ifekemmie:
D man may be doing dis bf n d woman is ignoring it or friends influence.

9yrs of marriage, hmm God save mine

u read ur own frm back? The post says 20yrs of marriage and you're saying 9..haba!

Bonapart:
foolish man right here

Bonapart:
foolish man right here..... let me correct your brainless brain: she ain't a dog..fo*ol

I think you don't really know a person until you live with them. But some cultures don't allow people to live together while dating so there is no real proof.
Also it's not the persons job to look for evidence of infidelity they looking for all good things in the relationship. People should live together aft engagement to know what their getting themselves into in my opinion.

dre11:


Am sure they are going to share custody of the children so the full effect from them won't be felt.



But, let be real a bit...... Don't these kind of guys leave traces when dating about what they are capable of doing

Islie:


Am sure its the variety part that you pick out of the whole brunch

Yes and thats d reason y most men cheat.

chipmunkey:
[size=15pt]Did she just say "He lacks good taste?" [/size]

HE WANTS TO TRY ALL STYLES WITH ME... LUCKY WOMAN?

grad2012:
ashawo like u

Dreyl:
LMAO.. you can say whatever you wanna say boy, since this is a faceless platform, i have already said the pure truth and if you don't like it you can go kiss a active transformer.

one word:bitch

toprealman:
HE WANTS TO TRY ALL STYLES WITH ME... LUCKY WOMAN?

[size=15pt]I tell ya! Seems. She's more displeased with him not having good taste. [/size]

Bonapart:
foolish man right here..... let me correct your brainless brain: she ain't a dog..fo*ol

you are the biggest of all foo.ls...they are married (maybe you dont get it).the man didnt ask her to bark...only to respond accordingly.

Hmmm....all would've been well....if he had good taste!

Vince77:
Yes and thats d reason y most men cheat.

Most are due to nagging attitude of the wife, change of the person they were dating from the person they now married, physical appreciation of woman(weight gain), not dressing like the lady they once date


So, the variety is just an added reason

FemiAdenekan:
Well, you can't really tell what happened in the 20 long years of the marriage.


I don't intend to, but then, I'm human.

Don't let the female folks here see that phrase because they will..............

An EXCUSE is just a good reason for doing the. Wrong thing.

There is NEVER a justifiable Excuse for Cheating n sleeping around.

But women shouldn't be too rigid and 'missionary' in the bedroom tho. Marriage is about understanding and compromise.

#Last_Note : I can't Date or Marry a woman who isn't fun and adventurous. Life is too short to be boring

Dyt:
Also, he wants to try all styles of sex with me which I strongly disagree.


U sef na only mummy n daddy u dey do in
Give him monkey style jare

i trust u.

Mchew!! The woman complained cos what he was asking was beyond ordinary. That's not an excuse to CHEAT

Islie:


Should a woman not spice up her bedroom skillsand just stick to the normal type.....

This actions can make a man look for comfort outside..... Maybe that's one thing that made the man look for solace in other women because they are ready to gibe him variety of styles

Thank you o dis 2015 a woman is still doing missionary wen unilag gehs are doing summertime style and unical girls are doing head and shoulder style with daddys. And if u notice the man even affirms d dissolution of the marriage meaning there is a level of senrenre he has tolerated over the years.jus rememberd one chic dat was complaining about one deeperlife newly wedded man disturbing her. He said d man was lamenting that the day he told her to position r doggy she was crying that where did he learn dat one from because it is not scriptural.

Dyt:
Also, he wants to try all styles of sex with me which I strongly disagree.


U sef na only mummy n daddy u dey do in
Give him monkey style jare

I don't believe those news unless I was a witness to what really transpire. We all keep taking side with the woman without knowing what really happened... There might not even be anything like cheating... Imagine me saying am guilty in a law court in this case. The man himself might have said so because he is feed up with the woman's lies and antics. I am not saying she is lying cos I wasn't there.
In my own case. I date a lady for over a year and everyday she is always fond of accusing me of cheating. She talk to so many guys and I didn't get jealous or have any reason to doubt her sincerity. I am the kind of guy who won't even care to say hello to a girl outside let alone go after one. If I am in a relationship it is always me and my girl alone. I wonder where all the talk about infidelity comes up. I will even be d one to say sorry after all the false accusation. Not even a day without being accused. She will even go about posting it on facebook and diff kind of silly guys ll come advising her to take a walk without knowing what's going on. The most annoying thing is her threatening to breakup the relationship all the time. When she threatened me with such one day, I got so annoyed and told her that one year is enough for us to date jare. Y can't I have peace of mind for a day. If she wan go make she go... Na then I realize say all d fight everyday na just style for d relationship to break up so she can move on with the guy she is seeing behind me all these while and then blame me for the break up.... Whatever their case is, I av no answer.

