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She's Not Her Biological Mother,when Should She Tell Her? by Princephelar(m): 10:53am On Feb 28, 2015 |
This is serious as it is not a super story, so pls reasonable contributions are needed. The girl's mum died at birth and is being raised by her aunty (Dad's younger sister as her mum was the only child). When should she tell her about her mum. Is it at her childhood or she should wait untill she's mature (say 18+)? Reasonable comments pls for God's sake. |
Re: She's Not Her Biological Mother,when Should She Tell Her? by coolbis: 11:02am On Feb 28, 2015 |
I think wen she is 18 or more because it might affect her now. |
Re: She's Not Her Biological Mother,when Should She Tell Her? by naijainfogalery: 11:05am On Feb 28, 2015 |
If u don't wanna kill the child's morale start telling the child immediately he can talk , start by telling the child how great the mum was . show the child her pics oftenthe child will grow into it and become stronger. The child won't even feel it cos its been part of him/her but if the child gets to a teen age and u tell that child. In his face that's betrayal u kept the trutj from him/her and it would be worse if the child now gets this info outside . 4 Likes |
Re: She's Not Her Biological Mother,when Should She Tell Her? by naijainfogalery: 11:08am On Feb 28, 2015 |
coolbis: How will you feel if you got to know that the people you thought were your parent weren't your parents after 18 years . I bet you u will feel betrayed . if possible start showing the child the mums picture from birth , since he or she doesn't know her he won't feel it 4 Likes |
Re: She's Not Her Biological Mother,when Should She Tell Her? by kfrosh: 11:14am On Feb 28, 2015 |
Its best she knows @ a tender age rather than when she is an Adult . 2 Likes |
Re: She's Not Her Biological Mother,when Should She Tell Her? by Vision4God: 11:55am On Feb 28, 2015 |
If ur r/ship wt her is very gud, u cud tell her buh strt stylishly. Apreciate her, say sweet things to her. Afterwards nvr mk her feel lonely or hv a 2nd tot bout it. She shud b grateful tho painful. Buh God knows y |
Re: She's Not Her Biological Mother,when Should She Tell Her? by mutter(f): 2:47pm On Feb 28, 2015 |
naijainfogalery: This is the right and humane thing to do.! 1 Like |
Re: She's Not Her Biological Mother,when Should She Tell Her? by Noloss(f): 10:13pm On Feb 28, 2015 |
I av a friend back then on campus dat did not know dat d person she anwer his name was not her biological father. She got to know outside @ say 30yrs n asked her mum, mum did not deny it. She was devastated n felt betrayed. It'll be bad for her to know from an outsider. Tell her now n show much love n care. Shalom. |
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