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Re: My Boyfriend Said Am Not A Wife Material, Plus Our Chat Pics by iPopAlomo(m): 10:02am On Feb 24, 2015 |
zizibabe1: So you're dirty...? |
Re: My Boyfriend Said Am Not A Wife Material, Plus Our Chat Pics by sandzphield(m): 10:02am On Feb 24, 2015 |
classicB: You ladies need more than sex to keep a man ....you are a typical example of my ex-gf, with all dis he mentioned e can't wife you if he sees a gurl that is ready to do the dishes after meal n lay the bed after sex.. |
Re: My Boyfriend Said Am Not A Wife Material, Plus Our Chat Pics by sluvy4tune(m): 10:03am On Feb 24, 2015 |
bukatyne: madam Nice concept u and ur hubby had but if the chat is true , are u suggesting the op and partner should meet halfway over issues like this ? should they even be discusiing who should lay the bed or not ? or even to debate who cooks or not .....The Op needs serious work |
Re: My Boyfriend Said Am Not A Wife Material, Plus Our Chat Pics by fairygeh(f): 10:06am On Feb 24, 2015 |
In as much as I do not and will never support a bae washing her bf's clothes, it's utterly rude and mannerless to sleep on a bed and not tidy it up,why should you even sleep overnight at his place anyway? That's why he's complaining about you, Later,they will say guys dump them,u already spending so many nights at his place,he already knows all ur flaws so what else is there to find out?at not laying the bed, so so unheard of.even if you do ur own bed at home like that, u should at least know u are not home and do things properly and right. As for the cooking part,its wrong for u to just sit there and watch him do everything, u can assist him if u not even gonna do all the cooking. Conclusion. You are indeed not a wife material. 3 Likes |
Re: My Boyfriend Said Am Not A Wife Material, Plus Our Chat Pics by bukatyne(f): 10:07am On Feb 24, 2015 |
sluvy4tune: Who lays the bed matters to some, it doesn't to others... I rarely lay the bed when I wake up in the mornings.... hubby does not mind laying it daily ![]() The OP should answer if the guy ever came to her house and how she treated him. |
Re: My Boyfriend Said Am Not A Wife Material, Plus Our Chat Pics by vhickky(f): 10:07am On Feb 24, 2015 |
texybaby:So Why he become an ex? Why did he let u go? 1 Like |
Re: My Boyfriend Said Am Not A Wife Material, Plus Our Chat Pics by sheunflexy(m): 10:10am On Feb 24, 2015 |
Op you are lucky the guy even voice out his mind,most won't do that before dumping you,those things mentioned are all common things both male and female should know how to do without even telling them,if he dosnt clean up his room,will you be comfortable going to visit him?not to even talk of sleeping over night |
Re: My Boyfriend Said Am Not A Wife Material, Plus Our Chat Pics by mayorall(m): 10:10am On Feb 24, 2015 |
justi4jesu: Chai. so you wicked reach this one. You hate the lady I guess. nah Naija be this o , no be dubai. ![]() Where mentions button. missmayorall come read this topic kiakia. |
Re: My Boyfriend Said Am Not A Wife Material, Plus Our Chat Pics by Nobody: 10:12am On Feb 24, 2015 |
k9ine:k9ine from IG? |
Re: My Boyfriend Said Am Not A Wife Material, Plus Our Chat Pics by Nicepoker(m): 10:15am On Feb 24, 2015 |
texybaby:by their comments u shall know them |
Re: My Boyfriend Said Am Not A Wife Material, Plus Our Chat Pics by FredHandsome(m): 10:16am On Feb 24, 2015 |
I think, the OP just wanted to spell it out to her man that she's not under any OBLIGATION to do his chores. Probably, the guy has been making it look like she MUST do it. I understand her kinda lady. It doesn't make her less of a potential good wife! 1 Like |
Re: My Boyfriend Said Am Not A Wife Material, Plus Our Chat Pics by Nobody: 10:18am On Feb 24, 2015 |
You're not even a bestfriend material, if na wetin you wan hear be that. C'mon bed you nor fit spread after you comot am? Smh! ![]() ![]() |
Re: My Boyfriend Said Am Not A Wife Material, Plus Our Chat Pics by EmmySparky(m): 10:20am On Feb 24, 2015 |
classicB:the wife material in u can't even sew a g-string....girl u dirty o...the guy even tried...I won't get into a relationship with a person with such an attitude.... |
Re: My Boyfriend Said Am Not A Wife Material, Plus Our Chat Pics by perryy(m): 10:20am On Feb 24, 2015 |
You are simply a lazy, dirty girl. |
Re: My Boyfriend Said Am Not A Wife Material, Plus Our Chat Pics by donodion(m): 10:20am On Feb 24, 2015 |
zizibabe1: Sister,permit me to address you.For starters dont assume you were better than your hubbys ex that made him to marry you.We all marry for various reasons; benefits,parental demand for inter-tribal marriage, pregnancy out of wedlock,beauty,etc. If your hubby overlooked the dometic penchant of his ex to stick with you,count your stars lucky.However let me drop this on your table, dont be angry if you found out your oga is stil in touch with her,financially supporting her (even if shes married) while you the "madam" could be completely unaware of all this. Unless she no iota of meaningful contribution to his being. Same applies with somewomen,no matter how naughty,you still remember that "good boy" you turned down for the current mister and if given a chance,wont mind re-living the past moments discreetly. 5 Likes |
