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Anything u decide is fine.

Please tell her cos you are sitting on a keg of gunpowder waiting to boom!!

Tell her now that you're not yet married..let her make her choice..or risk saving the evil day till after marriage which might likely crash after fowl yansh open..

We don't understand what you have written.

Did you cheat on your fiancee? Did you impregnate the lady when your fiancee was already in the picture?

You have to let her know BEFORE you tie the knot. Except you want to wait till you are married and then tell her, but lie that you only just discovered about the pregnancy?

Please don't consider the last option! It is NOT wise to start a marriage with dishonesty!

yeaaah u shud tell ur fiance abt it…and juz be prepared the consequences tat might come along…but if she really loves u, she will accept u no matter wat...

remsonik:
Please tell her cos you are sitting on a keg of gunpowder waiting to boom!!

babe relax the lady cant do anything or dont you know husband are scarce. Guy dont even bother telling ur fiancee if later she found out hevean will not fall. But if you tell her and she decided to take a wall then let her go. But you self why cant you keep ur peni.s in cheack

If your two hands no bring problem for you, your two legs will.



And if your two legs do not bring problem for you, your outstanding leg will..



This world sef.

KashyBaby:
yeaaah u shud tell ur fiance abt it…and juz be prepared the consequences tat might come along…but if she really loves u, she will accept u no matter wat...

all these women talk dont forget the op is a man

Evina:
Did you cheat on your fiancee? Did you impregnate the lady when your fiancee was already in the picture?

You have to let her know BEFORE you tie the knot. Except you want to wait till you are married and then tell her, but lie that you only just discovered about the pregnancy?

Please don't consider the last option! It is NOT wise to start a marriage with dishonesty!

@op dont listen to this women they talk like women and you are a man. Dont tell her even if she find out hevean will not fall and that is her cup of tea

In my next life I am coming as a man.
Is it not amazing how insignificant a child can be to a man.
A man can be expecting one child and planning to marry another woman.
A man does not need to care for a child.

Just tell the lady you intend to spend the rest of your life with the truth






This is an issue you can move ahead without clearing

sluvy4tune:
Just tell the lady you intend to spend the rest of your life with the truth






This is an issue you can move ahead without clearing

Bros Abe shed more light do u mean I can keep mute on the issue for life

[quote author=Evina post=31521363]Did you cheat

Redoil:
babe relax the lady cant do anything or dont you know husband are scarce. Guy dont even bother telling ur fiancee if later she found out hevean will not fall. But if you tell her and she decided to take a wall then let her go. But you self why cant you keep ur peni.s in cheack

Brother na d handiwork of the devil winks

Pinkiedearie:
Tell her now that you're not yet married..let her make her choice..or risk saving the evil day till after marriage which might likely crash after fowl yansh open..

Am very sure this kind of lady will do everything possible to keep her marriage.. Its just all about conscience .

Evina:
Did you cheat on your fiancee? Did you impregnate the lady when your fiancee was already in the picture?

You have to let her know BEFORE you tie the knot. Except you want to wait till you are married and then tell her, but lie that you only just discovered about the pregnancy?

Please don't consider the last option! It is NOT wise to start a marriage with dishonesty!

But u as a lady if ur boyfriend/fiancee /husband tells u that what will be your reaction or aw will u feel

mutter:
In my next life I am coming as a man.
Is it not amazing how insignificant a child can be to a man.
A man can be expecting one child and planning to marry another woman.
A man does not need to care for a child.

hmmm.sis,everyone has his/her own cross to bear or what do u make of a man working his ass of sponsoring his children(he might not be present physically with them compare to their mother for this reason) but as soon as the children start making money b4 they give their father #5 they would hav satisfy their mother or a man dying (more widow than widower)not too long his first two or three children graduated leaving only their mother to eat the fruit of their(husband n wife) hard labour.

it's better u do the right things now so that nemesis won't catch up with u.....

davidbanner:
it's better u do the right things now so that nemesis won't catch up with u.....

