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Re: RIP DJDOLA- We Will Miss You by Alphaoscar: 9:42pm On Mar 13, 2015 |
Option 3 is the best but my fear is that the rest of the family may not allow the mother enjoy this empowerment because they may resort to evil means all in the name of getting their own part of the windfall. If that option 3 can be properly handled, I believe it is the best. |
Re: RIP DJDOLA- We Will Miss You by Setaje(f): 9:44pm On Mar 13, 2015 |
ifyalways: Simple. This is the best option abeg. 1 Like |
Re: RIP DJDOLA- We Will Miss You by Ishilove: 9:45pm On Mar 13, 2015 |
babyosisi:The fence at my village house needs some repairs, so I'm interested in donations too. I go with option 3, but with modifications. Empowerment for his mum but no relocation and what not. 2 Likes |
Re: RIP DJDOLA- We Will Miss You by Caracta(f): 9:46pm On Mar 13, 2015 |
Laredojohn: His personal wish was to build a mosque? Seriously? Where was that stated biko? 3 Likes |
Re: RIP DJDOLA- We Will Miss You by nellyhandsom(m): 9:48pm On Mar 13, 2015 |
option 3 rocks!!! |
Re: RIP DJDOLA- We Will Miss You by Generalkorex(m): 9:50pm On Mar 13, 2015 |
Option 3 |
Re: RIP DJDOLA- We Will Miss You by esere826: 9:54pm On Mar 13, 2015 |
@r231 Only those who donated money through your organisation should be the ones to make decisions on the money and the weight of individual donation should be the weight of their authority in this matter this might sound harsh, but the donors provided money for Djola and not to religion, clerics or any relative whether poor or rich they also trusted that TeHn would use the money sensibly for Djola so it falls back to the donors to decide, and for TeHn to step in and exert closure if the donors are not able to decide 8 Likes |
Re: RIP DJDOLA- We Will Miss You by Idowuogbo(f): 9:55pm On Mar 13, 2015 |
Obinoscopy:Obino, haba...we can't just ignore a mother that used up all she had to make sure Dj got back on his feet and inject ALL that money helping another?! DJ once pleaded on this same thread that we should at least give his mother something tangible that'll help build her business back up. We MUST honour that request. 1 Like |
Re: RIP DJDOLA- We Will Miss You by hungryboy(m): 9:59pm On Mar 13, 2015 |
Obinoscopy:oga abeg dis your suggestion no make sense, Dj's mum is also someone in need, helping her is charity work too, abi na until pesin dey hospital don near to die were we go dey help? 5 Likes |
Re: RIP DJDOLA- We Will Miss You by shrekandfiona: 10:00pm On Mar 13, 2015 |
ayinba1:am sorry I had to quote you but I donated anonymously solely for Dj's treatment. I had little but I gave hoping it will at least pay part of his hospital bills. Since he is no more, I will like my funds diverted to someone else in need here on nairaland not to his folks. In that regards I go with option 3 minus the house rent part please. A business can be established for his mum but my funds should please not be used for any house rent. He has other able bodied family members who should be able to care for his parents/elders. Thanks 15 Likes |
Re: RIP DJDOLA- We Will Miss You by Willdidi(m): 10:01pm On Mar 13, 2015 |
I suggest just the opening a business for the mum and majority of the fund be used for another persons case which has been verified. The main aim of donating the money was to save a life, if thesame money can be used to save another persons life I think thesame aim would have been achieved but in a different way. Just my humble suggestion. 10 Likes |
Re: RIP DJDOLA- We Will Miss You by Nobody: 10:02pm On Mar 13, 2015 |
bigtt76: Why should we be concerned about all of this?people are not being paid for these services. There is already Tehns acting in that capacity now you want a foundation set up Hia 2 Likes |
Re: RIP DJDOLA- We Will Miss You by Laredojohn(m): 10:02pm On Mar 13, 2015 |
Caracta:Dunno, making reference to what some peeps said, and made it known if dats his wish, he is gone and sad he could not fulfill it, we can't fulfill that as we have other people in need, his family can decide to donate their share of the funds to the mosque, while we use the balance for other people in need of medical assistance . |
Re: RIP DJDOLA- We Will Miss You by Seaen(m): 10:02pm On Mar 13, 2015 |
Option 3 is it for me. The Mum should be helped with a business That can sustain her and the family. |
Re: RIP DJDOLA- We Will Miss You by pickabeau1: 10:05pm On Mar 13, 2015 |
esere826: Thanks for your suggestion and confidence in tehn This was considered TeHN decided to bring up this issue to Nairalanders to decide upon so that accusations of inpropriety, diversion and fraud will not surface again. |
