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Re: Wife Divorce Husband Because He Lied About His Genotype by kevoh(m): 9:00pm On Mar 07, 2015 |
Smartestelvis:Come again! Please rephrase this part! |
Re: Wife Divorce Husband Because He Lied About His Genotype by Nobody: 9:00pm On Mar 07, 2015 |
The woman has made the right decision. The probability of any new kid being AS is 50% and SS is 25%. The possibility of having another AA is 0%. |
Re: Wife Divorce Husband Because He Lied About His Genotype by Fawklicant: 9:01pm On Mar 07, 2015 |
DuchessLily: My dear, this is a serious issue. The trauma associated with raising an SS child is not what any parent would want to relive. It is just too much. The frequent trips to the hospital in the middle of the night, the sleepless nights, the agony of watching the child suffer for the sins of the parents, living in constant fear that all your love and care for the child could all be in vain, the anxiety, all the physical and emotional toll it takes on all involved, not forgetting the money that would be expended, trust me it is not 'beans'. No child should have to suffer for their parents' indiscretion. In the end, the happiness the parents seek by being together in union would have been annulled by the trauma of seeing their seed go in and out of crisis. The couple got lucky with the first child, let them leave it at that. If they happen to get back together, they should consider adopting. |
Re: Wife Divorce Husband Because He Lied About His Genotype by DeBret(m): 9:03pm On Mar 07, 2015 |
decode55:bike next bus stop |
Re: Wife Divorce Husband Because He Lied About His Genotype by DuchessLily(f): 9:09pm On Mar 07, 2015 |
decode55: God bless u for ur insults Its my opinion, which I have a right to ...its none of ur business . get off my mention 1 Like |
Re: Wife Divorce Husband Because He Lied About His Genotype by Nobody: 9:09pm On Mar 07, 2015 |
Abali1:hope ur brain is not ss,coz i ve heard some ppl bein aa n deir brain somefin else......is it d vows dat's d objective of any marriage? perhaps its better 4 a mormal kid 2 grow up in a foster home dan an ss havin all d care in d world or if u were 2 be a sicklecell patient u would ve winded up in d nearest clinic nw instead of comin out here 2 type gilberish.......d woman made a gr8t move n dats wot counts,every oda fin u say is 4 d gods.... |
Re: Wife Divorce Husband Because He Lied About His Genotype by otomatic(m): 9:11pm On Mar 07, 2015 |
DuchessLily: Pls where in the story did they say the child is a boy? Anyway, having an SS child is not a pleasant experience. The man shouldn't have lied on such a sensitive issue. As such I can't blame the lady for her decision. She knows what she wants. |
Re: Wife Divorce Husband Because He Lied About His Genotype by Fawklicant: 9:11pm On Mar 07, 2015 |
Abali1: I like to think that there is always a way out of every situation. Always. In this case, they could have simply adopted more children if they wanted to, but I would not support them conceiving another child. |
Re: Wife Divorce Husband Because He Lied About His Genotype by Nobody: 9:12pm On Mar 07, 2015 |
kevoh:ooh sorry 4 postin in d kids section,my bad......*swish awayyy** |
Re: Wife Divorce Husband Because He Lied About His Genotype by BillyOpe(m): 9:16pm On Mar 07, 2015 |
Really, her excuses to some of us might not be excusable enough. However, the tendency of having an SS is quite high and I tell u, u don't want to go thruogh such ordeal of dealing with a sickler... Who might eventually die. |
Re: Wife Divorce Husband Because He Lied About His Genotype by talktofemi: 9:17pm On Mar 07, 2015 |
DuchessLily: I knew a couple that with prayers and faith whose all three children are SS. Better they are separated |
Re: Wife Divorce Husband Because He Lied About His Genotype by soulglo: 9:17pm On Mar 07, 2015 |
Fawklicant: You've focused on the suffering of the parents and not even the child. The pain and suffering that child will suffer because their father consciously made that choice. I feel sorry for the one that said pray that the next child does not end up being SS. You are everything that is wrong with this world. |
Re: Wife Divorce Husband Because He Lied About His Genotype by Nobody: 9:17pm On Mar 07, 2015 |
cococandy: Be plain enough! You don't believe in GOD'S ability to do such a miracle! Give the glory to medical science and perhaps the devil since that sounds more logical to believe. Faithless generation of regular church guests! 1 Like |
Re: Wife Divorce Husband Because He Lied About His Genotype by decode55(m): 9:17pm On Mar 07, 2015 |
DuchessLily: People like you shouldn't be allowed to have opinions. You shouldn't even be allowed to roam the streets freely. With this kind of "advice" you're giving, You're a walking time bomb. You should be bound hand & foot, gagged with an oily rag & thrown into a dungeon somewhere 3 Likes |
Re: Wife Divorce Husband Because He Lied About His Genotype by Fawklicant: 9:20pm On Mar 07, 2015 |
soulglo: Please, and please read my post again. |
Re: Wife Divorce Husband Because He Lied About His Genotype by decode55(m): 9:24pm On Mar 07, 2015 |
CounsellorWise: this line you're towing is a two-way thing. You know? I could also say you've been radicalized. We all know there's a God up there somewhere. (Even Science proves it) But deciding to "try" God & wait for Him to perform a "miracle" in such a situation would even pull the couple farther away from the said God. Madam, park well, don't shove your religion down someone else's throat |
