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Re: So Many Ladies Over The Age Of 30, Please What Is The Problem!!!? by Truckpusher(m): 8:37pm On Mar 16, 2015
Justfollowit:

Too bad

I don't match make tongue
Stingy girl. angry
Re: So Many Ladies Over The Age Of 30, Please What Is The Problem!!!? by onyenro(m): 8:39pm On Mar 16, 2015
ajos145:
Dis is not a misery. It is a fulfillment of God's prophecy. See Isaiah 4:1

Isaiah 4:1 And in that day seven women shall take hold of one man, saying, We will eat our own bread, and wear our own apparel: only let us be called by thy name, to take away our reproach.
Re: So Many Ladies Over The Age Of 30, Please What Is The Problem!!!? by Gamesmart: 8:39pm On Mar 16, 2015
Yareey:

I'm not sure about that. I have seen a lot of responsible men but responsibility alone can not hold a marriage. There has to be a genuine click and that's the hardest part.


smiley


English pls undecided

If I may ask, considering your background, how can it be easy to find a man to click with when you have restrictions on mixing with the opposite sex?
Re: So Many Ladies Over The Age Of 30, Please What Is The Problem!!!? by SwingzProsper(m): 8:41pm On Mar 16, 2015
xtervaganza:
use your brain properly.


I'm not surprised you're supporting a dumb comment. Seeing the way you type it won't be out of place to say you're one of the guys in prison she's talking about
ok. I hear u! I cnt jz b dragging ishhh wt u na! Im xo ova dat! I got more vital tins 2do.. So kip ur ishh 2urself... U got dat
Re: So Many Ladies Over The Age Of 30, Please What Is The Problem!!!? by Nobody: 8:42pm On Mar 16, 2015
frisby:


Could you please elaborate further on the emboldened
Hmm how to explain this.. There is a click when you can talk for hours without feeling bored or irritated. When you have similar likes and dislikes and the butterflies never go away cheesy
Re: So Many Ladies Over The Age Of 30, Please What Is The Problem!!!? by Nobody: 8:47pm On Mar 16, 2015
Gamesmart:


If I may ask, considering your background, how can it be easy to find a man to click with when you have restrictions on mixing with the opposite sex?
What restrictions? Are you telling me that you have never seen a muslim girl outside? Don't they use the same street as you?
Re: So Many Ladies Over The Age Of 30, Please What Is The Problem!!!? by Nobody: 8:51pm On Mar 16, 2015
Truckpusher:
Stingy girl. angry

Hmmm

I am willing to reconsider if you have lots and lots of money and if you are also ready to enter into a legally enforceable contract tongue
You know it would be heartless to let a sister go without insurance grin
Re: So Many Ladies Over The Age Of 30, Please What Is The Problem!!!? by Nobody: 8:51pm On Mar 16, 2015
Misogynist2014:
So Much Happiness. Thanks dear.

It means

Shaking my head for you

Can I ask you a question?
Re: So Many Ladies Over The Age Of 30, Please What Is The Problem!!!? by mistiquephat(m): 8:54pm On Mar 16, 2015
dovelike:
I think the main reason is that most of the men are in prison. undecided
. Hope ur brother is doing well there?

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Re: So Many Ladies Over The Age Of 30, Please What Is The Problem!!!? by butanep(m): 8:54pm On Mar 16, 2015
koyyess:
Success tip? Pttttft, give me a break. You would have made a lot of sense if you didn't taint your opinion with baseless and bias reasons. This is the 21st century where it pays to be observant and open minded. You don't just come out and make subjective statements and expect people to respect them. Do well to read your comment again and find out why. There is no atom of truth in it.
I rest my case...
Re: So Many Ladies Over The Age Of 30, Please What Is The Problem!!!? by Truckpusher(m): 8:54pm On Mar 16, 2015
Justfollowit:


Hmmm

I am willing to reconsider if you have lots and lots of money and if you are also ready to enter into a legally enforceable contract tongue
You know it would be heartless to let a sister go without insurance grin
Money won't be a problem wink
But no contract .Why Would I toss my beautiful woman away and keep her under the mercy of another man? shocked.....if only you knew what men can do to a divorced , you wouldn't throw your wife out .
Just say yes and we are fine forever . angry

Are you in or out?
Re: So Many Ladies Over The Age Of 30, Please What Is The Problem!!!? by Nobody: 8:56pm On Mar 16, 2015
Truckpusher:
Money won't be a problem wink
But no contract .Why Would I toss my beautiful woman away and keep her under the mercy of another man? shocked.....if only you knew what men can do to a divorced , you wouldn't throw your wife out .
Just say yes and we are fine forever . angry

Are you in or out?

