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Re: Man Breaks Up With Girlfriend Of 11 Years 24 Hours To His Wedding To Another by LewisO: 11:32pm On Mar 13, 2015
lifestyle1:
11 what ? shocked
[size=15pt]I hail the oldies Nairalander. grin[/size]
Re: Man Breaks Up With Girlfriend Of 11 Years 24 Hours To His Wedding To Another by phlamesG: 11:33pm On Mar 13, 2015
rubey:
Men = Beasts!
And the fool dated him for so long!
feminist! Thats an uncouth thing to say babe undecided

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Re: Man Breaks Up With Girlfriend Of 11 Years 24 Hours To His Wedding To Another by Blakjewelry(m): 11:33pm On Mar 13, 2015
Ithee:
wha kinda f*cking rearing could that be, for 11years. No matter what season may come up, he should at least try to consider the intimacy of 365days X 11...............may God heal her cos its not just a heartbreak but a heartache
Well it partly her fault, I always advice to marry any man who is available if her man is not ready yet. Even some of my male folks find it weird though because of my stand. I once had to let go of the girl I loved the most just because I was not ready back then, I know it was a ugh sacrifice even t
Until date I can't get over it but I have to do it for her own happiness. That was the first time I actually understand the word if love her let her go, before then the word sounds crazy

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Re: Man Breaks Up With Girlfriend Of 11 Years 24 Hours To His Wedding To Another by Nobody: 11:34pm On Mar 13, 2015
I still dey wonder how gurl go date man for 11 yrs.
*scratches head*
And there are no signs of jackass- ism to notice?
11 years wasted for nothing! ! This one pain me sha. embarassed embarassedKai. That Babe go fit loose her mind thus night.painful!

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Re: Man Breaks Up With Girlfriend Of 11 Years 24 Hours To His Wedding To Another by manny4life(m): 11:34pm On Mar 13, 2015
ElFenomeno1:


Your father is the pig ...the sewage dumping ground pig who feeds fat on human excrement
F ucking bastard
so because a woman was dated for 11 years now she must be wifed at all cost
dating and marriage are two different things ... you need to do more when dating to get married
bloody gasbag. Fuc k your mum

I have listened to your argument and permit me to say it's not so sound. You fail to understand what others are saying.

No woman will waste 11yrs on fornicating with a man, the understanding is that the man should have made his intentions know long before a day to his wedding. That's plain wickedness. I hope you're not like that o because the law of Karma is REAL.
Re: Man Breaks Up With Girlfriend Of 11 Years 24 Hours To His Wedding To Another by Nobody: 11:34pm On Mar 13, 2015
Don't be hasty with ur judgements... Similar case happened to a friend of mine 2years ago he dumped his 7 years girlfriend 2 month to their wedding because he caught her red handed b.anging her dad's driver....so don't be judgemental women are wicked all the same "hoe"

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Re: Man Breaks Up With Girlfriend Of 11 Years 24 Hours To His Wedding To Another by bassette(m): 11:35pm On Mar 13, 2015
when i read ”blogger”,i decided to doubt the authencity of the news...this too cud well be a made up tale tweets notwithstanding...
Re: Man Breaks Up With Girlfriend Of 11 Years 24 Hours To His Wedding To Another by EOOJ(m): 11:35pm On Mar 13, 2015
farano:
Is sex all that men really want?

Nope....sexxx aaint aall
Re: Man Breaks Up With Girlfriend Of 11 Years 24 Hours To His Wedding To Another by IYANGBALI: 11:35pm On Mar 13, 2015
tit:

abeg! we have to go and scatter the wedding!
all nairaland girls have to show!
where them wan hole am?
I dey vex well well.

toto abi wetin be your name?no try am o
Re: Man Breaks Up With Girlfriend Of 11 Years 24 Hours To His Wedding To Another by kekeolu(f): 11:35pm On Mar 13, 2015
girl, bless God that he left u in peace and not in pieces.it may be difficult to come to terms with the situation for now but just take solace in God that it is just not meant to be. Draw closer to God you will see reason why God allowed this happen in years to come. Pray for the best from God and He"ll do it for u. Leave him to God and his conscience.
Re: Man Breaks Up With Girlfriend Of 11 Years 24 Hours To His Wedding To Another by Danpersie31(m): 11:36pm On Mar 13, 2015
pls 2b frank how can such a man Eva succeed in his life...leta wen karma strikes ,it ll b d work of d devil
Re: Man Breaks Up With Girlfriend Of 11 Years 24 Hours To His Wedding To Another by Nobody: 11:36pm On Mar 13, 2015
11 years and the dude kept playing ludo ontop the girl head, that's very harsh from the guy,he just wasted 11 good years of someone else beloved sister's life. The girl maybe attempting suicide but that's never an option..Life Goes On
Re: Man Breaks Up With Girlfriend Of 11 Years 24 Hours To His Wedding To Another by MaxWellStores(m): 11:37pm On Mar 13, 2015
this and many other kinds of undeserved treatments have, n re still been met on women, worldwide. i feel truly sorry for that lady, but the truth still remain: countless many others will still follow her lead, thinking theirs would end alot better.