Re: My Boyfriend Said Am Not A Wife Material, Plus Our Chat Pics by Nobody: 10:20am On Feb 24, 2015 |
KpagoGIN: Well, she "worked it" the whole night. Kikikiki I agree. It's just nasty & = bad guest. |
Re: My Boyfriend Said Am Not A Wife Material, Plus Our Chat Pics by bosun11(m): 10:22am On Feb 24, 2015 |
missjenna: OMG.,...Cant believe a lady said all this...God bless you so much this year...You spoke sense !!!! May God give you the man of your dreams and family you desire Amen !!! |
Re: My Boyfriend Said Am Not A Wife Material, Plus Our Chat Pics by FredHandsome(m): 10:23am On Feb 24, 2015 |
vhickky:Good question, jawe! The answer is "ladies been forming NO BOYFRIEND since time immemorial". I hope you like my honest answer ![]() BTW, you re too beautifully petite for my liking... |
Re: My Boyfriend Said Am Not A Wife Material, Plus Our Chat Pics by FredHandsome(m): 10:26am On Feb 24, 2015 |
bosun11:Calm down, Bros eeee! ![]() |
Re: My Boyfriend Said Am Not A Wife Material, Plus Our Chat Pics by Adaeze003(f): 10:26am On Feb 24, 2015 |
The only thing I find disturbing is the bed issue... 1 Like |
Re: My Boyfriend Said Am Not A Wife Material, Plus Our Chat Pics by Nobody: 10:26am On Feb 24, 2015 |
franciskaine: I agree with you my brother hence I used SOME in my statement. I know not all guys expect to be babied by their GFs. 1 Like |
Re: My Boyfriend Said Am Not A Wife Material, Plus Our Chat Pics by Nobody: 10:27am On Feb 24, 2015 |
CoCoLav: Let's contribute and buy one for him ![]() ![]() |
Re: My Boyfriend Said Am Not A Wife Material, Plus Our Chat Pics by Nobody: 10:30am On Feb 24, 2015 |
PunkyBrewster:ashawo no be work. |
Re: My Boyfriend Said Am Not A Wife Material, Plus Our Chat Pics by Adaeze003(f): 10:30am On Feb 24, 2015 |
vhickky: Simple... There's no hard and fast rule about relationships. What works for A might not work for B. And, what if she let him go? |
Re: My Boyfriend Said Am Not A Wife Material, Plus Our Chat Pics by Nobody: 10:31am On Feb 24, 2015 |
bosun11: Thank you very much Sir, God bless you If you don't have a wife, may God find you the wife of your dreams But if you already do, may God richly bless your marriage. Thanks |
Re: My Boyfriend Said Am Not A Wife Material, Plus Our Chat Pics by Eminya(f): 10:35am On Feb 24, 2015 |
You shouldn't sleep in his house as a wife material ![]() |
Re: My Boyfriend Said Am Not A Wife Material, Plus Our Chat Pics by Nobody: 10:36am On Feb 24, 2015 |
PunkyBrewster:well said friend. |
Re: My Boyfriend Said Am Not A Wife Material, Plus Our Chat Pics by peedeeasobie(m): 10:38am On Feb 24, 2015 |
eleko1: What is this one saying? Did he say that should be her permanent duty? How can she wake up in the morning after sleeping and not make the bed? How can he be the one cooking every time she comes around and she can't even help? so, what will she be doing before and after marriage? You either being insincere or you are deluded! |
Re: My Boyfriend Said Am Not A Wife Material, Plus Our Chat Pics by Trinxie(f): 10:38am On Feb 24, 2015 |
Chazzyboy:Lol...nah |
Re: My Boyfriend Said Am Not A Wife Material, Plus Our Chat Pics by generalissimo(m): 10:38am On Feb 24, 2015 |
classicB:Pls dont be offended sweetie, take his observation with good faith. He probably spoke the truth which I believe if u see it as an eye-opener, should change ur lif positively and make u a better lady. Ladies don't act 'wife material' cos there is no script for it. It is inborn. Guys notice 'wife material' even in ordinary female friends or collegue, so work more on ur self. You don't necessarily have to become a wife before the attribute is written over u. This is one of the reasons guys dump pretty girls for less pretty ones for marriage. Beauty and 'bedroom skills' arent everything. |
Re: My Boyfriend Said Am Not A Wife Material, Plus Our Chat Pics by Nobody: 10:38am On Feb 24, 2015 |
slap1:lol, good sha. Am also not the sex type. |
Re: My Boyfriend Said Am Not A Wife Material, Plus Our Chat Pics by Nobody: 10:43am On Feb 24, 2015 |
Dear Op, i've read the responses so far, but remember what works for one will not work for the other.....so ill advise you to chill...there are some ladies that will do everything and the guy will not still marry them, as for me, i never did anything for dh, infact, he wouldnt allow me touch anything even if i offered, and he still married me, because of the immense love he had for me. Now after marriage, whenever he sees me working, cooking, he always has this surprised look on his face, he says he didnt know i could do all these, when im making plenty delicacies for him ehn......so my dear, who wants to marry you will still marry you abeg! Dat guy no be your husband...fullstop. 1 Like |
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