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Re: How Do I Stop Self-Servicing Habit Of Crossing Legs And Clenching Thigh Muscle? by sisisioge: 7:36am On Feb 28, 2015 |
I think you are simply blossoming into a woman-curves. Me I want the big hips o minus the servicing |
Re: How Do I Stop Self-Servicing Habit Of Crossing Legs And Clenching Thigh Muscle? by aminashy: 7:36am On Feb 28, 2015 |
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Re: How Do I Stop Self-Servicing Habit Of Crossing Legs And Clenching Thigh Muscle? by Nobody: 7:36am On Feb 28, 2015 |
OP what you're doing is called 'bad habit' not masturbation - you just derive pleasure in it anytime you do it. I can't think of any advice right now, but I'd suggest you stop crossing your legs anytime you feel the urge, you can get a teddy or pillow and put it right in between your thighs. Don't graduate to the level of rubbing the teddy on your clitoris oo. **drops mic** 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: How Do I Stop Self-Servicing Habit Of Crossing Legs And Clenching Thigh Muscle? by MARKone(m): 7:36am On Feb 28, 2015 |
missade: It could be, depending on how frequent she indulges in it, and according to her, she has been doing it for seven years. Like in guys, you can always identify a fapper by checking his bicep and triscep muscle, on his upper left arm, the are usually bigger |
Re: How Do I Stop Self-Servicing Habit Of Crossing Legs And Clenching Thigh Muscle? by Iamdipson(m): 7:38am On Feb 28, 2015 |
kendrick9:Na wa for you oo |
Re: How Do I Stop Self-Servicing Habit Of Crossing Legs And Clenching Thigh Muscle? by rexbuton: 7:39am On Feb 28, 2015 |
post a headless pic |
Re: How Do I Stop Self-Servicing Habit Of Crossing Legs And Clenching Thigh Muscle? by MARKone(m): 7:39am On Feb 28, 2015 |
Nneka123: She dey form mermaid 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Stop Self-Servicing Habit Of Crossing Legs And Clenching Thigh Muscle? by zizirecords(m): 7:40am On Feb 28, 2015 |
I know what you are both saying. I would not buy the Gluteal Disuse Theory since the issue here seems to be a normal Lipid accumulation with a hypochondriac tendency to associate self-servicing with muscular hypertrophy. E don tey wey we leave medical school sha mentorandfriend: 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Stop Self-Servicing Habit Of Crossing Legs And Clenching Thigh Muscle? by nwadiuko1(m): 7:40am On Feb 28, 2015 |
Picture or its none of my biz |
Re: How Do I Stop Self-Servicing Habit Of Crossing Legs And Clenching Thigh Muscle? by Dolypson04(m): 7:41am On Feb 28, 2015 |
pittoilet:Dear Op. I know how it feels to be an addict. I have once been in ur shoes and I also have a gf who was once a chronic masturbator too. Breaking away from it is quite hard. Its a little more than just praying. It takes determination, discipline and self denial. About getting back u shape, that would quite take time but its not unachievable. There is a lot to discuss. Will appreciate it if can have a one on one chat cos there is no quick fix to u problem. Shalom! 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Stop Self-Servicing Habit Of Crossing Legs And Clenching Thigh Muscle? by Young4jose: 7:41am On Feb 28, 2015 |
With God all thing r possible, jst pray 2 God sincerely, I swear He wil change U completely...........! |
Re: How Do I Stop Self-Servicing Habit Of Crossing Legs And Clenching Thigh Muscle? by justwise(m): 7:42am On Feb 28, 2015 |
Nairaland is now very very Liberal...the amount of sex related topics on FP these days is....'refreshing' |
Re: How Do I Stop Self-Servicing Habit Of Crossing Legs And Clenching Thigh Muscle? by NemzySeries(m): 7:43am On Feb 28, 2015 |
u self serviced for ova 6yrs......u wud av bin a Blasting DJ is u had concentrated in music |
Re: How Do I Stop Self-Servicing Habit Of Crossing Legs And Clenching Thigh Muscle? by Nobody: 7:43am On Feb 28, 2015 |
kendrick9: So after criticising her writing skills, you had nothing else to say? Smh for you! 3 Likes |
Re: How Do I Stop Self-Servicing Habit Of Crossing Legs And Clenching Thigh Muscle? by iamord(m): 7:45am On Feb 28, 2015 |
You can only cure an addiction by getting another addiction. First you have to keep calm and know that you are not the only person in the world going through this. A lot of people on here are doing the same thing. So stop feeling guilty . once in a while all humans pass through a phase. But everyone's case varies.. you need to see it as something that is over rated, the more you see it as such. Of course. It has only given you some few second pleasure. But definitely you loose interest in having a man's touch. It does not make you confident.. So you can see its funked up.. The more you feel disgusted doing it. If you are dwelling on your bad behavior, it only makes it more tempting to continue. Identify the things that make you self service. And try to make corrections. Try and socialize more and give yourself a busy schedule. Now you got some big hips. If you can start to work out. You can't imagine what your body will turn into.. Your difficulty just turned into an opportunity.. Anything that brings about boredom or loneliness should not be tolerated. Cos that's one of the root problems of self service. Engage in new activities and hubby that will channel your energy. And you will see that before you even know it. You forgot to self service in a day. Then you can go on and on. Also be patient. You may not be able to stop over night. Remember you have been doing