God made marriage for a purpose. He also, before marriage, made human beings in this order- male, then, female. He made them in that order for a purpose. now, for time constraint, i will sum it all up in point-like manner.

1. man is to be the priest, husband, and father. in other to effectively carry these out, he needs the word of God wrapped in his spirit, contrary to cramming it!

2. man is to work!!! this builds him up to be a breadwinner and cater of his household.

3. man can marry, and have kids. now, the problem here is, many women want to help the man do all 3. its not the right thing. allow him mature FIRST. marriage is for mature men, not "baby!" or "boo!" follow God's set order and you would get the right man in the shortest time. to be continued...

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Re: Man Breaks Up With Girlfriend Of 11 Years 24 Hours To His Wedding To Another by creamylicious(f): 11:37pm On Mar 13, 2015
Bleep sticking with a struggling guy..... the true test of a man is when he's in money. d lack of money = loyalty and humility,,,,,,!! I feel like punching that guy in d nose

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Re: Man Breaks Up With Girlfriend Of 11 Years 24 Hours To His Wedding To Another by ElFenomeno1: 11:37pm On Mar 13, 2015
manny4life:


I have listened to your argument and permit me to say it's not so sound. You fail to understand what others are saying.

No woman will waste 11yrs on fornicating with a man, the understanding is that the man should have made his intentions know long before a day to his wedding. That's plain wickedness. I hope you're not like that o because the law of Karma is REAL.

There is nothing like Karma
I am happily married. I dated my wife for 2 years
fornicating with a man? How do you even know that?
The point still remains when your dating, you don't have to give long notices to leave the relationship.... you simply leave when your tired and don't feel the next level is achievable
you owe no explanations to anyone but the party involved ... If not immediately but eventually if the party involved still wants to know
we need to look beyond our traditional and local ways
Re: Man Breaks Up With Girlfriend Of 11 Years 24 Hours To His Wedding To Another by Blakjewelry(m): 11:38pm On Mar 13, 2015
ElFenomeno1:

dude whether the process is long or not the point is not every goddam relationship has to end in marriage and dating someone for 20 years doesn't mean you have to marry them... The message is simple and clear
it is not a must.... did the dude promise her marriage?
That is the question you frigging lunkheads should be asking not just spit roasting the fella
Don't worry work in company for 40 years then after retirement and the company refused to pay you your gratuity then may you might learn a thing or two

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Re: Man Breaks Up With Girlfriend Of 11 Years 24 Hours To His Wedding To Another by IYANGBALI: 11:38pm On Mar 13, 2015
JideJamez:
Don't be hasty in with ur judgements... Similar case happened to a friend of mine 2years ago he dumped his 7 years girlfriend 2 month to their wedding because he caught her red handed b.anging her dad's driver....so don't be judgemental women are wicked all the same "hoe"
her dad,s driver?the girl must be one of the girls that sell paraga,while your friend must be a danfo driver grin

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Re: Man Breaks Up With Girlfriend Of 11 Years 24 Hours To His Wedding To Another by Nobody: 11:39pm On Mar 13, 2015
Out of my magnanimous heart, I have decided to propose to her and wipe her tears with my unending love....


Please retweet and share until this message gets her... I want to give her another chance to live and love again...
Re: Man Breaks Up With Girlfriend Of 11 Years 24 Hours To His Wedding To Another by cr7lomo: 11:40pm On Mar 13, 2015
That is y I will always say ladies should date older men when they are thru with school. All these small boys will get tired of u after a long time and dump u, no matter the sacrifice u made for him. Look for a man that is ready to marry you after schoo so that you will not land on twitter or nairaland, being consoled for matters that touch the heart

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Re: Man Breaks Up With Girlfriend Of 11 Years 24 Hours To His Wedding To Another by IYANGBALI: 11:41pm On Mar 13, 2015
Danpersie31:
pls 2b frank how can such a man Eva succeed in his life...leta wen karma strikes ,it ll b d work of d devil
karma in Nigeria?ko jo,don't you know that Naija guys/babes don settle karma since,karma don chop o
Re: Man Breaks Up With Girlfriend Of 11 Years 24 Hours To His Wedding To Another by ElFenomeno1: 11:43pm On Mar 13, 2015
Blakjewelry:

Don't worry work in company for 40 years then after retirement and the company refused to pay you your gratuity then may you might learn a thing or two
senseless comparison
dumb analogy
you have no leg to stand on here
stop thinking like the dude owes her anything
they both benefitted and at the end of the day one left because he wasn't interested in the next level
a lot of airheads and nitwits on this thread are just thinking bout the sex that might have been involved
you lot need brain transplants and exposure
Re: Man Breaks Up With Girlfriend Of 11 Years 24 Hours To His Wedding To Another by shejane: 11:43pm On Mar 13, 2015
They are not met to be
The both of them have done their parts in each other's life, now is time to take a bow

The girl should be greatful and ask God to bring her man to her speedily

She was dating someone else husband for 11yrs

The owner don come

Things of life

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Re: Man Breaks Up With Girlfriend Of 11 Years 24 Hours To His Wedding To Another by kraftsta(m): 11:43pm On Mar 13, 2015
rubey:
Men = Beasts!
And the fool dated him for so long!