Noooo

You have to sign a contract
Re: So Many Ladies Over The Age Of 30, Please What Is The Problem!!!? by Truckpusher(m): 8:57pm On Mar 16, 2015
Justfollowit:


Noooo

You have to sign a contract

Marriages aren't suppose to include any form of contractual obligations .

Marriage should be entered innocently.
Re: So Many Ladies Over The Age Of 30, Please What Is The Problem!!!? by Teespice(f): 9:01pm On Mar 16, 2015
Dragonking:


Yes continue...your mouth is sharp now but when the time comes you will mellow down like a puppy dog searching for any man to accept u as 7th wife.


you will be the one to marry 7 wives and I pray you have high blood pressure.

oniranu jati jati.

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Re: So Many Ladies Over The Age Of 30, Please What Is The Problem!!!? by Nobody: 9:03pm On Mar 16, 2015
Truckpusher:
Marriages aren't suppose to include any form of contractual obligations .

Marriage should be entered innocently.



This one is different wink

Stop being an Alaroro tongue

Agree and let's finalise this dealing
Re: So Many Ladies Over The Age Of 30, Please What Is The Problem!!!? by tosyne2much(m): 9:04pm On Mar 16, 2015
ronald4lif:
And you don't see the men who are over 30, 40 still single too abi. There are more women than men in the world, so expect more unmarried ladies too. And another factor is that most men aren't prepared to get married until they have a stable source of income, when that is not the case we remain single.

Some of these girls in their thirties must have turned down many potential suitors when they were in their twenties. Their heads were swelling then, so you can't fault the men for their own undoing, or do you?
God bless you bro cool
Re: So Many Ladies Over The Age Of 30, Please What Is The Problem!!!? by Truckpusher(m): 9:04pm On Mar 16, 2015
Justfollowit:




This one is different wink

Stop being an Alaroro tongue

Agree and let's finalise this dealing
Lol, what's an alaroro?

Come here , I ain't signing anything abeg.
Re: So Many Ladies Over The Age Of 30, Please What Is The Problem!!!? by ronald4lif(m): 9:05pm On Mar 16, 2015
tosyne2much:
God bless you bro cool

God bless you Baba. smiley
Re: So Many Ladies Over The Age Of 30, Please What Is The Problem!!!? by ndyemi: 9:07pm On Mar 16, 2015
[font=Lucida Sans Unicode]well I guess part of the reason is that when some of them were in their twenties they probably looked down on some guys for one reason or the oda, maybe he was still hustling or religion, or probably ethnicity as some ladies allow their parents decide for them. now the guys have arrived and doing well, de tend not to go for older ladies anymore, rather they search for ladies between 24 and 28yrs.. hence they remain single undecided undecided

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Re: So Many Ladies Over The Age Of 30, Please What Is The Problem!!!? by Dragonking: 9:14pm On Mar 16, 2015
Teespice:



you will be the one to marry 7 wives and I pray you have high blood pressure.

oniranu jati jati.

The truth is bitter but it is bound to happen and when it does you will definitely fall into the 7wives category... continue bad mouthing but one day it must come to past. You will definitely beg to get married.

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Re: So Many Ladies Over The Age Of 30, Please What Is The Problem!!!? by luckman20(m): 9:25pm On Mar 16, 2015
Enegod:
That's because men are scarce undecided
Polygamy can solve the problem undecided
Islam can solve the problem right?
Re: So Many Ladies Over The Age Of 30, Please What Is The Problem!!!? by Nobody: 9:26pm On Mar 16, 2015
Gamesmart:


Or you could say the women are too much of nigga ass bitches that did not meet the men's expectations to want to wifey them.