Re: Wife Divorce Husband Because He Lied About His Genotype by Fawklicant: 9:28pm On Mar 07, 2015 |
decode55: Easy bro. I get that you are pretty exasperated right now but she is entitled to her opinion. Everybody is. Quit with the insults, it is a petty way of handling a discourse like this. Some people here need to be informed and properly educated on these things and raining insults on them isn't gonna cut it. It would rather have the opposite effect. Let us educate one another, this is a serious issue. |
Re: Wife Divorce Husband Because He Lied About His Genotype by Evina(f): 9:29pm On Mar 07, 2015 |
veave: Wow! Well, you better start fasting n praying oh!!! |
Re: Wife Divorce Husband Because He Lied About His Genotype by DuchessLily(f): 9:29pm On Mar 07, 2015 |
decode55: |
Re: Wife Divorce Husband Because He Lied About His Genotype by harry509: 9:31pm On Mar 07, 2015 |
Islie:ummmM! I don't tink dats is her main reason 2 divorce husbnd. Sumtin tell's me dat she meant by havin 1 borbor @ side who know's more dan her husband. Bcus nigeria women Rr nt 2rusted animo xpcially d gals. |
Re: Wife Divorce Husband Because He Lied About His Genotype by Anaskie(m): 9:32pm On Mar 07, 2015 |
First of all, I didn't know customary courts had the jurisdiction to dissolve a marriage. Assuming they did though, I believe that the grounds for dissolution were not proper at all. What if the guy actually believed he was AA? The comments I've seen here justifying divorce really makes me wonder. Marriage isn't something that should be rushed in and out. Those vows actually mean a lot. I believe the couple should have worked it out. They could either stop making any more babies, or even adopt one. Besides, chances are that the second and third children might even both be AS. You guys make it sound as if Sicklers aren't human beings. CoColav, wats ur take on dis? 1 Like |
Re: Wife Divorce Husband Because He Lied About His Genotype by veave(f): 9:33pm On Mar 07, 2015 |
Evina: You will not understand. Well, my faith is unwaivering. Some have it smooth, some have it tough but we all get there in appropriate time. |
Re: Wife Divorce Husband Because He Lied About His Genotype by fromnigeria(m): 9:33pm On Mar 07, 2015 |
I would do same if i were the woman, marraige is meant to be enjoyed not endured simply because one my children has sickle cell. |
Re: Wife Divorce Husband Because He Lied About His Genotype by Evina(f): 9:40pm On Mar 07, 2015 |
veave: He will bring you your perfect gift in the perfect time. #hugs. |
Re: Wife Divorce Husband Because He Lied About His Genotype by abbey621(m): 9:42pm On Mar 07, 2015 |
This is the funniest thing I've heard in a long time, Nigerian women and their shallow minds. For goodness sake you got one child that is AA, instead of divorce why not do family planning or adopt? Anyways, there's definitely more to this than meets the eyes. At this age in time, with the level of technological advancements I can't believe two AS individuals are still afraid to have children. 1 Like |
Re: Wife Divorce Husband Because He Lied About His Genotype by veave(f): 9:43pm On Mar 07, 2015 |
Re: Wife Divorce Husband Because He Lied About His Genotype by decode55(m): 9:43pm On Mar 07, 2015 |
Fawklicant: Dude, my problem with this particular female is that she knows nothing about an issue as grave as this. & she's dishing out "advice" like one consultant pediatrician. I get your point about the whole enlightenment thing but some certain people need to be put in their place |
Re: Wife Divorce Husband Because He Lied About His Genotype by Takim107(f): 9:46pm On Mar 07, 2015 |
Is not just about the genotype again. ..lies can drive people apart....and this is bad, if her next child happens to be ss she/he might not forgive them...living in a world with fear. The man did a wrong thing so wrong., very wrong. |
Re: Wife Divorce Husband Because He Lied About His Genotype by Fawklicant: 9:47pm On Mar 07, 2015 |
harry509: We know naija girls are this and that, but this isn't about that now. Let us leave that aside for once and not trivialize every topic by turning it into a women-bashing thread. Asides, the genotype issue, no one is looking at it from the trust angle. If your wife told you a monumental lie before marriage and you later found out, would you still trust her again? If you found out that she is actually like 10 years older than you or that she was sleeping with your pastor while you two courted, would you still trust her? That said, I do not support outright divorce because of the child involved. The child needs both parents and one hallmark of being a good parent is being selfless for your kids albeit within reasonable limits and barring all unnecessary encumberances. |
Re: Wife Divorce Husband Because He Lied About His Genotype by Nobody: 9:48pm On Mar 07, 2015 |
decode55: Lady's man, I can't recall quoting you. Get off my path and stop whining like a hired defense attorney. 1 Like |
Re: Wife Divorce Husband Because He Lied About His Genotype by Takim107(f): 9:48pm On Mar 07, 2015 |
Is not just about the genotype again. ..lies can drive people apart....and this is bad, if her next child happens to be ss she/he might not forgive them...living in a world with fear. The man did a wrong thing so wrong., very wrong. |
Re: Wife Divorce Husband Because He Lied About His Genotype by Hedybee(f): 9:52pm On Mar 07, 2015 |
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