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Re: Why Do Most Men Feel Insecured About Independent Women by ronald4lif(m): 2:16pm On Feb 27, 2015 |
Re: Why Do Most Men Feel Insecured About Independent Women by Nobody: 2:16pm On Feb 27, 2015 |
Re: Why Do Most Men Feel Insecured About Independent Women by MizMyColi(f): 2:19pm On Feb 27, 2015 |
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Re: Why Do Most Men Feel Insecured About Independent Women by Nobody: 2:22pm On Feb 27, 2015 |
MizMyColi:Nice. I understood you perfectly. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Most Men Feel Insecured About Independent Women by ArchEnemy(m): 2:59pm On Feb 27, 2015 |
Logicalmind:yeah.... you cant always satisfy a man. |
Re: Why Do Most Men Feel Insecured About Independent Women by alberto2k(m): 3:32pm On Feb 27, 2015 |
Re: Why Do Most Men Feel Insecured About Independent Women by mirexxx(f): 3:41pm On Feb 27, 2015 |
I thinks it's fear of being intimidated. women do that alot! Men love 2 be in charge! well..only boyz complain about their ladies/girls needs. it only shows how prepared and responsible you are to start up a family! |
Re: Why Do Most Men Feel Insecured About Independent Women by vega84(m): 4:21pm On Feb 27, 2015 |
False. Nt a real man like me anyway #vegatalks# |
Re: Why Do Most Men Feel Insecured About Independent Women by Muhammadkhan: 4:22pm On Feb 27, 2015 |
Hm mmM nkm mchew what concern me |
Re: Why Do Most Men Feel Insecured About Independent Women by PidginYarns: 4:24pm On Feb 27, 2015 |
Na true yarns be dat. Babes don dey follow guys stand piss and jump gutter. Dem wan dey on top all the time, even on top bed. Na dis kind thing our mama dem no do o. Dat time, after God, na dia husband dem dey fear. Now even before God we dey fear women, and dem call am civilization 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do Most Men Feel Insecured About Independent Women by Nobody: 4:26pm On Feb 27, 2015 |
I agree with your post OP but having said that, Independence does not mean one day we can't reply on somebody for help not excluding financial assistance. The truth about men been scared of independent women arise as a result of fear of the unknown. Women are unpredictable. Either financially buoyant at the moment or not, who knows the monster that will be unleash if their hands get to power/plenty money. Hitherto, women rule by influence not by power and so as an independent lady who is sub missive, loving and possess the necessary ingredient of a virtuous woman will one day gain the necessary support by her husband and people around. So my point is men should know the kind of woman they shud date/marry and If u are lucky u get to see an independent woman who is down to earth, don't miss the opportunity because they are rare gem. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Most Men Feel Insecured About Independent Women by Lovexme(m): 4:30pm On Feb 27, 2015 |
I love her 'cos she got her own.. ![]() |
Re: Why Do Most Men Feel Insecured About Independent Women by Misogynist2014(m): 4:33pm On Feb 27, 2015 |
Some brainless threads, flying around Nl, it gets more distasteful when you actually see the junk was written by a man, someone you expect to have common sense. If I'm threatened, what's the business of your mother about it? 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do Most Men Feel Insecured About Independent Women by Nobody: 4:33pm On Feb 27, 2015 |
I normally skip all sexist thread cos of their ingenuity, bashfulness, nd close mindedness...but I must say this is by far the realest responses gotten from both sexes ever... #spreads bedsheet 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Most Men Feel Insecured About Independent Women by crazygod(m): 4:34pm On Feb 27, 2015 |
Personally, I love independent women. @ least, she'll make me save more cos there's no expensive gift that you'll buy for her that will make her 'trip' more. I've found out from experience that dependent women make u spend unnecessarily. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Most Men Feel Insecured About Independent Women by Amy11(f): 4:40pm On Feb 27, 2015 |
The answer is that humans, not just the men folk, are insatiable. If a lady is dependent, the same men will complain that the ladies are needy and give them all sorts of name tags. When the ladies decide to be independent and cater for themselves, the make folk goes at it again being most times jealous, insecure, etc. So the bottom line is that " man " is INSATIABLE... [center][/center]i stand to be corrected. ![]() |
Re: Why Do Most Men Feel Insecured About Independent Women by Epimetheus(m): 4:40pm On Feb 27, 2015 |
Logicalmind: First and foremost, the men who have prejudices against independent women are suffering from inferiority complex and a low self esteem. This is bred from male-dominated cultural norms that have been teaching them that a woman is of a "weaker sex". We still see this all around like you find in that crap of a show called gulder ultimate search. Mind you, I drink beer and gulder is my brand. But I callathe show cwhenbecause it is obviously designed to be brawn-over-brain. That explains why men keep winning it. Is it only men that drink gulder? Back from the digression, a lot of men really need to take a hard look at themselves. Simple truth is your negative views and actions are borne out of an inferiority complex leading frustrated self-reassuring 4 Likes |
Re: Why Do Most Men Feel Insecured About Independent Women by walcolm(m): 4:40pm On Feb 27, 2015 |
independent women don't make men feel inferior....they can't make men feel inferior they wrongly think the only way men will accept them as equals is if they are confrontational but that only backfires because men don't accept each other as men by being confrontational. so, they go around saying men are intimidated by them or feel inferior around them when they're ignored or avoided the truth of the matter is, it's physiologically impossible for a woman to make a man feel inferior....it's not men's fault or women's fault...it's nature |
Re: Why Do Most Men Feel Insecured About Independent Women by Ejisz: 4:44pm On Feb 27, 2015 |
True but I would say only men that lack self confidence can feel inferior I know a good number of confident bros who only woo independent women. |
Re: Why Do Most Men Feel Insecured About Independent Women by Nobody: 4:46pm On Feb 27, 2015 |
