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Re: My Boyfriend Said Am Not A Wife Material, Plus Our Chat Pics by peedeeasobie(m): 10:47am On Feb 24, 2015 |
OmoEniafelamo: Hahahahahaha, hahahahahahaha, I'm laughing with tears in my eyes. I also was wondering about that Andyblaze guy, how a troll forced himself everybody's consciousness as though they were bewitched |
Re: My Boyfriend Said Am Not A Wife Material, Plus Our Chat Pics by daviddd(m): 10:47am On Feb 24, 2015 |
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Re: My Boyfriend Said Am Not A Wife Material, Plus Our Chat Pics by Nobody: 10:50am On Feb 24, 2015 |
@OP I hope you don't have odour, because of your questionable hygiene. I didn't say you should be his maid, but courtesy demands you show some decency. Relationship is teamwork. I am sure your man settles some of your bills, show some appreciation and care. I don't want to bash you or anything but work on yourself |
Re: My Boyfriend Said Am Not A Wife Material, Plus Our Chat Pics by Nobody: 10:50am On Feb 24, 2015 |
PunkyBrewster: Washing his clothes is such a biggie? Didn't know that cos myself, no one washes my clothes to my satisfaction. Albeit under the right conditions, most girls would want to wash for a guy even when the guy don't feel comfortable with it. Our ladies binding themselves with rules and ending up desperate since 1909. |
Re: My Boyfriend Said Am Not A Wife Material, Plus Our Chat Pics by stillo209(m): 10:52am On Feb 24, 2015 |
He has a good strong point |
Re: My Boyfriend Said Am Not A Wife Material, Plus Our Chat Pics by Boss13: 11:07am On Feb 24, 2015 |
classicB: The guy is so nice telling you your faults maybe you would change. I like girls like you - you don't last the next day. You woke up from my bed and you don't lay it - you crazy? Then I cook for you and you open your rotten mouth to eat. I thank God for my wife oh. Some girls are not properly trained. |
Re: My Boyfriend Said Am Not A Wife Material, Plus Our Chat Pics by Nobody: 11:09am On Feb 24, 2015 |
engrkenny: It is a big deal to some like myself. Washing clothes I didn't wear makes me angry. Haha. You know, when you know you're going to wash something yourself, you wear it with care, so as to not give yourself too much time trying to get rid of stains & whatnot. So I feel like when someone is not the one that's doing the washing, then they'd just wear the clothes however. Even roll on the floor if they feel like it lol. And expect you to make everything disappear. Laundry is not fun so I won't be doing that for some dude I'm just banging. Never did. Never will. Only my hubby. 1 Like |
Re: My Boyfriend Said Am Not A Wife Material, Plus Our Chat Pics by UjSizzle(f): 11:12am On Feb 24, 2015 |
Quick question. What kind of chat app looks like this? ![]() No indication of who's saying what... Nothing at all, just bullets ![]() |
Re: My Boyfriend Said Am Not A Wife Material, Plus Our Chat Pics by Nobody: 11:13am On Feb 24, 2015 |
iPopAlomo: Rotflmao.....that gal's not even qualified to be d number 10 side chick. Some gals are so lazy and dirty....if she's that lazy and dirty, then her body hygiene must be terrible....and na dez kain gals dey like make dem give dem HEAD pass But IMO, d story sef looks so fake. The OP's probably a guy. I'm sure he's a Mod or friend to a Mod. Chai! NL don dead finish! All this just to seek attention abi na traffic. Wonder how this made FP. |
Re: My Boyfriend Said Am Not A Wife Material, Plus Our Chat Pics by Nobody: 11:15am On Feb 24, 2015 |
UjSizzle:That's bbm. Take a look at the blurred areas very well. |
Re: My Boyfriend Said Am Not A Wife Material, Plus Our Chat Pics by madeinnigeria: 11:16am On Feb 24, 2015 |
