please ur candid advise is needed. I gilted my gf bcus we've been having series of quarrels since January . I finally gilted her last week for some reasons
1. she keeps confronting me wen she ever she sees me online( d only tin dat keeps me going since am serving in an interior villa)
2. wen I call her she sounds strange to me
3. I learnt from her own confidant that she's going out with someone since av been away ( she confirmed that wen we had d brk up).
days after she keeps firing words on me via whatsapp and I didn't reply any.
Now, just last night she called me without altering a word den I dropped d call and called back only for her to say it was a mistake. honestly since yesterday am now beginning to feel I should get her back yet am scared not to waste my time if things wont work out.
I'm in dare need of advice from mature minds

EDhims:
please ur candid advise is needed. I gilted my gf bcus we've been having series of quarrels since January . I finally gilted her last week for some reasons
1. she keeps confronting me wen she ever she sees me online( d only tin dat keeps me going since am serving a in an interior villa)
2. wen I call her she sounds strange to me
3. I learnt from her own confidant that she's going out with someone since av been away ( she confirmed that wen we had d brk up).[/[b]]
days after shekeeps firing words on me via whatsapp and I didn't replied one.
Now, just last night she called me without altering a word den I dropped d call and called back only for her to say it was a mistake. honestly since yesterday am now beginning to feel I should get her back yet am scared not to waste my time if things wont work out.
I'm in dare need of advice from mature minds

My friend, please forget about the grl and move on with ur life, shez not worth it.
FTC means First To Comment....

LIBRACOA:
FTC

in full please

Tell that part of u to Fvck off, thank me later

Op, I read your post and I will try to be as sincere as possible

First of all, I will try to examine the reasons you stated as to why you "gilted" her

In your first point you stated that she keeps confronting you whenever you are online. What do you actually mean by this? Do you mean that she stalks you on social media or that she is always rude to you or insult you on social media.

If its that she insults you or is rude online then its wrong and you have every right to see it as a fault on her part.
But if what you mean is that she stalks you then I would consider this as her taking a keen interest in you. This I wouldn't rate as fault because most girls are guity of this and she is probably doing this because she likes you.

In your second reason, you stated that when she calls you, she sounds strange. I don't actually know what you mean by "strange" as it concerns this situation so I would leave that point out.

In your third reason you stated that an informant reported to you that she was going out with someone and you confirmed that when you broke up.
Well I believe this is enough reason to call it quits

Now having carefully observed this reasons you stated, I have this to say to you.
Op, I believe this girl really likes you and I feel you don't spend enough time with her. This is probably why she confronts you on social media.

I know she hurt you but I think you should give her another chance.
For her to call you back means that she truly wants you in her life.
Op, please give her another chance and see how it works out
Spend more time with her and always make sure when you are away, that you maintain some sort of connection probably on phone and other social media platforms.

Op, I hope I helped
Thanks and God bless

What part of you needs her?

diddydiva:
What part of you needs her?

Must be the middle belt

missjenna:
Hmm

Say something

diddydiva:
What part of you needs her?

His third leg nah, you be learner ni?

diddydiva:
What part of you needs her?

Na not wat u think though, just DAT thinking of her always is just something I can't explain and its adding to d boredom already existing here with me

Tallesty1:
Say somethingHis third leg nah, you be learner ni?

his kondo ofcoz

EDhims:
please ur candid advise is needed. I gilted my gf bcus we've been having series of quarrels since January . I finally gilted her last week for some reasons
1. she keeps confronting me wen she ever she sees me online( d only tin dat keeps me going since am serving a in an interior villa)
2. wen I call her she sounds strange to me
3. I learnt from her own confidant that she's going out with someone since av been away ( she confirmed that wen we had d brk up).
days after she keeps firing words on me via whatsapp and I didn't replied one.
Now, just last night she called me without altering a word den I dropped d call and called back only for her to say it was a mistake. honestly since yesterday am now beginning to feel I should get her back yet am scared not to waste my time if things wont work out.
[b]I'm in dare need of advice [/b]from mature minds

Evidence of Nigeria's failed educational system

U sure say u be 'corper'?

how does one feel losing someone without a replacement yet?... never felt it before

Samiceman:
Evidence of Nigeria's failed educational system

U sure say u be 'corper'?

my guy don't be a fault finder

EDhims:




Na not wat u think though, just DAT thinking of her always is just something I can't explain and its adding to d boredom already existing here with me

Hmmmmm.

I guess you still love her. But does she?

Of course you can forgive and take her back.that's easy!!! But her faithfulness?that's questionable!!!

I guess these are the questions running through your mind.

MY advice: Ifu can't forgive and forget, trust her, love her like you used to , I will say you just let go. Avoid unnecessary stress , emotional break downs,waste of time energy and emotion

You will miss her but you will get over her with time.



THe ball is in your cot mister. The decision is yours.

cloudyskyglind:

Must be the middle belt

diddydiva:



MY advice: Ifu can't forgive and forget, trust her, love her like you used to , I will say you just let go. Avoid unnecessary stress , emotional break downs,waste of time energy and emotion

You will miss her but you will get over her with time.



THe ball is in your cot mister. The decision is yours.

thanks for ur piece

EDhims:



thanks for ur piece

Ya welcome

It's funny how people ask questions and act like they haven't answered their own question.