Dimples192:
I think you don't really know a person until you live with them. But some cultures don't allow people to live together while dating so there is no real proof.
Also it's not the persons job to look for evidence of infidelity they looking for all good things in the relationship. People should live together aft engagement to know what their getting themselves into in my opinion.

With these your points there...... The purpose of dating is then defeated because I always thought thats the time you get to know each other and you make yourself plain so that the other person would know who you are, appreciate you, know if he/she can make compromise and see if the relationship would work.......



#just thinking

FreddywellsNGN:



you are the biggest of all foo.ls...they are married (maybe you dont get it).the man didnt ask her to bark...only to respond accordingly.

/silent/ answer for a?.......

jauntty:
An EXCUSE is just a good reason for doing the. Wrong thing.

There is NEVER a justifiable Excuse for Cheating n sleeping around.

But women shouldn't be too rigid and 'missionary' in the bedroom tho. Marriage is about understanding and compromise.

#Last_Note : I can't Date or Marry a woman who isn't fun and adventurous. Life is too short to be boring

I just have to quote that emboldened part.....

That's one thing some rigid women/ladies have to understand

The bitter truth is,its going to be very difficult for a rich man to be faithful
Its not easy mehn we are not jesus
there are so much goddess on the street

lovinam:
Mchew!! The woman complained cos what he was asking was beyond ordinary. That's not an excuse to CHEAT

You mean to spice up the bedroom fun and sexxing is beyond ordinary......

You only want to be given just one or two styles all the time. Man abeg their had to be variety in your bedroom because it spice up the relationship and connection

Aspiregreat:
Ashawo man..




Why can't Nigerians express their feelings politely?

do you expect me to applaud that womanizer?

How can u know if someone is deceitful and cheating on you. Dating is not that important to some people they fool themselves in believing that they will be different when they commit.
When you're engaged it's that more serious and I think at this point you rehearse happy home so there are no big surprises. Sorry that's of topic.

dre11:



With these your points there...... The purpose of dating is then defeated because I always thought thats the time you get to know each other and you make yourself plain so that the other person would know who you are, appreciate you, know if he/she can make compromise and see if the relationship would work.......



#just thinking

Dimples192:
" Is it true that you can't understand the sexual fantasy and satisfaction of man until he is comfortable and rich "

In this case yes.

He wasn't a cheat when he couldn't afford it. Now his wealth is the excuse for his infidelity. She was very smart not to sleep with him. Life is sweet. It's a shame he wasted 20 yrs of her life those were her best years.
Karma will deal with him.

Plz,who is karma,is he/she/it a name of a person,animal or thing¿

since the husband admitted wrong doing, let the judge dissolves the marriage.

Dyt:
Also, he wants to try all styles of sex with me which I strongly disagree.


U sef na only mummy n daddy u dey do in
Give him monkey style jare

I trust you,i know you have masters degree in acrobatic styles...Ranging from waist breaker to waist bender

Dimples192:
He probably asked her to swallow
Them dirty girls taught him some nasty moves.

Choi!
She never did say so...Maybe you the one imagining things [s]you've done & like tasting it,like itz yummy[/s] she never said

fpeter:
Wetin old man carry different styles dey do!
Snake in the monkey's shadow etc....na for the
young,virile and restless. .The older folks should
stick to the missionary style..I'm sure he drinks
different types of monkey tail and dogonyaro..

He wants to expand & explore his horizon...

Dimples192:
He probably asked her to swallow
Them dirty girls taught him some nasty moves.

hmmmmmm.

Amuga:
That should be part of it. Marriage is all sacrifices, but they should be room for consideration.

allow d man to nack d thing. but d man foolish sha....meaning he won't marriage again but just taste taste here and there.....grave is his companion