Independent in what way cos most of our girls be ho-ing for cash,such girls cant be taken serious,i dont even bother chuking sef cos the Alhaji's and sugar daddies na dem gan gan get STD's,STI's,HIV and things.i only date girls wen i sabi reach house |
Re: Why Do Most Men Feel Insecured About Independent Women by Setaje(f): 4:46pm On Feb 27, 2015 |
Nigerian men grew up to always take charge. The moment they fall short they start acting aggressive towards the woman who is the bread winner so they won't loose their authority. That african man mentality is still engraved in a lot of them. Many of them see man and wife as master and slave. A woman who becomes the bread winner should be accorded due respect but many african men don't feel so. Nevertheless, I do not pray for any man not to be able to cater for his family. Its a terrible thing o. Your once lovely wife might turn against u. I see this thing happen. The moment she begins to pay the house rent, the day u people fight is the day the whole house will no she is the bread winner. Women don't do a good job hiding it at all. Trust me I know! Infact it takes a very humble woman to cater for the family and not turn proud. My mum told me while they were younger and things were so tough. She was working while dad was looking for a job. She said she always dropped her salary under the pillow. She says this days we youths don't have native mentality and men are so irresponsible that they collect the womans money anyhow and even fight her when she doesn't drop. She said she new my dad felt somehow to ask so she did what a good wife should until when my dad got a very good job. Personally I feel that women in general are not wired to cater. They are wired to nuture. Likewise when a man began to cook, clean and do stuffs generally done by women, he might just start to loose self esteem and his ego will be deflated which is understandable. Lastly a good woman whether dependent or independent won't make u loose your respect. Its just quite difficulty to see an independent lady who is humble and it's hard to see a dependent man who appreciates his wife 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Do Most Men Feel Insecured About Independent Women by ISBLIAC(m): 4:52pm On Feb 27, 2015 |
Logicalmind:The thing is,independent women have the mind of a man that makes them a male-woman....and i believe women that are like that are meant for a female-man....and i am a male-man....so the only woman that can fit me is a female-woman....so marrying a male-woman would be like marrying my male friend in a female form....we'll do all sorts of things together but our emotions fuse....thats why i prefer a female-woman that'll make me secure in her and i in her....so to be honest they make me insecure....thats why if they continue to approach me,my answer will continue to be a no because because if i fall for her...her ways WILL give me an heartattack and i'm prepared but not ready to die..plus i no go f.uck her,cuz if i do that'll be like me f.ucking a male friend,shits impossible...thats why no matter how much i admire them,they'll remain my friend nothing more....so,feminists live your life and this boy will live his.... |
Re: Why Do Most Men Feel Insecured About Independent Women by remsonik(f): 4:53pm On Feb 27, 2015 |
mizmycoli,ronald4lif and missjenna has said it all but lemme just add this Not all Independent ladies are not proud, its the guys who are insecured. Women are psychologically emotional, from the pepper seller to the executive director. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Most Men Feel Insecured About Independent Women by Pamcrest(f): 4:57pm On Feb 27, 2015 |
Op that's a no- brainier. The fear of an independent woman scares some Naija men silly.....it shrinks their joysticks. ![]() And their response is to attack everything about her.......her upbringing and background are denigrated, her source of wealth becomes suspect, her prospects as a good wife becomes suspect. Most men can't even approach her. The bold ones would want to hit her and run.....no longterm intentions. But it's not entirely their fault. Our society ingrains that air of superiority in our men that some have forgotten that the world is changing fast. Women are now recording more exploits than they are thought capable of. So men, loosen up and wisen up! My humble submission 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do Most Men Feel Insecured About Independent Women by medar(m): 4:57pm On Feb 27, 2015 |
I agree with you that so many guys feel intimidated by the success of a lady. Such guys could be aggressive over the slightest mistake of the woman. I've had the privilege of dating ladies who are far richer and I didn't have problem with them. Though there was one who used to complain each time she visited me. She would complain about the size of my 2 bedroom apartment and tell me all about the comfort of her 2 storey duplex. Though her pride irritated me, yet I was not intimidated. I would make my stand known to her on any issue. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Do Most Men Feel Insecured About Independent Women by obi123: 4:58pm On Feb 27, 2015 |
Ladies and gentlemen, just pray to meet someone who appreciates u with all ur independence or neediness whatever your case may be because human beings clearly cant be satisfied so trying to meet anyone's expectations is just silly JUST DO YOU, LIFE IS TOO SHORT I BEG |
Re: Why Do Most Men Feel Insecured About Independent Women by ThoniaSlim(f): 5:03pm On Feb 27, 2015 |
In my opinion a lot of guys wanna eat their cakes and still have it. You want an independent woman and at the same time you want a robot. Please choose one. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Most Men Feel Insecured About Independent Women by sarmiie(m): 5:13pm On Feb 27, 2015 |
who knew nairalanders could be this mature..... or am i not in romance section any longer ![]() |
Re: Why Do Most Men Feel Insecured About Independent Women by Nazeeboy(m): 5:20pm On Feb 27, 2015 |
I really enjoyed reading this topic. I appreciate all of your views on it and i've already gain some experiences on it. Thanks guys. |
Re: Why Do Most Men Feel Insecured About Independent Women by Nobody: 5:21pm On Feb 27, 2015 |
wristwatch:Okay. In all ramifications, do you think dependent women are the best? |
Re: Why Do Most Men Feel Insecured About Independent Women by Nobody: 5:22pm On Feb 27, 2015 |
Misogynist2014:Lmao! Not a tad surprised, your name says it all - Misogynist. 1 Like |
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