sweetcocoa:. So the only way to bond is by cooking and doing laundry? Why would a guy (boyfriend) tell a chic dat she's not a wife material cos she doesn't cook clean his house blah blah? Since when did a relationship turn into garri market where you hav to taste everything before you buy? If she feels very comfortable with him she will do whatever she wants at her own freewill. My advice for him is to find his kind and she should find her own kind of person too...kudos to the lady for being true to her guts because why pretend cos you want a guy to marry you...marriage is supposed to be sweet nd intresting and its something you do with the right person. No one should force u or try to play the wife material mind game with you. Try have fun with yourlife build yourself nd while doing that d right guy will always show up. 1 Like |
Re: My Boyfriend Said Am Not A Wife Material, Plus Our Chat Pics by buoye1(m): 11:21am On Feb 24, 2015 |
PunkyBrewster:You emphasised more on the washing of cloth and dodge other salient points the guy raised!I'm not supporting that but let's call a spade a spade....Op needs slap not an advice |
Re: My Boyfriend Said Am Not A Wife Material, Plus Our Chat Pics by UjSizzle(f): 11:21am On Feb 24, 2015 |
AgapeCharis:Hmmm thanks. I don't use BBM... It's pretty ugly. |
Re: My Boyfriend Said Am Not A Wife Material, Plus Our Chat Pics by tranxo(m): 11:22am On Feb 24, 2015 |
classicB:if he wants wifey benefits from you, tell him to see your father. i hope you are not enjoying husband benefits from him already, cos if you do, you have no case. |
Re: My Boyfriend Said Am Not A Wife Material, Plus Our Chat Pics by Temptee101(m): 11:26am On Feb 24, 2015 |
classicB:Without mixing words, for you to still have the guts and courage to open a thread for it shows you don't have shame. Look at the way you're even relaying it; that guy should better run for his dear life. You are definitely among the supposed 21million insane Nigerians 1 Like |
Re: My Boyfriend Said Am Not A Wife Material, Plus Our Chat Pics by fabru: 11:27am On Feb 24, 2015 |
Dubai three months visa and trip at last!!! Mmmmh after all these rumours of age, thanks to da biggie. ma you got me a visa even when all hope was lost and after I have underestimated you though i dont know you, you still gave me a free place to stay and connected me place to work though with a small salary? I'm short of words but I must confess that your husband is a very harsh man ,real British blood in deed.but dubai is fine ooh.i tthank God for his mercies.ethihad airline mmmmh! After landing one has to take another an hour thirty minutes bus again and another taxi to deira name waoh |
Re: My Boyfriend Said Am Not A Wife Material, Plus Our Chat Pics by Tashaamania(f): 11:28am On Feb 24, 2015 |
OP, I wont lie to you ![]() Husbands are scarce these days, so the one you have now, you should learn to hold him very tight ![]() ![]() On a serious note tho, you should try adjust on your part. Its really not nice what he complained about. And trust me, he really likes you to even voice it. How would you even watch your bf cook while you are around? Thats soo not cool. I know you are not lazy and you are just doing it either because you guys aint married or because you dont want him to start seeing it as your duty. Whatever the case maybe for you, no knowledge is a waste. Do it as somethng you are trained with, even if you two dont end up together, it doesnt change anything in you rather it builds up your confidence as a woman. 1 Like |
Re: My Boyfriend Said Am Not A Wife Material, Plus Our Chat Pics by Nobody: 11:29am On Feb 24, 2015 |
UjSizzle:Lol. It's not ugly. Maybe you think so because of the blur effect. And there's actually an indication of the person that sent the message. It was just not blurred. Uwc |
Re: My Boyfriend Said Am Not A Wife Material, Plus Our Chat Pics by Nobody: 11:29am On Feb 24, 2015 |
