bukatyne:


Hello friend

Thanks

God answers your prayers

Hello ma'am.

Amen

kaboninc:


I don't understand you ni.

You love persistent men...like me?

You missed the God forbid part

For me to overlook it, Get me what I asked for

okotv:
He can he who says he can.

I love your 'persistent'

I pray it doesn't lead to disappointment.

pickabeau1:


So based on your own personal observations

1 in 10 marriages are bad right?

yes.

okotv:
yes.

OK

I'm sure we all know 1 in 10 is a minority

Im wondering where the stereotype of naija men as leeches comes from

kaboninc:


You need to.

Gone are the days when Nigerian movies were movies.

True

They are stepping up seriously

kaboninc:


I love your 'persistent'

I pray it doesn't lead to disappointment.

God loves me too well to give me a troublesome wife. His word says 'he who finds a wife finds a GOOD thing and obtaineth favour from the LORD'

Justfollowit:


You missed the God forbid part

For me to overlook it, Get me what I asked for

Looooolllzzzz. It was deliberate.

So I 'sud' 'lob' a bank abi?

And why would you want the maidens and most especially the 'gents' to 'lot over'?

What would be left of you after I've 'lobbed' the bank?

I want my treasure fresh and untouched!

okotv:
Hello ma'am.

Amen

bukatyne:



That's why the thought that women 'build' homes is misleading.

I don't think it's misleading. The woman's natural habitat is in the realm of nurture. Yes, she can work, but she definitely cannot out-work a man. Testoterone makes for less patience and sentiment. I don't need to tell you how oestrogen works

pickabeau1:


OK

I'm sure we all know 1 in 10 is a minority

Im wondering where the stereotype of naija men as leeches comes from

You seem not to get the point.

What causes bad marriages

okotv:
God loves me too well to give me a troublesome wife. His word says 'he who finds a wife finds a GOOD thing and obtaineth favour from the LORD'

Then all those who have found a wife irrespective of the status of the home (especially in cases of irreparable damage) have found a GOOD thing too?

Or

Those who've found a troublesome wife, God hates them too?

kaboninc:


Looooolllzzzz. It was deliberate.

So I 'sud' 'lob' a bank abi?

And why would you want the maidens and most especially the 'gents' to 'lot over'?

What would be left of you after I've 'lobbed' the bank?

I want my treasure fresh and untouched!

I would love to live like a Queen

To have everything at my disposal

You do not have the resources

Robbing a bank would take care of that for us

We can go live happily ever after with our servants

Timbuktou:
I don't think it's misleading. The woman's natural habitat is in the realm of nurture. Yes, she can work, but she definitely cannot out-work a man. Testoterone makes for less patience and sentiment. I don't need to tell you how oestrogen works

A woman cannot out-work a man?

Lols

I was not even referring to the home as per chores but as per the relationship between the husband and wife aka marriage

Timbuktou:
I don't think it's misleading. The woman's natural habitat is in the realm of nurture. Yes, she can work, but she definitely cannot out-work a man. Testoterone makes for less patience and sentiment. I don't need to tell you how oestrogen works

Chai!

Your head dey there.

okotv:
You seem not to get the point.

What causes bad marriages

What's the point


You came here saying u don't want NL marriages meaning you have an idea of what Nairaland marriages are

Justfollowit:


I would love to live like a Queen

To have everything at my disposal

You do not have the resources

Robbing a bank would take care of that for us

We can go live happily ever after with our servants

I'd love to BE a King, and my wife live LIKE a QUEEN!

But I would not want to have servants because MY WIFE has no match.

We'll live happily ever after, together without any distraction, away from the buzz of the world but with a lullaby from the Nightingale!

That's what I want!

So baby, let's STORM the bank TOGETHER!

kaboninc:


I'd love to BE a King, and my wife live LIKE a QUEEN!

But I would not want to have servants because MY WIFE has no match.

We'll live happily ever after, together without any distraction, away from the buzz of the world but with a lullaby from the Nightingale!

That's what I want!

So baby, let's STORM the bank TOGETHER!

Are you not the man?

Your primary responsibility is to fend for your dependants

We are not equals o

You are the man and I am the wo-man

kaboninc:


Then all those who have found a wife irrespective of the status of the home (especially in cases of irreparable damage) have found a GOOD thing too?

Or

Those who've found a troublesome wife, God hates them too?

God doesn't give a bad wife. Those is dysfunctional marriages are the cause of there predicament whether as a result of what they didn't do or do before of after wedding.

pickabeau1:



What's the point


You came here saying u don't want NL marriages meaning you have an idea of what Nairaland marriages are

okay.

bukatyne:


A woman cannot out-work a man?

Lols

I was not even referring to the home as per chores but as per the relationship between the husband and wife aka marriage

That's generalising and you know it. Stop chaiing up and down the best woman isn't as good as the best man. Fact. Women would rather marry up or for other reasons make do with marrying on their level. They loathe going beneath their status and settling. Buki, ye mu mi sere jo.

Justfollowit:



Are you not the man?

Your primary responsibility is to fend for your dependants

We are not equals o

You are the man and I am the wo-man

E remain small eh, I for just choke!

So now you know we're not equals?

I thought you guys felt we're over-working you?

Then again, what's the primary responsibility of my dependants?

okotv:
God doesn't give a bad wife. Those is dysfunctional marriages are the cause of there predicament whether as a result of what they didn't do or do before of after wedding.

That was why I had told you that you should pray that God should give you grace to choose and should you fail to choose rightly, pray that He should give you grace to live!

God loves ALL of us. For the fact that Remi's marriage is bad is not because God hates him.

Even Tunde who doesn't believe in your God has a better life than Shola who does.

Yadoctora:
Trying not to generalise. But you'd agree with me that this seems like it in the typical/traditional Nigerian setting.

not from my side...I don't agree to this culture...its modern day slavery

kaboninc:


That was why I had told you that you should pray that God should give you grace to choose and should you fail to choose rightly, pray that He should give you grace to live!

God loves ALL of us. For the fact that Remi's marriage is bad is not because God hates him.

Even Tunde who doesn't believe in your God has a better life than Shola who does.

thank you.

kaboninc:


E remain small eh, I for just choke!

So now you know we're not equals?

I thought you guys felt we're over-working you?

Then again, what's the primary responsibility of my dependants?

You overwork us when we also have to work as hard like you do

What are you going to do, my future king

Justfollowit:


You overwork us when we also have to work as hard like you do

What are you going to do, my future king

You working shouldn't be your primary priority, my future Queen. Taking care of ME, and our babies should be.

But, you should also motivate, drive and inspire me.
Is that asking too much?

kaboninc:


You working shouldn't be your primary priority, my future Queen. Taking care of ME, and our babies should be.

But, you should also motivate, drive and inspire me.
Is that asking too much?

I will do that when the money is available

Justfollowit:


I will do that when the money is available

You know, the Central Bank doesn't actually keeps money in its vault.

kaboninc:


You know, the Central Bank doesn't actually keeps money in its vault.

Then search for a bank that does

You are boring me to death

All I want is the money

Justfollowit:


Then search for a bank that does

You are boring me to death

All I want is the money

Maybe you should find someone who'll get you the money. And also maybe die while trying.

I have other interests to pursue.

Imagine !!!

kaboninc:


Maybe you should find someone who'll get you the money. And also maybe die while trying.

I have other interests to pursue.

Imagine !!!

And I thought you were a real man

God!!!

I feel so stupid right now