Re: RIP DJDOLA- We Will Miss You by Nobody: 10:05pm On Mar 13, 2015 |
Laredojohn: There is no place the guy asked anyone to build a mosque Why is this mosque issue suddenly a big deal We are not building any mosques Ho ha 2 Likes |
Re: RIP DJDOLA- We Will Miss You by Caracta(f): 10:07pm On Mar 13, 2015 |
Laredojohn: Making reference to a false claim is just going to drag us back and forth. Building a mosque is not an option here. Let's just focus on making right choices. I believe you have chosen Option 3. Nice. God bless. |
Re: RIP DJDOLA- We Will Miss You by Laredojohn(m): 10:07pm On Mar 13, 2015 |
babyosisi:Ok, was surprised when some peeps raised d mosque thing, that's why I said if he had the wish b4 his death, his family can take that as their responsibility not ours. 1 Like |
Re: RIP DJDOLA- We Will Miss You by Nobody: 10:08pm On Mar 13, 2015 |
Seaen: Thank you! And after that we hands off their private affairs It is not up to us to monitor how she runs the business and how much money it makes and if it can sustain her Btw r231 and co,what does the woman do Is she a trader,does she have a kiosk A mamaput joint? We should support her in what she is already doing It's not everyone that can run a business If she prefers the money in cash,we give her cash and our job is done 8 Likes |
Re: RIP DJDOLA- We Will Miss You by Mintayo(m): 10:09pm On Mar 13, 2015 |
option 3 |
Re: RIP DJDOLA- We Will Miss You by Caracta(f): 10:09pm On Mar 13, 2015 |
babyosisi: I just tire. Mosque kwa? On top how much? I'd rather suggest we construct the road that leads to his family house. Lol...some people sha. Mosque? 2 Likes |
Re: RIP DJDOLA- We Will Miss You by rayo2002: 10:10pm On Mar 13, 2015 |
Option 3 minus house rent. Also what about the initial money given to his Mum? Will that form part of the consideration? 3 Likes |
Re: RIP DJDOLA- We Will Miss You by Nursy(f): 10:16pm On Mar 13, 2015 |
It is well ooooo |
Re: RIP DJDOLA- We Will Miss You by Nobody: 10:16pm On Mar 13, 2015 |
I'm so touched by the generousity. God bless the donors May paradise be his resting place option 3 1 Like |
Re: RIP DJDOLA- We Will Miss You by jaybee3(m): 10:21pm On Mar 13, 2015 |
rayo2002:The 100k was transferred to DJ as reported on this thread but the mum rejected it at the time as she was more concerned with getting DJ back to his feet. We were told during our last meeting with them that DJ withdrew some money from it but their should be a sizeable portion of that money left in the account. The main issue is they are unable to retrieve the money as they didn't bother getting a death certificate and that's needed to take possession of his liquid assets from the back. We were also reliably informed that the last 150k transferred to him on the day that he unfortunately died was used towards the burial arrangements |
Re: RIP DJDOLA- We Will Miss You by Nobody: 10:23pm On Mar 13, 2015 |
Justfollowit: His parents will be glad to have a mosque in their Son's name than having a shop filled with goods cos all we have here is vanity. I'm only trying to get him to paradise with the mosque suggestion |
Re: RIP DJDOLA- We Will Miss You by olu4life(m): 10:27pm On Mar 13, 2015 |
Abeg whats with the sudden idea of mosque?! Pls and pls if u havent been a part of this from the onset, dont just come here and say mosque. When did DJ ever say that? Mosque for who? Pls lets go with Option 3 which is more better. |
Re: RIP DJDOLA- We Will Miss You by tbaba1234: 10:30pm On Mar 13, 2015 |
breadandbutter: Enough already.... 3 Likes |
Re: RIP DJDOLA- We Will Miss You by olu4life(m): 10:31pm On Mar 13, 2015 |
breadandbutter:Oga park well, na u go buy land? Or u think to construct a building is beans? Pls leave religion out of it. If it was on a religion platform he used, do u think we will all be here?! |
Re: RIP DJDOLA- We Will Miss You by ayinba1(f): 10:34pm On Mar 13, 2015 |
@shrekandfiona No problem at all. You are totally entitled to your opinion. I believe expressing it was the reason for the update on the thread. |
Re: RIP DJDOLA- We Will Miss You by Idowuogbo(f): 10:37pm On Mar 13, 2015 |
breadandbutter:Abeg i no fit laugh e....person wey hin death don reach 2 months na hin this African superman wan carry go paradise? Ishilove, please deliver this guy to the psycho sec na...u no see say e don begin ring for hin head? Na until hin tear cloth show us hin periwinkle before you carry am? Move this man abeg 3 Likes |
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