buoye1: I said I agree with the REST of what he said. Surely you didn't expect me to make her another bullet pointed list for her to catch my drift. Ain't nobody got time for that. OP is wrong here. End of. |
Re: My Boyfriend Said Am Not A Wife Material, Plus Our Chat Pics by vega84(m): 11:33am On Feb 24, 2015 |
Well to be frank I think he is right! U really hav to show him u can be a wife. Nt jst a gf or Bleep mate. And it seems u are nt doing that. U should be able to help out wit small small house chores, trust me it counts. #vegatalks# |
Re: My Boyfriend Said Am Not A Wife Material, Plus Our Chat Pics by mrofficial(m): 11:35am On Feb 24, 2015 |
vjsmiles: |
Re: My Boyfriend Said Am Not A Wife Material, Plus Our Chat Pics by Truckpusher(m): 11:35am On Feb 24, 2015 |
Tashaamania:The boyfriend was good enough to tell her. Yeye op. If I were his boyfriend, I will make the bed by myself and when next she comes around she's sleeping on the couch. ![]() |
Re: My Boyfriend Said Am Not A Wife Material, Plus Our Chat Pics by Adaezeagu(f): 11:36am On Feb 24, 2015 |
Op give me your boo number lemme apologise on ur behalf. Lazy girl I know say Na maid dey wash ur pant |
Re: My Boyfriend Said Am Not A Wife Material, Plus Our Chat Pics by UjSizzle(f): 11:37am On Feb 24, 2015 |
classicB:It's okay to feel this way. It won't be your duty, but some things are just... basic, like making a bed ![]() As for the other points, he is your boyfriend. Despite the things we tell ourselves about relationships not being marriages, truth is they are technically marriages. So help out when you can. When he's washing, maybe offer to rinse? Or when he's cooking, go sit with him and wash up after you're both done. You know the works, just be useful, but don't turn yourself into a maid. And please stop being so 'aware'. Awareness is the one thing that kills everything good. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Boyfriend Said Am Not A Wife Material, Plus Our Chat Pics by Tashaamania(f): 11:48am On Feb 24, 2015 |
Truckpusher: ![]() ![]() ![]() Honestly, I hate the sight of a guy bending to wash clothes, cook or even do any work.I grew up in a house where there is only one dude - my bro and the rest are girls. Mum made sure we, the girls pampered him shege even though he was the eldest and it was annoying back then, so I kinda grew up with "men need be pampered" attitude I believe that the only time a guy is meant to bend is when he's working on his girlfriend ![]() ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: My Boyfriend Said Am Not A Wife Material, Plus Our Chat Pics by Adaezeagu(f): 11:50am On Feb 24, 2015 |
searching4love:I thought u said u will rather die than get married. Olosho |
Re: My Boyfriend Said Am Not A Wife Material, Plus Our Chat Pics by cherryice(f): 11:51am On Feb 24, 2015 |
Tashaamania:hahah I lovee this part ![]() ![]() |
Re: My Boyfriend Said Am Not A Wife Material, Plus Our Chat Pics by Nobody: 11:53am On Feb 24, 2015 |
Re: My Boyfriend Said Am Not A Wife Material, Plus Our Chat Pics by krispee: 11:54am On Feb 24, 2015 |
Op u dirty o ![]() |
Re: My Boyfriend Said Am Not A Wife Material, Plus Our Chat Pics by LuckyLadolce(m): 11:54am On Feb 24, 2015 |
missjenna:Gbam!! I can't shout. oshey mami. |
Re: My Boyfriend Said Am Not A Wife Material, Plus Our Chat Pics by Tashaamania(f): 11:55am On Feb 24, 2015 |
cherryice:Thats the truth na ![]() |
Re: My Boyfriend Said Am Not A Wife Material, Plus Our Chat Pics by Truckpusher(m): 12:07pm On Feb 24, 2015 |
Tashaamania:Every normal guy should be able to do their chores and if he has a partner they should be able to help out each other .But what I don't subscribe to is when a women tries to enforce it by whining and complaining all day if you miss something - I'll simply show her the door ,I don't have time for lazy girls trying to use me to cover up for her laziness. |
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