him. Thanks everyone for your insight. 45 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Should I Tell My Husband? by Nobody: 3:30pm On Feb 23, 2015 |
Momma2: *likes* 4 Likes |
Re: Should I Tell My Husband? by Asiwaju9ja(m): 4:48pm On Feb 23, 2015 |
You still dey respond to comments. You never still tell am? If you never tell am naim be say u are interested. Himself go don dey expect the yawah from your husband. But, if he no hear anything, he will feel like you are in on the game. The next time na force e go force you and as you dey scream no no no no! He go think say, you actually mean yes yes yes! As na so u dey do. 2 Likes |
Re: Should I Tell My Husband? by Nobody: 4:57pm On Feb 23, 2015 |
@ Op, you have acted irresponsibly. If I get you what were you doing in your family friend's kitchen? Do you want to see what your eyes are not supposed to see? Now you have seen it. Well done. I clap for you for this act and the music. Nonsense, nonsense...... 1 Like |
Re: Should I Tell My Husband? by Nobody: 5:00pm On Feb 23, 2015 |
Momma2: Pls read my comment before you run off thread |
Re: Should I Tell My Husband? by missade(f): 5:38pm On Feb 23, 2015 |
[ Keneking:quote author=Keneking post=31010188] Pls read my comment before you run off thread[/quote] What are you on about? Did she go into his bedroom? I guess you are just seeking attention. 13 Likes |
Re: Should I Tell My Husband? by tiredface: 6:21pm On Feb 23, 2015 |
MEN USUALLY DON'T DO THINGS LIKE THAT UNLESS THEY THINK THEY CAN GET AWAY WITH IT. WHAT'S YOUR GENERAL BEHAVIOR AROUND HIM AND YOUR HUBBY'S OTHER MALE FRIENDS. YOU MIGHT BE SENDING CONFUSING SIGNALS, LET'S SAY, UNKNOWINGLY. AS A MARRIED WOMAN, THERE'S A ACCEPTABLE UNIVERSAL BEHAVIORS. YOU'VE ALREADY MADE YOUR POINT WITH THIS MAN BY WALKING AWAY. IF IT HAPPEN AGAIN, MAYBE IT'S TIME TO TELL HIM[HUSBAND] AND I WISH YOU WELL |
Re: Should I Tell My Husband? by mutter(f): 8:27pm On Feb 23, 2015 |
I remember years back a friends husband tried to make a pass at me. I told him I felt he was joking because if he was serious I would have to tell his wife. He looked at me wide open and said he was joking. I did not tell my friend because I did not want to hurt her. Since the friendship was not a close one anyway, I kept my distance from her home. Telling your husband is your decision entirely, you have to know what kind of man your husband is. You also have to know how to tell him. Sometimes somethings are best left unsaid. I really cannot tell you what is the right thing to do. Something you need to know is that in most cases before a man will lay a hand on a woman he might have felt that he got a signal. If a man did that to me i would have slapped him there and then, because I would be sure that I never gave him a signal so it would be for me an abuse. 4 Likes |
Re: Should I Tell My Husband? by Nobody: 8:29pm On Feb 23, 2015 |
Momma2: Please do and leave it to him to handle I trust your husband is mature enough to know how to deal with this My husband has a man he takes as an uncle here and we are close family friends For years the man would make remarks about how beautiful I was or how much an outfit fit me and do some lovey lovey eyes and when we hug he seemed to hug too tightly and I would pass it off and keep quiet saying it may just be me misinterpreting things Till one day we met at a function,husband was not there,I hugged him as I hug every man which is sideways( so my boobs don't touch them) The man deliberately brushed up his chest against my boobs with this smirk on his face and that made me angry. I then had no choice but tell hubby everything . We are still friends with the couple but I felt hubby needed to know. 2 Likes |
Re: Should I Tell My Husband? by Nobody: 8:34pm On Feb 23, 2015 |
sweetcocoa: Imagine that I wonder if that's what they would want their wife to do while faced with the same scenario Even if the man is his employer,does that give him the right to be pushing up against someone's wife in such crude manner |
Re: Should I Tell My Husband? by cococandy(f): 8:37pm On Feb 23, 2015 |
chaircover: What does the bolded mean? Sounds like something I will like to tell anyone that's behaving funny someday. |
Re: Should I Tell My Husband? by sweetcocoa(f): 8:45pm On Feb 23, 2015 |
babyosisi:These ones will most likely blame their wives for it. |
Re: Should I Tell My Husband? by Nobody: 8:55pm On Feb 23, 2015 |
Momma2: Gbam! He is no friend 2 Likes |
Re: Should I Tell My Husband? by sweetcocoa(f): 9:10pm On Feb 23, 2015 |
tiredface:I don't want to sound rude but I have to tell you, to shut da hell up, thank you. 9 Likes |
Re: Should I Tell My Husband? by Nobody: 9:11pm On Feb 23, 2015 |
cococandy: Dont take any nonsense 1 Like |
Re: Should I Tell My Husband? by Nobody: 9:12pm On Feb 23, 2015 |
sweetcocoa: These are the same type of people that will capture a small girl selling groundnut and have carnal knowledge of her and blame it on her walking style Eediots 7 Likes |
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