it for years so it has gotten accustomed with your body. But you can still change it. When you follow this steps. Be patient with your self. And know that one way or the other you are getting there. Read good literature that will help strengthen your positive energy. From the Bible to mind stimulating books. You do not want to spend a lot of time dwelling on your urge to quit masturbating. The more attention you give your plight, the more likely it is that you will have a relapse. Instead of focusing on repressing your sexual thoughts, work to think about other things that bring you a level of satisfaction. Think about goals that you once had and consider what you can do to accomplish these goals. Keeping yourself busy and active will give you more opportunity to get your mind on other things without feeling as though you are giving something up. I wish you the very best 3 Likes |
Re: How Do I Stop Self-Servicing Habit Of Crossing Legs And Clenching Thigh Muscle? by Nobody: 7:47am On Feb 28, 2015 |
Op, all you need to do now-Is to get a guy who can have sex with you whenever you want. That is basically the main way to overcome this 'masturbating' thing. I think if you had a guy, who is usually around to please you when you want it. You wont self service so much. You can start a relationship, one with mutual benefits. Or you can register in a gym, even buy some gyming equipments and start working out like mad. Work out as much as you can, of course be dedicated and disciplined about it, and youd surely see results. Good luck! 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Do I Stop Self-Servicing Habit Of Crossing Legs And Clenching Thigh Muscle? by Nobody: 7:48am On Feb 28, 2015 |
buygala: |
Re: How Do I Stop Self-Servicing Habit Of Crossing Legs And Clenching Thigh Muscle? by Dammyjohn(m): 7:50am On Feb 28, 2015 |
mentorandfriend:Good advise. |
Re: How Do I Stop Self-Servicing Habit Of Crossing Legs And Clenching Thigh Muscle? by pwerrymansion(f): 7:50am On Feb 28, 2015 |
buygala:ROTFL, guy u r so d*mn funny! |
Re: How Do I Stop Self-Servicing Habit Of Crossing Legs And Clenching Thigh Muscle? by olaolulazio(m): 7:54am On Feb 28, 2015 |
;DAlways read your biology text book.... the solution to your Problem is right there!!! ;DAlways read your biology text book.... the solution to your Problem is right there!!! |
Re: How Do I Stop Self-Servicing Habit Of Crossing Legs And Clenching Thigh Muscle? by manyr4luv: 7:54am On Feb 28, 2015 |
pittoilet:please what is your email? I have an ebook that I followed which got me out of the bandage of maturbation. I will love to share it with you. |
Re: How Do I Stop Self-Servicing Habit Of Crossing Legs And Clenching Thigh Muscle? by obstead200(m): 7:55am On Feb 28, 2015 |
diddydiva:hahahahaha If u were a guy and just made d above comment, I wud have concluded dat u have other intentions. Especially on d coming back to thank u part |
Re: How Do I Stop Self-Servicing Habit Of Crossing Legs And Clenching Thigh Muscle? by Misogynist2014(m): 7:55am On Feb 28, 2015 |
buygala:But he that shall blaspheme against the Holy Ghost hath never forgiveness, but is in danger of eternal damnation: |
Re: How Do I Stop Self-Servicing Habit Of Crossing Legs And Clenching Thigh Muscle? by sirscripture: 7:55am On Feb 28, 2015 |
kendrick9: Mr english. Are you saying you r too good at english language to comprehend what this little girl just posted? Its obvious people like you even find it difficult to write a proper explanatory note when u have to criticise everything that passes by...idiot 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Stop Self-Servicing Habit Of Crossing Legs And Clenching Thigh Muscle? by Dammyjohn(m): 7:56am On Feb 28, 2015 |
Craigston:Good advice. |
Re: How Do I Stop Self-Servicing Habit Of Crossing Legs And Clenching Thigh Muscle? by yungest(m): 7:59am On Feb 28, 2015 |
as d opz name implies====pittoilet.... |
Re: How Do I Stop Self-Servicing Habit Of Crossing Legs And Clenching Thigh Muscle? by bokohalal(m): 7:59am On Feb 28, 2015 |
Misogynist2014:He should be very afraid. NonSENSE! Holy Ghost. Holy Skeleton. Brainwashed African. |
Re: How Do I Stop Self-Servicing Habit Of Crossing Legs And Clenching Thigh Muscle? by RUTHH1(f): 8:01am On Feb 28, 2015 |
...And the reason why you want to stop it,is to increase year sex life with year boyfriend and loose weight? Hhmnnnnnn, You Need JESUS Dear 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Stop Self-Servicing Habit Of Crossing Legs And Clenching Thigh Muscle? by Ecstacy21(m): 8:04am On Feb 28, 2015 |
well, pray to God first;asking him to help you, self discipline,distraction(when it comes to your mind, find something doing). when you are also alone find something to keep you busy. well, pray to God first;asking him to help you, self discipline,distraction(when it comes to your mind, find something doing). when you are also alone find something to keep you busy. well, pray to God first;asking him to help you, self discipline,distraction(when it comes to your mind, find something doing). when you are also alone find something to keep you busy. |
Re: How Do I Stop Self-Servicing Habit Of Crossing Legs And Clenching Thigh Muscle? by Akalia(m): 8:04am On Feb 28, 2015 |
It's weird to hear women say they masturbate, very shameful. |
Re: How Do I Stop Self-Servicing Habit Of Crossing Legs And Clenching Thigh Muscle? by Nobody: 8:05am On Feb 28, 2015 |
buygala:Hahahahahaha. Tinubu, u will never change. |
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