Re: So Many Ladies Over The Age Of 30, Please What Is The Problem!!!? by chiogoezubem(f): 9:30pm On Mar 16, 2015
eagleeyez:
...

Please, don't state that they want rich men as we all know what is going on now,our women are practically becoming bread winners. Some earn higher than their husbands

These single ladies don't mind getting married to men who are of a lower earning capacity.

What is then the problem?!?


Most of our youngmen are still afraid of successful ladies. They let ego rule their hearts.

My advice to these guys: Times are different now. The economic situations globally have empowered women/ladies. Make most of it, and live beyond the mind. Remember that he who finds a wife obtains favour from God.

I have a close friend who is more successful than her hubby. The fact is right now, the hubby is inbetween jobs for a long time now. She's built a duplex where they are staying presently in Ajah. But you will never know that she is the breadwinner. The hubby brags about "my" house anyhow and she doesn't object.

The coin could fall either way, you know. Love, respect and understanding should be the key factors. Ie, after God o! cheesy
Re: So Many Ladies Over The Age Of 30, Please What Is The Problem!!!? by 400billionman: 9:32pm On Mar 16, 2015
kayciano:
Please when did marriage become LIBERATION FIRE MINISTRY or rather FEDERAL CIVIL SERVICE JOBS..

Please are these LADIES complaining..?

Please let them be..
Hope u know that MARRIAGE can be a source of JOY or SORROW..?

What about those married to JESUS..? our Rev. Sis.
REASONS to your questions are.
1)Men have come to understand what marriage means.
2)Economic hardship in Nigeria.
3)Only Few ladies are ready to LISTEN to men..
4)Ladies are becoming fiercely EMPOWERED wrongly.
5)LADIES in question, are not ready to be MARRIED.
6)Ladies see it as poverty alleviation programs.
7)The Older the LADY ,the POORER the PROGNOSIS.
coolmost CHURCHES have drifted from their purposes.
9)MANY BLACKBERRY babes in circulation
10)MOST ladies hv nothing to OFFER xcept TWERKING

Nice summary...
Re: So Many Ladies Over The Age Of 30, Please What Is The Problem!!!? by Misogynist2014(m): 9:37pm On Mar 16, 2015
Justfollowit:


It means

Shaking my head for you

Can I ask you a question?
Ask and you shall receive.
Re: So Many Ladies Over The Age Of 30, Please What Is The Problem!!!? by BizBloke(m): 9:45pm On Mar 16, 2015
Dragonking:


Our culture doesn't abhor polygamy rather it is our religious believe.. but we forget that this was predicted in the bible and it must surely happen.. It is said that a time will come that 11 ladies will be ready to marry one man just to bear his name..time will tell... Like I always say, men are created to be polygamous. As for ladies doing shakara, time will tell.

1) My reason for italicizing culture in my previous post.

2) I don't quite agree with that anyway. Every man to his relationship/sexual/marital preference.
Re: So Many Ladies Over The Age Of 30, Please What Is The Problem!!!? by iamblessed4ever: 9:45pm On Mar 16, 2015
And what is so special about getting married. Nigerians and this marriage issues!

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Re: So Many Ladies Over The Age Of 30, Please What Is The Problem!!!? by NovusHomo(m): 9:50pm On Mar 16, 2015
Enegod:
That's because men are scarce undecided
Polygamy can solve the problem undecided

Men are not scarce, good quality men are.

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Re: So Many Ladies Over The Age Of 30, Please What Is The Problem!!!? by joseph1832(m): 9:53pm On Mar 16, 2015
Yareey:

Hmm how to explain this.. There is a click when you can talk for hours without feeling bored or irritated. When you have similar likes and dislikes and the butterflies never go away cheesy
I heard that! grin

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Re: So Many Ladies Over The Age Of 30, Please What Is The Problem!!!? by dabossman(m): 9:59pm On Mar 16, 2015
Er, why so many women over 30? It's because girls were also born in the years preceding 1985.

Mtschewww. Someone should correct this topic abeg.
Re: So Many Ladies Over The Age Of 30, Please What Is The Problem!!!? by deevatee(f): 10:26pm On Mar 16, 2015
cokacoola:
ceiling qustons
ceiling qustons kor,asbestos quston ni! undecided
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