Hw can u say da all men are Beasts? Won't blame u tho, maybe ur dad na comfirmed Beast...u are really sick in d head n I weep for d unfortunate man da will call u his wife

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Re: Man Breaks Up With Girlfriend Of 11 Years 24 Hours To His Wedding To Another by ElFenomeno1: 11:43pm On Mar 13, 2015
IYANGBALI:
karma in Nigeria?ko jo,don't you know that Naija guys/babes don settle karma since,karma don chop o
don't mind the dumb fu cks
konida fun karma
Re: Man Breaks Up With Girlfriend Of 11 Years 24 Hours To His Wedding To Another by Nobody: 11:46pm On Mar 13, 2015
They met in 3rd year in Uni and friend for 11years?

Pure lies!

You must be APC Fan.

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Re: Man Breaks Up With Girlfriend Of 11 Years 24 Hours To His Wedding To Another by notoriousbabe: 11:46pm On Mar 13, 2015
LewisO:

undecided
tunji na wetin?
Re: Man Breaks Up With Girlfriend Of 11 Years 24 Hours To His Wedding To Another by Nobody: 11:47pm On Mar 13, 2015
Wow! To what end bro?? Even though I don't have sisters, I feel for the lady. That's extreme wickedness
Re: Man Breaks Up With Girlfriend Of 11 Years 24 Hours To His Wedding To Another by notoriousbabe: 11:48pm On Mar 13, 2015
ElFenomeno1:

don't mind the dumb fu cks
konida fun karma
grin grin
Re: Man Breaks Up With Girlfriend Of 11 Years 24 Hours To His Wedding To Another by Blakjewelry(m): 11:48pm On Mar 13, 2015
ElFenomeno1:

senseless comparison
dumb analogy
you have no leg to stand on here
stop thinking like the dude owes her anything
they both benefitted and at the end of the day one left because he wasn't interested in the next level
a lot of airheads and nitwits on this thread are just thinking bout the sex that might have been involved
you lot need brain transplants and exposure
Who is talking about sex and stuff, and I observed that you can reason without the you use curse words so I don't see reason why I should reply you again

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Re: Man Breaks Up With Girlfriend Of 11 Years 24 Hours To His Wedding To Another by notoriousbabe: 11:49pm On Mar 13, 2015
kraftsta:


Hw can u say da all men are Beasts? Won't blame u tho, maybe ur dad na comfirmed Beast...u are really sick in d head n I weep for d unfortunate man da will call u his wife
hahahahahahahaha grin
Re: Man Breaks Up With Girlfriend Of 11 Years 24 Hours To His Wedding To Another by LewisO: 11:51pm On Mar 13, 2015
notoriousbabe:
tunji na wetin?
[size=15pt]tomiwa what? [/size]
Re: Man Breaks Up With Girlfriend Of 11 Years 24 Hours To His Wedding To Another by manny4life(m): 11:51pm On Mar 13, 2015
ElFenomeno1:


There is nothing like Karma
I am happily married. I dated my wife for 2 years
fornicating with a man? How do you even know that?
The point still remains when your dating, you don't have to give long notices to leave the relationship.... you simply leave when your tired and don't feel the next level is achievable
you owe no explanations to anyone but the party involved ... If not immediately but eventually if the party involved still wants to know
we need to look beyond our traditional and local ways

There is nothing like Karma? Okay, let's hope for the sake of this you don't have the same characteristic of the man. What are you talking about? An 11 year relationship isn't just ANY relationship. Someone who's worked for you for 11 years isn't just anyone. A friend of 11 years isn't just anyone. 11 years of relationship isn't a 2 year relationship.

If you have dated someone past a certain period, you can't tell me that they haven't had some conversation, arguments, fights, breakup/makeups, etc let alone for 11 years and you're trying to convince me it's just dating? Are you kidding me? Even in the west, if you lived with a man for that long, you are considered partners considered like marriage and you're entitled to some benefits. Abeg let's leave all this simplistic explanation. If you date someone past 5, 7, 9 and in the 11th year and you think it's just a plain NSA relationship, I think that's ridiculousness.

I live in a traditional and also, modern world, in the world where I live in, his case will be contracted out to those who will handle him. The modern justice system will reject this theory of yours and will not side with this man. This is callous and wicked.

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