Nemesis like.. ..

mutter:
In my next life I am coming as a man.
Is it not amazing how insignificant a child can be to a man.
A man can be expecting one child and planning to marry another woman.
A man does not need to care for a child.

like u have a choice how u will come to this world. Lol

Redoil:
babe relax the lady cant do anything or dont you know husband are scarce. Guy dont even bother telling ur fiancee if later she found out hevean will not fall. But if you tell her and she decided to take a wall then let her go. But you self why cant you keep ur peni.s in cheack

Men are not scarce! Good men are scarce rather! And does the op sound like a good man to you?

vfactor:
Anything u decide is fine.

ireneidiva:

Men are not scarce! Good men are scarce rather! And does the op sound like a good man to you?

NO

Op
I don't think you love this girl. You are just being selfish. Probably she has some material thing or whatever that you are attracted to and want to gain from, otherwise you wouldn't be with her.

You already lied about your age knowing well that if you told her the truth she might not continue with the relationship. You lied until you were sure she was deep into you and had feelings for you before you told her the truth. That is selfish and manipulative. Now in that same year you met with and impregnated another lady. And now you want to also keep this from her probably until you guys get married so that it will be more difficult for her to leave you. Your child will always remain your child and the truth will come out one day and how will she feel then? You don't really care about this girl, all you care about is yourself and what you can get from the relationship.

If you really love this girl then you would tell her everything about you, the whole truth. Let her know what she is in for. And if she still stays then you know your love for each other is real and you can weather any storm together. But if you hide this in a bid to 'trap' her until it's too late, ruining her life in the process and making her carry a cross for the rest of her life for something she never planned for, then I'm sorry but you are a scumbag and not a real man.

^^^^
You have said the truth. The poster is a manipulative fellow who isn't sure about his worth to win her love but want to trap a lady.

You may trap her to marry u but believe me she may cheat on you later and justify her actions . So bro, build ur marriage on honesty since she had asked to know.

Unfaithful random sampler I hail o




Tell her!

That you even have to question it is quite absurd.

Of course, you should tell her!

5minsmadness:
Op
I don't think you love this girl. You are just being selfish. Probably she has some material thing or whatever that you are attracted to and want to gain from, otherwise you wouldn't be with her.

You already lied about your age knowing well that if you told her the truth she might not continue with the relationship. You lied until you were sure she was deep into you and had feelings for you before you told her the truth. That is selfish and manipulative. Now in that same year you met with and impregnated another lady. And now you want to also keep this from her probably until you guys get married so that it will be more difficult for her to leave you. Your child will always remain your child and the truth will come out one day and how will she feel then? You don't really care about this girl, all you care about is yourself and what you can get from the relationship.

If you really love this girl then you would tell her everything about you, the whole truth. Let her know what she is in for. And if she still stays then you know your love for each other is real and you can weather any storm together. But if you hide this in a bid to 'trap' her until it's too late, ruining her life in the process and making her carry a cross for the rest of her life for something she never planned for, then I'm sorry but you are a scumbag and not a real man.

Great reply. Totally agree with you.

ireneidiva:

Men are not scarce! Good men are scarce rather! And does the op sound like a good man to you?

I laugh when people talk of husband scarcity. Na good men dey scarce. Not something to make every Tom, dick and harry proud.

A peni.s doesn't make a man sef. plenty Boys roaming about as men.

mutter:
In my next life I am coming as a man.
Is it not amazing how insignificant a child can be to a man.
A man can be expecting one child and planning to marry another woman.
A man does not need to care for a child.

The tone I get from this post is that men are uncaring and selfish. I wager women are the totally uncaring and selfish sex. You see, women are capable of the extreme. Where one woman is throwing herself under the bus to save her child from being run over, another woman is dumping her baby down the pit latrine. A man will likely do neither, because he is sane, logical. Doesn't make the child insignificant to him.